So there's 2 Bi-sexual cunts in our class (they're boys. They all show me signs that they're interested in me (like touching etc..) only time I knew one of these cunts that he was attracted to me is when we were playing truth or dare (doing A levels so we get 3 free periods and he asked me to play so yeah. oh and he asked a lot of questions that is unrelated with planet earth so it doesn't seem suspicious). He suddenly acts like he's randomly thinking and then asks " are you sexually interested in boys ? " Told him " fuck no.". The cunt still gives me signals and I'm straight and it really makes me feel uncomfortable. Any advices ?
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Just pull him aside and talk to him one day. Say whatever you want, just make it clear you're not interested.
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>>17538754
Are you in High School? You sound so fuckinf young.
If they're really annoying just tell them that you're not interested, or just go with their griends and kindly ask for them to communicate you're not into it and to please be left alone. If they REALLY get annoying, just take it as a joke.
I'm gay so i know they'll understand.
You should try tho, boys are better ;)
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It would really seem akward since we know each other since year 9 or 10.
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A single mother with child moved in next door. She screams to her child every day and parks her bike and her son's bike next to my door, even though she has a garage. I asked her to park in her garage and implied that I do not condone her behavior towards her child. She behaved for one day and now is back to her old routine.
Single mothers are truly the scourge of the earth.
What do? I am probably moving in two months time. Should I ride it out? Should I call child services? Steal her bike in the dead of night?
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Move the bike.
Move it to either their garage or the garbage.
If they are tressppassing, then they will get the message if the bike is gone.
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>>17538734
Unfortunately, her door and my door connect to public space. I am sick of renting houses, nothing but trash people that live in them. That's one of the reasons why I want to move. I also just finished my studies and am looking for my starter up house.
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Why not just have another talk with her? Stealing the bike seems like a bit much from what you've told us and calling child services won't do anything unless she's abusing the kid.
I'm in an open relationship with my husband because I have a higher than average libido and he has ED/no sex drive.
I desire to have sex, and so we agreed on an open relationship with some straightforward rules for me to follow.
Despite the fact that my husband, his urologist, our therapist, and our lawyer are on the same page, I am having issues convincing potential friends with benefits that it's okay (morally) to get involved with me.
A few rules I set myself is:
>If we don't kiss the first time we meet, it's not sexual enough for a fwb
>I do not play with penises on first dates
>no sexual contact until after a discussion of past partners/affirmation they don't have STIs
>no one-sided sexual acts (like I don't give a bj if the person isn't also pleasuring me)
Anyway, I'm having a hard time convincing people that it's okay to fuck me.
Attached is what I put in my tinder profile.
Re: Tinder
Can someone explain why someone went on 2 dates with me, got to the point where it was heavy second base, and then told me he couldn't do it because his conscience was getting in the way.
He's also Christian, and I'm not, and he told me I was committing adultery. I told him I never signed anything saying it was a monogamous sexual relationship, and he said he "couldn't get over it".
Isn't this tinder?!?
Wasn't I clear I was in a relationship? He knew for over a week that I was married too.
How do I avoid this in the future?
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>>17538727
>>I do not play with penises on first dates
Dropped
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>>17538727
>first dates
I thought this was about you getting fucked not the opportunity to date as if you were single. I get it from the men's perspective. Kudos to you for convincing your husband to remain married to you.
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>>17538727
>guess who's paying for all that
>be me, 21f
>be with boyfriend for 2 years
>bf is 26 and uses wheelchair
>never gave a shit about wheelchair
>over the past year he has done less and less for himself
>guess who picks up the slack
I don't know what to do anymore, truly. The word unappreciated comes to mind.
Every 2/3 months I have the same conversation with him about how I am not his live-in maid. The only one singular thing I ask him to contribute to the house is doing the dishes which he does.. proabably every 2/3 weeks.
>both work, except I am also a housewife and carer
>if I try to nag he tells me he is suddenly in pain.
>has 'been in pain for the last 2 weeks'
>doesn't take pain medication or call his doctor.
Any advice on how to deal with the situation without being a massive huge bitch??
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You seem to know what to do but are too afraid to do it. You seem unhappy.
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>>17538706
Push him down the stairs. Got it.
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>>17538713
does he have insurance that you can benefit from ?
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>start of university term
>city is flooded with girls around my age
>tfw graduated from the university this year without having any social life at all
>tfw never flirted with a girl or done anything except with escorts
>never ever been to a pub or club or party (not that I could bear to see girls on the hunt for Chads)
>tfw feel awful seeing all those girls that have deemed me a genetic failure and who would be disgusted if I even looked at them
>tfw tinder experiments show that personality doesn't matter, only facial aesthetics do
>inb4 lift, stop being a manlet, have good hygiene (I already do)
How the hell am I supposed to cope with this? It kills me inside. It's currently the sunniest and hottest day of the year, which only adds to the misery.
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What is the point of asking for advice when good advice is just being shuffled to the side by you?
