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Hey guys, am I ugly? Just curious, some people say no, some people say yes, I am truly just curious.
Also just got the sides cut today, should I keep this frohawk? Or should I get some cornrows?
Tomorrow I was planning om getting them but if I look good with what I have now, or would look bad with the rows then i'll just keep this.
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>>17478090
You're far from ugly. You do need to take better, clearer photos of yourself, and the hairstyle has got me a bit like ??? but whatever. Get cornrows if you want to, I don't think they'd suit you.
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>>17478105
Is this picture better?
Is it that my head is thin and the hair is kinda like to long? Making me look like a pencil or some shit lol, that is what a few people have said.
What do you think they would suit me?
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Big lips, go gay. That's all you've got going for you.
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Genuinely curious/worried 2016-08-20 01:40:29 Post No.17478080
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Genuinely curious/worried
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Ever since I've been sick with the flu and I got over it - I've found meat gross? Like genuinely gut wrenching, the fuck happened? I miss my bacon and shit.
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>>17478080
The smell maybe?
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>>17478082
No, once it reaches my stomach I feel sick as fuck for whatever reason. (Sorry if this multiposts keeps saying I have connection issues)
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MDfag here, I've heard of viruses that somehow makes you intolerant to animal products. Do you actually get the shits when you eat bacon or is it more of a psychological thing?
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How to send off a signal that you aren't very social and don't want others to approach you if all they want is to chitchat/empty talk?
Also, how to do so without appearing awkward?
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>>17478078
honestly, what do you do in your free time that is so important that you can't invest a couple of minutes getting to know other people?
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>>17478078
Just reading this makes me want to die. Fuck off you loser and be social.
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>>17478078
>empty talk
Define this, because 'empty talk' is gonna exist with you your whole life.
I know sometimes the same old "Hey how are ya, hows the weather, i did this yesterday, cool Im gonna do this now" is boring and stale, but atleast you can take solace in the fact that somebody is even interested in gabbing with you at all.
Sometimes its nice to pretend to be nice to eachother. Makes all the shit going on around you or in your life seem not as bad. I dont care if thwy have to fake it, just chatting with random people is nice. Whether it be a Bus Driver/Shopkeeper/Hobo/
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>Chronic diarrhea for 2.5 years (currently 26)
>no money/insurance for doctor visits to figure out issue
>starting to get my life together and this issue leaves me constantly tired (imagine peeing out your butt 4+ a day)
>looking for a diet or strategy to pinpoint issue (assuming it's a food allergy never cared much to find out just accepted the problem)
>looked into whole 30 and fodmap elimination diet
Any experience/suggestions with these diets/food allergies or general advice?
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>diarrhea for years
Bro you need to see a doctor. Could be as serious as chrons or cancer or some shit. You can't hop on Medicaid or something?
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>>17478028
You could have chronic C. Diff. Get to a fucking doctor.
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>>17478028
you're fucked, most probably cancer (seen this before)
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Hai 4chan. I have no friends so I need to talk to someone pls I am desperate. How do you know when to end a relationship? I met them on 4chan
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You're in luck! Internet relationships are the easiest to end. Simply, in the words of the wise Tyler, "Walk away".
storefronts.
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completely dependent on the situation, so you're gonna have to spill the beans.
In general, when the relationship is a net negative—that is, there are fewer "pros" than "cons" to being with this person
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>>17477913
I know how to end a relationship, I just dont know if I should. Look mate basically I know that if I end this there is no turning back. That part is really fucking scary to me. On the other hand, I know I am unhappy right now.
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Okay /adv/ ,so I have been having this problem for years and I've never fully understood what exactly it was since no one else seems to have it. Anyway it might be the result of an overactive mind but I'm constantly talking to myself, or we'll better off, my conscious. But it's not like schizophrenia where you here the voices, no its like my brain is making up these thoughts so I can respond to them. And it seems like I'm speaking to different thoughts. The thing is I don't hate them either. Sure some of them bother the shit out of me sometimes because they come up with bad and negative thoughts when I'm stressed out, but overall they keep me company and can be quite inspiring. It's like my brain is trying to create separate personalities that I can relate to, and that can help me. I'm always in full control of my body, and there are times when my mind is clear. And sometimes when they respond, I speak out the thoughts they had, but I feel like I'm doing that to gain more clarity. Sometimes I have to speak physically to them and other times I can just talk to them with my mind. I don't talk to others about it and I've never read or heard about it either. Is there any anons out there like this or know what this is? I know it's not normal, but I want to understand.
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Dissociative identity disorder? I'm not a shrink tho so YMMV
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Sorry, I can't help you.
But kago shintaro makes some crazy shit.
