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Is it possible to knowingly do wrong and not feel guilt. I want answers from personal experience.
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>>17536498
Maybe if you're a sociopath
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>>17536498

depends on your definition of 'knowingly do wrong'.

by my parents perspective, doing things like watching porn was 'wrong' but i saw no harm, so i felt no guilt, even if caught.

i know there is nothing actually wrong with pedophilia as long as you arent hurting anyone, so i dont feel guilty about that either. i would if i went out of my way to do something illegal / harm a child.

however my parents were open to alcohol consumption when i was a teenager, but i felt guilty doing that. despite how we are raised we do shave some sense of our own moral code we follow.

either way it boils down to this.
if you feel legitimate guilt than you do think its wrong, either by your own moral code or how someone elses / societies was forced on you.

if oyu believe it is wrong, than you feel guilty. the two are forever connected.

however society / others may consider it wrong and you will feel no guilt, ergo you aren't 'knowingly doing wrong' so much as you are knowingly doing what others find wrong.

so again, it boils down to the definition of 'knowingly do wrong' or rather what is 'wrong' itself.
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if you feel bad doing it, its wrong to you.

One of my favorite YouTubers has an unprotected website and I was able to find her IP address and geolocation within just a couple of minutes. Should I let her know anonymously or will I seem creepy because I have her IP address?
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I don't want someone with bad intentions to get ahold of it and dox her
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Just let her know, say "your website is unprotected and people could find your location through it."
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>>17536633
this is creepy as fuck tho

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Hey /adv/, I don't have anyone else to talk to so I hope you can help me with something I'm dealing with.

My only friend called me today and we had a chat about stuff and he mentions that he has been fucking this girl that has a long-term boyfriend (he's been on holiday for ages).

He described in detail how she sucked his dick and he was in hysterics when he told me that she was going to see and kiss her boyfriend that day with his cum in her mouth.

He went on to describe other twisted shit that this girl had done that was completely disrespectful to this boyfriend of hers, again crying with laughter.

I was shocked. I really felt disgusted by my friend. I don't think I'll be able to look at him in the same way again.

Question is, am I right to feel this way? I think I sound like a faggot when I read this over, but I really feel strongly about cheating and this fucking disgusted me.
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>>17536421
You're right to feel that way. I was in your friends shoes last year. I was messing around with this girl who had a bf who was much older than she was. Sometimes she'd suck my dick and at night she'd go see him. Anyways, another friend of mine liked this girl so when he found out I was messing with her, and she was cheating on her bf with me - he became angry and resentment. Not just because of the immoral things I did, but because he had a vested interest in her.

So if you feel disgusted about it, chances are it's immoral and you know better. I don't like cucking to be honest which is why I ended that arrangement. I wanted to be her only man but the whore didn't want it that way.
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>>17536444
Well, I'm gonna tell him how I feel about it because I'm not gonna end a friendship over this.

Seriously though, I think cucking in your case isn't as awful as what my friend is doing.

She was using a vibrator on herself when her boyfriend was playing WoW and on the phone to his mom, and ofc she filmed the whole thing on snapchat and sent it to him.

He even told me he fucking loves it when she screams about how much bigger his dick is than this poor idiot.

Do you see why I'm so disgusted? He's getting off to completely disrespecting some fool.
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>>17536467
It's okay OP. Just let him know you don't appreciate those comments. If he won't stop, just ask him to keep it to himself.

FYI that arrangement ended with her telling her man, and he knew apparently. He left her and she's all alone now.

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How, /adv/? Fucking how?

I've been on a fucking never-ending loop of varying motivations for projects and I can't fucking handle it anymore.
>get new idea
>daydream how good it would be
>stop any project you've been working on and leave it for "later"
>repeat

I'm fucking serious, I've accumulated at least 60 unfinished projects in the last 10 years (I've counted them), 10 FUCKING YEARS. I've been perfectly able to finish all of them, it's not like I hit some sort of "block" with my projects or that I'm incapable to do them; my problem is that new ideas pop up and I convince myself that "I should totally be working on this new thing, I shouldn't waste my time on this other thing" every fucking time.

[cont.]
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[cont.]

I've received psychological help for the last 4 months, but nothing has changed, it's all the same. I figured I should choose a couple ideas and finish them NO MATTER WHAT (one that's I can finish soon for some cash, and another that would take much more time but could be more profitable), but it's been only two weeks and the uncertainty is starting to kick in again, and it's fucking intolerable.

What should I do, /adv/? I've been working like a dog for 10 years, but everything I've worked on is worthless because none of my projects have been finished. I'm afraid I'll break down and repeat the process once again. Help, help, help.

If anyone is wondering, the projects vary between: video games, programs/tools, websites, YouTube channels, business models, shops, art, comics and animations.
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How do I acquire female fuckbuddy, not one night stand? (average looking to hot looking) What types of girls are into this stuff? What gets them off in the first place not counting the sex afterwards? How to keep a fuckbuddy?

