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Magnums for me.

>>17468990
my dick is a little bigger than yours and I don't have problems with the crowns. Why not just buy a dozen and see how you like them. Worst case you are out, what? $10?

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>using condoms

If you were using a VPN and this website is only designated to talk to people around the area, you should be fine. She thinks your local, this shit isn't gonna be like a "Top 10 FBI Most Wanted List"

>>17469009
Yeah and Im not even from that country Im thinking that she was teying to scam me..

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>>17468949


that's Baddood

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I'd say don't go down the path of destruction. You're worth more than that don't destroy yourself because of this moment in your life the future can and is going to be better. I had depression as well and after some antidepressants and exercise my outlook changed. The world is fucking brutal and sometimes the people you love are the ones that kick you when you're down but the journey to clarity is happiness is worth it. The sooner that's realized the sooner you can move on. If time is what you have go back to school and do something that interests you. Hope you get better, no one deserves to go what you're going through.

>Nothing is wrong with me
>I don't care enough to work on my talents, either
>I guess I'll adopt this "depressed" personality
I wish this meme would end.

>>17468895
I'm in the same place as you, except I finally made it to a psychiatrist after 2+ years of avoiding help. Turns out I have Bipolar II, will be starting mood stabilizers soon. See if you can find a psych, it may not just be depression.

Utterly retarded. And I mean farting in the bath tub clapping like a seal retarded. You don't break up with your ex, get back with her and then fuck her you stupid dipshit. Now your emotions are jumbled up because you are confused.

Listen up, you don't love this girl. You broke up with her for a reason and deep down you know you can do better. You probably feel guilty because of her problems and want to be crutch while she copes with the problems with life. THAT ISN"T THE RIGHT WAY TO LIVE. Live to happy for yourself and not make someone else's life less shitty. You only have one shot at youth, so don't waste it in this shitty relationship not going anywhere.

Break up with her first thing in the morning via phone call, delete her number and block her on any social media accounts. Move on with your life and let her have two weeks to cope before she heads off to college.

>>17468809
This.

Post-breakup feelings like this are very, very common. Especially if you have sex after.

I know it will be hard but the best thing for you to do is cut off all contact with her for at least 6 months. That means block her on facebook, delete her number, ZERO contact. You need this to gain some perspective. At the end of that 6 months if you still love her then you can hit her up. More likely you will be enjoying the freedom of single life far too much.

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>>17468809
>>17468842
Thanks you guys. I finally realized how fucking dumb I am. I did one better and broke it off like 30 minutes ago. I'm going to feel like shit for a while, but I know I'll get better.

I know her first name, I know her mother's name and I can get her mother's phone number

I know you can get a full name by using a phone number and the internet, seen it on catfish a bunch or times. Just try typing the phone number in the Google search bar and see what comes out.

>>17468298
Phone or text her mother. "Hi. I'm Bob, Gloria's son. I heard you were in town and was sorry to miss you. Please give your daughter my number if she'd like to catch up with what's new in our lives since we were kids."

This might be a stupid question, but do you clean out your ears regularly? I had similar problems to you and the reason was that years if waxy buildup were literally pressing against my auditory nerves.

Get your GP, an EMT specialist, or am audiologist to clean out your ears if you suspect that's the problem. After that, pure some clean water into your ears every other day and let it sit there for about ten seconds each.

>>17483363
I think that when it comes to this type of bullshit u need to tread litely
If it were going to 'heal naturally', i would suspect it to heal over a period of a week
keep saving ur hearing points until u get to a point of not having any
Get That Shit Checked-Out My Nigga

>>17483376
Seconding this.

>>17483285
If you're in the US, which state do you live in? Most states have no consequences for her just getting out of there. I had an experience a bit like yours when I was that age.

>>17483296
We live in the state of Ohio. I looked some stuff up and it's honestly confusing me.

>>17483299
It's not a crime to run away from home in Ohio. Afaik, police would not have the jurisdiction to bring her from her brother's back to her mother's, although it seems that local police departments don't always abide by this and can do things differently case by case, and in Ohio they certainly cannot detain her.

Additionally, if you have evidence of the abuse and know someone of this category who you sufficiently trust, there are people who are mandated reporters to CPS, being teachers, school workers, health professionals, and so on. Going this route is more complicated, but in my case I think it helped with the police situation.

Anything else I can help you with? I know this is a lot to go through, especially if it's the first time you've confronted the issue of abuse or a neglect.

Gather bones of chickens and dry them in the sun for a few days. Then when you are ready to do this hex make sure you are worked up into a frenzy of anger and hatred. This will add to the potency of your hex! Be thinking of all this while doing this hex and when it says "With these bones I now do crush," take a hammer or use your feet to stomp and crush these bones as if they were your enemy before you! When you are done sweep, them up and place them in a bag. You will then want to sprinkle the dust and remains of the bones on your enemy's property around his house.

If you have a bell ring it 3 times and say...

