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im struggling to break up with a shitty boyfriend. we have been together on/off for about 5 years. i think he is emotionally abusive but i'm not sure. please help me figure it out. worse stuff has occurred in the past but i'm trying to focus on the present
>>doesn't contribute to rent as he doesn't have a job and refusese to get one in the city we live in
>>makes fun of my political views
>>when i ask for help (rare), he makes it very difficult for me and either says no or expresses how much he doesn't want to when he says yes
>>makes fun of my abilities/talents, and tells me i'm being bitchy/annoying when i get mad about him making fun
>>pretty much any time my feelings are hurt about something he's said, he replies with "are you going to act like this all day?" and makes me feel guilty for being upset
>>criticizes me frequently, even for miniscule things like talking too loud or stomping
>>denies that his actions/words were meant to be malicious, says he is "just joking" or that I misunderstood what he was saying
I guess I know that most of these things are manipulative. but I still feel doubtful about whether or not it adds up to something worth breaking up over...
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Sounds like an immature douche
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>>17482856
>i think he is emotionally abusive but i'm not sure.
You're not sure because he's a manipulative asshole and he wants you to doubt yourself. Dump the fucker.
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>>17482887
i guess the probelm is...how.
i live with him, and any time i say i want to break up he lays on the charm and sweetness, making me think that things were never that bad, and no matter how strong i try to be i inevitably give in. and then afterwards he blames me for the whole ordeal and makes jokes about how terrible that night was because of me. i just don't know what to do. i don't havve any friends near me who know about his situation or who are close enough for me to talk to about this with. his name isn't on the lease but he's been here since i've been here. my choices are either to leave my own apartment or to find some way to win against his games...neither is easy..
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My life is a mess.
I'm 25, married with a kid, and completely lost on where to go from here. I lost my job 5 months ago and my employment insurance is gone. We are locked into a lease we can't break, her maternity benefits have barely kept us covered but they won't be able to cover our rent anymore. Come the end of September, I will no longer be able to afford my apartment and will most likely be evicted. Our credit cards are near maxed and we can't even afford our minimum payments.
I've been frantically searching every day for a job, applying hours a day, visiting job fairs, driving to businesses asking if they're hiring. I can't find anything, not even McDonalds will hire me. I'm afraid that if things keep going the way they are my family and I will end up homeless. I don't want to let my wife and kid down and not be able to provide even the most basic of human needs for them. What can I do to change this? How can I keep positive after so much rejection and being passed over for every job I've tried for? I just want to work and provide for my family, a spoke on the wheel of society.
I want to do something, anything that will change my situation for the better, but I don't know what else to do. How do I even begin to turn this around?
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Have you tried talking to your landlord and explaining your situation to see if you can get out of the lease sooner?
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murder/suicide
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Joining the military?
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Is my bf autistic or introverted? 2016-08-21 09:45:13 Post No.17482709
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Is my bf autistic or introverted?
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He's always been mellow, but only has one friend which he sees once every 2-3 weeks. Everyone else he interacts with are work acquaintances.
He doesn't even own a television, computer, or radio and most days he's just silent.
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>>17482709
Probably neither. He may just be one of those people content in his own company. An autistic person would be unable to deal with others, and an introverted one would be afraid to. He sounds able to function around others but just not as needy as some.
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>>17482709
So what does he do when he is not at work?
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>>17482709
Does he have hobbies? Is he comfortable around others? Does he have obsessive interests? He could either have the tism or just be a quiet person with no interest in mass media and social interaction
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Should i meditate?
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>>17482700
Why shouldn't you at least try it out? You're obviously curious.
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>>17482700
Why don't you just think about it for a while?
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>>17482713
But how can i meditate?
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I have a huge inferiority complex. I impulsively create lies about everything to meet the standards of people asking me about certain social, intellectual, or economic prospects. I just revealed this information to some friends of mine and they were all immediately like "Yeah, we know." I've never felt so displaced in my life. I want to kill myself knowing that they have this knowledge.
Every single person in my life has a different story of my exploits, and I keep track of all them.
I just want to disappear and start again with new people that I can manipulate.
I do also tend to believe that I am inherently better, or more important than those around me. However, this is a deep, deep down sort of feeling that I don't usually vocalize or act on. I sort of don't have too because it's almost like I have nothing to prove, I already know I'm more intelligent than my peers.
Can anyone name this blend of superiority and inferiority complexes? The superiority bit is an extremely minor factor. I usually feel like I am worse than people.
Instead of learning to cope with my problem, what if I moved to an entirely new location and started telling the truth from then on with everyone I met, everything about my past and current self would be the truth. I wouldn't even lie about my inferiority complex. Would this fix me? Would this even be possible? Or would I impulsively alter my self image when I got there and continue to brood in my spare time on how to protect it.
The only options right now seem like suicide or a new start somewhere.
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Try imposter syndrome.
Also, every lie you tell adds to the upkeep.
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>>17482668
Sorry senpai, but it sounds more like sociopathy than inferiority complex
Seek a psychological help
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>>17482668
>I just revealed this information to some friends of mine and they were all immediately like "Yeah, we know."
That's it? Nothing else? I mean, either they're good friends and they knew, but they'll be sort of relieved that you admitted your problem to them, or they're not really your friends and the "Yeah, we know" is more like "Yeah, we know but we don't give a shit because we're not that good friends anyway".
So, what kind of friends are they? It makes a difference if you're contemplating moving away.
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They're all laughing at you, anon. What have you ever finished in your life? Did you ever get that degree you wanted to, ever get a good raise at work, ever make a lot of money so you could live a good life, and have a girlfriend? What the fuck are you doing with your life? You're well into your 20s, and you think like you're 15. How much longer can you stretch our that adolescent mindset? Look at your peers, the ones in your age group. They have their own families they've made, money, hobbies, and a love to hold at night. What are you even contributing to the few people you know? What the fuck do they get out of knowing you? You're such a lazy, self righteous asshole.
