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Lmao if you hate your race and find your race unattractive of course you'll feel this way. Why do you find people who share similar features as you unattractive when you don't find yourself as such, stop projecting your insecurities we know damn well hispanics and black people go hand in hand.

>>17479761
Nope, my girlfriend is mixed and I'm black. Can't even tell.

But if you you want any help you're gonna need to specify your race. And is that pic related or just there for edge?

>>17479768
The pic is for edge. From my folder of guns that are no longer manufactured. Also, I am a black guy also.

Maybe I live in a shit area but Asian women particularly seem really disinterested in black guys.

>>17479710
Maybe look for a research job? If you live near a campus or are still in contact with old professors contact them. They are usually into research and tend to have good connections.

>>17479710
how about grad school?

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>>17479733
I got a BS of in biology. I wasn't really close with any of my professors. The most research I did in biology was when I worked in a lab for a grad student. It dealt with bees.

>>17479840
I'm honestly not sure if that's the right option. Like I love going to school and doing that stuff but I don't know if an MS/ PhD is going to solve my issues. Also I had like a 2.7 for my GPA so I'm pretty screwed. I did terrible during my first two years.

> <3

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>>17479703
It's a test. She sent it, and is going to pretend her friend sent it later. If you say "I love you" back, she's got you hook, line, and sinker. Then she'll freak out because she doesn't feel the same. Then she'll sit back as you orbit her.
Source: am grill and do this to guys sometimes.

Easiest trick in the book.

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>>17479829
Women

>>17479651

Short hair on some girls
Long hair on some guys
Androgenous faces on both

Just be happy being who you are, if you have big tits, some men will not ever find you attractive, if you have a big ass, some men will never find you attractive, if you are ipped and muscular, some women will never find you attractive, if you are skinny some women will never find you attractive.

It's just lifr, people have different attributes and people like different attributes

>>17479651
Not really "unconventional", but I think short girls are adorable. Like a foot or so shorter than me, around the 5'3 range. When a girl that tall even stands next to me it is just the cutest thing ever. Plus they tend to be more feminine in most ways - smaller frames overall, higher voices.

Something that surprised me to discover is that a person's chin dictates a lot of their attractiveness for me. A strong, chiseled jawline is so sexy (or a well defined, curved jawline for women). I've noticed that all the people that I find hideous have very weak or almost nonexistent chins (they also have horrible personalities too, but that might be a coincidence).

Are they aware that you aren't Christian?
Are you dependent on them right now?

>they are the kind of people that think you are bad if you are not christian
That's not a very christian thought
Since you're living with them, you just gotta check regularly if they're okay with your presence ; if you don't you gonna get kicked out. If they're starting to resent you for whatever reason (they shouldn't, Jesus told them not to and she's your sister), accept to go to church to get some good rep. It's an hour a week and christian/jewish mythology can get pretty interesting

They want you to engage in an activity which is part of your culture. You should go and be thankful that your country is not a muslim shithole. Also usually teens and young adults are atheists who also find it painful to step into a church, like it is hurting them or something, if you were a normal adult and if they would ask you nicely, you would go and stick around for that 1 hour pffft it's not the end of the world.

>>17479550
get her to piss on a pregstick

>>17479550
you the only guy fucking her?

>>17479550
You saved the condom all this time?

>>17479518
How's about, I dunno, growing the fuck up?

I can't tell if this is troll or if you've been guzzling the 4chan Koolaid.

>>17479523

it's not that I care a whole lot atm if she's fat, but down the line I don't want to get on a webcam and she turns out to be 300lb

>>17479528
just /fit/shakes

>>17479507
That's what you get for letting everyone know.

>>17479507
Not hard. Make up some BS story to make it look like it was a mutual split. The girl made plans to go back to school on the other side of the country next Spring, and you didn't want to get involved in something that you know would end.

In the future, don't go around telling everyone and their mom about a brand new relationship. Give it a month at least before blasting it all over social media. Even then, be chill about it. None of this "I'm so happy!" stuff. It sets you up to be pitied by people when it ends.

Tell everyone "she" was trans and you kicked her on the spot. That way nobody will ever think you are gay.