I call upon the Ancient Ones from the great abyss to do my bidding I invoke Cuthalu, God of Anger and the creatures of the underworld hear me now... Bones of anger, bones to dust full of fury, revenge is just I scatter these bones, these bones of rage take thine enemy, bring him pain I see thine enemy before me now I bind him, crush him, bring him down With these bones I now do crush Make thine enemy turn to dust torment, fire, out of control With this hex I curse your soul

So mote it be!

>>17483284
Go back to /aspergers/ faggot

>>17483205
Your bf is damaged goods


Bail. Bail the fuck out.

>>17483231
Is he going to have a heart attack?

>>17483239
you are asking the wrong questions OP. Can't help you. You know he's using again so you prop his ass up again or you take your life back and leave

I was a workaholic for a long time. Spent 4 years with a company, never took a vacation, didn't take my breaks, worked as much overtime as possible, etc.

Work was my whole life, until I got fired for some silly stuff. Now I'm in my late twenties and starting over at an entry-level job, and have forsaken most of the relationships in my life for a conpany that let me go like nothing anyway.

My advice would be to never forget that you work to pay bills, and that you life is what you do in your free time.

In the matter of fact major part of 4chan users are NEETs or borderline studying NEETs. Because of that I fear you will find little advice from actual experience (there are some very hard working people here, or so they say, they just seem to be in minority). Most NEETs not only waste they best years, they don't even earn money nor work on their careers. They just wallow in the depression and self hatred, so you are atleast better than them.

But back to you, I would say that you are very responsible individual but there is certainly something a bit screwed with the way you feel about things. Am I correct in assuming that you feel akward and not very good if you have actual time to relax? It would be sign of workaholism. As that I would say that it is to be dealt with. You should strive to work for goals and causes, not just becose some inner-programming-instinct tell you so.

Do you work on your career? Are you constantly moving upwards? If yes, that's great. if you don't actually work on your career, you might end in very bad situation, in which your friends would end better than you in the end thanks to bullshit education and connections.

Will come later, gonna go now.

you guys are like your own species

>>17483087
the first question is what views does she hold?

>>17483087
Just do it manually. Look through her twitter and FB and delete anything that's even remotely questionable.

You think there's some magic program that can detect a controversial statement and then delete it? No.

>>17483087
Manually, delete everything,

>>17482953
You are a cuck. Why are you even talking to her

>>17482959
True, she messaged me because she needs to give my shirts and shit back but im out of town, I told her she can just do it but she wants to do it while I'm there, which angers me cause seeing her agains just gonna suck

>>17482953
Don't show any emotion. It's the only way.

Your either having enough sex or you're not. There isn't really any ifs ands or buts when you're this early on into a relationship

If you genuinely feel this isn't enough, then that's that's.

If you've already talked to her about it and all she can say is you need to learn to deal, you actually don't.

What you actually DO need to understand is that having matching sex drives and having sexual parity is as important as any other aspect of comparability in an adult relationship.

She's not in the wrong for having a lower drive, nor are you in the right, the breaks are the breaks and if it's something that you find dissatisfying and something where you both can't enjoy it, the the unfortunate truth is you're just mismatched and thats never going to get better--in fact it has the potential to get worse.

That being said, you're young and this is a young relationship. Part of the luxury of being young is you're free to take this as casually and as UNserious as you want, so don't sweat it too much and enjoy things to the out you think you can, and don't feel like you have to chai yourself to something you don't really enjoy.

>>17482989
Well I was afraid of such an answer but I also considered it. The thing is that I'm just not entirely conviced of this.
Besides this problem I really love this relationship and seek a much longer relationship with her, so does she as she makes it sound pretty often.

Also I can't really say I don't enjoy it. Yes, there is this topic and as I made it clear it does bother me but it mostly feels like I am triggering it myself. To be honest I would say I am rather clingy and jealous and having her tell me about her exes and the amount of sex she had was what made this problem come up to begin with. I really couldn't restrain myself from asking this stuff and once I got there it went further and further.

This whole problem is popping up when we somehow get to talk about her past. I am very bad with dealing with this whole "with other guys I was able to have more sex than with you"-idea. I don't know what to think about it. Is it something that happens? Should I just keep enjoying the sex which I do really enjoy and try not to think about this idea?

This just leaves me so confused. I was scared but simultaneously was hoping for some "I just don't enjoy sex with you as much as with them"-answer. That would've given me some piece and I could work on it but she tells me it's not the case.

>>17482936
you are her fourth bf she has been fucking so I don't think you have much longer together and will not need to worry about it

Stop being a fucking creeper?

>>17482932
>Obviously knowing myself, i most likely won't stop
say goodbye to your relationship

>>17482902
Stop posting this fucking thread you autistic cunt

>>17482916
Just ignore it if it bothers you so much, kiddo.

>>17482922
I can't ignore it.
It's crawling in my skin.
These wounds they will not heal.