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I'm just so bored and slightly depressed this summer. I start classes in September and I only have a handful of plans till then and I don't have a lot of friends in general. I live close to my country's capital where I guess a lot of things happen. Any ideas how I can spend my time?
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Just realized uneventful is a word oops
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>>17424129
pick any hobby and get extremely good at it with the time you have on your hands. attend meetups and events related to your hobbies in that big city you live close to
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>>17424143
Meetups and events such as what? I see events on Facebook but normally they're not things people attend alone
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I'm a dirty guy who showers twice a month at best, doesnt brush his teeths, and only changes boxers one a week.
I want to become clean but i'm really lazy. I need to know some basic stuff before i start my renaissance.
Do people shower in the morning when they wake up or before sleeping or during the day?
I have a lot of hair for a guy so do i wash it everitime i shower and do i have to dry it also?
How long does your morining routine last? Somedayys i just wake up 5 min before my bus comes and go straight to school.
any simmilar people in my situation that managed to escape this.
I used to not sweat at all so there was no smell because i live in a cold area. But i'm 19 now and i'm starting to smell my crotch and I'm starting to get disgusted by myself.
Do you brush your teeths 1/2/3 times a day? do you skip it somedays?
I know i'm able to change because 2 years ago i went to live in a college for the summer to learn another language and i showered and brushed my teeths everyday there because everybody would notice if i didnt.
lastly everytime i shower my body freaks out and it ithes non stop as soon as i leave the shower for 15 minutes so it puts me off on showering but i guess if i force myself to shower after a ouple times it will go away.
i really need your help guys i just want to be normal
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dirty bastard
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>>17424071
i dont smell no one ever told me that i did but i really want to change
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>>17424066
I shower before work to wake up and before bed to clean myself properly.
In the morning, it takes me maybe a couple of minutes. At night, around 10 minutes (but I am a girl so I have extra stuff to do in the shower).
If your skin itches, try a lotion or a less aggressive soap.
I brush my teeth 3 times a day (breakfast/lunch/dinner).
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someone is in my basement I keep hear thuds and when I picked up the phone to call the cops im stuck in my room it just lost signal idk what to do
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>>17424036
If real, post address. We will call cops.
Otherwise good luck and enjoy your rape and/or murder.
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What's a Defalt error?
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>>17424036
Yeah post your address on 4chan
No don't do it.
Run away, open the window. Jump out, go to a neighbors house and call the cops.
How do you get enjoyment out of clubs? I keep getting invited out to them and I just have to flat out say "no" to some people because they're so persistent. How can I enjoy clubs when I:
>Hate dancing
>Hate loud music
>Dislike drinking alcohol in public
>Hate crowded areas with lots of people
Or alternatively how can I go with friends/girlfriend and avoid dancing/alcohol tastefully?
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Just don't go. Not everyone has to like it.
Or you go and leave when you get bored.
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>>17423809
>How can I enjoy clubs when I:
You cant, clubs just arent for you.
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>>17423809
Avoid alcohol by offering to be DD. You have an excuse not to drink and everyone will love you for it.
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I am an older guy. I divourced with my wife a year ago and I am now using online dating sites. I met a woman in her mid-30s for a couple of times. She seems pleasant and perfectly fine, but she told me that in all her life she never had a relationship before. Should this be a dealbreaker? She tells me that she was depressed and unhappy in the past and that she was very shy.
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do you have any thoughts about what it could indicate if it were a red flag?
obviously if she doesn't want to be in a relationship you won't have to worry about getting into a relationship. i recommend you proceed, dad
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>>17423743
It is just a bit strange that she never had a date in the past
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>>17423718
Some people never date until their 60s and then they find love. If she seems ok and stable and like her you could try
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Can someone please explain to me why so many guys feel they are entitled to be able to date/have sex with a girl just because they have been nice to them? Then when they are rejected, proceed to rattle off the most ridiculous list of acts on the woman's part that they mistook as signs of romantic/sexual interest. Not trying to start a SJW 'men are pigs' thread, genuinely curious about what goes through your heads.
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>>17423620
I'm not defending this sort of behavior, but it's because girls are always like "I wish I could just meet a nice guy." They internalize that and are fake nice expecting a reward of some sort. When they aren't rewarded you see that they aren't nice at all, they just think that's what girls want.
Real nice guys are just nice. They aren't acting. They aren't covert assholes.
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Friendzone technically is when either:
1) The girl keeps the guy as a "friend" exploiting him and alimenting his (vain) hopes of becoming more than a friend.
His faults are having no dignity and being a doormat but this also means blaming the victim
2) when a girl genuinely rejects someone and then whine that all men are superficial, this is enraging if she outrightly refuses someone with whom she has a nice relationship
Then, for me often the whole concept of friendzone is a meme because most times it stems from the guy that doesn't act and doesn't make his intentions clear
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>>17423631
I think its a tad ridiculous that whenever a girl says something along the lines of how she wishes she could find a nice guy, any guys she may have rejected in the past see red because 'well you could of had me'. Just because a guy is nice or they get along well as friends doesn't mean that the girl is going to see them as anything but platonic. There are other criteria.
