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I fell in love with a single mom, but I can't love her the way I want.
She started this. She wanted to be with me and all that stuff. She wanted to have sex with me. We had. I was just flowing along all of this.
But, I told her since the very beginning that I didn't wanted to get involved with her mom side. But I didn't told her in a "I will not raise a child that's not mine!", no. In fact it would be stupid to even think that, since she's 27, me 22; we have tons of very different activities that thinking about that was just, well, again, stupid. But I just wanted to tell her that. I told her that we should stop this before it gets bigger (really loving each other), so the pain of letting go (which is kind of inevitable anyways between her and me) wouldn't hurt that much.
We kept going.
And more and more. And now I'm trapped inside deep love, really deep love to her.
So to keep this brief, I couldn't stop getting this feeling that I can't love her the way I would like, like living with her, or stuff like that. She also told me that she doesn't really want to be with anyone now that she's a mom (for 5 years already). So yeah, I don't want, she neither. But it started to affect me that I can't really keep pushing forward in this.
So I started to get paranoical and sent her lots of texts and voice messages about how wonderful she is and that, whatever happens I will never forget her.
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I was completely drunk with love.
I also need to add that we haven't seen each other for nearly 2 months, mainly because her job and son (the only free day for her is Sunday and of course it would be all her son), and also stopped replying or ignoring or replying too late my messages. So I started to feel really bad, missing her, a fucking lot. And I also started to think about the inevitable end of this. So also said a lot about "when this ends, if this ends soon" etc.
So I sent her those, but she stopped replying. And I kept, and kept, until she said something like this:
"I could make a better effort to see you if you could stop reminding me that for you this is something "brief". It doesn't matter if I tell you I love you, reality won't' change."
I told her "I'm sorry, Forgive me. But yes, reality will never change"
She said: "Then leave me alone"
I think she misinterpreted my reply. I didn't mean to say that this is actually something "brief", but the reality that we can't really be much more in love. Or maybe I was stupid and immature.
I sent her a really long text trying to say sorry and stuff. She only replied that she can't text right now because she's too busy. I said, okai, and haven't and will not text her again for some time.
So people, what happened? Was it my fault? Am I an idiot?
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Also excuse me for the terrible grammar and writing. My mind isn't working very well right now.
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>>17480083
>"I could make a better effort to see you if you could stop reminding me that for you this is something "brief"
Yeah, you assumed you were both on the same page. She may have told you at some point that she doesn't see a long term future, but clearly that changed. As evidenced in the above reply to you. She distanced herself because you told her nothing can come of your relationship. She is hurt by that. She doesn't want to waste any more time or emotion on someone who cannot be the person she needs for her and her child.
And you don't want to be that person. You want all of the benefits of a relationship and love, but not the long term commitment. You two are incompatible.
Time to grow the fuck up and figure out what you need in life. If it's casual shit, then be casual with someone. If it's a long term relationship. then get one. But this teeter-tottering between the two is retarded and has hurt two people in the process. Neither of you is better for what happened here.
Leave her alone. Let her get on with her life. You do the same and work on your head. You're playing dangerous games with people.
A kind german who can help me with my cv please?
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>>17480067
sure
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>>17480094
thank you. How do i say correctly High School diploma?
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>>17480099
repeat after me:
Hei Schkul DiplumA
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>23
>female
I want to start dating
However I don't really know how to go about it, I've never dated.
I've tried tinder and okcupid but just found people wanting to hook up. I hooked up with some of them but it turns out I'm not really into being someone's cumrag.
How do you date and find a boyfriend?
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Find someone with a similar background as your own.
You'll be much more comfortable with someone who you stand on even footing with.
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>>17480066
Ok that's how you make friends
But how do you boyfriend them?
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>>17480068
"I like you. Let's go on a date."
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Yesterday I was sorting at UPS doing a double shift. Around 6PM I set a 40 pounder or so down, it was labelled 'books' and looked dirty as all fuck- it spat out a bunch of dust as it was taken away, most of which went into my mouth when I breathed in.
Started to get sore throat almost instantly after, had congestion and stuffy nose after 3 hours, It's now been 19 hours (can't sleep) and have horrible headache and pain of throat and sinuses, worse than I remember it being as a kid.
Did I inhale anthrax or some shit? Is this normal? I don't have any allergies or anything.\
Forgive the overused maymay, not my main computer.
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could be a dust allergy, anthrax is a white powder so I doubt it was that
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>>17480061
It was darker/grey dust. Since it happened my paranoia has been higher, so...
You never know with the psychoes around.
