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I just got a text from my mom (we don't like each other) telling my my aunt (we don't really interact with each other) is going to press charges against me for selling her property.. which apparently I had in my possession when my dad died back in 2012. In 2012 I was selling off scrap metal to try to clean up the property I inherited from him. Supposedly it was some old farm machinery.

Should I be worried? Does she have a legal leg to stand on? I don't know how she could possibly have any proof the item was ever here. Even if it was, I wasn't aware it belonged to her.. I can't even remember anything like that being here but I was kind of fucked up over my dad dying at the time.
I live in Texas for reference on local laws..

Pic related, kind of my face being told this, I've never been in any kind of legal trouble before.
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>>17533286
I made a typo, my dad died in 2012, I was cleaning up the property in 2013.
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>>17533286
Not a lawyer but this sounds like some bs to rattle you. Tell her to go pound sand.
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>>17533286
Sounds like a bluff.

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While I will admit that my friend has gone through a lot, so have most people. You see, she outs herself to be this one-of-a kind individual who no one can relate to. I've tried to be as supportive as I can without feeding her ego, but it's gotten to the point where she's actually making me feel fucked up. What do /adv/?
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>>17533236
Walk away. You're not obligated to feed someone's delusions or check them in check. Freedom of maneuver man.
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>>17533243
Even if she's suicidal?
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>>17533253
Fuck that noise. People who are truly suicidal are the types of people who hold it in, because they don't want to burden others with their thoughts. They pretend to be happy, then bam, they off themselves. That's why it's always a shocker to other people.

People who always threaten to kill themselves, or talk about it openly, are just attention whores.

Why are people so pissed off about Brock Turner not getting more time in jail?

I mean, I know why. He's white and committed one of the worst crimes possible.

Despite that, I don't think it matters how long he's in jail for because his life is going to complete and utter shit outside of jail. The girl he raped didn't even remember what happened until she read about it online or in the paper.

I don't know. I just think it's an odd situation. He deserves to be treated like shit but at the same time it seems unfair to deny someone a second chance at becoming a better person.

I also have a weird perspective on the matter because of an experience I had at a party in high school. A girl and I were making out while high/drunk and she kept telling me to get her belt off. She kept saying it and saying and I kept getting more frantic because she was. Eventually she raised her voice and said stop. As soon as I realized that she hadn't been telling me to hurry up with her belt, I stopped. Immediately. I was so high and drunk that I confused "stop" with "hurry up."

I know that both scenarios are very different, but I can understand that Brock might have been so drunk that he was completely unaware of what he was doing.

Again, I'm not defending rape or victim blaming or anything like that. The whole situation with Brock has done nothing but propagate pain, regret, and hatred. I just feel weird about it and obviously can't talk about any of this with anyone I know.
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White, college rapists are so under-prosecuted its disgusting. I think he just became the poster-child for it, desu.

He's catching all the hate that other people in less publicized cases should have caught.
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>>17533230
Mishearing someone you've been making out with is nothing like raping an unconscious person behind a fucking dumpster.
You're not unaware if your actions when drunks, you just care less about consequences.
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I can't possibly know what happened that night, but if he just fingered an extremely drunk girl while he himself was extremely drunk he did nothing wrong. If she was passed out, then obviously that's wrong, but i think it's bullshit that people can't go out and get drunk and hook up and enjoy themselves like the fucking retards who wrote these laws used to do themselves just 10-20 years ago

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I'm going to uni next year (taking a gap year right now) to study CS or Physics. I don't know which one to pick. I'm interested in both, but I'm afraid CS will land me a code monkey job and physics will force me to work in an unrelated field. I'm not really "passionate" about any of them, but I find both interesting.

I guess my ideal jobb would be working for an interesting company/institution like SpaceX, CERN, NASA, Google, etc doing something that actually matters, like sending rockets to Mars or building cool platforms that people will actually use or AI, and not some bank app or researching measurement techniques or working as a lab tech or anything.

I have no idea what to choose and I'm stuck. Any advice?
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>>17533165
>doing something that actually matters
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>>17533330

>Working with space agencies, the particle collider agencies, and largest computing based multinational in the world that is so powerful, that court rulings involving search engines don't even use 'search engines' in the ruling, they just say 'Google has to do this now'.

I'm curious, what do you think actually matters? There's a number of reasonable alternatives, but I doubt you're going to say any of them for some reason.

Why not go for engineering? It's a decent mix of the two subjects, and you can choose to work with either specialism while mostly having creative freedom.

Otherwise, all I have to say that universities in general will focus on one thing for physics, and that thing differs between universities; mine likes to focus on sterile conditions for delicate machinery construction, and uses of lasers.