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Holy shit. You gave me the chills just now op I do the same thing. I'm scared to talk to anyone about it because they wil think I'm fucking crazy. The other voice or voices there are 2 of them.... hard to explain but one is me but the right me or good I should say. The other is the bad guy not nice truthful and shows me tells me things I dont want to know about. Its crazy because he has a name... if im talking to someone he will start to talk to me I have full control of my body its not like he tells me to kill. Just tells me what to say or shows me when I call for him... weird right? Well a few months ago I told him I didn't need him and boom it stopped however just a few days ago I needed help non of my friends were here for me but him. So I called him and he came back wierd again because he was mocking me saying how I didn't need him. I would say I created him with hate after all shit hit the fan, mom passed gf left me life sucked and I needed someone.
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what do I need to be a virtuous man?
does defending the law and not having any vices qualify?
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Let us begin, what do think virtuous is?
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>>17477902
I think of a virtuous man as one who deserves praise by people due to being a good example in everything he does
might have traits of a gentleman, but unlike a gentleman a virtuous man does not need to excel in manners or being excellently polite.
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>>17477917
Then what he does define him. However, I think you'd be incorrect in assuming that because his actions are just and virtuous, he would receive proper accommodations from the populist.
Isn't wanting praise in reward for action, virtuous?
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I had sex for the first time in 3 years last night. I have been abstinent because I have very bad anxiety about pregnancy.
Last night I used
>Spermicidal film inserted into vagina
>Condom with spermicidal lube
>Pull out
I did the math, and I think the girl I hooked up with may have been ovulating. Is this a pretty solid line of defense here? What's the best method of contraceptives?
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this is phobia level, no longer rational
>double spermicide
>pulled out
>is she pregnant?
cmon dude. i'm jealous you can cum with all that going on, and I can't.
but seriously though, don't kill yourself with anxiety. maybe talk through the root of the fear with a therapist or something.
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>>17477839
Dude. You're fucking fine. Above and beyond, A+ with 20 points extra credit.
Tho imagine if she had been on hormonal birthcontrol WHILE all the above. Then you'd be like S rank. Imagine the bragging rights.
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>>17477847
Well my anxiety is that I am having sex with women I don't want a child with. I'm also terrified of women getting pregnant and taking like $1,000 from me per month in child support, all because I wanted some physical pleasure.
I also do not want to bring a human into this world when I am not prepared to create an environment for success for that person. I would be doing a disservice to my child.
Almost every single one of my friends have gotten their girlfriends pregnant, and it's a fucking trainwreck. It's not fair to the children.
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Lonely faggot in a bad place 2016-08-20 00:02:15 Post No.17477824
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Lonely faggot in a bad place
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TL;DR version on the bottom. I'm a gay dude in southern Europe who is incredibly lonely but afraid of contact. I fear of getting outed because the place where I live isn't really gay-friendly. I fear someone is going to find my profile on grindr/tindr/whatevr and go
>haha check anon out he's a fag holy shit
and I feel like it's going to spread like wildfire since being gay is a taboo here and not many people are really out, not that I know of. I'm also afraid someone I meet is going to fuck me over and share my private information or I don't know, I'm so full of doubts and fears. I've been in two LDR relationships but in no real ones so I'm not even sure what to expect and how to do this, I don't know what a real relationship entails and how it's going to affect me and my life. Also, I'm not really socially educated so I'm scared of sounding creepy or autismal in the description and getting made fun of if someone were to find out. Is online dating the best way to find a dream bf in shitty places like these, or is there something better? I asked my friends who know I'm a fag and they know nobody who also is.
TL;DR
>gay and lonely in southern europe
>afraid of being outed (+raped/beaten) and/or made fun of
>only been in LRD's hence afraid of how real relationships will affect my life
>afraid of getting fucked over by someone crazy
>but want a bf
Can someone just tell me it's going to be okay or at least share some stories from similar situations? I want to make it stop. Thank you.
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uhhh leave
>tell me it's going to be okay
lots of closeted people get by, but the nagging feeling of denying and being worried about who they are becoming public never improves
go where you are accepted
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You're afraid of getting stomped because of who you are?
Get in shape and hit them MMA gyms.
And lie. At the least you'll get to the point where you'll be able to defend yourself and your gay lover. Just don't pop a boner wrestling lol
also billboards
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>>17477875
he should go somewhere that being gay is okay
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So I just came down with some type of cold (slight fever, aches, runny nose, mildly sore throat) and I couldn't help but notice that there was also some mucus in my stool. It's not a ton, and there's no blood, but it is definitely noticeable. Is this something I should be worried about, or is it just due to whatever bug I've got?
I looked it up and the first google results are showing serious conditions like colon cancer or crohn's disease but mind you I don't have diarrhea or dark and bloody stool, and there is no real abdominal pain or other symptoms.
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Mucus means you're eating too much fat. It is not related. You're just sick with the cold and a fatty.
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>>17477737
It can be indicative of underlying causes, but only if they are accopianyed by other symptoms.
If you only have mucus in your stool and nothing else, then stop being a hypochondriac and move on with your life.
