I'm a woman who wants to go back to the strip club with

>>17420450

dont? i mean even if you are a lesbian it just doestn seem like a good match if you can acknowledge that they were uncomfortable. i know you want to feel like 'one of the guys' in this case, even if your own sexuality is hetero, but its simply not a thing.

male bonding exists for a reason, and its kinda hard to do that with a girl there. and no the strippers dont count.

let men have their bonding.

For more context, I entered last after my friends did and handed my entrance fee . I was waiting for something I guess and looked to the side at my friends for a bit and looked back and my money was still there on the table I guess he didn't want to take my money I felt so embarrassed idk why. Immediately I bought 1 drink for my friend for his birthday and another for myself. A bit later I bought another round for both of us..fucking expensive. I guess in my mind that ment that I paid my fee to stay a while but I was wrong since after a couple hours we started getting badgered to buy more drinks...i felt horrible not just because I didn't want them to dislike us but also since I already spent so much and they wanted us to buy more...is that just how it is at a club? It was my first time. We were forced to wait so long because the girls we were waiting for kept getting pulled away it was frustrating because the woman at the bar kept coming over to "tell us how it worked here" not until late near 1am or 2 I was able to get a hold of the girl I wanted and I made sure to give her a extra tip even before she started. It lasted a while and she ended up telling me she gave me 2 dances for free I was really grateful. But in the end I still felt shitty with how the bartenders treated us..was it my fault? Please give tips.

>>17420472
The thing is it's not like there were NO woman customers there, yes way more men but there were at least 3 other girls there, granted they looked way older than me like 30-35 I'm 24

>>17420472
By the way, in my first post by "all of the guys" I mean the men at the club already. My friends did want me to go they asked me to come with.

Easy, just go on Amateurs' night.

>>17420544
How does this help can you explain? Is it because the amateur dancers don't know who or what to expect?

>>17420450
From my experience strippers like dealing with women customers.

As long as you're paying and respecting the house rules, the strippers don't care in the least.

You're always going to be prodded to buy more drinks and spend more money at a strip club regardless of your gender.

Who were the guys who didn't want you there? If they're friend of yours, then perhaps you can bring up the issue with them, tell them you don't want to be a nuisance but that you'd love to go back to the club with them and that it'd be great if they didn't mind if you tag along some other time.

If you mean other men at the club, pay no mind to it. Their problem.

They want ur money anon, if u need more money, well it is a strip club.. And u have that new 24 year old bod! Don't be ashamed, if anyone slights you it's because they're a woman on the inside. Or they're just jelly of your belly

>>17420578
I was implying she should strip.

What were u wearing OP

>>17420615
I've been told they dislike female customers because they are more touchy, women feel as if they can get away with it.

>>17420486
The bar tender just was a dick

>>17421255
Maybe it varies by club. The strippers I talk to at the club say they like women customers because they get to touch them as well. The club I go to let's you touch everything except their pussy as long as you aren't rude to them..

>>17420450
Some of my best customers are women. Most tip very well, unlike young guys that think they should get my time for free because they haven't any money.

Some guys cum in their shorts and it gets on me. Full contact so never happens with a woman.

>>17421260
Cam confirm. My favorite stripper gave me a handy and I came all over her. It even got in her hair. At least I tipped very well. However yeah, I've came in my shorts plenty of times though and I do my best not to get it on anyone.

>>17421255
OP here
I didn't touch my dancer I let her do what she wanted to me though, she grabbed my chest...a lot. It was hard but I kept my hands at my sides

>>17420450
Oh god you're this girl aren't you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0-sBM11mGNI

>>17421256
Op here, now that I think about it it was just the same older woman that kept coming by, I guess we just looked young little kids to them, we were in our early 20s. The man bouncer or bartender was very kind to me though he may have been the man I bought $40 worth of drinks from.

>>17421269
we all carry baby wipes for that exact reason. I won't give a hand job but will reach in and grab if the guy has been dropping a lot of cash on me. I would have kicked your ass if you got cum in my hair but then I wouldn't have my head anywhere near your exposed dick.

>>17421283
I mean I came pretty hard and her hair is longish. It got on her legs, chest, neck, and hair. Turns out that getting a sloppy handjob from an attractive petite blonde is pretty fucking great. But, yes, I fully understand the need for wipes. I try and push the girls off of me if I'm going to bust unless they ask me to "cum in them". Some of the girls I see are into that shit for some reason. I definitely get cum all over their panties.

Can I take this opertunity to ask what the fucking point of a strip-club is?

Do men seriously want to PAY to look at a woman dancing sexually so they can get turned on and then NOT fuck her, while sitting beside their friends?

Isn't this frustrating and awkward?

>>17421335
My city is a sex trafficking hub so escorting is risky as fuck. I'm too ugly to get laid easily and I really want to touch some boobs/ass while having a banging hot girl grind on me. It's the best I'm going to do.

>>17421316
club I dance is full nude, full contact, no private rooms, no booze and no exposed dicks and don't dare touch my pussy. Tits ok but not between my legs.

>>17421340

I guess it makes more sense if they let you touch them. And then I take it you go home and jack off?

>>17421368
Mine is full nude for the stage, panties for private dances. The various things you can do in private are limited by the girl and the manager who is working that day. I've done everything back there short of actually fucking.

>>17421387
No, I usually am able to sweet talk them into "helping me finish" for the right amount of money. Turns out that if you're nice, interesting, and respectful towards them they're much more willing to accommodate your desires.

