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Just an hero in peace. That's what I'm going to do.

>>17479372
But that's admitting defeat and giving them what they want. Would you really do that?

>>17479376
I'm giving myself what I want.

cont.

I was seriously considering paying her and her fucking huge estate (I mean it's somewhat of a ranch, but still) a visit when I roll into the Balkan states next summer with a friend of mine and do something really stupid like burning her entire house down. But it's obviously too dangerous and obvious after we sued her with no justice being perpetrated.

So instead I want to scam this dumb shitfuck of a farmer's wife and steal as much money back from her as possible and hopefully do some additional damage on the side.

Who can help me and find the right people to assist? I'm no coder unfortunately and my hacking experience is limited to infiltrating a couple of PCs with a trojan when I was younger. I need to make this work. I'm burning for revenge.

Shameless self bump. I believe in /adv/.

Aaaand again.

>>17479308
Listen to ur body u slag. You dont care about these women. It feels wrong to you and that's why your dick wont get hard, so clearly you shouldn't get with random women.

>>17479322
I don't get with random women, I only have about one new partner every two months.

>>17479308
Man I can also relate. What helped me, well in some way, is to stop watching porn and limit my masturbation.

See a doctor

>>17479292
Already have, "you're just nervous anon, it's natural". I'm not nervous for it at all, it's physically uncontrollable, I don't feel nervous at all.

>>17479288
Were you raped or assaulted

How old are you?

>>17479257
If you go to university join clubs with similar interests. If you are religious join whatever religion you adhere to's club as well. Obviously going to that religions place of worship is a plus. I'm a Christian and I found lots of friends at church and at my university clubs. Always good people and great fun. Just don't be shy go to the meetings and talk to some people. Everyone at those things what's friends who share their interests just like you do, that's why they are there, no reason to be shy or self conscious about it

>>17479268
i'm pretty young, 19

You sound really entitled.
I wonder if this is your first job. Definitely sounds like it. Just listen to what you say:

- "I feel trapped because my big boss won't let me move up"
- "I really hate stagnating and not moving forward"
- "I feel exploited because I'm part time working as a full time"
- "It's taking too long ... should taken 6 months"
- " I want out"

Firstly, know that your manager owes you NOTHING. He pays you because you work, not because you have ambition to move other places. He wants to know that he can rely on someone to do the job not someone who wants to move around. In reality, even if this is working at a Walmart, 8.5 months in any role is NOTHING. It just comes close to knowing the basics and then start performing. You haven't earned shit, you know nothing, you need to earn your stripes.

My best advice would be to talk to the manager and tell him that you have intentions on staying here for a long time and that after 1 year can you have a performance review to talk about your past performance and future aspirations.

>>17479261
Nice assuming. Third job. I know plenty enough. And you must've missed that I'm willing to learn and improve. And im allowed to be entitled because I can't let people walk all over me and get away with it

>>17479261
mostly agree with this except for one thing.

if you're working 40 hours a week, they really should be treating you as a full time employee and you should be getting all the benefits that come with that. walmart does this to people a lot and it's illegal. there's been so much publicity about it over the years, I'm almost surprised they're still doing it. almost.

not sure exactly where OP should go from here, but even if his other gripes sound a bit whiny, that one at least is legit. suggestions? part of me wants to say labour lawyer, but then walmart pretty much banks on its employees not being able to afford lawyers.

if nobody else has any better ideas, OP, I would say the next step is to start googling around and see what legal recourse you have for the part-time/full-time thing. as for the other stuff...well, that's shit jobs for you. sorry mang. I've done shit jobs too.

Going to a private school

>parents had a healthy relationship with each other
>lack of money wasn't a problem
>parents cared enough to make sure child did well in school
>plenty of friends and family available
>child participates in sports and other extracurricular activities

Having a loving family, doing well in school, making friends and having the opportunity to be a kid.

If you were missing at least one of these traits, you can't say you had a good childhood.

Please assist.

Make drugs and sell them on the deep web? Actually try looking for a job in your field?
Whore yourself out?

>>17479209
You know, I'm about to go into a Bsc in Chem next year at UQ, and will probably go on to do Chem Eng after that.
Atm I'm doing at a Dip of Lab Tech at Tafe.

Seriously, you're looking for methods of 'acquiring currency?' how much of a high functioning autist are you?

Why don't you just go and get a job working as a lab assistant / lab tech / chemist in a commerical testing laboratory like QML or S&N? I mean, that's what your degree is good for.