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>>17482645
Yes, I have done all those things, and now I laugh at them.
"Living well is the best revenge"
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>>17482645
Nice try but I'm pretty satisfied with my life.
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>>17482645
Am I supposed to be bothered by this?
>be 19
>be in smokers box
>about to leave
>qt3.14 stops me
>asks me what I'm doing later
>nothing really
>go up to her dorm
>her roomie comes back
>go to my dorm
>make out and shit
>do this a couple times
>fifth or sixth time with her
>shes straddling me
>grinding
>asks me if virgin
>yeah
>surprised by this
>get hand job
>talks about getting tested to make sure she's clean
>she's cleans
>think I'm finally gonna have sex
>nope
>only see her maybe 3 more times that semester
>saw her the other day
>smoked some weed
>made out and shit
>talking with her and her roommate because we're all friends
>she says about how she wants a boyfriend who is like this and this
So we're obviously not in a relationship but do relationship stuff. Anyone been in this situation before and have some advice on what to do ?
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Talk and be honest with her, if you want a relationship say so
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>>17482628
Just ask her to fuck you for shits sake.
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>>17482734
This. Do not wait on women to make the first move.
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Anyone have any experience with this?
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>>17482611
You and I know you already asked this in another thread you made.
Go to sleep dummy.
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>>17482611
This is true - Me, from my own experience.
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>>17482618
Im looking for stories to know I'm not alone, maybe success stories.
PS: can't sleep
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Would taking benzos with/or alcohol and 'accidentally' falling into a lake/river lead to a relatively painless/less painful suicide?
Also, would it look like an accident? I really want to spare everyone the shame
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Autopsy...
I got in an accident on benzos, still because I was on benzos and not an accident at all.
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>>17482596
then maybe getting drunk on alcohol?
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>>17482596
Technically it would look like an accident. Everyone would think OP got too fucked up and fell over into a river and drowned. So while it could have been prevented if he hadn't been too fucked up, he still accidentally fell in and died. Plus, he's dead. Who cares what they find in his system?
I'm ultra untech savvy. How do I prevent people from seeing sites I visited on a home router? Is there any way to clear website traffic history from it?
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Your talking router traffic, nobody in your household could see that. Unless they had a spoofing software that scanned your wifi, 24/7, which I doubt.
There is no traffic history unless you go to your ISP and ask them to delete it. The most you can do at home is clear your history on your internet browser.
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Depending on where u live it's illegal to see search history. Only ur isp has that info and can't pull it unless needed
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>>17482543
What did u look up that ur so spooked about ;)
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Mom and her boyfriend does cocaine. 2016-08-21 08:26:26 Post No.17482473
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Mom and her boyfriend does cocaine.
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I'm the only one who knows this. I feel if I tell someone it will screw up my life and my brothers. Who do I tell and how do I go about it?
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>>17482473
It's "mom and her boyfriend do cocaine", not "mom and her boyfriend does cocaine".
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>>17482489
True. It's late and I've been think about this for the past few hours
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Express how you feel to your mommy. Hopefully they hide it from you, you sound young and this is fucked up.
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Ok so there's this girl I went on a date with two years ago on Christmas eve, we hooked up, I made a new facebook and she told me to get ahold of her again after I graduated since I had to go back to school and we couldnt keep it going forward, I made a new facebook since then and have never added her because I wanted to graduate first, do I add her on facebook, or do I swipe her thing on tender that just popped up that says I like her, what do you think??? Sorry it sounds really, really corny but i do like this girl a lot and can see myself getting married to her.
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>>17482451
You talk like you're 16
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>>17482466
Who cares man? I'm looking for genuine advice while speaking from the soul? Do you want me to say shit fuck piss dog drugs violence derp to get a simple solid question across? You pass judgement quicker than the average moron on the internet.
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Why not both at the same time?? That would probably be the best course of action.
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/adv/, is there a go to place for advice on how to make a girl orgasm during sex?
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Yes. Her.
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>>17482417
I don't have a her at the moment
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>>17482396
You might want to try this really obscure reference source. It's called something like Google.
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My wife doesnt want to have sex with me.
Been two months since I have touched her but now I wqnt to cum in her pussy and she's mad because she thinks I'm drunk (I'm not?).
I sent her a message about how I had her warm milk ready so she could sleep tight (I'm naked) and she just went down and said I'm an asshole, I fingered her and kissed her but she didnd't let me put my dick in her pussy and went upstairs all mad.
What do?
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Divorce.
Find someone younger and more attractive to fuck with and that cares enough for you to not cheat on you (that your wife is obviously doing)
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>>17482285
start hiding your assets and file for divorce
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>>17482285
Put your house, money and car in a friend's name. Wait a year or so, get a divorce, say that you gambled it all away.
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How do you approach a grumpy looking guy?
He's really cute and mysterious, but intimidating as hell. So far our entire rapport is comprised of "here's your pen" and "thanks" one month ago.
And when he does speak it's always some really wordy smart stuff that leaves the prof in awe. Or to BTFO somebody with sarcasm.
I wanna get him before a more confident girl does.
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Just tell him you wanna suck his dick.
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>>17482227
Best thing to do is just be honest with him, show some interest in him and he will pick it up, make the first move, exchange numbers,
talk after class, laugh at his jokes and make jokes as well, the usual normie stuff works.
If he rejects you I doubt it will be overly brutal grumpy smart dudes are usually quite sensitive and nice on the inside. Just go for it really.
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>>17482227
ask for his opinions
ask about what he likes to do in his free time
etc