From what I'm aware of, doesn't everyone have a dust allergy to some extent? I was tested for all possible allergies for earlier respiration problems and passed everything.
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You'd be dead or hospitalized if it was anthrax. It's just dirt irritating your throat.
On a side note, Next time you're on sunrise shift and the building goes off for break, head over to the bay doors that are on the side of the building where the sun is coming up and just look at all the dust particles floating around and realize you breath that shit in every single day.
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How do I go about filtering a certain trip on a certain advice board?
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>>17480038
by staying on r/4chan newfag
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>>17480044
thanks but if I wanted to filter, oh I dont know say for example
>!!F7T/b20Dqn8
how would I do that? Thanks in advanced, this could be the greatest advice you've ever given.
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>>17480048
sent you the fix in a pm ;)
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So my pedophile older brother is moving back home in a few days. Things were bad enough when he was a few provinces away, but now that he'll be here as a constant reminder will make things even worse.
I know it's going to be really hard on my parents and my brother isn't the type of person to make it any easier on them. He's probably going to sit around and mope, acting like the victim and expecting everyone to give him special treatment because he's such a tragic figure who did nothing wrong and yada yada yada.
In his defence, he hasn't done anything too bad. Apparently 4 years ago he joined some pedo forum, hoping to use it as some sort of support group to deal with his feelings. But he felt he had to contribute something first for the community to accept him so he wrote a fictional story and posted it.
That's considered producing child porn in Canada so he was busted for it. He plead down to just severing 3 months in jail which he could serve on the weekends and 10 years on the sex offender list, but he can be around kids if there's adult supervision. I guess he got lucky because the judge he had is rarely so lenient.
Anyways, I'm more upset at him for not hiding behind 50 different proxies than I am at him for being a pedo. Some people are just wired differently and he has enough self control to not actually touch any kids.
Still, I don't want him to forget that he fucked things up and he has to pull his shit back together. Any advice on how I can do that on top of making it easier on my parents? I don't mind being the bad guy if I have to be.
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>in Canada you can be arrested for writing fiction
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>>17479995
>But he felt he had to contribute something first for the community to accept him so he wrote a fictional story and posted it.
>That's considered producing child porn in Canada so he was busted for it.
Wow fuck you Canada.
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https://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Canadian_Criminal_Law/Offences/Child_Pornography/Definition_of_Child_Pornography
>any written material whose dominant characteristic is the description, for a sexual purpose, of sexual activity with a person under the age of eighteen years that would be an offence under this Act
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Looking for more than just friendship 2016-08-20 17:07:20 Post No.17479971
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Looking for more than just friendship
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Is it possible for a guy to befriend a girl (she is taken) for more three years while in reality he is looking for more than just friendship and is seizing the chance to ask her out when she breaks up with her bf? I am talking about the point of becoming really close friends with her. And is it possible for such a guy to stop being friends with her if she rejects him?
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>>17479971
Who are you in this story?
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It is possible, but unlikely. Only a faggot would do that though.
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>>17479984
It is gossip I have heard but I don't know if it is true
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Buying video game keys for cheap price 2016-08-20 16:53:00 Post No.17479932
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I don't know if this is the right place for this. I'd also like to point out that I barely understand what "keys" are.
Should I buy from g2a.com? I've seen people saying that an individual seller could potentially rip off a buyer by selling a used key. The user I'm buying from has a positive rating of 100% with very, very little negative feedback compared to how much work they've done.
Bizarrely, it seems that a DLC key for the game I want costs slightly more than on the Steam page. Will I be able to buy the game key from G2A, and buy the DLC from Steam with it still working? Will mods still work, if I want to use those?
Does any of it change or matter if it's a more recent game, like XCOM 2?
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Keys just allow you to add the game to Steam basically or whatever distribution platform
I used G2A to buy Doom, Tomb Raider, and MKX and had no issue just buy from the sellers with like 123400 good ratings in the UK
You can buy the DLC from Steam and it'll still work just like if you got it from steam store
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>>17479932
If you do, don't get g2a shield. When you get it for one game you actually subscribe to it and it takes money from your bank account every month. I only noticed like 5-6 months in.
They're slimeballs honestly, I'm not dealing with them again. I get games from Humble Bundles now.
>>17479948
Suck my dick trippy.
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>>17479962
>humblefag
lol kill yourself
My gums around my teeth on my right side have receded to where the beginnings of my roots are exposed it hurts to touch or brush sometimes. Can this be fixed?
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Go see a dentist right away. A lot of it can be fixed, it sounds like gingivitis , just bacteria inside your gums. They'll clean it and your gums should grow back mostly if not all.
but if you don't get it fixed your teeth will eventually fall out because you'll have no gums. Also brush and floss regularly.
