tl;dr bf is treating me like a little baby and it's annoying

>>17420117
how much stupid shit have done? be honest.

>>17420120
None that i'm aware of. I genuinely think i haven't given him any reason to treat me like that...

>>17420117
Do you have a chronic illness? that might account for some(but not all) of this.

>>17420141
Not at all. I'm really not a fragile kind of girl.

>>17420141
Not OP.
I have a chronic illness, and I dumped a guy for treating me like this.
There's nothing worse than having the person you respect and love more pitying you.

>>17420117
You should emasculate him to put him in his place

>>17420117

>How can i make him believe me that i am perfectly capable and can think for myself and am not going to faint at the slightest incident?

Have you tried telling him this?

is this an incestual relationship with your feminist dad?

what a weird combination of traits.

>LET ME RESPECT AND PROTECT YOU DAMMIT

some type of unholy alpha cuck

>>17420182
I actually think he tries to put up and act of manlines to hide the truth about him wanting to be dominated. Not even joking. I think he's fighting it. How do i make him embrace it?

>>17420187
Yes, more than once and pretty clearly

>>17420190
1) talk it out
or
2) rape him with a strapon while he sleeps

>>17420193

Does he even make an effort, or just keep acting the same?

I wouldn't even call him a "feminist cuck," it actually suggests he doesn't have much respect for women at all. He sure as hell doesn't see you as an equal

>>17420189
>is this an incestual relationship with your feminist dad?
how did you know

Alpha cuck might be just the right term. Deep down he wants to subject to me but he probably still hasn't gotten the memo that i don't need a strong protective guy to make me feel like a delicate flower. He acts so strangely because it's just that, an ACT

Your boyfriend is a moron, plain and simple.

I have a somewhat fragile girlfriend, and unless she is visibly in distress, I tend to let her do her own thing, or wait for her to ask me for help.

Now I don't mean that I sit and watch her choke on food or anything crazy, quite the opposite, if I suspect something is wrong I can get rather... Smothering (and thats probably a character flaw she hates about me.)

But day to day? If she is doing something that is a two person job, I always pitch in (or if she already has help I ask if I can either pitch in or tag in). But if she can do something alone I let her do it herself.

I don't leave her to struggle if she needs help, but I also don't force my help on her if she doesn't need or want it. Same with letting her choose movies - I can handle pretty much anything, so I let her draw the line, I certainly don't draw it for her.

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>>17420200
Women aren't equal

>>17420200
I don't think it's a lack of respect for women. His parents are a bit older (both over 60) and i think his dad teached him a lot of bullcrap. For example, i know that he used to tell him that "he's the man in the house now and should take care of his mom" when dad wasn't home. I mean, wtf...

Makes an effort to do what? Treat me as an equal? Yes. But he forgets again pretty instantly

>>17420209
Yeah, that's what i need more of. Problem is that we are pretty much clashing in that department. My parents raised me and my sister to be able to dp a lot of stuff on our own. We're pretty independent. I'm not used to someone trying to treat me like suger and spice all the time. It weirds me out. But he doesn't only pitch in with stuff he thinks is a "man's job". He also insists on doing the dishes or whatever every fucking time. Obviously i tell him that we can do it together, but then he tells me another heap of crap about how i have already worked all day long (as if he hasn't and as if that made me unable to do basic chores...).

>>17420117
he's a poophead. stop talking to the mean man and don't let him touch your no-no parts.

>>17420253
But it tingles when he touches my no-no parts... And he even gives me candy!

>>17420262
what kind of candy?

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>>17420262
OP just tell him what you're telling us

Show him the fucking thread even

Hey OP's bf, let her ride your dick or something

>>17420304
you can do way better. I know a guy who gives out full sized candy bars

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>>17420305
i HAVE...
I have aked him why he treats me like that and his reason was "that if i'm every angry at him i can't hold it against him that he doesn't do anything". I told him that's an insane reason.

>>17420315
I don't like chocolate. I like those grandma candies. Gives me nostalgia.

>>17420324
Do you like taffy? I like to watch taffy machines in candy stores.

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>>17420340
I like sour candy the best.
This thread sure got derailed weirdly...

>>17420353
>I like sour candy the best.
Sour candy eats away at my tongue. Especially sour skittles.

>This thread sure got derailed weirdly...
Candy is much more interesting than whatever the fuck it was originally about.

>>17420318
HAHAHAHA oh the irony is perfect

>>17420367
You aren't supposed to keep them in one place all the time... Also, you might have impotent saliva if it can harm your tongue. Or simply overdo it. Have you tried making your own candy?

Rude... That's my thread

>>17420404
It is. But he fails to see that. I guess he thinks he does the "right thing"

>>17420415
>Also, you might have impotent saliva if it can harm your tongue
Sour is acidity, your saliva is defective if its basic enough to neutralize sour candies.

>>17420420
No I was talking about the image you freak. As for your problem, guys have a tendency to play out the heroic need. Could stem from Disney movies, or from a old broken relationship. If it bothers you talk to him, and if you cant talk to him you simply have a broken relationship. Or you can do what most women did in the 1950s and take ease. From my knowledge I'm willing to bet you'll do what feels right, like most women, and that might explode if you keep it repressed like this and end in a bump in the road for your relationship.

>>17420438
it doesn't have to neutralize it completely. just soften the blow.

>>17420449
Kek.
Yeah i have choosen it because it's as ironic as the post i wrote.
Well, i have tried to talk to him about it. But not very seriously. More like "adressing it right away". I might try to explain the whole thing to him

>>17420469
Explain it and do it with emotional details so he understand the severity of the situation

>>17420196
THIS OP.

DO BOTH

>>17420827
I plan to

>>17420449
>Could stem from Disney movies, or from a old broken relationship
Or plain old biology.