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I never have a proper art education, currently working at power station and trying to figure out how to start a business.
Saving up money to pursue my art dream but too much a pussy to take the jump(metaphorically ).
I don't know what to do now
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>>17423614
Is that pic your art?
Also how old are you?
How long have you been doing art?
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>>17423614
Please do not do it until you have a line of clients for a 1 year+. Do you know how to handle business expenses, tax forms, or just how to deal with clients in general?
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>>17423614
you mean business as in making money with your art? or are this 2 separate ideas?
you don't need a proper art education to land a job as illustrator or graphic designer or even as a free artist.
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Hey all, I need advice on fingering.
My girlfriend and I enjoy foreplay lots, she can make me reach climax quickly, yet I can never make her cum through fingering.
I've just turned 18 and my hands are pretty small (but proportionate to me) and my longer finger is like 3½ inches which doesn't help, but she can never cum. She gets so wet and then all of a sudden she just dries up even though she moans and whimpers and states she's gonna squirt. It's extremely frustrating. Any tips on how to do it more effectively? And why she suddenly dries up if she enjoys it.
Thanks
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>>17423571
Has she ever cum from penetration before in her life? Because something like 70% of women can't.
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>>17423571
Use your tongue.
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>>17423585
How? I have no experience doing so and It'd probably be senseless licking amounting to nothing.
I haven't been able to do better than this interesting, smart, funny, hardworking and woman I dated two years ago. Every woman I've encountered since her could not compete at all. And there's been multiple. Not even a threesome or having sex with 5 girls in one day has cured me of my oneitis. My job isn't my passion, I live in a garbage town, and I only see my life getting worse.
I started cutting myself and going out of my way to play and emotionally destroy girls and fuck people I know over to feel something, to create some excitement in my life. I need that dopamine rush that being in Her arms gave me. Binge drinking, speeding, taking up a martial art and getting my shit kicked in, traveling, I've tried doing it all to give me that fucking THRILL to take my mind off of Her but it doesn't work.
I want to kill myself. I just want to take my ball and go home. Im tired of this shit. Just fucking exhausted and done. I want to turn my dick off and kill my desire for sex and love. What's a painless option to suicide? Is there a medical procedure men can take to neuter themselves to kill their sex drive so I can live in peace?
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>>17423537
What's really gonna bake your noodle later is when she takes you back or find another like her and you remain wholly unsatisfied
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>>17423565
Idk bruh I was on cloud 9 whenever I was with her
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>>17423537
A painless option to suicide is getting dubs like this
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Will I overlook new love because of my ex? 2016-08-03 14:07:57 Post No.17423460
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I have an ex that I still love. Last six months she's been 5000 miles away, living life in South East Asia, and won't return until next summer. None of us know whether she'll settle down in the same country/city as me, and we don't have any agreement on the future. We've been on and off since summer 2010, but we still tell each other we got a strong bond and only a couple of weeks ago she told me she still thinks I'm her soulmate. We don't talk that often - since she left in February, we've only skyped three or four times, and it can go weeks and even months between each time we text each other. Although we've had our ups and downs - and the downs have been extremely hard in me - our contact the last year has been mostly good. We don't really miss each other, we're just plain ol' fond of each other, communicating out of loving kindness, encouraging each other to continue with out respective projects. I have no plan to travel to see her or anything. Also, I would be surprised if she doesn't meet someone that ends up being her exclusive boyfriend withing the next couple of years, and we've both been seeing other people, some of which we've seen exclusively for months.
I don't feel like she comes in my way of meeting someone else, but my friend is convinced that as long as I don't delete her from social media and stop texting her, I will overlook opportunity or temporarily end up in relationships that are doomed from the beginning, because I haven't gotten over her/let her go.
My belief is that there's no reason to put something good to rest, but I'm 32 years old, and meeting someone that I one day can have a family with is not completely wiped off my bucket list.
Can this happen as long as there's still a spot available to my ex? Btw I'm not desperately looking - whatever happens happens, I'm just working on myself, sorting my life out still.
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>soulmate
Kek. Maye, she's out there getting blown out and at the same time grooming you for her comeback. Once she's had a few miles of cock run through her she'll come back saying it was you she loved.
Don't wait for her. You don't know what you're missing until you experience it.
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>>17423478
Thank you most obvious reply of the day.
I'm not asking about whether I should wait for her. I know for a fact that she has cock run through her, that's not the issue. I'm doing my part of both pumping and dumping in addition to dating, having other women fall in love with me, etc.
Unlike most of this board, I'm not writing from the abyss of misery. I'm merely wondering whether people think it's possible to find someone else as long as I still got feelings for my ex. The fact that she told me I'm her soul mate doesn't really affect me any more than just being friends with her still. After six years with this girl, that type of communication is commonplace, a casual fact by any other name.
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>>17423501
There we go.
From your response it sounds like you feel for her but not the point where it's completely dominating you. As for what you ask, yes it is. It will just be much harder for the second person to get close. You have to keep a very open mind. And be willing to let the other one completely go.
