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She's fucking other men

>>17422365
>I love her to bits
Doesn't sound like she feels the same, she'd at least give a handjob or blow job to calm you down if she was care or paying attention to your desires, but that's just a guess.

Note: She was a virgin before I fucked her

when she gets bored of you.
so she can leave you and still have a hand in your pocket

>>17422238
>She hates kids and suddenly wants kids?

She's cheating, get a test to make sure it's yours.

>>17422304
But that's not always right. Women can get triggered and want them at any time

Oh and I didn't even mention I'm in £18000 debt for some shit I did not even want to do in the first place and now my whole life is fucked up
Sorry for ranting here but I have no friends or anyone I can talk to and this is helping me get it off my chest because I desperately need to

>>17422093
>I'm in £18000 debt
Lmaoing @ yo education system
You fucked it up man
Enjoy paying some gender studies professor wage, while you work two min wage jobs with poles and pakis

>>17422093
You can do it! I'd bet your uni has a writing/essay help center. If not, there are many good books about academic writing, like Strunk & White's. But start with attending class! I'd bet you could pass just by attendance - don't defeat yourself by not going to class!

Don't bully yourself by saying you have depression, repeating what your dad says about uselessness/disappointment, etc. Maybe you do have depression, but using it as an excuse to give up on everything doesn't help anyone, least of all your mum.

If your mother is physically safe, work on your degree. You might want to look up professional advice on what to do in an abusive relationship. I remember that you should record instances of abuse (writing down time/date/what happened) - if you feel safe about doing that.

What does it feel like to be a tranny?

>>17420810

do what most women and men do
>identify as whatever they want
>but just accept their bodies for what they are.

tranny's have this sense of entitlement where they think they deserve to be beautiful 'passing' women. but most women dont even 'pass'.

a lot of people dont even subjectively like what they wear, but they dress to what they can pull off.

id love to be an alpha muscle macho man who wears flannel all day.

but im a 5'6" qt3.14 twink fuccboi so i work out to best suit that existing body type instead of trying to fit a six foot tall roider into my small frame.

be you, do what looks good. what matters is that you get the kind of partner you want, yeah, whats it matter what you look like as long as its attractive in some sense?

>>17420819
Wearing your own gender's clothes feels gross and fake and you feel like you're lying to everyone.

>>17420839
I'm not attractive to anyone the way I am. Not being able to go through sex also doesn't make me a hit with the men.

My preferred fashion also includes not having breasts, so having them cut off will have to happen.

I'm so fucking ashamed. You were kind enough to take me to a shooting range, because I had showed interest in getting a hunting license, but I was too weak to hold the rifle properly. I'm determined to gain muscle and try again, and hopefully not embarass you next time.


>>17418725
Good luck, OP! You can do it!

I don't know what I'm feeling right now. It feels like loneliness, but I don't want to talk to anyone right now. There's a feeling of emptiness.

Maybe it's the fact that I miss people that are out of my life now, or the fact that my life peaked 4 years ago and it's been a steady decline since. Both have been on my mind tonight

>>17418725
Bro/broette, you are gonna nail that interview, I wish you the best!! Good luck

Do you need advice about something?

> gets friendzoned - gives up

man up

eh I give up on women from time to time but seems like I always come back even though I know there is probably no hope for me.

>>17424313
Somewhat. Those things that you buy should be the ends to a mean. BB pellets for air soft competitions. Chain mail for larping. Basically shit that you can use to further and excel in a hobby that can bring you happiness in the form of friends and shit.

>>17424313
What are you buying? As long as you're not spending an obscene amount of money I don't see why not.

>>17424313

yes. you literally just called the m pointless and to fill a void, why wouldnt it be?

>>17424306

she wont kill herself, and even if she does its because she is so dumb that she'd literally end her life cuz a guy on skype said he doesnt want to talk anymore.

here is what you do
>im sorry i cant do this anymore, i am breaking up with you
>hit the send button
>hit the block button

WOW YOU DID IT.

no you dont need to have a long conversation. you already had several, she knows the shtick.

"I'm breaking up with you. I wanted to do this for a long time and I don't know why I didn't sooner, this relationship was not making me happy. Don't try to contact me again, I'll just ignore you. Try to work on your temper and figure out some priorities, otherwise your life will go downhill really fast. You may want to seek help, as you have some emotional issues. I hope you will be happy and successful in everything you do from now on, but I don't want to ever see you again."

Send her this message, then block her on everything. She doesn't deserve any better and it might be a wake up call for her. You were enabling her insanity, which was destructive for her and unpleasant for you. There is no reason for you to continue this relationship. And stop feeling bad or guilty for her. She's not your responsibility and it's not your fault that she's emotionally unstable.

>>17424353
Thanks for the advice, but maybe there is a nicer way of saying it? I know she's going to hurt... here I am now thinking of how she's going to act... I should also add that she's been blaming me for all the bad things to happen to her... I forgot to add that in the post

>>We haven't had sex yet

Yeah, it's perfectly normal to get raging boners all the time when she comes in close and you catch detailed glimpse of her skin or you get a good whiff of her perfume.

After you've been fucking for a while and you basically know her whole body, you get boners less often outside of random situations when you just get really horny for some reason (i.e. if she's wearing something a bit sluttier than usual or something).

>>17424180
The first time I got boner I thought It was a disease and I cried all day.

Why would it be weird? When would have boners then? When you're studying algebra or watching a documentary about whales?

yeah, leave. It's easier to find a sane partner than to repair a broken one.

>>17424144
Any non-misanthropic megalomaniac advice?

>>17424155
Yes, trying to surround yourself with healthy people that will influence you in a good way is misanthropic and megalomaniac. Why are you asking for advice if you're going to ignore them in the first place?

>>17424105
move into a country with a working legal system

>>17424105

by your own definition there is nothing you can do. you cannot control the outside forces.

>>17424113
I'm already in USA for my whole life, I can't get citizenship in a better country. I was actually paranoid and thinking of moving to a state within USA that has the best prison with least rape. I would only go to a low level prison anyway, not maximum security (unless I'm framed for murder or something)

>>17424038
If you are sufficiently attractive and/or they are sufficiently drunk, basically yes.

>>17424038
Try and make eye contact first, based on how she looks at you, you will most likely be able to deduce whether or not she wants to dance with you. Signs to look for could be her holding eye contact, sexy smile, winking, etc... If she makes eye contact and immediately looks away, obviously move on to someone else.

>>17424070
That make sense, so try to get the go ahead before moving in?

>>17423995
Sounds like you stuck your dick in a crazy and are now regretting it.

call her an idiot and strangle her. if that doesn't fix your marriage you should leave

If you have kids together this is difficult and will suck. If you don't just divorce her. Was she like this before you got married?

>>17423930
I did the same thing, anon. Now I'm friendless and still a sad sack of shit, apprehensive about pulling the trigger.

I have no advice to offer.

>>17423951
Yep.

I've been saying to myself it's gonna get better, someday.

I've been saying that for 10 years.

I don't believe it anymore.

>>17423930
>>17423951
Might be able to help you chaps, mind giving me a little bit of info as to how you got here in the first place?
Been through this shit for the past year, if y'all wanna hear my story just say so.

>tfw no gf

Is there a question or are you just pandering for attention?

>>17423931

what is life

is this making it? because i don't feel any better