I am 28 y/o low experienced male who doesn't like clubs and parties. Not autistic just generally having little time for relationships (don't ask why, it is irrelevant at this point)

>inb4 money
>inb4 rent a hooker
>inb4 be a chad
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>>17536359
The inb4s are the answers, what do you expect? For women to just want see your overweight and ugly and greasy face while they ride your friendless and socially awkward micropenis?
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>>17536368
Skinny. 7 inch. Not a butterface either.
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>>17536359
>How do I acquire female fuckbuddy, not one night stand?
Get on Tinder and play the number's game

> What types of girls are into this stuff?
Girls that are. You can't tell at first glance.

>What gets them off in the first place not counting the sex afterwards?
Can be a number of things. From a very dominant personality to just a very good discussion, I've had both.

>How to keep a fuckbuddy?
Just keep it going as you like. It's supposed to be for fun, so let it be just that. If you really wanna get technical, you've got to play the hot and cold game.


Ask anything else if you still need help

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How do you deal with the fact that being intelligent is not always the same as being correct? I rarely consider myself smarter than others, probably less often than I consider other people to be silly, confused, etc. You can judge me for this post, but I know you guys are in the same boat sometimes. You see a priest who only talks about money, a person who horribly manipulates every lover they come across, a person who is wild and thinks it is the world's problem, a non-politician meme candidate for president on television, a friend who offends everyone they speak to on purpose...The list goes on. How do you deal with the fact that most people are wrong most of the time? The same thing goes for making personal discoveries. Sometimes the feeling of, "Wow, I never knew that!" can be devastating rather than fun.

How do you deal with all of the incorrectness?
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You aren't as smart or as clever as you think you are. Just giving you my opinion because I used to be like you and was miserable because of it.
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>>17536333
I said in my post that I don't consider myself smarter than people very often, and predicted some people would jump on the opportunity to pass harsh judgement. This person is exactly what I'm talking about. Well, a small part of what's being talked about here.
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>>17536331
You have to understand the fact that you are not special

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I feel like I can't love a non virgin girl. Its not because I have a fetish for deflowering virgins, but if I'm in a loving relationship with someone id like to be their first. (Preferably theyd be my first too but now its too late for that).

I just cant deal with the fact that my gf has had more partners than me. This means ill always be conpared to past partners. It means I wasnt the one who got to give her her first sexual experience. Sure I can care for her deeply, but I cant love her because those images will never leave my mind.

I'm not religious or anything, I just think if im going to love someone they should be mine 100%

Am I a bad person? I feel like im misleading my gf by being with her but not loving her.
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You need serious therapy...
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>>17536309
The common advice you'd get here would be to dump her and find a virgin. Then again once you find the virgin she will only have you as partner, on the other hand you already had several. See the double standards?
Faggot.
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Why do you care about something you can't change? Accept someone for who they are, not what they've done.

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Help me out /adv/,

I'm starting to fall in love with a girl from my class at university. Though I've never been in love before, I'm quite sure this is it. I think of her most of the day; I get nervous when I see her/talk to her, etc.. Never felt this about any girl before.

However, there's no chance I'll get to be with her, so... how do I rid myself of this feeling?
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That is lust and nothing more. Love at first sight doesn't exist.

>there's no chance I'll get to be with her

Why because your pussy ass can't go up to her and talk? Stop being a pansy and go make a move fruit fuck.
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>>17536266
>That is lust and nothing more. Love at first sight doesn't exist.
This isn't at first sight. Known her for 6 months. Talk to her regularly.

>Why because your pussy ass can't go up to her and talk? Stop being a pansy and go make a move fruit fuck
Pretty much. I have no confidence and I don't see that changing any time soon.

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How can I get over alcohol?

I wouldn't say I'm an alcoholic, but I've definitely been drinking a solid 15+ beers a week since I first turned 21 (I'm 22 going on 23 now). I have noticed that over this last year and a half I have gained probably a solid good 15 lbs and have aged a lot in my face. I don't even really drink to get drunk per say, I usually just have like 3ish beers for a good buzz then stop. I want to get my life back in track and stop drinking basically altogether expect for social events here and there. Help?

Pic unrelated, a really shitty guitar amp
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Alcoholic anonymous. Dead serious.

You are an alcoholic.
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>>17536182
Lol. Only person that can decide they are an alcoholic is the person drinking. Everyone in the world can think you're a drunk but if you don't believe it, it doesn't mean shit.

That is the whole point of the first step.

>>17536177
There are lots of ways to get sober but none of them are easy. Do you want to stop completely or cut back?
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>>17536199
I would just like to cut back a lot. Like make that 15+ beers a week to like 3-5 (aka when I go out with friends or whatever)

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I'm supposed to meet these 30 year old woman to have sex. But i'm so scared. She's a swinger. I wouldnt even consider sleeping with a girl my age with a boyfriend but she is kinda like a pornstar, uploading videos to Twitter. I've never felt like this. It's like a mixture between being scared, anxious and really horny. It's just so intense. I feel like i need to impress her but i can't since i'm pretty much just a kid to her. I'm 20 btw
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>>17536162
She is not expecting to be impressed because she clearly likes them young.
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If you are this nervous and you haven't even banged her your dick will be flaccid from all the nervousness.

