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>>17416705
Anything medical-related.

My sister in law got an associate's in phlebotomy. She didn't use it for two years, and just worked a customer service job for a medical testing lab. She just got hired on to a job where she'll use her phlebotomy training. It's some kind of dialysis job. She's starting at $16 an hour. That's not too shabby.

Not saying you should get that degree specifically, but the medical field always needs people and they tend to pay decently.

>>17416705
Any trade ones ie. HVAC, Electrical, plumbing

>>17416705

Mathematics. Transfer to a four year college and continue. Minor in computer science if you want, but it's not at all necessary.

See you at the country club.

>>17416686
Talk to him

>>17416696
This.

When you bring his his coffee/order, start up a conversation. It doesn't have to be a lengthy one. Smile, place his drink down on the counter/table, then tell him you want to get to know him better sometime. Keep smiling, make eye contact through all of this, and then go back to work. The ball is in his court to come talk to you.

>>17416696
>>17416704
But sometimes he only wanted to get some food and drink then leave. I don't know why only him I can't talk to. I have no problem talking with other people.

>>17416668
well youre clearly not a nuisance for her, if you 2 still meet,
however id suggest some therapeutical free time activities you could partake in together, how about that?

free bump i guess, otherwise

>>17416668
It sounds like you're confusing depression, which is a medical condition, with being really unhappy. Sometimes being really unhappy is the sane response to a really unhappy situation. You'd be more likely to have something wrong with you if your harsh life and her friend's death DIDN'T affect you.

>>17416742
She would often refuse to go out with me.Though we are allways in some form of contact either online or through video games.

>>17416598
sure, you're already getting better

Stop. I can only get so erect

>>17416598
Total bait.

Wouldn't happen. Therapists are trained not to let it happen.

/thread

they're all shite m8urino

>extremely damaged

It would be cool if you could elaborate on that.

And to try to answer your question, I belive that this is bigger problem. It's not that woman are damaged is that our whole generation is fucked beyond reason. We are screwed by poor parenting, not having clear social roles, stupid educational system, easy, meaningless pleasures, praise of low culture and idiotic ways of life and much more. Baby boomers created world that tries to destroy your "soul" and then instead of helping you navigate it, they constantly try to confuse you and weken you.

>>17416253
By extremely damaged, I mean: no traditional values.
I'm not expecting much, don't have body modification, don't abuse substances, don't date outside your race, don't be a huge slut. Optional, but, pick up a book once a month or so?

Dear womens,
Eat shit and get rekt

>>17416136
you sound booty blasted, did your girlfriend dump you?

>>17416160
No, your mom "forgot" to take her pill again

>>17416027
Leave. Don't tell them, fix your things, tell your landlord if and when needed, and just be off.
You don't need the drama.

>>17416041
I'll have to save up first for a few months, but it's probably for the best.
Thank you for your input.

He's not a psychopath. Just being a dick.
Also, just leave.

Depression. Seriously.

Honestly just sounds like introverted/slightly depressive high school student. Don't worry about it too much. Btw, mental disorders are defined by their treatment and symptoms. They don't "exist", like you say, but they are important considerations for that reason. If the feelings you describe impair you you could seek help

>>17416024
Yeah that sounds about right. Except I'm not really introverted. Thanks though I'll most likely just grow out of it

Just be honest!

If you can't at least be honest with him, then maybe he's not the man for you.

Being honest is honestly the best path, you don't really have a choice sometimes.

Just let him know exactly how you feel. Don't bring "him" into it, only relay your feelings to him. Know what I mean?

You got this senpai.

>>17415544
You probably can't tell him to change and I doubt that he would if you did. He made a good change in his life, it would be like if you lost 10 lbs and he told you he liked you better fat.

You can talk to him about the sex, approach that by just being a grown fucking adult and tell him it's too rough.

He isn't going to go back to his old self. Tell him that sex is too rough and if the two of you are seriously in love and have been dating for a LONG time, tell him that you wouldnt mind if he scaled back at the gym.

>>17415532
Part 2/?

Op here

>Work up the nerve to get a picture locker on my phone and start taking candid pics/videos
>Feel guilty every weekend and delete them all every time (Only a couple months ago I started saving them)
>Lived in a 2 bedroom 1 full bath townhome so we all shared shower
>decide to try and "forget" my phone in the shower with my secret recording app on
>Either timing never worked out or I wimped when the opportunity arose, and then we MOVED godammit
>2 bedroom 2 bath house, no longer sharing shower
>Rip my dreams
>Present day...

So now that we're up to speed, it's time for extra details. Hopefully the greentext wasn't too long.

So, there are things that she's done that could be considered "hints" that she's DTF. Maybe... Gonna try to list everything I can, there's a lot to remember.

One time, I got brave and left a little bit of jizz in her shower loofah schrunchy thingy (the fuck are those called anyway?), and later that day I found a peculiar wet spot on my bed comforter that smelled awfully similar to her panties. Part of it tells me the smell was placebo'd and it was wishful thinking, the other part tells me what if...

She almost always wears very low cut shirts around me, and almost seems to make it a point to bend down facing me so I can get a glorious shot of milf tits.