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For a while now I've been feeling very guilty about the kind of porn I watch.
I've watched Interracial porn in the past and never saw anything wrong with it until I learnt about cuckolding. Now whenever I see even a suggestion for IR porn I feel insecure and dirty if I watch it. Its genuinely hurt my perception of the world even though I know that porn is the furthest thing from real life.
Obviously the white guys also have 12inch dicks that are larger than mine but for some reason its the IR that gets to me.
Its gotten to the point where I began fapping to cuckold image captions, the subject matter really turned me on and I've been trying to fight it sense that moment.
I know if I don't stop I'll end up rewiring my brain to only fined stimulation in cuckolding and IR. I think I'm getting better as long as I don't fall back into cuckolding.
>Thoughts and opinions welcome.
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>>17477722
We all have our fetishes man.
Does pic related have a video?
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It's naughty because you're subconsciously racist, or at least grew up in a racist context
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Stop watching porn for a while. Simple fix.
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Is it ok to have low standards? 2016-08-19 23:10:41 Post No.17477700
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Is it ok to have low standards?
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>Was a "loser" in high school, so I learned not to give a shit about what people think but also as a result have low standards
>Wasn't very attractive either
>Fast-forward to now, I'm much more attractive and get much more attention from women (sometimes even unsolicited)
>I've banged 8's before, but I'm ok with settling on 4's since I honestly don't give a shit if anyone finds out
>I don't even look at "conventionally attractive" women most of the time and just go for average and below average women
>I'd much prefer a below average/chubby girl than a "hot" girl because I know I won't have to work that hard and she'll probably be drooling all over me
Physically I'm attractive, but my mind is still in "high school mode" where I feel like I'm still the ugly little kid I was. Is this healthy? Or is there something I'm missing?
Pic unrelated, just my dream girl.
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It seems like you might be rationalizing your decisions, coming up with reasons for your actions that may or may not be true.
If I'm to relate to you in this situation, I can say that these "4's" are generally much nicer people, because they have to be. Many people fucking suffer the "8's" because they simply cannot or will not settle for "4's". This is a generalization, but it does hold true in many ways.
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>>17477706
and when I say nice, I mean considerate and humble
they might not be cheery or dishing out compliments, but I mean they have more human decency, because who is going to tolerate a 4 without human decency? people will tolerate an 8 without any.
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>>17477700
Having a bad self image is always bad.
Having lower standards is not a problem so long as you're fine with it; if you find a 4 attractive then go for it.
Your self-image is, however, extremely important to your life as having a poor one can lend you to unnecessarily limiting yourself.
You accept that you are attractive which is a good step towards changing how you view yourself for the better, keep reassuring yourself that you are attractive and desirable.
Remember, improving the standard by which you view yourself doesn't mean you have to raise the standard you have for others, many people just do.
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chan culture becoming too much 2016-08-19 23:06:47 Post No.17477689
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i can't handle it anymore
the way we treat each other(especially on 4chan) and it's all so incompassionate
also hentaii
always feel bad about that
guro
the memes
traps
random people who turn out to be multi billion dollar brokers posting on fucking r9k out of all
it's getting too much i'm losing sanity
the world is insane
i once though it was alright and structured
i'm thinking about suicide
what's wrong and what can i do
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>>>/reddit/
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>>17477695
i can't leave i've been here for so many years and i want to be around those people like you
but it's somehow killing me
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Are you sure this site is driving you crazy and not something else in your life? When you have so much shit not sorted out in your mind, it's easy to get the problems and causes mixed up. Just take everything with the grain of salt that's posted here. Also, I don't really see the "incompassion" here. Some anon calls other anon a faggot, big whoop.
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ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender 2016-08-19 23:01:38 Post No.17477673
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ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off.
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For men, have you ever been attracted to a woman who isn't "attractive"?
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Women, would you "settle" for a man with an above average dick if you had seen a "third leg?" Additionally, if you kissed a lot of guys in college do you think it's likely that you would calm down considerably after. Thanks.
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>>17477694
Yes. Conventional looks never meant much to me. Give me a boyish 6 with freckles over a generic tan "hot" girl any day.
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How do you know when it's love? 2016-08-19 22:56:29 Post No.17477656
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How do you know when it's love?
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I fall in love way too easy. As soon as I start to get along with a girl I start fantasizing about being together, marrying, having kids and growing old together.
From there I start to get bored/annoyed by her, I stop talking to her until she stops talking to me, and then I do it all over again. What the fuck is wrong with me?
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You're a piece of shit.
Also, now I'm paranoid that this is what's happening with my relationship.
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>>17477656
You're an immature shit head, that's what's wrong. Pull this shit with ditzy club girls you ass.
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I do the same. I get bored really easy not of the girls but the way they are just plain fucking boring. You're not a piece of shit you just haven't found the girl that has the spark.