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>>17420108
City worker in california isnt gonna make you rich, but its a step in the direction your looking for

>>17420108
Prostitute.

>>17420108
Live-in cocksucker.

Girls, what are some red flags about guys in your opinion? Also, is being tall THAT important?

>>17420142
>tribal tattoos
>gauged ears
>fat, or hungry skeleton
>treats people in the service industry poorly
>doesn't like animals
>smokes or vapes

Being tall isn't important to me, I dated a 5'4" dude for years.

20 year old female here.

Is it wrong to cut off certain friends in your life because they were from a life phase that you have moved on from? In my case I was a weird outcast who hung out with a group of friends who didn't initially find me interesting but let me tag along and finally grew to like me. That group of friends still invite me out to things but I see that group as a reminder of occupying a low social position. I've since developed better social skills, have a few more hobbies and as a result made new friends who I feel closer to. Am I being insecure for wanting to ditch my old friends because they remind me of being a weird kid in school or do people naturally leave friend groups when they find a new one that fits them better?

If you're clinically diagnosed, can't you get a prescription for viagra/cialis?

Do you also get therapy for any psychological reasons behind the ed?

>>17420111
Don't have insurance anymore.

>>17420077
Stop being a retard and seek help from a professional to get your brain fixed, not a chinese pottery-painting forum.

Congrats, you have an eating disorder

Now go see a doctor

Live the rest of your life on vitamins and a glucose drip if you don't want to eat.

Keep in mind, despite what the internet and some areas seem to indicate, number wise not many folks are gay. Even if you live in "gay" town, most people are straight, so a random pick up or cold approach is statistically unlikely. Of those who are, fewer are stereotypes and as such you aren't gonna know with some magic sense. You need to know the gay scene in your area, to give you a place to look. It not just bars, and google should be able to tell you the gay hangouts in your area.

>>17420070
I did a brief googling of "lgbt [cityname]" and got this site where I found the lists of the gay bars in the city an hour away, and a mention that my muncipality "sometimes has activities" for LGBT people.

I can't really travel to the gay bars because I don't want hookups and I can't really be trusted alone in big cities at night.

I'm stuck getting dick pics from gross dudes on grindr, am I?

>>17420056

flirting doesn't need to be as hardcore as you think it is.

if i see a guy and i think i want to make a move, i just start chatting casually. if they are gay it becomes obvious pretty fast. most faggots cant wait to reveal they are gay. worse case scenario, you trade a few awkward lines of casual chit chat with a stranger than go about your business.

i once asked a complete stranger out though. he worked at the yogurt stop in gay town and i assumed he was gay too. most beautiful man i have ever met.

he was straight unfortunately, but we have been friends for three years this november.

be like this
ring ring
hey bitch
i need you to apologize to me.
i'm crying because you broke up with me.
i was so in love with you that i was afraid to be clingy. if you want me to be clingy i can do that, all i ever wanted was to be an overbearing fuck

don't say it to that degree. but you get the idea

>>17420066
I would but I'm too afraid it might work.

Plus, i think she was just using me until she saw something she liked better.

Shes probably already dating.

but goddamn..that was my fist blonde hair, blue eyed, conservative, cross-fit beauty.
I'm going to fucking miss her

shit. I sent her a text.

Why didnt you fuckers stop me

you're supposed to say shit like,
"run while you can anon"
or
"she has kids, WTF are you DOOOOING"

why didnt you talk me out of it /adv/?

>>17420046
You have to be self-conscious about it and stop talking, for 2 seconds, everytime you realize you sweared.

That just means you are stupid, your brain can't come up with other adjectives so you keep using cursing words

>>17420046

>i was given advice
>BUT IM NOT GONNA TAKE IT NOW MAGICALLY FIX ME

>>17420025
It's only cuckolding if you let her keep fucking him. So if that happen then break up with her.

>>17420030
And how am I supposed to know if she is or not? That's the whole problem...

>>17420033
That is just her cheating on you. That isn't cuckolding, but I guess just follow the signs.

>You begin to notice emotional distance between the two of you. Things just aren’t the way they used to be.
>Your instinct tells you he/she is being unfaithful. Deep in your heart of hearts you sense something has gone wrong with your relationship.
>You begin spending less time together. Your bf/gf tells you he/she doesn’t have the time for you like they used to.
>The one you love so much stops asking you to go out and do special things together. Somehow your untrustworthy bf/gf just doesn’t have the time for you like before.
They suddenly start encouraging you to spend time with other people. Their rationalization is If you spend time with other people, then I can too.
>There’s a distinct change in his/her schedule. There are huge blocks of time your bf/gf cannot account for. They often make excuses for the extended time of running errands.