If you don't like coding, do neither of these three; some point down the line you will have to use MATlab, or C, or C++, or Java etc.
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>>17533165
>doing something that actually matters

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Hey guys,
I come to you today with a fairly loaded question. So the TL;DR first:
Should I do a parasite detox and then do LSD, or vice-versa? Let me explain.

Whenever I do a parasite cleanse I can’t help but start to REALLY feel my entire body again. My thoughts are clearer and my internal voice and thoughts are pointed towards me without using another person symbol to represent myself in my own head (if that makes any sense).

While detoxing does take a toll on me, I feel like my mind cleaned out in a way. I want to try LSD with a clean body and partially stable mind. Also, this would (hopefully) be my first time taking LSD this wasn't a dud. So I could potentially get some real insightful information from this trip.

Has anyone ever done any hallucinogens while in the process/before/after a detox? How did fee or work out for you?
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>>17533148
Detox is new age bullshit fed to soccer moms because they will believe anything and pay for it. Your kidneys do that for you. You sound insane.

Enjoy that LSD though I'm sick of RCs.
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>>17533177
I've done herbal detoxes that required me to stop eating processed food and sugars for10 days and switch to more natural food like dark leafy greens. I wouldn't call it new age bullshit per-se, but it is nice to clean house once in a while.
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>>17533177
What are RC's?

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How do I quit being, "whiny"?
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>>17533136
Lower the pitch of your voice and actively consider what you are going to say before you say it.
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>>17533136
Watch 300

If Leonidas wouldn't say it, neither should you

You're welcome
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You can just voicing your shitty whiney opinion about things

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So my last girlfriend and I broke up in July. We weren't together for long. We had a pretty intense fling that went way too fast and crashed over one silly fight. I felt disrespected by her but I still remember the good parts of our relationship. I don't hold it against her or resent her. I even shot her a message over Facebook like a week ago wishing her luck this semester because I knew she was taking on a lot of work. She just said "thanks, you too" so I didn't think anything would come of it.

Well fast forward to today. She's in town and she came to my cafe with her sister. There's one five minutes away from her house, there are ones she likes more than mine, there are ones that are less busy with shorter wait times, but she came to mine. To play devil's advocate, she might not have known I was working since I'm driving a different car.

I waved to her and she smiled at me but I was super busy. She was glued to her phone while she waited, not even acknowledging her sister who's basically her best friend. (She was watching me work the whole time though). I told her real quick while I was toward the front about something shitty and life-changing that had happened and she said "Oh, that's lovely" and not much more because my coworker started asking me for help right after. After that, I saw that she was watching me work until her drinks (that I wasn't making) came out and she left. Outside of that truncated story I told her I didn't even look at her because I was too busy.

Why the hell was she there? Was there an actual reason? Am I thinking to hard? Should I contact her? Maybe just a "hey, nice seeing you today"
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>>17533119
she didn't know you were there and she knows you so of course she looked, you did too. You are way over thinking it. If she wanted something else to happen she had a chance but didn't
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>>17533578
Well to be fair we were slammed and I was half way across the store for most of it.

I posted this pretty much right after I got off work though. If she did want something she'd have messaged me or something by this point I'd assume, unless she took my ignoring her the wrong way. Who knows? I'd think she'd avoid going there, I would think she'd avoid looking at me instead of watching me, or sit somewhere in the lobby, but it really doesn't matter at this point.
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>>17533690
OP, not trying to rain on your parade but if she wanted you she would have let you know. I don't understand why you want someone that disrespects you though.

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Soooo basically I got this girl to dump her bf of nearly two years because she was pretty convinced she liked me but now all she does is talk about him and stalk his social media
We argue quite a bit about it and she esnures me that she likes me and wants to be with me and stuff but she never shuts up about her ex to me, her coworkers, or anyone really

What should I do? I'm pretty upset about it desu. I really like her
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>>17533117
Do shitty things and get a shitty gf. You made your bed OP.
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>>17533117
>I got this girl to dump her bf of nearly two years

If you had to actively convince her to dump her boyfriend then you started your relationship with her on the wrong foot. She has to decide, and it sounds like she hasn't completely but you pushed her into it. Otherwise simply ask her about it.