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>>17538669
The stuff in the inb4 is what I already do
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>>17538663
>(not that I could bear to see girls on the hunt for Chads)
Check your attitude instead of your looks.
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Why have I wasted my entire life away. I've just dicked about and now i dont know what to do I'm trying to get into an accounting course but I mostly spend my days doing nothing and I hate myself for it. I just want a some friend to talk to it a hobby to bury myself in so that I don't feel so shit all the time.
I want someone to talk my what to do because I've tried my own way and it has failed so far.
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>>17538651
Escapism doesn't work anon, you have to face your problems head on
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OP I have wasted the past year since I graduated from university. I repeatedly waste days on 4chan. I eat junk food and tell myself I'll stop tomorrow and start working hard but I never do.
I'm confident that I will start working hard soon (lol, I know, but I do have definite goals and have done some work).
My advice to save you time is to completely disregard self help sources. They are all repackaged platitudes, whether they're well meaning or not. This includes psychology studies.
I think you just need an honesty and iron will (not that I think habits don't subconsciously help).
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>>17538672
4chan is actually incredibly useful in experimenting how to socialize and gather information
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Before the woman I'm with now, I was with another for 5 years. The relation wasn't that great, neither did the sex.
I've always been loyal to girlfriends all my life, but one day I got really drunk after an all-day party at work, and, wanting to have sex so bad, my gf living too far and having no more control over myself, I went to a prostitute. It wasn't great... But still I got what I wanted.
That's the only time these ever happened to me : cheating and going to a prostitute.
The thing that intrigued me is that I had exactly 0 regrets or remorse. I never felt bad about myself for having done that. It was just one time, she never knew, I didn't feel bad and that was an experience. I think it was because the relationship wasn't so nice and the sex was too frustrating with the gf.
Today my new relationship is very very good, the best I had in all aspects.
As anybody, I look other women and find them attractive and then use that sexual tension with my partner.
But then there's also the women showing clearly they want you, well knowing you're already taken.
Those temptations are the hardest. But sometimes I wonder if I did it just once, away from home with no chances of my partner ever knowing, if I would be ashamed of myself or not. The past says I wouldn't. Or was it the relationship of that time inducing that?
What do you think about it?
And am I a bad person?
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It was the relationship not you.
You are a bad person for cheating on your girlfriend and should be ashamed.
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>>17538610
>You are a bad person for cheating on your girlfriend and should be ashamed.
I don't cheat on the one I'm with now.
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>And am I a bad person?
Yeah?
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As soon as i finish high school i'm going to become a police officer.
My only problem is the year in the police school, i'm scared of getting picked on and make that year living hell, i'm pretty small too (like 1.70m).
I don't really care about getting hurt or dieing (i even used to box and had 3 matches) but i just can't stand bullying
What should i do?
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You have to be 18 to post here.
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>>17538594
Woah! Did you just assume his age? Maybe he's retarded and got held back a grade. Also this post is a troll.
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Are you sure you meet the height requirements?
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I'm really scared for my future.
I feel like I'll never amount to anything, that everything I've tried and will try is going to fail and that I'm unable to do anything.
My life is a succession of small failures, I've been thrown around left and right as a child and teenager because I was a shitty kid culminating in me dropping out.
I've been spending the past 5 years as an adult doing pretty much nothing at all, everything that I've tried to earn money ending in utmost failure, and I don't really feel like I'd be smart enough for learning more stuff.
I'm scared, and I don't even know what I'm asking.
Please help me.
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Some more information would beneficial. Details is needed.
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>>17538559
I'm inactive, I don't work.
I've failed every attempt to make money I've tried, from looking for a job to working at home on streams or try to make projects.
I just can't seem to stay focused long enough to do anything which is why I was shit in school to begin with.
I'm scared my life will end without me being able to actually manage to do something with it.
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Age, height, weight.
Educational level as well.
Is it easier to meet and become friends with people from the same social class as you?
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It's typically easier to befriend people with similar interests and values. That's not to say that you need to find people who are exactly like you, of course.
How would you describe your social class?
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>>17538550
twisted fucking psycopath and the nicest person you'll ever meet
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I agree with the previous thread start poster. People of similar interests and values more easily become friends with you because there is less friction and small talk comes easy.
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>20 years old
>landed an amazing interview in 2 days
>position i've always wanted
>paralyzed by immense self-doubt
>can't motivate myself to study/prepare for interview
any advice? i have all of tomorrow free to prepare for it
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Just think about not getting the job because you didn't prepare for it. That should motivate you.
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>>17538537
i feel like that should work but i don't feel it in my bones
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1 bump, i know this a dumb post
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Am I being ridiculous by telling my friend it's a really bad idea to sleep with another friend's sister?
He's going on 24 and is a pretty good guy. He's doing a thing at the moment where he pretty much just does what he wants as long as it passes his internal moral compass. That's not inherently bad, it often doesn't sync up with a lot of societal norms though. As such, I find myself frequently telling him that people are going to react a certain way and this frustrates him.
