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25 year old male. Never been on a date. Just got a girl on tinder to agree to get coffee and or lunch. What do I do now?
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>>17418628
Go and talk to her like a normal human bean.
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>>17418628
Go get coffee with her. Talk with her and see if you guys click. Worse comes to worst, the date flops completely and you get out of there with experience for the next date. So just don't even worry about fucking it up. This isn't your "one and only" chance. You can do it OP!
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Prepare to be disappointed.
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I just moved into a new building. However the guy across the hall from me is gay. This was confirmed by a normal tenant, so it's the truth. I try to avoid him as much as possible, but the other day he rang my doorbell.
I dont know what to do. Is there any legal possibility get a restraining order or can I have him evicted?
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>Is there any legal possibility get a restraining order or can he get evicted
Not unless you're in Russia
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>>17418616
Nice b8 m8. Try a little harder next time.
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>>17418616
very bad bait op. sure to catch a few noobies though.
>make a bad choice on the internet
>someone sees it
>piss a whole bunch of people off and fuck over someone that did something that a lot of people haven't done for you
>didn't realize what you did until it was too late and I can't turn back time
fuck me, I deserve to be alone
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>>17418541
well what did you do?
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>>17418541
What did you do?
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>>17418541
Tell us what you did, faggot.
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worst advice you ever got 2016-08-02 02:16:34 Post No.17418513
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worst advice you ever got
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ITT: we share the worst advice we've ever received.
>YOU NEED TO BE MORE SPONTANEOUS
said by people who aren't spontaneous, they just do the same 'outgoing' things every week and claim its spontaneous.
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>it gets better
>jus b itself
>cocaine is very bad
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>>17418513
>stop moping
>try harder to be happy
>people aren't judging you when you go out
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> good things come to those who wait
I'm 47.
Riddle me this:
How the fuck do I make new friends?
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>>17418480
the real question is: if you had friends, what would you do with them? serious question, cuz it kinda tells you where to start looking for them, yeah?
that being siad, go to a bar. no not a party bar, but hte kind where older men just kinda sit around and talk.
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I see...
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>>17418480
You don't. Statistically proven that at that age you're losing friends at a faster rate than gaining.
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How does this happen? 2016-08-02 02:05:58 Post No.17418476
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Can someone explain how this shit happens?
I'm a homebound cripple from birth. I'm literally not allowed to work because of my lungs. Video games are all I have in terms of entertainment and I have NEVER been that addicted to any of them... even ADOM (and I've been playing ADOM for 15 years.)
https://www.reddit.com/r/pathofexile/comments/4vp1dd/i_was_addicted_to_poe_for_2_years_today_ive_been/
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>>17418476
>linking to reddit
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>>17418489
Oh bite me. I get tired of listening to sad-ass faggots with no life whine about how they can't get a girl and want to kill themselves. Sometimes, a cripple needs a break.
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>>17418506
Stay there
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I'm sending a rose to my boyfriend today.
How would the men of /adv/ feel if they got a flower from their S.O, even though its not typically a guy thing?
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I would be buttdevestated.
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I would never be able to look at flowers or girls the same way again.
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>>17418467
who did she fuck
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I started a new job and got to my doc to get on antidepressants, but I feel awful still.
I work a desk job and it's been a long time leading up to getting this and I don't feel like I'm accomplishing anything. My anxiety has been through the roof even being on medicine and it seems like every day it gets even harder. Generally I feel less depressed, but it's still to the point I think about killing myself. I don't know if it's the job but all my anxiety and panic attacks happen because of really lame ass shit that happens there, and if it goes bad at work and then any little thing goes wrong at home, I'm even worse. My doctor knows but thinks that the overall improvements otherwise are good enough, and honestly I feel like it's just the job....
But I don't want to be the loser who leaves their "nice job" and I feel all this weird societal pressure to keep up some kind of tough guy front and just push through. How do you get over the mental stress of office jobs or am I just unsalvageable human trash?
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what do you do when you get off work?
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>>17418620
Usually tend to my house, make dinner, spend time with family or friends, nothing really out of the ordinary. I keep a garden and some yard animals so that's just part of the routine. I marathon anime on the weekends and like to do creative stuff when I get the time to sit down with it. Outside of work I'd say I'm more than fulfilled.
But since I started the job usually it's the most I can do not to have panic attacks the whole drive home and then a good 30 minutes is spent calming down and taking medicine when I get home before I start doing my regular programming.