Also yeah, if you're looking to start up your own clandestine chemistry lab, good look with that. You're going to be synthesizing 95% of your reagents, and extracting them from plant matter / commercial products, and all your testing is going to be on a qualitative analysis.

Also, good luck finding people to sell your untested niche products too. Unless you know people who are heavy active drug users and not just your average pot smokers, you won't have any chance at networking.
HPLCs cost way in excess of 30k, the software is 2k, columns are going to be out your range, and spectros that are from this decade will be out your budget range as well - assuming you're fresh out of uni, so you'll never really know what you % yield is or its purity.

>>17479205
Abroad where? You just vaguely gestured to the entire world. Anywhere "abroad" has immigration processes you have to go through, Work visas to apply for. Visas are temporary. Very temporary. You'd have to apply for citizenship elsewhere. That's costly, time consuming and very difficult.

Your best option is to go to school somewhere abroad. Completing a degree in your chosen country will give you a leg up when it comes time to apply for citizenship.

This is all very complicated, and you haven't narrowed down the very basics.

>>17480019

Maybe like this; if I'd book it to states would a foreigner be able to get a job (like in cafe or a bar or at a construction site) for wage high enough to get by from month to month?

>>17480103
First you would have to get a work permit, which is a temporary visa. As in, a year or less. You also have no credit, so no landlord is going to lease to you. You could possibly find a room for rent from someone who is a leaseholder.

But this does not matter, because within a year, you will have to leave anyway. You will not obtain citizenship in that amount of time. It takes a lot longer than that, and there's no guarantee you would be granted citizenship. You are an immigrant with no marketable skills, no education, no children, unmarried, etc. You are not an attractive candidate for an invited citizen. The US has enough unskilled 19 year olds who work at McDonalds. There is no incentive for the government to bring you into that pile.

Can you earn a livable wage? Yes. If you have a roommate or two, and depending on where you live. NYC? No. LA? No. Seattle? No. Orlando? No. Somewhere in Kansas? Absolutely. You'd have to move to a less glamours place to be able to afford the cost of living.

But again, all of this hinges on you getting a TEMPORARY work permit visa to begin with. Which means you have no long term goal for what to do when that visa expires.

Again, be a student. Go to college in the US. You can stay there at least 4 years, and have a better shot at being granted citizenship because you were educated there.

>>17479201
Be his friend. You can't start something with him while he is like this. You will be nothing but a rebound.

>>17479206
I know him for over two years now and i think i am his friend, i don't know what else i can do.

It sounds like he needs more assurance that you'd be loyal or not a cunt, or he just isn't into you and doesn't want to ruin the friendship

>>17479171

Ask her out. There is no need unload the entirety of your feelings onto her like a dump truck. Just ask her out and go from there.

If she's interested she'll say yes. If she's not interested or its too soon just she'll say no.

Thats it.

I did that this Monday so I guess it's going good so far haha. Thanks

>>17479176
I did that this Monday so I guess it's going good so far haha. Thanks

I'm in the same exact situation except I did have an ugly girlfriend for a few years ages when I was younger. I don't really see it as a reason to commit suicide though. Fuck mom and fuck women too. I just own my failure and live my own way completely unburdened from societal norms.

buy a wife from thailand, or just simply go there as a tourist, those women are not picky

>>17479212
I feel sorry for those girls I couldn't do that to them.

>>17479151
buy some dank weed and smoke it. it will male you feel things again.

I am the same way OP. Don't over-think things. Media is full of exaggerated emotions and feelings because half of the audience is women.

Just keep moving and doing things. You don't need motivation, you need discipline.

>>17479173
Such as anxiety, existential dread, despair, and self loathing.

>>17479117
Just fuck her right in the pussy

>>17479117
That's not too weird. I (male) am excited and hyper with my bromingos but with the ladyfriend I prefer to relax. It's not that we don't have the excited type of fun that comes from going out, but often you become a different person around different people. Being relaxed and vulnerable, i.e. having your own type of fun once you've grown close and intimate, isn't "acting weird" IMO.

>>17479129
>bromingos
>ladyfriend

Pls go

>>17479082
How old are you both? Has he been to college?

>>17479084
Hes 24 and im 20. Im going to college and working. He didnt go to college but worked as a physiologist.

>>17479091
And you live together? How long have you been together? Have you told him to go get a job yet?