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>>17537863
I think its more of a subconscious thing

Assuming that by alpha/beta dynamic you mean that they are two discrete categories and not a spectrum as most guys here tend to understand the concept, this is a stupid question.

>>17537870
there's a reason they are here. I don't think I've ever seen a person who does well with women browse this site :/ what they do in their free time is check instagram, send fb message and read the news

You can't take it back. What you need to do is change your passwords and security questions for everything you can think of, from your bank accounts to your old Neopets account.

One, why would you enter all that stuff?

Two, change your passwords. All of them and starting with your email.

>>17537858

realistically how bad is this? i know they can buy a lot of things with your info but they can't make you pay for it or stuff right? like it's a pain in the ass but not the end of the world?

>>17537827
Grow up

>>17537827
Have sex

>>17537827
Do a thing

>>17537810

If she knows how to program, chances are she's much smarter than you. Stop sucking your own dick and talk to your gf

>>17537810
Fuck you.
You have a cute gf with a job and you are just fucking complaining about it?
Fuck you.

>>17537817
Lonely virgin detected.

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Well, it's perfectly normal for someone your age to want to masturbate, and do it often. I'm guessing you're a male, between the ages of 18-28. Plus, it's a good way to relieve stress and keeps your prostate healthy.

However, just because you can and should doesn't make it right. Remember: pic related.

>>17537814
Eh I'm not so sure it's beneficial, I'm become more and more degenerate with my porn as time passes.

>>17537804
Do something productive instead, like excising or studying.

What is that?

Why do you "love" "doing hair"? Is it really rational?

>>17537767

Finish what you start. You can start hairstyling when your debts are paid off, and you won't have to feel that pay decrease if you budget accordingly and focus on paying off your debt while working as a restaurant manager.

>[I] wouldn't have much to fall back on if I can't make it as a stylist

Considering you just took on a great deal of debt, it doesn't sound like a wise decision.

>>17537729

You fucked up your break-up. Do you actually want to break up? What you need to do is have another conversation with her. You fucked her again, so you can't just continue with the "cut-all-ties" schtick.

>>17537737
Yeah, I do want to break up with her: she was suffocating me, got jealous when I would spend my time with friends or at home with my family instead of being with her (even though we spent at least 4 nights a week together), didn't want to understand the concept of "the need for personal space", hated the fact that I would enjoy browsing 4chan in my spare time, cost me a lot of money (for example, we always had to eat out because she can't cook, and we went on vacations abroad four times in a year, even though I'm still paying off my student loan), and was all in all a really controlling, uncompromising partner.
I know that another talk is imminent, but I just can't think of a way to explain both my decision about the break-up and what happened last night.

>>17537729
Oh my fucking God.
You can find someone steaming hot without wanting to have a relatio ship with them, right ?
Be clear and honest with her : you still find her hot enough to have somd fun with her, but you aren't compatible on any other levels. Period.

It's up to her if she wants to go on this way, but I do recognize myself in the girl you described (sadly) and went with a fwb kind of relationship with my ex. You'll have both your physical needs cover, and it honestly is a ton of fun !

>>17537727
Was it fun though? I think that's why most people do them, and it's why i probably would if offered

>>17537727
These are REAL negative effects, this isn't anti-drug propaganda

http://www.drugfreeworld.org/drugfacts/lsd/the-harmful-effects-of-lsd.html

-Delusions
-Visual hallucinations
-An artificial sense of euphoria or certainty
-Distortion of one’s sense of time and identity
-Impaired depth perception
-Impaired time perception, distorted perception of the size and shape of objects, movements, color, sounds, touch and the user’s own body image
-Severe, terrifying thoughts and feelings
-Fear of losing control
-Panic attacks
-Flashbacks, or a recurrence of the LSD trip, often without warning long after taking LSD
-Severe depression or psychosis

Please, only do these if you are a happy social person with a fine life already who just wants to augment it. Yeah the great experiences are beautiful, enhanced empathy and feelings of love and connectedness, BEAUTIFULLY enhanced perception of music and art. But the negatives are so bad it's legitimately not worth it

Psychedelics increase the amplitude of the wave that is your life. Higher highs, lower lows - but guess what, it deepens your lows more than it increases your highs

Stay stable, stay drug free, I'm dead serious. Yeah maybe I'm just pathetic and can't handle bad trips, but there are millions of people out there who this advice applies to. I want to go cry, the bad trips I've had are so fucking bad and they're stuck with me. I wouldn't wish them on my worse enemy

"Flashbacks" are FUCKING REAL okay it's just that the term is bad. They are just manifestations of increased anxiety upon experiencing something that reminds you of a bad trip

Ever have a bad trip and go hide under your bed to avoid the evil spirits? You MAY have a flashback and experience a sense of dread any time you look under your bed now. It will go away eventually but it's still unpleasant. And this can apply to normal everyday objects

What's horrible is when it applies to things you used to love.