He's also often at ends with several of our friends due to his way of thinking and a couple of the friends are getting quite sick of him as he can easily come off as selfish (due to said ignoring of societal standards). In short, you'd need to be extremely liberal to completely agree with him. He's also not interested in relationships in general.
The sister is a couple of months past 17 (it would be legal in this country for them to have sex), has mental issues including bipolar disorder and has allegedly received non-consensual sex on a few occasions. As you can imagine, she (of no fault of her own) is a bit messed up. She's also very interesting though, I can easily see why he's attracted to her.
Am I the one who's out of touch? I often find myself having to explain how his actions might have negative repercussions and that's starting to make me thing that I'm the one with the warped sense of things.
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I used to be like you constantly nagging and stressing out what other friends are doing but then I had enough of it. I felt liberated when I kept my mouth shut.
Look he is a grown man, you aren't his parents nor do you have responsibility to keep telling him this. Tell him one time and if he ignores it then let him deal with the consequences. When shit hits the fan and he is panicking tell you told him the first time and he didn't heed his worlds.
Stop raising your blood pressure for piddly shit, it isn't worth it dude. Life will be a lot more simpler if you keep your mouth shut.
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>>17538511
if you want to protect the girl tell her brother, otherwise stay out of it. that said the poor girl will be fucked anyway and matters not that it is a friend of her brother
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>>17538539
He's my only friend who I do this with. I'm always happy to lend an opinion to someone, most of my circle of friends are pretty switched on with what is and isn't alright so there isn't often an issue. Point is, I definitely don't worry that much about it.
I'm still interested in people's opinion of the whole sister thing though.
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>went to mcdonalds last week to grab a sweet tea after lifting
>nobody in drive through
>cute girl that takes my money starts up a chat
>I ask her out
>she says sure
>went on two days ago and 2nd date last night
>went to have sex
>scars literally covering her ENTIRE body
Every inch of her, except her arms and back is covered in cutting scars. There is no place to put your hand on her body that won't be on a scar except for her back and arms.
At the time, I didn't let it stop me, and I could tell she was super nervous, but I just pretended like they didn't exist and we had a good time regardless.
Should I continue to date her? I mean she really is cute as all fuck, but damn. None of them looked recent at all, I don't think she has actually done it in a while.
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Can you live with them? If yes just pretend to not see them and when you'll have a stronger relationship, try to ask what happened
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Here is my advice, run away fast dude. I know I sound like an asshole but dating girls like this is a bad idea.
I really do think getting only sex with her is bad idea as well because when the eventual break up happens she will feel like a whore.
At best just say you are having personal problems at home and that you don't want to have a relationship with a great girl like her in this bad mindset.
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>>17538500
>>scars literally covering her ENTIRE body
damn that escalated too quickly
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>be me
>be ethnic minority
>have stupid "friends"
>be labeled as dog eater
>everytime I disagree friend gets squad of his friends to circlejerk his opinion
>everytime I respond with some swearing friend gets a person of higher authority
>I get punished
What should I do /adv/?
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>>17538449
how old are you and your friends?
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>>17538473 Well I'm not gonna tell my specific age but it's around 18
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>>17538480
Isn't there a group of your ethnicity at your school?
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How can I find out if a girl dislikes me or what?
There's this girl I know that I feel like she acts somewhat colder around me, she avoids looking at me (at least when I can see her), she sometimes avoids being close to me (some other times she gets close to me). Anyway I sense she's acting different around me, but how can I find out why?
I can't really figure out what I could have done to her to make her dislike me. Besides she's a kind of love-everyone devout Christian.
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>>17538433
If she avoids you, she dislikes you. This holds true so close to 100% of the time that it is not worth worrying about the edge cases.
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>>17538453
But what I mean is how can I find out why?
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>>17538462
Listen faggot.
You don't want to find out why.
You're not on this world to please that ONE SINGLE GIRL WHO DOESN'T LIKE YOU!
You're not here to please anyone.
You WON'T CRAWL INTO HER FEET THINKING THAT WILL LEAD INTO HER PANTIES!
YOU'LL IGNORE THAT BITCH AND MOVE ON, LIKE THE MAN YOU'RE SUPOSED TO BE!
Just like the fathers before your fathers!
If you want to fuck her mood - or just fuck her in general, here's what you have to do:
Try to make acquaintances with her friends, better yet, get to be their buddies, even if they're assholes.
Every time you see them, you go to them and say hello, shake hands, HUG THEM IF NECESSARY.
And treat her like a fucking hobo you want her to be.
Soon all of her friends will love you and SHE WILL HATE YOU for stealing them from her, and either SHE WILL PLEAD for your presence near her or SHE WILL LOATHE herself and ask "What's wrong with ME? Why am I not perfect? Why can't I please that ALPHA MALE?"
And there you go.
You're done.