>>17421398
yes. no one likes a dick attached to a dick no matter how much they spend

>>17421368
Doesnt the club make most of its revenue from drinks, though? Or do they compensate for the lack of alcohol by charging high entrance fees?

>>17420450
They don't want you there for the same reason girls don't want guys on a girls night out.

They can't act the same way they would if they weren't being constrained by a female presence.

For instance, I'm not going to be asking for lap dances or make jokes about women with one there and whoever does will do so feeling odd about it most of the time.

There's no way around it. In this situation, you're a buzz kill simply for being a different gender. Happens both ways.

>>17421413
Then they must really like me because I'm fat and ugly yet 80% of the girls I get private dances with help me cum in some way.

why would you even want to. most of the time a strip club is just a bunch of guy staring at womens bodies. theres no reason to bring your female friend along as she isn't there to oggle the women and probably serves to detract from the experience as a whole

>>17421335
strip clubs are for men who are easily manipulated by female sexuality and they get to extract resources from them.

>>17420486
Pretty much the way it works at strip clubs.

They were just trying to make money.

>>17421519
I give them money they give me their bodies for awhile. Whatever.

>>17421269
>Gave me a handy
Where the fuck were you when you got that? Op here and I was at a club that was full nude and full bar in MN. I couldn't afford the back room the beginning price was set at about $100 I've already spent $40-$60 at the bar and $10 with a $5 tip for a dance... I thought strippers get in trouble if they grab your bare penis or vagina...if I would go to the back room would I have gotten anything more?

>>17421416
high entrance fee and I pay the house to dance there. All the girls are beautiful. The place is always packed and rarely have I not covered the house fee. They do sell soft drinks and water. When there is a pro ball game players visit the club and it is not uncommon for me to make 1500-2000 a night.

>>17421416
strip clubs usually charge each girl 50-100 per shift they work.
>>17421799
i live in washington state where we arent allowed to drink or touch. yet somehow theres still hoes giving blowjobs in the vip and trying to get guys to meet them after their shift

>>17421842
I'm just confused because I thought that was illegal for them to do that.
Huh I guess if I was rich they would ask to do something secret. Speaking of that do u just wait and see if they ask you for a bj or do you go out of your way to ask. When you first EVER got one did you yourself ask them in a blunt way?

>>17421874
it is illegal. I never have but some girls do. They have to be careful because vice officers frequent the club trying to bust. Just buy a dance from several of the girls, find one you like and likes you, spend some time and money and she may make a suggestion.

>>17421274
Oh god I just watched this..no I was trying my best to not be obnoxious, the dancers are the stars not me. If anything I tried to be a good friend I gave money to my buddies, bought them drinks, helped one of my more nervous friends get the girl he wanted, took all night though because she kept getting taken, made us look like we were loitering, probably what the woman bar tender kept badgering us even though I already spent nearly $60 in booze

>>17421799
you need to be willing to drop $300 or more and a $5 tip won't get it done in a nice club with beautiful women. You can get blown in sleazy clubs with worn out girls for $100

>>17421874
i dont really fuck strippers because they all think theyre hot shit and price themselves 200-500% higher than the going price. ive got head a few times when the girls dropped to my own pricing but really stripclubs are the worst place, id rather mess with girls from craigslist, backpage, escort forums, hell even street walking crackheads are better value than strippers because they usually only want 40 bucks for some top notch head and the chances of getting any kind of virus from receiving a blowjob is very low.

is it considered shitty if I never sit at the front by the pole?
I dont want to put attention on myself, especially if I dont want to feel like I have to tip a ham I dont like that goes on stage just for a bit, this happened once, a ham went up for a while and then left I never tipped, I was just waiting for the next girl

>>17421799
I live in CA and you aren't supposed to to touch either. Once they get to know you that doesn't stop them. They have to know you're going to be discrete and not blabbing to the other girls, 'Well Jenny gave me hand job why won't you?". That'd be bad. The girls you really click with and like you (as much as they can like a customer I guess) will subtly hint that they'd be willing to suck your dick for a little extra. That's how I got my first stripper bj and it was pretty great.

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I took a preemployment UA today for a large corporation. I don't do drugs however I drank 3 days ago. The alcohol will probably show up in the UA. I don't live in a dry county or anything like that--there are bars everywhere.

What has me a bit concerned is that the form said 'Alcohol and Drug Screen' I am thinking the 'Alcohol' is for on-the-job accidents in which they typically UA you immediately after said accident and not for preemployment.

Any insight?

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>>17422433
Wtf? Did you seriously just post the question you asked on your thread in another person's thread?

>>17422416
If I was a stripper I'd be more cautious about just sucking a strangers dick, what if he had some disease I couldn't tell he had...isnt that why the girls arnt supposed to take off their undies when they dance for you? To avoid getting a disease on their crotch? I'd be too worried about that. idk that's just me maybe that's why I'm not a stripper.

>>17422518
This particular stripper I've been seeing as a customer for over two years. But, yes, you are correct. It is risky behavior. However when your dick takes over your brain the only thing you can think of is fucking the ever living shit out of said stripper.

As a woman what is the most appropriate thing I can wear? I want to be a bit sexy but not so much that it takes attention away from the dancers. Is a full cover top with shorts ok? Or low cut top with jeans?

How much money is appropriate to bring. I don't want to look cheap.

>>17424006
I usually spend two to five hundred if I want a really good night.

>>17420450
Tip well if you plan to go. Seriously, I don't think it's anything personal the dancers have against you but say if you were sitting up front and not paying you're taking away a spot from an otherwise generous tipper. Ignore anyone who gives you the eye and just enjoy the show.