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How do you befriend people with similar interests
You think it be easy but it never is . It's always
>I like thing
>me too
And I want to stop taking to them . How do you do it adv?
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It's the same for me. The clincher is always appearance.
What do you like? Maybe we can be friends.
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>>17537196
Art
Uhh comics I think
Animation in general really
Random games
Nothing else
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>>17537203
Are you cute?
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Hey /adv/, is it possible for a person to drastically change in a month or two?
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>>17537181
two months on a meth addiction could change you lots.
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>>17537181
You can dramatically change right now
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Of course it is.
You'll probably need something to trigger you though otherwise it will be difficult.
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In the need of venting 2016-09-06 01:50:59 Post No.17537143
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I am basically just looking for some attention.
As of late I've been feeling the need of talking with somebody but I haven't been able to.
I am struggling with everything I have to do even tho the situation I am in is not even what you would call complicated. I received the easy treatment in life, I dont have a job, just go to college and things are crumbling down again.
Months ago my general goal was to get proficient at studying, I stablished a schedule that I swore to keep up with everyday, giving at least 50 minutes to each topic listed there. The topics went from Calculus, to electricity, to even learning a new language, even tho I had a lot of free time, I barely kept up with it.
Now things are just crumbling around, don't feel any drive to get anything done, feel dumb and hazy. My mind just feels all over the place and can't focus. Cant read, whenever I am reading I re read the sentence over an over, feels like an endless loop, as if words didn't make any sense to me.
I am angry all the time, pissed at people, can't handle the noises, the screams, the constant talk at the library.
The thought of not progressing, of knowing nothing, of getting dumber is affecting me. I often feel like I can't produce anything from my own mind, as if I lacked the free will to come up with something, as If I was locked, everything I must read and copy, thinking has become hard.
I just sit here, think, become self absorbed in my delusions of grandeur, self absorbed in my attempts to persuade me that I can actually be less of a loser. Yet I do nothing and nothing comes out, loser remains.
I feel alone, not in the sense of needing company to have fun or things like that, but in the sense of not having somebody to hold myself onto in my journey. I feel as if I myself wasn't enough to do and learn. This is such a bitch comment in my book, since everybody I know in my family had to sort things out themselves, alone, but I seem to not be able to? why?
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>>17537143
Order some papa johns online
Stream The Matrix
Then pretend you're Neo from now on; seriously do it
t. werks for me
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join the club xD they say im an attention whore, but im the only one who knows im here most of the time. If i wanted attention I would've sought it from another living human being and make a scene. Not to a screen in bum fuck egypt
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>>17537143
>can't handle the noises, the screams, the constant talk at the library.
Neither can i, that's why i study at home
And remember that you don't need to accomplish great things (yet), you're in college to get your damn degree not to be some goddamn hero
Remember that nobody's really got things sorted out
We all just figure it out as we go along
We run into an obstacle, then figure out how to get around it
Run into a problem, figure out how to solve it
And we keep going like that
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Hey /adv/, other than women and money (which are non-specific), what is your goal in life? What do you hope to achieve with the time you have on this earth?
I've recently become financially stable for the first time in my life, and I'm at a loss.
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>>17537078
Wisdom and bodily strength (at least for a few decades).
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Knowledge and power.
But since knowledge IS power, then all I want it knowledge.
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>>17537078
Used to be happiness but i don't know anymore
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/adv/ how do I know if I'm actually lesbian or am just missing something in my life because I was raised by a single father? My ex-girlfriend accused me of this a month ago and I keep thinking about it.
Every woman I'm interested in is older than me, like in their 30s/early 40s. They make me feel secure and at peace but I don't know if what I'm feeling is actual romantic attraction. It feels like it but I don't know.
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Just see if you can picture yourself with a guy, and which of the two feels more natural. That worked for me.
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>>17537106
I definitely don't think I'm attracted to men, I never have been... But the thing is I'm not sure if I'm attracted to women either? I don't enjoy the sex and it is a regular cause of friction in my relationships. I do think women are amazing and beautiful and I love being with them and melting into their arms in a hug or a cuddle but I don't look at lesbian porn or anything like that. I feel like a weirdo I guess.
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Sleep with a man.
I considered myself gay until I was 21, had a couple year + serious relationships with guys. After a breakup I was emotionally exhausted and on a whim went out with a girl, and now I consider myself pretty much straight.
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I'm considering getting an Aneros Helix Syn. Is this apt to be sufficient to achieve a prostate orgasm? Also, what are some decent water based lubes? Never used anything but spit, or on occasion, cocoa butter, prior.
