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Ive been talking to this gril lately and shes really cool. I used to hang out with her in highschool. We hung out the other day and shes now a 10/10 cutie. Really enjoyed being around her. We have plans to go to a fun car event at the raceway this weekend. I dont really know how to tell her that I really like her. Any Advice?
> Pic related, I own a sweet panty dropping 240
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>>17422843
>sweet panty dropping 240
Haha faggot. Enjoy all 20hp from that shitbox ka24.
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>>17422850
Rb20 swapped
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Its cool lolol
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Ok faggot semi sad feels happened tonight
here we go
>20 years old
>been single for years now
>pretty much gave up
>not sad about it or anything
>then the feels hit tonight
>have a girl i have been trying to date want to hang out tonight
>fuck yes
>girl is still in relationshit so idk how she feels about me
>meet up and she says she is waiting for a friend thats coming with us
>i say cool
>right when friend pulls up girl says friend has a thing for me
>lol wut
>friend gets in car
>pretty fucking hot
>we are driving and she pulls out a cig and >starts smoking
>i look back
>newpimp reds
>my nigga
>girl tells her not to smoke in the car
>she says no because she can now
>i get confused
>literally just hit twelve o cock
>bitch is now 18
>mfw perfect
>we go to steak n shake with a few other people
>im just staring this bitch down thinking about how i could live my life with this girl
>she acts stern but fun
>not stupid either
>like perfect
>she says she is wants to go outside to smoke
>i ask to join
>we go sand smoke and start talking
>im literly about to ask this bitch to hang out tomorrow
>things going great
>then she says that she is about to leave for school in like 2 weeks
>i ask where
>9 hours north
>i asked what she is going for
>criminal justice
>litterly going to be gone for 8 years
>i get super fucking sad
>i had the perfect girl sitting infront of me
>but she is leaving in 2 fucking weeks
>it just takes one small thing to bring back the sad
>feels sad man
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Same shit happened with me recently OP. Met this incredibly hot, fun 18 year old girl and really hit it off with her.
Spent all summer fucking her, giving her the perfect summer romance because she's moving to Cali in the fall. It sucks man, but see if she's just down to have a good time until she leaves. It's unfortunate to let a good woman like that slip away but it's also unfortunate to spend the rest of your life only fucking one girl.
Take from that what you may but I still say you go for it. Life is too short to let opportunities pass you by.
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>>17422789
>smoker
>perfect
Pick one faggot
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>>17422789
So wait, you're sad that a girl you're not actually dating in a relationship with is leaving?
You lost me at the part where you called her a bitch.
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Hello adv
My 22 year old brother just overdosed on heroin and xanax
he's almost died 2 times before from the shit and he's been in and otu of jail and rehab a lot
he was selling and using a lot of different shit the last few days he just went down fucking hill hard and fast
his last words to my dad were "I'm going to show everyone I can make all my money back in one weekend" before he left
he was dropped off by 2 people who pretty much said he did heroin and xanax and was drinking and they scrammed
my dad firefighter carried him into the house (this happened while I was at the store) and we were just watching him in case wer needed to call 911
well we were giving him water he was barely conscious and he stopped breathing regularly so we called and the emt came
basically he was dead on the floor but they were here a good 20 minutes attempting to revive or stabilize I guess
my dad and I got to the hospital after they all left and he got bitched at to leave the tape on his face that was holding the tube (I assume for intubation) in his mouth because it was against the law to remove it or some shit
out of 10 security officers about 7 were complete assholes about it and there was a mild escalation that was just yelling
we got escorted out without physical contact and I drove my dad to the bar at 1:30 or so to get a bottle of bourbon
basically I'm upset and I think I can cope but my dad is taking it very very badly and I'm wondering if anyone can offer something for me to do in order to keep him from doing anything crazy
he's already called his boss so he's not working but I feel like if I fall asleep he might just do something stupid or have a breakdown
anything will help, this board has helped me a lot and sorry for the shitty grammar I'm kind of feeling like trash right now
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what are you worried he'll do exactly? Like try to harm himself?
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>>17422779
sorry for your loss anon.
the only thing I can say is spend time with him. don't even need to talk, just sit with him. I find that helps me when I am distressed.
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>>17422788
Either that or others
I mean I know its likely not because I'm here and I even did a small shot of bourbon with him and I've never had a drink in my life
but he just went to sleep and my brother's mom hasn't picked up any of the 20+ times we called
I know he's aware but it hasn't really hit him yet and it's started to really hit me too so I'm just very extremely anxious
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I pretty much spent the whole day out with him today and my brother sat at our house asleep for like 5 hours before the left that last time
forgot to mention half brother but his mom is a massive cunt and wouldn't allow visitation and only recently has my brother been allowed to see my dad because he was considered old enough to do what he wants
I don't even know what to do really, I'm tired but I don't want to sleep and at the same time I can't really do anything at all considering its 3:30 in my time
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Why do good guys get fucked over by horrible women? Just found out my wife has been cheating on me for almost a year. "We had a baby back in January and good chance baby ain't mine. We're Living apart but I feel destroyed. The person I loved and trusted has crushed my heart and played me like a doll.... Anyone gone through this before?