If you pretty much have ,then there's nothing holding you back besides yourself
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Does anyone have any tips for being able to piss in a public restroom? I used to be able to go anywhere but now I can only go in a private restroom and it is ruining my life. Any tips would be appreciated, thank you.
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Push harder or piss alone.
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>>17423378
You see the thing is, if I push harder, I end up going no. 2 instead. I think what happened is, I used to never be able to poo in public but I could pee just fine, but when I went to boy scout camp for a week, I forced my self to go no.2. It seems like that some how made going no.1 harder to do in public than going no.2.
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>>17423385
Have the same problem, i usually concentrate on something like the brand of the urinol or some other meaningless detail to distract me from the other people or try to visualize something, usually pine trees
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Poll: Why don't women normally ask guys out?
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Not asking this out of spite for women, nor am I trying to subtly ask a "Why do women suck" thread. I'm fully accepting that in society men are expected to make moves, and have no problem with that. This is more of a question to pick your brains. Food for thought.
I'm just curious, why do women typically not actively pursue men?
>We're just raised that way
Yes but what specifically, were you taught you'd be a slut if you ever pursued a man, or something?
Or if it's personal preference, why is it that YOU don't actively pursue men, or choose to let them either pursue you, or not have anything to do with them at all?
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>>17423127
Lots of reasons.
Because asking a person out is stressful and difficult. Women don't want to deal with stressful or difficult things so as long as they can just keep making men do it, they will. Because they don't care about how you feel and will happily let you feel shitty if it means she doesn't have to.
Because generally the person doing the asking out is the one responsible for impressive and entertaining the one they asked out. Women don't want to deal with that so again they just let you deal with it. (and pay for everything too)
Because getting rejected feels awful and women again, don't want to deal with it or the risk of dealing with it, so they pawn it off on you.
Because in their eyes if a guy doesn't ask her out first, he's a pathetic beta and not worthy of her attention anyways.
Of course they'll never admit these things and just give bullshit answers like "Oh society just makes me act that way I don't have a choice" or "Well guys like to be the dominant one so I just let them" but that's all bullshit, they just want an easy ride through everything.
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>>17423127
Because the courage and determination required to ask someone out are traits most women find attractive. The 'sexist stereotypes' are, by and large, true; women want to be pursued.
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I have a problem with boyfriend going bald 2016-08-03 09:10:55 Post No.17422978
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I have a problem with boyfriend going bald
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My boyfriend's hairline is receding. The situation isn't that bad at the moment, but I'm worried how it'll be in the future. He is 26 at the moment.
I care about him so much, he is intelligent, has a great body, good job, he treats me damn great. But I can't help but be turn offed by the situation of his hair.
I know this is stupid. But I just can't shake this off. What to do? Is it possible that the hairloss will stop?
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>>17422978
Itt - op is a shallow bitch.
Please let us know how he reacts after you break up with him, date someone else, realise they are an asshole, and beg him to take you back.
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>>17422978
Balding here aswell at 25.... He can look into fin , which has a small % of erectile dysfunction , or save up for hair transplant.
You could could always just fuck off and leave him , so you can find someone that suits your needs , and he can find someone else aswell.
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>>17422983
I know that it's selfish. But I don't know what is it about balding that I have an issue with - I guess it reminds me of me too growing old, or makes me see him as old/sick/weak. I hate having these thoughts, and I'm not perfect either, but as said, I just can't deny having these thoughts.
>>17422989
I wouldn't dump him just cause of his hair, but this has made me doubt my overall feelings for him. I mean, one could think that if you really loved someone, it didn't matter how they hair was? My ex had a receding hairline as well, a bit different type than his, but I never had a problem with it cause I loved him to bits.
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Ok so uh, I joined a dating site, not messaging girls because it never works so instead I wait for them to message me since I am quite good looking.
Well a month and a half ago this girl messages me. She's realllllllllly pretty, and we share a lot of interests. We get to talking, exchange numbers a week and a half or so ago, things going good right?
Well, earlier she called me to confess that the name she used wasn't her real name, that she was in fact a popular model, but hopes I will forgive her and let her fly me out for a 2 week long vacation together. She even sent me a snapchat tour of the beach house we'd be staying in.
I have no idea what the fuck to do. I know if I go I'll fuck it up before I get on the plane. I cant handle the heartbreak. Does anyone want to trade lives with me? Please?
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>>17422954
Just do it as long as you don't think it is a scam of some sort. The things we regret the most are the things we DIDN'T do.
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>>17422956
Honestly I was hoping it was a scam, but it turns out this is not a fucking scam and it's not a fucking dream.
I just want this to be a dream so bad... I mean this shit is supposed to be reserved for dreams not real life....... Right?
Ok ok but like how do I not fuck it up?
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>>17422954
I'm fairly certain you're going to have your organs harvested.
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Is it possible for a man in his 40s to become friends with a female coworker who is college aged? And I am talking about them being friends not "friends"
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You've already had this thread a couple of days ago, fuck off
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I wouldn't.
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what the fuck would you have in common apart from work?
either you're immature or borderline pedo
do you expect her to introduce her "cool, way older friend" to her friends?
fucking idiot