>>17419947
>>17419947
Be careful with death threats, but generally don't take things others tell you too seriously.
If you let your dreams go because some idiot told you to, then you will never improve.
If you let your ideals get influenced by what you think others may think and say about you, then you have lost control of your life and you will never be happy or satisfied.

>>17419947
Do what you like, date who you like, learn to box from a real instructor and you are safe from 95% of people who threaten you as most won't try and shoot you for dating someone who has no interest in them.
Black women call you self hating because they want a nice black guy to pull them from their shitty situation, you have no obligation to date them.
Don't kill yourself or become asexual, don't give a fuck about others, watch out for mud sharks, don't carry on dating women who hold on to you with the "yeah I'm being fucked by a black guy" smile because they will bring drama, don't play to stereo types for anyone, not even in the bedroom.
Good luck and god speed OP.

Source: I'm a black guy who married a white woman

>>17419947
You should... move.
The suburb you live in is a bad place for you to stay, find some place where racemixing isn't as much of an issue.

>What are some things I can do to fill this emptiness I'm feeling?
Water the seeds of global white supremacy. Set the foundation for the Space Reich.

You're empty because you have no greater purpose. You aren't content to just be a cog in the capitalist machine.

>>17419867
I know that issue. I try to have a lot of hobbies but even though they sort of amaze me at first, in the end I start avoiding them and spend my evenings here, not even enjoying things.
I sort of think this is a low level of depressive feelings. There isn't much that gives my life meaning. I just cycle through hobbies. At the very least, if I'm going to go full escapism I try to do it with a book. At least that stimulates the brain a little.

>>17419910
/pol/ pls

Consult a neutrition specialist, sound like a diet issue. Maybe lack of iron.

It could be a number of things.

You could have a garbage mattress. Or garbage pillows. If you aren't comfortable you aren't going to sleep well.

You could also have a sleeping condition like sleep apnea. If that were the case even getting plenty of sleep wouldn't do much to relieve you of that fatigue you feel throughout the day. Only a doctor can confirm a disorder like that though.

More than likely you keep yourself awake from stressful thinking. A lot of people think about everything in the world when they're trying to sleep and it keeps them up. This even happens to me sometimes and it's difficult to "just stop thinking".

There are a number of safe products to help with sleep. I have been recommended melatonin but habitual use of it will prevent natural ability to fall asleep in the future for a short period. I have used Zzzquil and it works like a charm but it is expensive.

Hopefully something I have said is useful to you. Good luck sleeping pal

>>17419870

My mattress and pillow feel so amazingly comfortable, but I don't know if feeling comfortable = the right posture for sleep.

Yeah, I do think a lot, and I dream very vividly. A lot of times I'll dream about work, and then pop awake, and think about work. I have to dial to some other kind of obsessive but less stressful thought to doze off again.

I've tried melatonin and unisom in the past, but they've both just helped me get to sleep, as opposed to stay asleep.

Thanks for the input so far.

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I work in high finance and just want to be a cute GuP girl too

Life is hard

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>>17419804
Well at least i'm not alone.

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genki dashite

Incredible the things females project onto males. Absolute madness. OP has a very ugly psyche.

>>17419908
>>>>>>/R9K

>>17419759
Improve sexual technique
If you can give him mindblowing head, he wont drop you for anything, if he really has such thoughts

>>17419757
Music.And the belief that my life must get better,because my childhood and teenage years were utterly shit.

>>17419757
I don't want a few of my friends to feel bad about my death. I'm sure it would genuinely hurt them. I know grieving is usually temporary but sometimes it lasts really long. But I don't think they can really do anything to ease my pain.
I don't feel too much for my parents but to be honest they are just really confused and mistaken, I guess they don't deserve losing their only son. They just don't understand what I'm going through since forever because they are from a different generation with different problems.

Life doesn't matter. Neither does death. There's no objective reason to live or not.

But I have a decent idea of what life is likely to contain. It contains pleasures and pains, but the pains aren't so bad when you don't take it so seriously (and you shouldn't, because our lives are arbitrary and temporary) and there's always the potential for pleasure and interesting things if you keep going. The ride has the potential to be interesting, and most bad times pass.

In contrast, death is entirely unknown. It's likely simply the end, a turning-off into void, and that's nothing to be afraid of any more than being deeply asleep is. But it is, still, fundamentally entirely unknown to me what death will be. So instead of rushing into it, I'm hanging around to see what happens and being amused by the dramas of life. If my life were truly constantly shit, I might think different.

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I was in a similar but much less shitty scenario then you were. I needed to get away but didn't know how.

I joined the Army. It sucks and you'll work to the bone but they'll feed and pay me. It give direction and a sense of responsibility. The military isn't for everyone though. Consider other options before this one.

How old? You mention summers so i assume achool?

>>17419717
See if you can live with a white family next time. This family sounds very East Indian. You cannot fix that.