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>>17422738
Get a DNA paternity test, fool.
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>>17422752
I am, I'm just want to know why women are so destructive
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Maybe she just wanted to feel that spark in a new relationship. I do shit like that at times but I'm not married. I'm a guy though
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I've been looking for another opinion and voice to help figure out what the fuck is going on with a girl.
A qt and I were in a musical together, and we were hitting it off well as just friends. She was quiet and always sat in the back on her phone, so I have her company every rehearsal or performance. A friend of mine told me that this girl thought I was "the best", that I was incredibly Knudsen and sweet, and funny. She often needed hugs due to her emotional stability do of course I never had qualms with supplying them.
However I knew based on our age difference a relationship wouldn't have worked out for years. Our personalities and interests were also quite far apart. I never really thought it would get romantic, and I never made a move, nor did I have the intention to do so. I'm 18 and living with my parents and she's 21 and living with a roommate in a different town than me. Despite this I also never hid my feelings. I made it clear I cared about her and that I wanted the best for her.
Then, after the show was over she never talked to me again, except on one occasion. She got a boyfriend, which didn't bother me since I never saw us in a relationship. But I was afraid since it was obvious I had a crush on her, that she stopped taking to me since she didn't want to lead me on. I talked to her about it and clarified that I just wanted to be friends. She replied pretty positively, but she said she didn't have a lot of time for more people, which I suppose implies that she doesn't have time for me.
I've never felt such a fast turn around. I thought we were gonna be good friends and hang out every now and again. But I haven't seen her since the show, and it's been a month and a half.
Does any idea have a clue what's happening, or why it seemed like she liked me (as a friend) during the show, but not anymore?
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Date other girls, see if she gets jealous.
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>>17422736
I moved on from the whole relationship thing a while ago. I'm just confused why she literally never talks to me. I sent her a snap a month ago and she literally hasn't opened it, and I know she frequently uses snapchat.
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>>17422736
Fucking stupid! That shit never works. R u still in middle school?
She was never into u anon. She just thought u were good. End of story. Move on
Hey /adv/, I want some opinions.
Four years ago I dated an emotionally abusive man. We dated for two years until he finally pushed me too far and I left. Now, since I left I have sought out therapy and gotten married. I am in a much much much happier place in my life but I keep on thinking about the ex.
Now, I don't think about him because I miss him, I think about him because people bring him up. He was severely depressed and constantly threatened to kill himself if I ever left. I know it was part of the manipulation but once in a blue moon his sister will reach out to me and let me know that he's not doing well and has become reclusive. Through my therapy sessions I have learned to forgive him and turn my anger into prayer. Rather than hate him for the abuse, pray that he finds peace.
I don't want to rekindle anything or become best friends, I just want to reach out and see how he's doing. I really and honestly hope that his life has turned around.
I know it sounds super dumb but I would like an outsiders perspective on why it's bad and shouldn't do it. My husband thinks I need closure but I'm not sure that's the reason.
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You should want him to disappear like a stone thown in a pond; a few ripples and gone forever.
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>>17422715
mmm tacos al pastor
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>>17422715
Forget him, and tell his sister to fuck right off.
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Hey /adv/, my mom was really abusive for the 5 years my parents were divorcing. it was hard on me and i would eat and used to hide the food wrappers but when she found them she would yell and hit me and call me names. im now a teenager and overweight from eating too much but as i am older im smoking but as im young its hard for me to get them and i get deppressed then i eat and i gain more weight and if i am too big i cant be a pilot. how do i break this cycle /adv/
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>>17422643
Food addiction is just as serious, if not more serious than anything else. Not saying it's going to be easy, but you need to find a way to retrain yourself to find different ways to cope. I haven't personally struggled with this, but whenever I am trying to lose weight I find that chewing gum instead of eating helps a lot. You might find yourself chewing a lot of gum though, so maybe alternate it with say, a lollipop, or something along those lines. Nothing too sugary though, as you would probably switch dependencies on the other thing. Also, this might be unavoidable, but try to document every time you relapse into a binging mode. Try to figure out patterns as to why you turn to food, and how you might feel during, before, and afterwards. At the very least it will make you more mindful of what you are doing. Any ways, I wish you all the luck and really applaud you for trying to be better with this struggle.