Start meditating asap to calm yourself down. Nothing more humiliating then a girl wanting to bang you but your dick can't get hard.
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>>17536166
Yeah, chances are SHE's gonna take you for a ride, not you ;-)

Chill, this is a great occasion you've got there, a lot would envy you, enjoy it, nothing else matters :-)

And then come back to tell us how it was ;-)

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I'm having these reoccurring dreams, spread out over the last 5 years where I'm a woman, and I'm in some sort of sexual situation. The two I remember most clearly were I was being handed these drinks, and everyone around was telling me to drink it, when I asked what it was. They all started basically raping me, and I couldn't do anything. It was the scariest nightmare I've had. The other 1 was similar, but I was by myself, masturbating, and I could hear people laughing at me, then the sounds died down. I don't get why I would dream about being tortured and being a woman. Doesn't really make sense. How can I make these dreams stop?
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You sound like a faggot imo.
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>>17536213
yeah iagree
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A nice dicking should clear things up.

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im 25 and got my first girlfriend a month ago.

She texts me all the time about random stuff and rants to me. I'm annoyed by it and I do like spending time with her in person, but she's overbearing via text. Also, I have this certification exam in 2 weeks and want to tell her to not see or speak to me because i wanna lock myself in my room to read for it. Am I just some sociopath or am I just overreacting to all of this because its so new to me?
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You're overreacting to all of this because its so new to you. Locking yourself in your room and not talking to her or seeing her for two weeks is a very bad idea. Take this new experience and learn to enjoy talking and listening to people.
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>>17536147
>25
>got first girlfriend

Are you rich or something? How did you become a normie suddenly at 25?
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>>17536161
While you are indeed correct in that this is a new experience for him, I say to you OP, and I sincerely mean this - if the girl is already annoying you after a month, it will continue unless she gets over whatever it is that she is ranting about (she could be having a bad time which is no one's fault) or you decide to put your foot down.

Let this be your warning and lets look at the flags:

>texts you constantly about random stuff
>ranting all the time
>you are annoyed after a month
>you like speaking to her in person (she acts one way in front of you), yet she is overbearing in her messages (she acts another way when at a safe distance)

You are not a sociopath by any means. You need to complete this exam without any stress, drama,or distractions from her or anyone else. Make sure that she understands how important this is for you because all thing considered, this IS more crucial than her. Girlfriends will come and go, and I'm not saying that this will not last, but getting that certification under your belt should be the first ting on your mind. If she gives a fuck about you she will understand that and back off.

This relationship will test the both of you.

Girls have the potential to help the world so much it's legitimately ridiculous, and they don't utilize it

If they'd stop being alpha cock hungry whores for a few moments and give the reasonably competent, intelligent, accomplished guys a chance the world would just be so much happier overall. But they optimize for themselves and every member of society suffers in every way possible, including themselves

Does this situation work out for them? Going after alpha man slut jocks? No, it doesn't, those guys don't stick with her and marry her and have kids with her and support her their whole lives like what she wants. She just gets some good sex with a primally attractive guy and loses out in most other areas of life, most of the time

They'd be happier being fucking reasonable and so would everyone else.

Am I wrong? I may be
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>>17536102
>Does this situation work out for them? Going after alpha man slut jocks?

Actually yes it does. Stop projecting.
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How about you mind your own business and stop caring about what other people are doing? By accomplished guys do you mean people who are virgins in their twenties who may have a good job but absolutely no social experience, mental issues and who are needy and bitter as hell? Because a lot of accomplished guys do well with women.

> those guys don't stick with her and marry her and have kids with her and support her their whole lives like what she wants

They usually don't want that, at least not in their twenties
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Who broke your heart, op?

My friend the beekeeper gave me a jar of honey. It's delicious. However, this may be ridiculous, but I'm having trouble thinking of things to put it on/use it for. English muffins for breakfast, maybe...but what else?
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You can use it for tea or make a good chicken sauce.
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Don't worry too much about it, honey is good forever.
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>>17536074
tea
peanut butter, banana, and honey sandwich is pretty good
dip graham crackers in it
apply to biscuits
just eat it with a spoon
works well for managing sore throats, and is good for the skin too
also google you lazy little shit

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Okay so listen...
I am homosexual - im 19 and im on highschool.
So i have "friends" which ive told im gay because i didnt want to lie to them

And..
Well it seems like they are making fun of me - we are still friends tho.

But i was really depressed and emailed one teacher if i can talk to her about my depressions. - i want to explain that ^^^ without no drama..
But how? I mean the problem is i dont know how to tell the teacher im homosexual
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be careful who you look to for approval, especially of something like your sexuality. don't just ask random douchebags for opinions on who you are. your friends are random douchebags, and the teacher might even be a random doucehbag. value the opinions of those who have valuable opinions, not cunts who make fun of people.

I'd say stop trying to get approval from everyone for your homosexuality, because that plan might just backfire.
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It's a good idea to learn to get a thicker skin, throw back bants and not take things so serious. Also I don't know if it's a good idea to get a teacher involved, they might make it a big huge deal
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>>17536067
I mean the teacher (her) supports LGBT community thats why i want to talk to her especially. So what now? Ive told her il reply to her email till end of the week

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