On a more serious note, just be confident about it. Nobody will give you shit if you are confident. Don't lie, don't invent some bullshit story, just say "it didn't work out" "it was still fresh, so you don't feel that bad", "it was fun, but well, you both couldn't do it".

Also there might be a chance this new girl is one of the unstable ones that comes back like a bumerang, sometimes smeared in someone elses semen...

>>17479503
Pic related. Your emotions aren't something you're supposed to escape from. Just feel them, think about why you feel that way and then move on with your day.

>>17479503
If it aint going your way. Try the fuck it method. Forget about it and go your own way. I know I have that option

>>17479503
There are little to no emotionally healthy people. Everyone just walks around pretending everything is ok.

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outcall means the escort hosts (usually in a hotel)
incall means escort comes to you

>>17479460
Which choice is better? I wouldn't want random women knowing where I live.

I also fear them not being discreet. Like what if one sees me out and about on the town and make some remark?

>>17479466
She is a whore, what thr fuck is she gonna say that doesn't humiliate her more than you?

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>>17479444
>bf
>instagram
>female

Fucking leave

You can't do anything. She hasn't propositioned your boyfriend, what she's doing is petty and attention seeking but not crossing boundaries. If you do/say anything towards her, you won't just look like the rabid girlfriend who is flipping her shit over social media stuff, it will also make it more tempting for her to go for your boyfriend. If she's a cold, cunning bitch, she'll get extra gratification out of it because she knows how angry and upset you'd be. If she's a rather shitty person who, like most, still feels the need to feel like a good person, she'll use your hostile message as an excuse for her behavior: you're controlling and stifling him, and obviously a bitch, so it doesn't really matter how she wrongs you.

Ultimately it all boils down to your boyfriend. He needs to draw boundaries that are respectful of your relationship. He needs to be immune enough to the other woman. If that's okay she can do nothing but sadly beg for some attention.
I would point out to your boyfriend any instance where someone is being unkind to you (like being petty at a work event), but if the situation remains similar I think other than that it's too little to go by.

>>17479491
This is what I've been attempting to rationally tell myself. There is no way I could even do or say anything. The only time I will probably see her in person is at the events that come up around holidays.

My bf is polite, but acts oblivious and weirded out when female coworkers are forward. In past work events. I was sitting next to him at the parties, and girls would come up to him like "OMG femanon's bf, you made it, and rub his shouders." He'd flinch, turn around, and say "Oh hey, good to see you, this is my gf" then introduce me, then the girls would just avoid us after he introduced me.

So I think bf is very "immune" to their advances from what I've seen. But he still tries to keep positive work relationships.

I know this situation isn't necessarily boundary crossing, It's just frustrating because I know what the girl's are doing. Bf acts polite and avoidant. I'm also just polite. But i think some girls see this as an open window they can try to work.

Basically, I feel like a little bitch because they do just enough to piss me off, but not enough where it is socially acceptable for me or even bf to necessarily tell them off.

Have you seen a doctor? These are pretty typical symptoms of depression

>>17479454
I've thought before I've had it, but really by thinking I have depression amounts to Googling articles on depression that have symptoms that could apply to me, vaguely albeit.

If I was diagnosed by a doctor to have depression, I mean, it wouldn't change anything in terms of how I feel. It would just give something nebulous, a concrete name, right?

>>17479439
Seek professional help.

But also stop comparing yourself to others. Success is relative and as long as you're happy where you are, that's all that matters. If not, change what you can and accept the things you can't change, like the past.

Also smoke more weed.

>>17479428
Turns out you can't run away from yourself. Who would've thunk it?

>>17479434
OP is a fag

Give me everything you have, I'll make better use of it

Completed this floor, guess it's time to be moving on to more challenging dimensions

>>17479414
Tell her that

Send her a link to this thread.

>>17479414
>Babe, you look great just the way you are

But women don't believe us when we say this. Maybe just grope her more when you're hanging out and comment on what you like about her body.

>>17479384
I want to lick that tummy

>>17479395

Might as well lick a man

>>17479396
May as well*

I can lick her sculpted pussy after too you fag