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>>17422676
thank you
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>>17422643
I don't have any advice for you but I hope things get better and you can definitely overcome these obstacles.
How do I deal with a younger adult sibling who hates me? Ever since we were kids, he's shown hostility towards me. According to my mother, even though he's two years my junior, when we were toddlers, he used to walk up to me and punch/hit me for no reason, and that dynamic seems not to have changed into adulthood.
Everything is some bullshit hypermasculine contest to him, and god forbid you should slight him in any way. I've had my face spat on because I said he should calm down; I've been hit for disagreeing with him. I've never fought back - I'm not a violent person by nature, and even though we're the same size, he could probably wipe the floor with me purely because of the amount of experience he has with physical conflict.
It's not as if I'm the favourite of the family - I'm easily the black sheep, and although I was the "smart one", I was relentlessly bullied by my father as a kid - one time, he watched as my two older cousins held me, aged 6, down and punched me in the face until my nose broke. This was something my brother never copped, as the more stereotypically macho football captain. In fact, any time I dare speak a word against my father, brother immediately threatens me with physical punishment. They remind me a lot of each other in a lot of ways.
He's a bit of a deadbeat, and just got his first job (in a factory) at age 21, after sitting around the house playing vidya and failing out of college in his first term. He's reasonably tight with our other siblings too, and periodically gets them to join in on an argument against me because I'm "annoying" or a "fucking faggot".
Sure, I might've purposefully antagonised the dude a bit as a teenager, but that's long behind us now. How do I get him to listen to rational discussion and talk about why he feels this way towards me?
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I've moved back in with my parents post-college while I save money and try look for a job, so I'm living with him, and it's just getting unbearable. I can be sitting in my room playing guitar (quietly) or talking to friends, and I'll get him screaming at me through the walls to "shut up" because I "fucking suck" and am a "gay faggot". I can be in the kitchen cooking dinner and he'll yell insults at me from across the hall, as if to try and goad me into a fight.
It's childish and I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but living with it has started to. Any time I try and talk to my mother about it, all I get is "you know that's just the way he is". My father doesn't speak to me. It just pisses me off because if I acted like that, I'd be kicked out of the house so fucking fast. But apparently it's unremarkable behaviour for a fucking 21 year old who's still stuck up on the days he was the hypermacho football team captain for his tiny Christian high school.
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>How do I get him to listen to rational discussion and talk about why he feels this way towards me?
You don't. People that treat you that way don't care, especially if it lasts into adulthood.
>It's not as if I'm the favourite of the family - I'm easily the black sheep, and although I was the "smart one", I was relentlessly bullied by my father as a kid - one time, he watched as my two older cousins held me, aged 6, down and punched me in the face until my nose broke. This was something my brother never copped, as the more stereotypically macho football captain. In fact, any time I dare speak a word against my father, brother immediately threatens me with physical punishment. They remind me a lot of each other in a lot of ways.
It sounds like you have a few family members in your family with NPD. In those situations, there's typically a golden child and a scapegoat. You can probably guess who has what role based on how your father treats you and who's able to get away with what.
>He's a bit of a deadbeat, and just got his first job (in a factory) at age 21, after sitting around the house playing vidya and failing out of college in his first term. He's reasonably tight with our other siblings too, and periodically gets them to join in on an argument against me because I'm "annoying" or a "fucking faggot".
Off the top of my head, I'd say he has low self-esteem and is taking out his failures on you (instead of actually doing anything with his life). He's also using triangulation to pit your siblings against you.
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>>17422522
>Any time I try and talk to my mother about it, all I get is "you know that's just the way he is". My father doesn't speak to me. It just pisses me off because if I acted like that, I'd be kicked out of the house so fucking fast. But apparently it's unremarkable behaviour for a fucking 21 year old who's still stuck up on the days he was the hypermacho football team captain for his tiny Christian high school.
Yeah, I stand by my previous statement in >>17422529
This is very typical of families with NPD. You've got the NDad, an enabling mom, a golden child brother, and you're the scapegoat that's punished for existing. Your brother hates that you're more successful than him, that you have hobbies and friends that enjoy your company. But his ego is so insane that he cannot accept the failure as his own, which is why he takes it out on you. And your parents just enable this behavior.
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Would you femanons date a guy of this build? What do you think of Big Guys?
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You've already had this thread, fuck off.
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>>17422459
What? Not me.
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>>17422544
if not you, then someone
first it was that fucking downy posting that same dude's ass in a baseball uniform or whatever, like five million times, now this shit
get a hobby
damn right I'm salty, we have enough reposting on this board without this dumb shit
Any legalfags out there? I need some advise on my case. I'm being order to maintain the utilities active at the apartment me and my soon to be exwife. Does cell phone fall in the utilities category?
