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Delete her number and don't ever talk to her again. Dead serious.

Girl isn't respecting in the first date imagine if you get serious with this bitch. Move on.

>>17535575
>>Texts me 3 hours later telling me she slept late
wow lol

There is no issue with you deleting and her. That is what you're supposed to do in situations like this - it's just that most people are too damn desperate and they'll let anything slide.

Prostitutes is your best bet or you could do the normal thing of meeting a girl and cuddling with her if she likes you.

Asking your ex to cuddle and hug is being stupid.

>>17535573
I am a woman, so I don't really want to cuddle a prostitute for money. If I go out and cuddle a dude, I'm pretty sure they'd want it to go somewhere that I'm not willing to go. I wouldn't be opposed to cuddling either gender though. Just not sex.

>>17535588

Then the worst option is asking your ex if you could schedule cuddle session. Weird and totally off putting but if it is that important to you then go for it.

Always tell the girl you like her after she tells you or at least have some time to think about. Never be the first one to say it. Your facial expression and body language should be enough to convey that you are comfortable with her.

>>17535508

Why would you tell a girl you "like" her? That's incredibly juvenile. Either ask her out on a date or tell her you love her when you've been in a serious relationship for long enough. Unless you're 12 years old. Then you can tell her you like her.

>>17535514

this is the worst advice I've ever heard. we live in a culture where men approach the women. women just assume ur not interested if oyu dont make a move.

that being said: >>17535518 is mostly correct. you dont just tell a girl you like her unless shes 'that' kind of girl and this is 'that' kind of scenario. you ask her out, thats how she knows you like her, that and the flirting you should have been doing up to this point.

another fun thing, there isn't a 'too soon'. people act like theres some mandated approved time that ensures a girl will like you by then. there isn't. truth is if the girl didnt like you its not because you told her 'too soon'. its because she didn't like you.

most girls know whether or not they will want a date with you after the first time they meet you.

Problem with one child is you are putting all your eggs in one sack. What if they are a terrible mess? A disappointment. God forbid they die early or have a debilitating disease.

People have multiple kids for extra insurance if one turns out a dud. Sounds depressing but it is the truth.

Also even if you have favourites you still love your kids I would assume.

>>17535427
>1. I always have favorites. I have a favorite parent, favorite friend. When I had two pets I had a favorite pet. If I have more than one kid I'll definitely have a favorite, and that's not good either for the favorite or the un-favorite.
Having a favorite is inevitable (people lie when they say that don't) and that's okay. You just have to make sure you treat them the same way.

Everything else, I agree with you. I grew up an only child and that allowed me to really bond with my mom. My dad's a piece of shit that has a ton of children with another woman and he doesn't really bond with any of them (for lack of time, money, etc.) As a result, they all have issues that I didn't really have.

>>17535435
Spending more time with the kid and building a good relationship would lower the risks of it turning out a disappointment I think.
>>17535444
>You just have to make sure you treat them the same way.
Easier said than done, unfortunately.

Incest? Gross.

Pretend you didn't see it and awkward shuffle your ass away from them if they come near you.

>>17535406
how old are they?

if they're young then that's pretty normal senpai.

>>17535406
how old are they?

girl or boy?

>>17535399
Does it matter? Female

Have you ever dated anyone? Been intimate with someone?

Have any actual true friends?

How are you alive if you don't eat a vast majority of food?

Are you even healthy?

You should start by eating a home-made burger and no macdonalds shit. Same with chicken tendies.
I used to hate pickles and mustard as a kid and I didn't start adding those into my meals until I was 17.
Just start off slowly or else you'll end up grossing yourself out.

>>17535391
I'm borderline healthy. I've been overweight a few times in my life, my diet is pretty heavy on unhealthy food. But, once I realize I'm fat and start eating less, it comes off pretty quick. 200 lbs at 6'2'', but my health isn't a concern. It's my awkward phobia.

>>17535376
do you have a nice looking leather jacket?

You have to be handsome first and no being cold won't get you liked by anyone.

Being polite and respectful is a lot better option for preserving friendships and doing better with women.

>>17535381
Nah senpai, I dress like an Ivy League douchebag t b h (aka preppy)

You mean one day if you're lucky and don't get hit by a truck or stabbed during a robbery.

>>17535393
Atleast both of those are sudden. Not like the slow loss of your humanity thru aging

With technology improving and the medical field expanding on new ways to aid the human body, the average of death will increase.

So that means more of us will live longer more meaningless old lives regretting our past mistakes.

You take he median approach. Sleep around, meet plenty of women and then marry once you feel you had your fair share.

Well, it depends on what you value.

As for me, I have a pretty low sex drive, and my wife is pretty awesome in a lot of ways, so it's a no-brainer. I fantasize about other women, sure, but I'm perfectly content just to fap to them and have sex only with my wife.

>>17535371
Yeah I should have done that providing I had not had a huge lack of confidence for years, because of a crappy youth.

When I began to feel confident and to like myself, I started to meet women but it soon became serious relationships so in the end I did not sleep with that many women because I never cheated.
And it's ALWAYS when you're in a couple that you have the most females wanting you...

Why are you ordering your 12 year old son fast food? Apparently cooking him a meal is too much to ask.

Also if you and your son have a sour relationship and he is only 12, time to call it quits pal.

Why did you marry a woman with a kid in the first place? Get out of there.

There is so much more to this story that you are not telling us.

However if that's how this woman raises her child, this utter lack of genuine care must be showing up in other areas of her life, hence the reason why you want to separate.

I hope you aren't asking for permission or validation to leave this woman.

I say go, if you want.

>>17535288
http://www.wolframalpha.com/?source=nav

Good luck in Algebra 2

Been a while since I studied maths, but I don't think so.

>>17535295
>tfw it's just precal review
I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed desu

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>>17535286
Dating someone isn't that amazing

>>17535290
regular sex tho

>>17535291
Not that good either really

>>17535259
>I'm not autistic or anything

that's something only autist say.

>>17535259
Yes it's possible, but you have to wear the social mask even more than others if you want to do so.

I know how you feel, so much poeple just seem so fake or stupid... But there are rare pearls out there too.

>>17535265
No, I just don't want people getting the wrong impression here.

Your girlfriend is a whore.

>>17535242
Im sorry if im going to be mean here, but you are such a beta cunt.

Just explain to your roommates you were going through a bad breakup, and why would you get back with a cunt who broke up with you, JUST to provoke a sad reaction from you?

Have some fucking dignity for yourself cause no one else sure as shit will.

>>17535242
Your roomate is a passive-aggressive bitch, don't put up with his shit.