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>>17479882
yes, go see a dentist immediately though
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>>17479891
I went and saw the dentist a while back when this first started happening and they haven't grown back.
So I finally worked up the nerve to ask out a girl who I've been really good friends with for about a year. She rejected me but obviously she wants to stay close friends because she told me she cares about me just not in that way. Should I just ditch her?
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>She rejected me but obviously she wants to stay close friends because she told me she cares about me just not in that way.
You can fuck her eventually if you can emotionally expose her core
You know when you do a lot of damage to a boss in Zelda their weak spot appears?
You can do that to girls too when they are emotional they will do pretty much anything if they trust you
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>>17479886
Well unfortunately she is like the least emotional person I know, she's even claimed she sees emotions as weak.
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>>17479958
shes right, you know
Consider this:
Assume you're able to quantify how well you match (as in attracted to each other because of interests, looks or else) with people in some unit, say percentages. What would be the lowest number at which you can promise to stay in a monogamous relationship with that person for the rest of your life?
Anything above 50% would be a good number, right? It's better than average (we assume attraction and repulsion are different things). But why would you settle for 50%? Surely you can do better than that. If you'd start working out, learn to socialize with people and so on and so forth, you should be able to increase that number by, say 25%.
Would 75% be enough for you? You've now managed to find a soulmate in the subjective top quarter percentile of people around the world. However, what happens if you find a 90%:er in the middle of your life? You've already committed to one person and now you have to live with the regret of being too greedy early on in life.
So tell me, anon, what is your number?
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Now, consider this:
Assume you've found a person, and decided to commit to him/her/it for the rest of your life.
Is it be possible to increase this number defining how well you match with each other? If so, by how much? Is it possible to get to 100% even while starting out at say 60%?
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Does your match number include traits which may appear to be negative but contain some value or fulfill some hidden need in your psychology? For instance, if a person is argumentative, contrarian, or holds some opinion you don't like or has some behavior that irritates you, but serves to challenge you, broaden your mindset, increase your empathy, fulfill a need for conflict or keep the relationship more dynamic and interesting?
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I'd say It's irrelevant. Since attraction is a product of how I value the traits you mentioned.
If I am _only_ attracted by looks, and the love of my life is as well, we could fight all we want and still be each others 100%:ers, since we don't care about any emotional connection at all.
The traits which appear to be negative, in fact leaves the number unchanged in this case.
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Is it cool to flirt with your friend's girl, even when he's around? She's the flirty type and often initiates. Most of the time I just reciprocate. He always looks somewhat uncomfortable but has never confronted me about it
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>>17479827
No it's not.
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>>17479834
Why? Flirting doesn't necessarily mean anything. Yeah maybe we might find each other attractive, or maybe not and we just like flirting as a joke. It's not like we're fucking
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>>17479866
Yeah but you said it makes your friend somewhat uncomfortable.
You can do whatever you want but I wouldn't do that to a friend. Ever.
how do i get softer shits, for the past 4 days i've been ripping my ass with these 7inch bricks
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Seems like you get plenty of fiber OP. Good work.
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More soluble fibre.
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>>17479814
thanks, any foods you'd specifically recommend?
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Hey guys, I've been kind of depressed lately. Ever since I was young I always wanted to do something with art for a living, like designing stuff for people or getting comissions, but I'm thinking I might need a new life goal. I'm already 28 years old, I've gone to university or anything like that to learn how to draw, so my art is always lacking in areas compared to other artists, plus I get into slumps a lot, so I'm sure I wouldnt be able to manage drawing stuff full time as a job, so what other kind of jobs are suitable for creative types? I would like to take a course or attend classes, but money is an issue for us right now.
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>>17479798
got a tumblr or fur affinity? I'm always looking for new artists to commission.
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>>17479798
>community college classes
>youtube tutorials
>internet guides
It's not that hard, anon. Most people learn solely from the latter two.
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2016-08-20 16:13:42
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>>17479806
>fur affinity
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Need a new college wardrobe
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Is H&M any good? Clothes seem affordable and seem to look good but wanna get some other opinions
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>>17479771
H&M is good for experimenting with new looks for cheap but I kinda prefer asos
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>>17479771
It's good for basics, but the quality is what you'd expect for the price. For anything that you want to last longer buy them elsewhere.
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>>17479771
>Cheap clothes
>Really cool clothing ideas
>Stuff changes pretty much every time you're there
H&M is a godsend. Their jeans don't last long though.