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>>17422444
Probably not, but broadband might. Your lawyer should go back to the court and have the term "utilities" specifically defined.
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>>17422444
Is there an existing landline?
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>>17422586
No landline
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So, the thing is I started getting romantically entangled with this girl at university. It all began when I met her at the introduction course for the career, she was in the same classroom as me. To put it briefly, she came to me at the end of the class and asked my name, (you know... the classic icebreaker routine) By the end of the conversation, she already had written her phone number in a little piece of paper with a winking face. So we spoke by phone texts and facebook. She started flirting with me and of course I responded with moore flirting and stuff so by the end of the week we were speaking about kissing and cuddling and even started "soft-sexting". We kissed later after that and dated and everything was roses. I gotta say she always told me she didn't want to "tag" the relationship, it was more like a free-relation or something. I also have to add that I'm not a sociable person, and neither does she (that's what she told me, anyway).
So the trouble started when she began acting weird before the actual classes started. I gave her a drawing of her eyes and she posted it on her facebook but she began acting weird. I continued flirting with her but she told me to stop with no reason whatsoever. Now she is totally ignoring me all the time and she deleted the pic of the drawing i gave her from her fb. I tried to talk with her but she just ignores me. She's being hanging out with her friends and I tried to get close to them but they are just not my type of people so if she is with her friends I just give her space but if I try to get close when she is alone she just ignores me! I talked with her on facebook and she told me that "she tried to join me within her social circle but that I didn't tried and that she is not my only classmate" she wrote it with a very "dark mood"... I can't recognize her anymore.. what is wrong? I told her to forgive me if I did something wrong and she tells me I didn't do aything... I just can't understand...
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Does anyone know what the hell went wrong? she seemed very happy and pleased with everything :S please help guys
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>>17422437
I think you haven't eaten enough bananas. Pinche Dante culero pendejo mamame la verga.
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Got rejected a week ago by a girl i honestly thought was way more interested in me. We had been talking for a little while and becoming friendlier and friendlier. Wouldnt call it flirting.
Asked her out and she said she was "talking to someone" already. I dont really care if she was just bullshitting, i mean ive never done it but i dont get asked out so i might do it. She always posts memes about being single and shit on facebook.
What should i do in this situation? Its hard for me to move on. I dont ask out random girls, i wait until we start talking and i realize if i like them or not. Ever since she said that to me, i have slowly gotten more and more distant from her. Is that bad? Am i being immature? I just dont feel like talking to her anymore. I HATE to say this, but she doesnt serve me purpose in life.
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Been there.
She doesn't like you.
Disregard and move on.
Don't make it complicated. It's simple!
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>>17422386
NEVER talk to someone with the idea that "maybe she will change her mind"
she wont. cut off
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>>17422423
Should i delete her on facebook?
I really want to....just seeing her shit on facebook puts me in a bad mood
How do i get over my insatiable craving for McDonalds? Their burger patties are tiny and dry. Their nuggets aren't real meat. Yet I can't help but crave it all the time.
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>>17422375
The only thing I eat there is the egg mcmuffins and the fillet-o-fish. Also I only eat there is I'm on the job and didn't prepare a meal AND I have a coupon in my bag, so maybe once a week at most.
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>>17422375
>Their nuggets aren't real meat
Yes they are, you fucking retard. Stop believing stupid bullshit you hear from your dumbass friends.
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>>17422375
>Their nuggets aren't real meat.
>I believe everything I see on social media
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Anyone here have experiences with clubbing ? Honest female input would be really nice.
My problem is I had a chance to get a gf. Everything went great until the subject of clubs came up. Apparently she loves going there and will continiue doing so.
I told her this is unacceptable for me because only slutty girls go there. I have never been to a club but all my male friends tell me they only go to grope and make out with random girls.
Is this the reason females go there as well ? I am asking because i'm actally a foreveralone type of guy and this likely was my only chance at a relationship. Did I make a mistake ?
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I actually laughed when I read
>Apparently she loves going there and will continiue doing so.
>I told her this is unacceptable for me because only slutty girls go there.
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>>17422372
What so funny about that ? I was jus being straightforward.
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>>17422379
>you base what clubs are like on what your creepy friends say
>you're obviously from /r9k/
>you lack the ability to filter what's socially unacceptable to say
>you actually think you have a right to dictate what a girl you're not even dating does
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If I shouldn't care about my own insecurities then why should I care about others?
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Whhat the fuck is that on his head?
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You shouldn't. Stop beliveing leftist lies.
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>>17422398
looks like a shoop I can tell by the pixels and from having seen many shoops in my time