>>17537736
tl;dr

Don't do drugs kids especially psychedelics, and especially in large doses and without proper preparation

The highs are high, but the lows have the potential to be literally lower than you could possibly imagine. Nightmares you could never have conceived of before they happen to you.

Your mind expands, but guess what - sometimes you don't want it to expand into those dark corners. Sometimes you WANT to be able to ignore reality and just life your life. Some realities are unpleasant. Leave them untouched, leave those cobwebs where they are. Psychedelics will reveal them all and you will never be able to forget them again

This gets worse if you're an intelligent person with a good understanding of philosophy and world affairs. The more you know the worse LSD has the potential to be. Jimbo McBobbington the retard's mind can't go in too many directions too far since it's already pretty small. But if you're an intellectual, or consider yourself one in any way, and you are prone to depression or anxiety - STAY THE FUCK AWAY

YOU WILL WISH YOU FOLLOWED MY ADVICE ONCE YOU EXPERIENCE THIS.

These b8 threads are getting old.

>>17537653

bait

Wait, are you that tranny that comes here a lot?

If this is bait, it's the first time i've seen it.

There's not really much you can do about your dumbass ex, other than warn the dude to watch his back.

Honestly? Knuckle down and study hard. If I did it you can do it, and AP chem is slower paced than Chem 1 and Chem 2.

>>17537648
It sounds easier than it is. Every time I look at the summer problem sets I get so lost, and my friends' explanation make no sense. Whenever I google it, I just see stuff that seems so basic to me, and makes total sense. When I go to do the problem, I'm fucked.

>>17537654

Transfer out of the class.

Explain that you're overwhelmed, and go to honors or whatever. Or just fucking go to class and work hard.

Dude fucking cut ties with her. If she thinks things are "too hard" than she needs a re-evaluation of how life works and a re-evaluation of if alcohol is even worth it. This bitch is delusional you need to see a different girl

>>17537626

Bump. Anyone else got advise?

>>17537626

Try to have a real conversation about why it is hard and why she feels stressed around you. We can't answer that for you. Remember that you have to commit yourself to an HONEST conversation.

Just don't even go to the party. If someone needs drugs to have a good time then it's nor really a party is it? Just a bunch of bums being delusional

>>17537676
Ehhh, the principle is not entirely solid, but the advice for this party is. If you don't have a plan or don't think it's safe, and if you're not very interested in taking mdma, don't go.

You don't indeed need any substances to have a good time, but it doesn't mean you can't have a reasonable amount of fun with them. That being said, you don't need a full blown out hard schedule 1 drug to feel good.

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>>17537676
>>17537688
Yes, you don't need any substance to have a good time but good company, but there's nothing wrong with a shared drug experience. Adults partake in moderation friend. Its not that I'm afraid at all, or that anyone is pressuring me. I just wanted the advise of people that have done it before.. What should I expect to see??I've wanted to take MDMA for a while now so I just want to maximize this experience!

bamp

>>17537616
I've been in the same position. Basically, you are probably a very stable and reasonable guy, the kind that is not going to randomly blow a million dollars on hookers and blow, get arrested, and fuck up his life.
This makes you a safe bet for rich girls, since their daddies will approve of you.
They're not really looking for a soul mate, more of a partner. The business kind. And they think you fit the bill pretty well.

fuck you handsome muppet
get acid splashed in your face

>>17537582
if youre in syd ill take you out. Most likely your attractiveness is intimidating

How tall are you? If you're taller than the average guy - or if you look taller than them when wearing heels and wear them a lot - maybe you're intimidating them. Other than that it might just be that there are different norms you haven't picked up on yet that might make the process to finding a boyfriend somewhat different from what you're used to (maybe you're coming on too strong, not strong enough, maybe you're trying to meet men in the wrong places, or meeting them too passively - you no longer have a circle of friends to reliably meet people through).

>>17537582
>I wonder why is that so that no man finds me appealing here
post pics bby

>>17537580
Anxiety meds.

Realize that won't happen. Convince yourself logically that it's unlikely.

If you can't control your emotions at all, go talk to a therapist.
Pills help but they're a temporary solution, you'll need a long-term fix.

Why do you respond to these illogical feelings?
You can't just assume this stuff without a basis therefore your fears are irrational and you have to recognize this