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>>17418656
is someone mistreating you at work?
what's the climate like?
maybe that job isn't a good fit for you.
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What is my sexuality? 2016-08-02 01:59:27 Post No.17418450
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I can't tell if I'm bisexual or not. I pretty sure I'm bisexual since I'd smash a transgendered person any day of the week. Also would smash some skinny gay guys if I had the chance, but only if I were horny. I've jacked off to gay porn on many occasions and when I finally climax that feeling of wanting to fuck another man goes away immediately. I've never been romantically interested in men, only women my entire life. I don't know what to call myself. What's my fucking sexuality?
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>>17418450
ur probably bisexual or even potentially gay.
>BUT I JUST SAID ALL THAT OTHER STUFF THAT PROVES IM NOT
yes, but you are an unexplored sexuality. im not saying all men need to experiment in order to know what they want, but you clearly dont know what you want, so some experiments are in order.
>but only if im horny
you got it backwards mate. you arent horny and gay boys magically come along and fuck ya. gay boys make you horny and tahts why you'd fuck em.
>BUT I DONT WANT TO FUCK THEM AS SOON AS IM DONE
you dont want to fuck women as soon as you're done with them either. you just dont think abotu it because its the default mindset of being raised in a straight world. when you're done having sex, you dont want to have sex. even as a gay guy, once im done fucking a dude, i dont want to be fucking them again, i dont want to think of sex again, i just wanna roll over and relax.
>never been romantically interseted in men
neither have any of my ex boyfriends. its always
>i dont really want to date guys
>guys are okay for sex bu ti want to marry a girl
>i couldnt imagine myself actually dating a guy
they all turned out to be faggots, with big ormantic interests in men, they just couldnt understand or appreciate it because they had virtually no context. thats like asking someone to be interested in having kids if they'd literally never interacted with one before, only seen one family on TV when they were a teenager. think about it.
you've likely crushed on guys but interpreted it as something like 'wow that guys cool i wanna be friends with him' or looking up to them, a sort of senpai sorta gig.
ultimately you dont need to 'call yourself' anything. labels exist for the outside world, and even as a gay guy, its just easier to tell people im straight, or rather to just not say im gay since striaght is the default mindset.
but if you want to define your sexuality, you have to explore it.
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>>17418477
thanks man. Gonna go fuck some dudes now
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>>17418510
have fun. get on PrEP if you want to get the most out of it imo. just remember that being gay doesnt mean you like it up the ass or have to come out or anything
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OK. I made a thread a bit earlier but it wasn't very good at explaining everything that I am feeling.
I don't have a lot of motivation to do things, only when I am going to make money.
I am pretty fucking bored most of the time, sitting my entire days and nights on YouTube while i'm not at School.
Occasionally going out to the park to smoke, or hang out and fish or something.
Not a lot of hobbies, or at least ones that I can do very often, if at all.
Don't have any ideas or interest in any future careers or jobs that I would like to have.
Fucking hate School, it's terrible.
No girlfriend. At least I have a lot of friends, and know a lot of people.
Does anybody else feel like this? I don't even fucking know what to do.
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have you looked through these threads?
MOST of /adv/ feels that way.
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Forgot to mention.
Sometimes I feel somewhat sad or low I guess, nothing to terrible.
But just a feeling like Ahhhh *breathes out*
>>17418429
Yea I have seen a few but I wouldn't say most.
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>>17418433
set some goals.
when you have a vision, accomplishing things toward that purpose offer fulfillment.
do you want to live comfortably in your old age?
where do you want to live?
how much will it cost?
do you want to have nice things?
do you want to be healthy and live long?
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How does one start having a social life? I'm 20 and haven't really had much of one over the last year or so. I was living with some friends, but we had a bit of a falling out and all they did for fun was smoke weed and do drugs all day, which isn't really the lifestyle I want a part of anymore.
Everyone I work with is almost double my age and not particularly interested my kind of social stuff. I don't really have a social outlet outside of that. What's a good way to start getting those social connections?
What's your best advice?
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what kind of interests/hobbies do you have?
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>>17418434
I've always enjoyed drawing and such, and I play a little guitar. I play some vidya too.
I like sharing music with people and hearing what they enjoy, although I don't know if that qualifies as a hobby per second.
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>>17418446
have you considered taking an art class or even going to one of those 'draw and drink' events? get in a room full of artists and just chat while sketching such.
