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About a month ago I had the worst string of panic attacks in my life. I couldn't stop shaking for nearly 2 days, got nauses and vomited. I was convinced I had brain cancer. Ehat rlse could explain my tinnitus, headaches and wierd vision problems /s. When I went to the doctor and had abnormal liver enzymes (AST 67 ALT 94) I was convinced it was the end. The cancer had spread to my liver from my brain.

I got another liver test and came back normal, saw a neurologist and be said it's all anxiety.

I saw a psychiatrist on the 8th and started cymbalta. Since then I haven't been able to shake the feeling that I'm loosing it. Everything feels like a dream. Sometimes I have a hard time sorting my memories. Confusing some dream memories with real life. Last night I had a vivid nightmare and was upset for a few minutes, it took me two minutes to realize it was all a dream

I'm also having existential issues. Why am I here, what is the point, am I going crazy, society is so fragile, life is so fragile...

Today I was driving home and on my way I saw a mailbox and firehydrant. In the corner of my eye. I was sure it was a person about to step in the road. Like 99%. When I looked at it for a second I realized it was just a mailbox

I have had this happen before. I've also had delusions of medical problems. I was convinced I had a brain tumor a while back.
I also have small sparks or flashes light in my vision ocassionally, especially when moving my head. I have had it looked at my an Opthomoligist and they said my eyes are fine.

Could this be the start of schizophrenia

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Let me tell you about my life
25 basement dweller living with my parents
I suck at everything I do, sports, board games, video games.
I'm always last. I suck at life, at studies, at work. I don't suck with average looking women but I suck with good looking women. I suck at making friends, I suck with my family, I'm too distracted, I forget everything, I'm lazy.
I'm schizo affective I've been hospitalized twice.
I feel like I'm a total looser.

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My gf of 3 years is very uattractive. I think we just got together because I had low self estheem. Currently there is a little biscuit at work I think I have a chance with. My GF is good in bed, but I'd like to have sex with someone slim.

Not sure what to do. I dont want to break up yet, because I dont know how it will work out with the hottie at work. So far we have had sex one time after work, but I'm not sure if she actually wants to date. Id feel a bit silly if I broke up with my gf and ended up single.

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Are girls are nice as I imagine? They smell pretty nice when I'm around them...

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Let's have a demographics thread.

Post:
>age
>occupation

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>Turned 18 yesterday
>Have been browsing this site since 13 and it's been the only site I browse since 14
>See jews everywhere I go, can't make friends, suspicious of everyone, everyone I meet thinks i'm weird, have all sorts of "out there" opinions/feelingd no one else knows about
Can you repair the raw fucking damage this place does to a brain

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What is a fuck boy?

Girls use it as a compliment. Guys use it as an insult.

What is the correct way to use fuckboy?

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I am an asshole and i openly admit it.

>2 year and a half relationship with my Gf.
>Constant discussions since past year, got heavier some time ago (even involving physical violence, usually it's her punching and i easily stop her hits or evade them.
>Have this gorgeous friend that i've known for a year and a half now.
>Cheat on my gf with my friend past May, making out with her at school.
>Things get worse when we go farther (she gave me a oral).
>Friend realizes i'm still on my relationship and wants to be the only one.
>Guiltyness eats me alive each day.
>Today i saw my gf and we had great sex all day.
>Go to a bar with my friend, we leave and end up fucking (for the first time) on my garage.

Now, i know my own actions have taken me to this place, but in al honesty, i really regret doing all this to my GF and i am crying right now.

I feel it's too late to stop things with my friend, she thinks i already broke up with my gf and it's very in love with me.

I realize i'm literally scum

My plans are currently two:

>Tell my girlfriend everything, tell my friend the situation and see what happens.

>Slowly dump my friend and then tell my gf the truth.

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A female friend of mine who I've known for a year asked if she could join me on a trip I'm taking next month. I thought it was interesting that she was so forward about wanting to join me and gladly accepted the offer.

The problem is that I'm a guy, and I'm well aware of the narrative that surrounds men and women being "just friends" (that is to say, they don't exist, and at least one secretly wants to bone the other). A couple of male friends are already egging me on to put a move on her, or seem to think that this was part of some cunning plan on my behalf to get closer to her. In reality I have put women/dating on the backburner, and just want to enjoy spending quality time with people I feel comfortable around. I've grown tired of doing everything by myself, and when people themselves offer to accompany me on my trips like this I'm very enthused.

I won't lie and say that I am not attracted to her. The problem is I've been burned so many times and while she is fun, interesting, cool and pretty good looking I can't pull the trigger. I don't think a relationship is what I need right now. And I don't think pursuing her is in the best interest of my emotional/mental wellbeing. The only thing that would change my mind is if, we go on this trip and we find out we are very compatible and there's even some spark. Otherwise the last thing I want to do is muck up a quality friendship with something stupid like "confessing my feelings" (ugh) or some similar nonsense.

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You know what to do.
Last one (straight-up died): >>17526901

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I'm 32 years old. Is there any way I can still lose my virginity without a prostitute?

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I had a huge fight with my girlfriend yesterday. She's half white and half first nations and I'm white with Italian roots. I say this because she hates white people. She says racist things to my face and comments on how we all need to die daily. Now normally I don't care, but yesterday when she was msging me while going through once of her rants, it was a lot and it was getting annoying. So I texted her saying racism isnt good to combat racism. She then goes on a huge rant about how much her people have suffered over the years and its okay that she gets to be racist.

We live in canada where racism against natives is a problem still and residential schools were a huge problem over the last century with the last one being closed in 1996. Now, her people may have suffered a lot, her grandmother was one of the last children out of res school so she does have a second hand experience, but she herself never went to res school, or was abused by a white guy, or whatever. Worst shes had done is some guy call her a racial slurs. Shes lived a pretty sheltered life because of being half white. So i told her that you shouldnt hate a race based on individuals. I have been mugged by natives before and my friends have been held at gun point and nearly killed by a few, being said i don't hate natives for that even though they have actually caused trauma in my life.

She then went on a huge rant about how it was ok that that native mugged me and nearly killed my friends because he was probably abused as a child and that white people were the problem with why they were so fucked up. She basically pulled the "my oppression card" and victim blamed me for being white. Anything I said after that she responded witih " I need to shutup and check my privilege."

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The best way to kill myself?

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I'm not afraid of rejection from women, but I am absolutely fucking terrified of approval.

That is to say, I have no fear in approaching, flirting with, and asking women out.
But the instant they say "Sure" to a date, I lose my fuckin mind. I don't know what to do. I'm suddenly horrified that it's just going to be a bad date, and it usually is. I lose all conversational topics. I resort to the shitty "SO WHAT'S NEW" or "DO YOU LIKE YOUR JOB" topics you use when you're left alone in a room with somebody you don't know.
How the fuck do I like, make dates good?

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Okay so my fiancé and I moved in with his parents to save money for college.
His family is really nice to me but the problem is, his dad invites me to spend time with him and watch tv and stuff in the living room and he smokes in there. I have bitch lungs with asthma and the smell makes me feel ill. How do I tell him politely that it's not healthy for me to breathe that air in?