FUCKING COMMUNICATE!
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And I'll lie in it too ass up that's how I do. That's how johnny c do

Girl said this to me - "from your reaction just and when you've gone in a strop for me saying i was busy and the first time you kicked off at me i dont wanna be with you i can deal with this". the english is so bad that i cant comprehend what she is saying. someone translate it for me. thanks.
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>>17533111
from your reaction just and when you've gone in a strop for me saying i was busy and the first time you kicked off at me i dont wanna be with you i can deal with this

Translation:

Judging from your reaction, you've suddenly become annoyed at me when I said I was busy

This is the first time you have become angry with me and I no longer want to be with you, as I can deal with life without you

t. PhD in Ebonics
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You're an asshole who thinks the world revolves around him and can't handle it when someone has other things going on in their lives, and therefore she doesn't want to be with you.
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>>17533196
Excuse me I already completed the task thank you

I am closing this thread

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My bf (well ex) broke up with me yesterday. We've been together for three years and he has cheated on me a lot. He promised to change but said he is scared of me being jealous and can't even add girls on facebook so he needs time alone and we need to be broken up during that time. Well okay, I asked will we get back together and he said yeah and we would be loyal to eachother during that time.
WELL NOT. He was on datingsites already (AGAIN), has some new chick and I angrily messaged her (how to salvage that situation, didn't say anything nasty though)? But I am better off without this lying cheating asshole, right? I love him though ;__;
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Yes he sounds like a terrible person.
>I angrily messaged a girl he's been with
nevermind, you both sound like terrible people.
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>>17533121
Why? I just asked her is she having a thing with him and since when.
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>I angrily messaged a girl he's been with
poor girl probably had no idea what the hell was going on

>He was on datingsites already (AGAIN)
I am gonig to make a stab and say he has made a promise not to cheat or use dating sites more than once. Enough is enough, dump his ass. You can still love him, but he is toxic as a boyfriend.

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MY GF brings up a past fling. I told her I don't want to hear about it.
She's upset at me now.

am i wrong ?!?!
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>>17533099
It really depends on what about she wants to talk about. I mean if she is excessively describing the sex they had it would be one thing. If there is something she is trying to work through that happened during that short lived relationship then you ought to hear her out.
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>>17533099
You aren't necessarily wrong, but you sound insecure. What was she trying to tell you?
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it depends on if it's something completely vital for the relationship or not. Maybe she's just curious and wants to know about it. Maybe she just wants you to open up to her.
Although, you should never do something that you feel uncomfortable with. If it's the case, you should tell her that you won't talk about it at all

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Hey guys how do you make friends in a new city?? Anyone know where I can start? Here's where I'm at:
>19
>probly 7/10
>day trader
>have a gf who lives with me but goes to college
>she has like 2 friends
>My hobbies are doing drugs, reading, working out, basic stuff.
Please help guys I'm bored every weekend when gf is away
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What products do you put in your hair?
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Sup elliot?
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>>17533105
I don't put any products in my hair, just use shampoo and conditioner if that's what you mean
>>17533107
Name's not elliot lol

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Okay guise I need some help.

I'm a U.S. citizen, I'm a gay male, 21 one years old. I am also a citizen of Mexico, where I happen to be right now. I've been living here for about two years now. I have found true love, /adv/, the thing is that I want to marry him, but I think the better option for both of us is to move to the US together to have a better life. I know absolutely mothing about what do I have to do to get him a marriage green card so we can accomplish that. I want to know if the process is the same for gay couples, how long does it take, if it's better to get married in Mexico or the US, what do I need to do, and pretty much everything about it, I hope I can get everything straight so I can have a happy simple life. Thanks in advance /adv/!
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>>17533057
I'd consult with a lawyer stateside.
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I recommend staying in Mexico.
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>>17533065
I've thought about it, but living is really hard in Mexico and their really low wages, I want to give him the best life I possibly can

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How do I calm down when I feel horny? I can see someone and make me horny but moments later, if I resist it long enough or forget about it the desire just disappears.
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>>17533031
fap is a good answer.
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DON'T L0OK AT PIC. I was about to watch Dragon Ball and an ad popped up that made me very horny, but I didn't look away instead I stared seriously for a few seconds and the feeling went away.

I resisted this, how do I get into that "go away, horniness" mode whenever I want?
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The answer matters to me.

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>meet girl
>befriend her
>she has a bf
>she lives far away (3h)
>spend some time togheter
>we like the same shit, same humor, same taste it's uncanny, great personality too
>not very attactive, just ok looking
>somehow become infatuated with her
>having some mixed feeling about it
>everybody tells me it's a bad idea

I'm attracted to her so much, but so much could go to shit if I try something.
I'm also not sure I how I feel about it, I don't even know her that well.

During the time we spent togheter we kinda flirted a bit, she understood I like her i guess,
but not once I felt like it was reciprocal.

Im gonna see her again in a few weeks, Id rather not but I have no choice.
I'm gonna have to host her, I'm not sure how to behave.
I want to try and get to know her better, but I want to keep her away too.
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>>17533028
She has a bf and lives 3 hrs away. You even said yourself you never felt she reciprocated your feelings. YET, you're here today to ask advice. Are you just retarded?
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I was in an almost exact situation a month ago, also ridiculosly similar interests, but I grew feelings for her(foolishly), and then she said she had a bf, she admitted she should've said so earlier but alas my heart was already broken
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>>17533040
No, just delusional.

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