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>>17478377
no, you're probly good looking, it's just that unattractive women don't feel like they have anything to lose by telling you. Kind of like how fat construction workers catcall broads.

>>17478377
>Does it make their statements lower in value because they were said by unattractive women?
I... I'm almost afraid to ask, but can you explain this shit

>>17478480
It happens to me, too, and it is jarring when you realize you are fairly attractive.

Women are much more forward these days, and pursue voraciously. However, the less desirable the woman, the more obvious, blatant, and what have you, she is; it does not devalue what is said, unless they are three sheets to the wind. Keep in mind you may just be said woman's type, or you may just be having a good day.

Tall white blonde men

Be a white guy

If you can't do that, just talk to as many asian women as you can and even if just 1% of them are interested, you win

> I could just ask my sister or Mom, but I need to know for myself!
>"mom, I want to wreck chink pussy but I can't"

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>>17478367
Haha you goober. I'd love to wreck a Chinese woman yes, but let's be real? From my family it seems like you need romance first. Most Asian girls i met don't seem to like it when I try to act alpha and sexual.

>>17478361
._.

Try anal, get back to us...

Get a bigger dick

>>17478309
You have to be born a woman b0ss. You need the real Mc'Coy.

Heroin.
A girlfriend.
Chemical castration.
Physical castration.
Heavy mood stabilizer dosages.

Basically, nothing. You can attempt to be a monk but good luck doing that and also participating in western society.

>>17478311
Do antidepressants work?

I don't mean sex, either. Just being hugged and kissed and things.

>>17478356
Can't get rid of it. Either find someone to cuddle or let the emptiness consume you and cry in bed.

>>17478289
What do you usually talk about? It helps if you have a common interest or something you're both very passionate about; that should ease some tension, get a longer conversation or even a mood going. And where did you go on your date? Try to make it more casual and find something fun. Shyness is hard to get over, but maybe you can attempt an awkward hug or try holding her hand? That could be a start.

You guys shoud talk about your shyness.

>>17478340
We went to a fairly cheap japanese restaurant/bar place. It was a casual dinner. I did talk about various stuff but they ended pretty quickly. Even on stuff we both knew plenty about, like TV shows we've seen. She did seem kind of embarrassed and avoidant when anything relatively suggestive came up, for example she would giggle and put her hand on her face, so I didn't want to make any advances.

>>17478355
Might actually be a good idea.

By having sex.

>>17478274
You ashamed you didn't cave to nigger culture and get a girl teen pregnant or catch herpes at 16?

>>17478279
should I just lie until I do?

>>17478285
I'm ashamed that I haven't been able to have sex even once.

Sorry, I can't sway the decision you're trying to make without specific context.

It really depends. I hid a lot of myself, and my chronic pain, for years. Now I realize it did massive damage and I don't give half a fuck.

>>17478252
Depends on how close I guess.

>>17478264
it was a general question.

Man the fuck up and accept it. She slipped up and if she tries to do anything to you, you can blackmail her. Was it nudes or some shit?

>>17478249
It was supposed to be flirtatious, but it wasn't a full nude. The screenshot wasn't even worth it. Problem is this girl is a close friend of a friend of mine and I'd rather not fuck that up

>>17478237
its her fault.

I hope shes over 18 though

Tell the parents. They'll deal with it if they're good parents

Show us some of her Snapchat pics so we can get the full picture here.

>>17478225
Should I send her Snapstory pictures as well? Or would that be too uncomfortable for a parent to see? Her dad is pretty strict and short-tempered, which is probably why she defies him by fucking gross adults.

>>17478226
Not gonna post them here, a lot of them have faces and such. But they are pretty obviously 'sexual', theres no reason a guy should be stroking 3 of fingers up the thigh of my 16 year old niece.

Edit: i have a girl in 1 of my classes lol

Edit 2: i dont think she is taken...
Wow i dont finish my train of thought

That sounds stupid, like something a 13 year old would be.

>>17478183

How long ago did you fuck it up? And what exactly happened?

Rest
Ice
Compression (wear an ACE bandage during the day, take it off during sleep)
Elevation (kick your feet up and relax nigga)

Won't hurt to try this for a week or two and see if it gets better

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>>17478200
last thursday it just went out on me. original injury was about a monthago but it I was having these side effects.

I do landscape construction and jumped into a small ditch and my knee kinda bounced backwards

Been doing the whole RICE routine since thursday.

I would also like to know. I tried man but I couldn't 1 or 2 days later I started fapping again, it's not easy to stop.

I found it helps if you observe yourself, recognize when you are feeling urges, and tell yourself that you won't slip up. Distract yourself from the urges, stop looking at porn.

>>17478354
What is a good distraction?

>>17478165
Ask them?

>>17478394
So explicit?

>>17478165
probably checked it in the notifications bar but didn't open the message and either doesn't want to or can't reply

You borrowed 50 and spent 85? Or borrowed 50 and paid back 85?

>>17478099
Borrowed $50. Was giving back $85. Basically a free $35. Then spent the $85 on the wrong account (theirs).

>>17478099
In other words yes I was paying back with $85.

>>17478091
Are you the one who wanted to get tough by going to jail or the one who believes their grandparents had a hard life that made them tough.

>>17478127
No I mean real tough not grandparent tough. Maybe like ancient era tough

>>17478091
What does tough mean to you?