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>>17479067
No, you won't be judged, but he will probably be bothered. Time to not email your old teacher anymore

>>17479069
He replies at this frequency as well. I figured out that if he finds me annoying, he would stop messaging me.

Seems pretty fucking lame to tell him, why can't you talk it over with some other friends?
If it is srsly affecting your mental health or something, get some professional help.

Dip it in sprinkles

>>17479058

Why are you asking us? Ask your girlfriend, dumdum.

Make noise, talk dirty to her, show her how good it feels. Too many guys just try to take it like robots, not sexy whatsoever.
Also make sure you clean your ass well in the shower, if you don't she's blowing you in a cloud of shit smell. Also very common.

Since they aren't real I guess you must lie very convincingly.

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>>17479057

0/10

>>17479059
>>17479066
*tips fedora*

>>17479025
Nofap gives wetdreams but besides that i think it's in the head.

Personally, i have always incorporated outside stimuli to the dream but it never set the dream's course.

>>17479068
This proves nofap is pointless. No matter what you do, you still cream once for a while. Just don't exaggerate with fappping and keep it sporadic. That's the true way.

>>17479075
Nah, I did nofap for 5 months once. Not a single wet dream. Some guys just never get them.

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All I can tell you is your next girlfriend will be an improvement. As the girlfriend after will be even more of an improvement.

>>17478895

You have basically two options:

A) if its makes you so insane revenge is the only option, you have to get rid of them and make sure that she wont ever love somebody else, the downside is that you will have to live an underground life and cant return to your normal life

B) you swallow the hard pill and try to forget her asap.

Why waste your time and happiness on her? Shes gone.

She was a slut, if she wasnst she would fuck her ex.

Case closed.

No.

>>17478879
>Is it possible to have a relationship and maybe more without sex?

Possible? Yes.

But why? I'm not a horndog and I still can't imagine pursuing an asexual person. As a self-described horndog, why would you do that to yourself?

>>17478879
I can tell you from experience that it won't work. You'll grow to resent her for never wanting sex, and she'll grow to resent you for always trying.

Should I just shoot her a text in a few weeks asking how she did on the final?

fuck this shit board

chill yo tits mang

>>17478829
2 Pussies are more fun than 1

>>17478829

Sometimes people can't choose between which one they like more so they keep going back and forth

to not cheat you have to have an iron will to put concepts like family, honour, integrity, loyalty over feeling temporarily good- aka orgasm

brain over body basically

its why the overwhelming majority of cheaters are women. Cause lets face it, their gears upstairs arent exactly running at full capacity

>>17478820
To add ive been living with it for years, and as you guessed it interferes with everyday normal things like for instance its difficult to even follow along with a TV show at times. Ive had MRIs , blood tests and the like. I have this constant visual static that doctors scratch their head at. I'm instantly put on SSRI which dont help at all, and if it doesn't work they try to put me on a different medication. Therapists don't have much insight they simply get me to breathe and do grounding excersizes none of which help

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>>17478820
>>17478838

I think the cure is to get a gf and have a lot of passionate, intimate sex. Of course this is a lot easier said then done, but I can think of no other cure especially since you said you've been to doctors.

You should note that this is coming from someone who

>never had a gf
>still don't have a gf

So you can take what I said with a grain of salt since this is just pure speculation on my part.

Also kinda based my reasoning on pic related.

>>17478867
Had numerous gfs, fog was always there

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Now, college is here, and I go to this normie rave, right? And I don't know anyone. I'm like, wow, a blank slate! I can be whoever I want! So I decide to try being the initiator. Before, my popularity was handed to me. Now, I had to earn it. I say hi to tons of people, crack jokes, etc. And already people are becoming cool with me. (douchey jocks aside, they always kind of ignored me, as was the case here). So, anyways, the rave. We're partying hard and it's a lot of fun. I hit it up with tons of people in the back of the crowd, and they were cool people. We hit a beach ball around in the back of the crowd. Nice, average people, boys and girls. I decide to work my way to the front. As I approach, I see some girls. They all have a douche grinding on them (but not the fat ones, they're off to the side looking aloof) and then I notice: all these douches look the same: backwards hat, tank top, etc.... And the girls, too, all look the same! Hair let down, sleeveless shirt, flip flops. I look around and all I see are basically the same people over and over again. By this time I've reached the front, and trying to push these nonsense thoughts out of my head, I bob to the music. This douche who was grinding on a chick makes eye contact with me. I smile and continue to act chill, turning away. But he's still watching me. Bad feeling. "Oy, you!" he says. "How many girls numbahs you git tonight?" "What?" "You git any girls numbahs tonight?" "N-no...." I hang my head half jokingly. He seems to sympathize I think. "You got a Snapchat?" "No..." "Well you shud git it." Then, he goes off aways and begins to bring back some random girl! Repulsed, I quickly shuffle away. I assume he wanted me to just grind this girl or something, without even knowing who she is!

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So, here's my question: Is it even possible to normally build a relationship in college, or is it always straight to sex? Ofc I want sex, but I don't want ONLY sex! Are all normies truly the same? Also, the dorks and fat chicks on the side, are THEY also all the same? Does society truly boil down to:

-People who are ideal breeding partners.
-People who are not.

and

-People who have breeding as priority.
-People who don't.

If this is the case, how should I, personally go about living life? No relationship is not an option for me.

>>17478831
Become friends and try dating a fat girl. They are more loyal and affectionate than traditionally attractive girls 8/10 times. And if you help them lose weight nicely, you have a hot partner for life.

you can say NO

>>17478769
He just told me over text "you will be the god father"

I'm gonna have to talk to him in person and tell him no. Like there is literally no way I could bare any responsibility for a kid. Morally and everything I'm fine, but I just can't deal with kids

first off, nobody's assigning you anything. if you do it, it's because you chose to say yes. second, if he's any kind of friend, then he knows you don't like kids and he'll understand if you say no.

has he said anything about what he expects you to do as godfather? I mean really all it is, is if anything happens to both parents, you would step in and have a say in what happens to the kid. if your buddy is religious, maybe you'd have a hand in the kid's spiritual development.

but my aunt and uncle were my godparents and they didn't really do a lot except take me to church once or twice. plus I'd stay overnight there if my parents needed someone to look after me when they were out of town.

>>17478775
dude you gotta ask him for some specifics.

>>17478730
gotta specify what med op

anyone else on strattera/atomoxetine?

stimulants didn't work too great for me so I'm really hoping this will

Luckily I haven't been getting the crazy side effects that people say are possible (mostly just a little fatigue and sleep issues)

what is the first positive effect you can get?

I've heard people say it's sort of like your mind is 'quieted'?

>>17478730
I used to take meds for it. Two different pills, one in the morning, one at night.

>>17478783
was it a stimulant and intuniv/guanfacine?

regardless how'd it go for you and why'd you decide to stop?

If she were to die tomorrow, would you regret not telling her?

Definitely don't tell someone if you like them. It's better to go through life without meaningful relationships. I've never heard anyone say they were happy they talked to a cute girl. People always look back and regret it.

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>>17478724

Yeah but I've made my interest pretty clear as far as I can tell.
>got her number
>invited her out for drinks with my crew

She doesn't put any effort in so I figure she doesn't care.

only when referring to a specific Italian dish

>>17478696
I'm talking about how younger women have hijacked the word. What is the proper definition?

>>17478700
something that makes you uneasy or anxious. I use it synonymously with "scary"

>>17478696
or any Icelandic dish