3 examples of this:

...in the next part.

>>17415538
Part 3/?

Op again

I regularly sit on my laptop at the dining room table looking into the kitchen. I regularly watch her do work in the kitchen while I work on my laptop. There are times where she must reach into a cabinet facing perpendicularly to me, meaning the most optimal way to get whatever is inside the cabinet would mean I would see her facing sideways. However, she seems to retrieve things an angle where I can see her tits very well. In instances where the cabinet is oreinted in front of me, she bends in a normal fasion. (Giving me a fantastic view of dat ass) I have a picture of this if anyone is confused.

A couple months ago, she was wearing a night gown with no bra underneath. My young niece had just left, and the 3 of us were playing cards. My stepmom was working on picking up the cards and I was working on something else. The cards were on a coffee table. The angle she picked them up at was... Sub-optimal, to say the least, meaning I got an amazing shot of her tits, I saw the nips man I SAW EM. It just seems odd to me that she would make it so easy for me to see her tits if it weren't a hint of some kind.

3rd and final example is just her picking things up in general. Around family she bends at the knee to pick thing up, but around me she bends at the waist. This difference gas even happened within the same day of family coming and going. Crazy coincidence or hint of some kind? She also tends to lose the low-cut shirts when there's a family gathering of some kind.

I feel like this next one could genuinely be an accident, but maybe not. One time she was sitting on the couch spread eagle, wearing short gym shorts. She had no underwear and I had a clear shot of the milf poon. She's never had kids either so HOO boy. Anyways.

Next part! Hopefully the last.

>>17415542

Can't think of other specific things at the moment, it's very late where I am. I can specify more later on if needed.

I have one really large cockblock stopping me from plowing her:

Religion. I am obviously not religious. This woman is quite religious. In terms of faith, not extreme beliefs or anything. She's a huge sci-fi fan and we geek out with star trek/video games together, so it's not like she's one of the "everything is from satan please repent" types.

It's just that she's extremely dedicated. She used to be the "worship leader" of her old church and still sings regularly at the one they go to now.

Another thing. Just a few weeks ago, at dinner, my dad suggested I folded the laundry in the laundry room. My stepmom got really defensive and said "Anon doesn't need to be touching my underwear!" My dad reminded her that he already did her clothes, so I wouldn't be touching her underwear, which is ironic because the first thing I did the next day was jerk off with her dirty panties. Anyways, that statement saying that I "don't need to be touching her underwear", is worrying to someone who's rubbed their dick on literally almost all of her clothing.

So, /adv/, the FUCK do I do? I desperately want to plow this bitch to hell and back but I simply can't!

One last thing. About a week ago, I found what I think could be my ticket into the pink zone. This is possibly the most important detail of this 3 part wall of text.

She doesn't know she's attractive. She doesn't know that almost any straight man would fuck her in an instant. She claims that my dad is "The only one that can make me feel hot". Which I don't think is true because my dad is awful at that shit

I can go into more detail about this conversation if necessary, but just know that I am CONFIDENT that she does NOT know that she's a milf.

TL;DR: My stepmom is a MILF who may or may not be down to fuck. She's dropped potential hints, I've dropped hints. She does not know that she is attractive.

Kinda shitty, hate the bitch and she got some serious mental problems. When I move out gonna cut her out of my life she's literally been nothing but a nuisance and is stupid to top it all off.

I've got two younger brothers. We don't talk much. They're a lot tighter (even though there's four years between them as opposed to two between the middle brother and I).

They make fun of the all the time, and they'll unequivocally take each others' side if I disagree with one on something, but they come to me for advice and stuff when they need it, and I think they actually do listen. At the very least, they put some stock in what I have to say. We just don't have complementary personalities I guess.

The middle is my father's favourite and the younger is my mother's favourite and I'm not close with my parents either; I think I've just always been the self-sufficient loner/outsider of the family.

>>17415358
estranged, all my relationships are distant or non-existent.

Need it to help with performance anxiety

check your e-mail spam folder, there should be about five thousand messages in there from people wanting to sell you viagra

>>17415267
Are you a 20something or an old fart suffering from a midlife crisis?

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Cause /fa/ is dead. What do you think of these shoes?
I didn't know they were patent and am usually wear very blend in clothes. I don't know how to feel about these.
>inb4 dont care about what other people think

>>17412185
Only care about what you think.

Why do bitches love kayaking so much and when did this become a thing?

>>17417745

we dont know your landlord. at all. ask him instead of asking us. cuz at the end of the day no matter what we say, he will say what he wants to say. the fact that you are asking is kind of silly.

the more corporate he is, the less likely you are to get it.

>>17417756
I'm just a little confused as to how the 60 day notice requirement works. I don't know if the 60 days notice is required if you're breaking the lease and not relevant if your lease is ending.

>>17417761

ask him and find out.

How much money?

That depends on your investment goals. Are you trying to plan for retirementn to buy a house, what? What are you trying to do?

One great piece of advice I got for investing is to invest in something that you know but remember this, stocks are volatile they can be worth something one day then crash and be worthless the next.