>i play a little guitar
music events are a dime a dozen. have you considered just going out and playing in public like at a park or whatever and seeing what happens?
that being siad, music events are a dime a dozen, you may not get to play but you can meet people who appreciate that kind of music scene. though im sure you could find an open mic night.
>i play vidya
consider talking to local hobby shops and seeing if they have any tournaments. even board game shops tend to have video game events here and there. but that being said, try getting into board games as well
>sharing music
yup, music events are right up your alley.
I literally cannot get a single girl to like me or anything. I get girls to talk to me sometimes and act like they like me then they completely change the next day and never want to hang out. I have some girls ask me to hang out and then they never do after bit still talk occasionally. I don't know if I say something autistic or what everything goes good and then it just changes. It's the same thing with guys I can't have any friends no one remembers who I am or wants to be around me or invite me to anything I'm not even super autistic
Also I'm a good looking male superior to most others on the surface at least
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>>17418408
lets start with a face pic. if you want help, thats wehre we'd start, first impression. and just saying 'IM A GOOD LOOKING MALE' doesnt actually tell us if you are good looking or even what kind of good looking.
post a pic, well start with first imprsesions, than work our way down. but i have two other bits of advice to give after that.
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>>17418408
I like you, I'll talk to you ^_^
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Im moving out soon and i just want to know some tips or pointers when it comes to choosing an apartment. I'm almost twenty and want to live with a friend. Feel free to share experiences.
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>>17418404
read the rental agreement. the whole thing.
don't get a roommate if you can help it.
keep a high valuable items list in a safe place so when you get robbed, your insurance will more likely pay for it.
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Do not move in with your friends
I repeat: DO NOT MOVE IN WITH YOUR FRIENDS
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>>17418465
>Anonymous
Why no roommate?
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Where to find other enlightened individuals? 2016-08-02 01:35:02 Post No.17418378
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Where to find other enlightened individuals?
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Salons don't exist, the universities are thought-factories, and I have no will to work. Where do enlightened individuals engage themselves with one another in this day and age? I think of how intelligent I am, and how much more knowledge I could gain having one or few friends like me, and I wind to the thought of how I could find these people, or whether I'm a radical exception. Of course this leads me to think of how much different I am from the vulgar folk; whether I actually have some grander consciousness compared to them, or whether it matters not that I've decided an atypical course in my life. In fact I become very lonely, especially among commoners that I wonder where I could find the others like me, which is why I've asked the advice of where I shall attain the friendship of enlightened individuals.
Pictured is Immanuel Kant, one of my favorite philosophers, and someone who I regard very enlightened.
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I think Starbucks would be a good fit for you, judging by your insufferable writing style
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>>17418378
Anywhere, really. I've managed to meat a couple very intelligent, cultured individuals in my life and they're people I respect. Stay away from MENSA and the like, I've realized that some people take knowledge for granted instead of building it day by day, fueled by curiosity. Unis are a decent place if you can get in touch with professors, assuming your uni/field isn't shite. But really, it's a matter of chance.
Also, you type like a fucking faggot and think like a pleb.
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>>17418378
am I a faggot?
>be me
>virgin, but good looking and girls are still into me
>meet cute white girl
>very nice ass, no tits, great face
>see her as potential side hoe so start talking to her
>find that she seems very easy
>end up hanging out alone with her and make out a little bit
>she puts my dick in her and we fuck
>start fucking regularly whenever she initiates it
>eventually decide to make her my girlfriend
>relationship starts going great
>take her on dates, have lots of sex when she wants to
>start spending every single day with her
>completely abandon all friends
>fall deeply in love with her
>become dependent on her
>love her way more than she loves me
>she complains that I never initiate sex
>start initiating sex
>it goes well
>still with her 24/7
>suddenly our sexual activity slows down
>notice she hasn't said "i love you" in a while
>wants to see her friends more
>haven't had sex in weeks, but she still occasionally rubs my dick through my pants to give me a boner
>start to wonder if she is done with me
>says she wants to go to this party
>its at her male friend's house
>he has massive crush on her
>i let her know that I hate it but I'll allow her to go because I trust her
>she feels bad but goes anyway
>she's been there for a while now
>they're getting drunk
>she hasn't replied to my text in hours
>im home alone on 4chan
>at least i lost my virginity to someone i love
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>>17418329
Lmao this has to be bait
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Prolly fucking the other dude as we speak, start hitting gym and make your (hopefully ex) girl jealous.
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Well you got some OP and had some fun. Time to cut loose