I don't like having to buy an object specifically made for this, but haven't been able to make anything work using fingers or any other improvised implement. Suppose ~40 bucks isn't terrible. Hope it's worth it.
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>>17537055
Astroglide
Also, Aneros products are good for like ambient pleasure I guess, like gentle near orgasm experiences but at the end of the day just a dildo you can ride will get you there faster than basically meditating with this thing in your ass
The best time to use it is when you're half-awake and horny as fuck
t. Owner of Progasm and Helix
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>The best time to use it is when you're half-awake and horny as fuck
I've found this to be true as well. I somewhat begin to get somewhere, but ultimately lose it and certainly never quite arrive.
>Aneros products are good for like ambient pleasure I guess, like gentle near orgasm experiences
Ignoring speed or efficiency, are they viable as far as getting to the orgasm? That's what I'm really after.
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Bump. Have become enticed by the notion of new pleasures and must know whether to bother spending money.
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Thinking of penile enlargement
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5.5, i kinda want to do it for just me and not really concerned about chicks liking it
7.5 inches is what i want, it would look nice.
Anyone else went through it,, experience, regrets?
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>>17536974
There is no penile enlargement, so there's nobody that's gone through it, experiences it, or regrets it.
There's one surgery, which carries the risks typical of surgery + erectile dysfunction, that might get you to 6.5-7.
Play with the cards you've got, my man.
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>>17536977
>There's one surgery, which carries the risks typical of surgery + erectile dysfunction, that might get you to 6.5-7.
well i don't plan to have sex, i just want to have one because i feel it would make me feel more confident. Make me happier
Also i hate this fucking hand i want a new one.
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>>17536977
>tfw already 6.5 and it makes girls too sore
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How can I make friends that don't try to mold me? 2016-09-06 00:53:39 Post No.17536966
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How can I make friends that don't try to mold me?
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Author of >>17529179 here.
So I'm not a particularly extroverted -- or for that matter, assertive -- person. I'm somewhat content just being in my own little corner and would prefer an environment where everyone is sort of "chill" for lack of a better word and content with just being casual and all that.
But, short of online acquaintances, I've never really managed to encounter people like that in real life. Or rather, I have, but hadn't been deemed worth being accepted into their clique.
The only person that contacts me offline with any regularity is a guy I grew up in the same neighborhood as. He's not a bad guy by any means, but he is at best indifferent and at worst actively opposed to most of my interests/ideas. He's far more red oni than my blue oni, so to speak.
He seems intent to make me some mid-low tier "Chad" (Sorry for the r9k terminology, but its accurate in this instance) that fucks mostly the sort of women I wouldn't ever actively encounter (his ex was a junkie and alcoholic whose tendencies he overlooked for the easy lay), and he continually belittles me for being a virgin. I suppose that is sort of pathetic of me, though.
Anyway, I can't seem to find any sorts of people I'd like to hang out with offline, and the general "flyover" nature of my living area makes it hard to find those sorts of people due to a general lack of events drawing those sorts of people together. I'm sure they are around here, but more likely in some hole in the wall, and even more likely in circumstances that make cold opens with the intent of becoming friends possible.
Also, fair disclosure for anyone wishing to comment on the virginity thing; I'm both ugly and overweight (though losing weight slowly) and have never actively sought dating outside of the period mentioned in the previous thread. I had an online fling for a while, but that ended for obvious reasons.
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You can do it, OP! All you need to do is Bo-lieve!
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>>17536982
I don't know why that made me chuckle, but thanks for it, Anon.
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Is /adv/ the only board that displays a thread's page number as "?" for anyone else? Also, does using the popout reply tool get "Connection error." after sundown for anyone else?
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Hey advice. recently I've been having some really disturbing symptoms I want to know if anyone can help me figure this out, not sure if it's just anxiety or possibly schizophrenia. I've been hearing voices for a coule of months now, they mainly just call my name and say things such as "I'm inside your head" or "do you hear me".
Sometimes when I'm in front of the mirror I feel like something takes me over and my face contorts, sometimes it's just my expression but one time it looked actually demonic. I keep get a feeling that I'm eing watched by some presence and it scares the shit out of me, sometimes I fall asleep with my bible hoping it provides protection fro whatever is bothering me and I'm not even christian. And just today I noticed around 2 I was seeing shadows of people out my peripheral vision, every time I look directly at them they disappear.
I'm trying to manage college but I'm freaking the fuck out, my psychiatrist prescribed me geodon and it helped a bit with the voices but didn't stop the shadow thing today. I just needed to vent I guess mainly, but if anyone knows if this is just anxiety or schizophrenia it would be appreciated.
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>>17536937
How much are you sleeping, and what other medications are you on?
Unless the above 2 questions explain it, it's likely schizophreniform (as in, your problems are in that general family, but it's impossible for me to tell simply over the internet whether it'd be most appropriate to call your symptoms schizotypal, schizoaffective, schizophrenic, etc).
The other option is manic/psychotic depression, basically, and the line between it and the schizo family is blurry and will change in the future.
What did your psychiatrist tell you? What's your official diagnosis?
And ziprasidone (geodon) is an antipsychotic. If it's not controlling your psychotic symptoms, you need to tell your psychiatrist that as soon as possible (ie next meeting if you have one scheduled regularly, if not then go make an appointment).
They may need to change the dosage or switch to a different one: this is common and people usually try at least several different antipsychotics before settling on one.
To put it simply, it's not "just" anxiety. If you've struggled with anxiety in the past, it's almost certainly making your reaction to the visions and sounds worse (ie you're more afraid of them). Without the anxiety, you might be more comfortable with them, but that's not all that great, and many people think it's actually worse: you don't want to end up as the guy talking to demons or angels or tulpas as if they're right there standing next to you, and you REALLY don't want to be the guy who does what they tell you. You've seen enough movies to know that's not how you want to end up.
Don't let that scare you, though. That kind of shit pretty much only happens in untreated cases, where the disease runs rampant and destroys proper judgement, decision-making, and perception. With proper medication, many cases are treatable to the point where even a boyfriend or girlfriend might not notice anything at all until months into the relationship.
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Hallucinations are a part of psychosis, not anxiety. You're probably anxious as well.
The treatment you receive in the next few years will determine the outcome of your life, so I suggest getting the best, most appropriate treatment possible.
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No one here can give you a proper diagnosis, go to a professional and tell them everything you told us
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So I had finally saved enough money to move out of my parents house to another state and start pursuing my dream career. But suddenly, by an act of what I can only assume to be providence, some dude on sleeping pills went out driving, missed the dozens of other cars in the street, and completely totaled mine. I'm gonna get jack shit for it and I have to use all that money I saved to replace it. My parents said they're not helping me, even though they could. They already bought my older brother a car when he was eighteen and they had less money. They already set aside money to pay for a new car but my dad spent it all on himself. I'm more than a little bitter about that. So I'm basically on my own here.
I'm really bummed about the whole situation now that I'm back at square one after over two years of hard work and life changing positive decisions. I was already getting a somewhat late start on my life but now I'm stuck for another two or so years saving money.
What do I even do? I can't bare the thought of living in this shitty, failing city and my toxic patents house for another couple years just spinning my wheels. Waiting one more month was already killing me. Compound this with a few personal problems and my will to keep going is slipping away.
Help me /adv/. I've already turned my life around once, how do I do it again?
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I'm now drunk. Bump
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>>17537777
Waste of quads
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Do you really need a car on this other state? Can't you just Uber?
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>Girl flirts with me, hugs me, invites me places, stares at me when I'm not looking etc.
>Says to her friends she likes Chad
WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO. She fucking made me fall for her and then this shit happens. What is my best course of action, I can't get her out of my head now
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Bumpo
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You've probably misread most of her signs, she sees you as a friend, nothing more just move on with your life
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>>17537040
I don't want none my friends in that way. We are all lazy and hygiene isn't at the top of our to do list. Fuck that
How do I make friends in university?
I been a friendless loser for about 4 years now and I'm wondering how do I change that now I am in uni?
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>>17536831
Why do you want to make friends?
Real people are trash anyway.
Also, why do you think you are entitled to friends? You've been friendless for a reason, know your place.
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>>17536844
Looks like /r9k/ is leaking again
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>>17536831
is it a big school? you'll always be able to find a group of people to relate to in a big school.
if you're a freshman coming in then you need to remember that essentially everyone is in the same boat. some are scared, some are excited, but they're all looking at a new start and want to take advantage of it.
the worst thing you can do is freeze up at the beginning of the semester. just talk to people before lectures and make friends with people you're living with/the floor as a whole. the beginning of the year is when everyone is receptive to meeting new people. once they get comfortable then they form groups and such and it gets harder than it needs to be.
if you're commuting then kek. i could hardly make friends at schools i commuted to. i generally just ended up getting to know three or four people really well if i commuted so i can maintain some form of a social life.
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For those of you with severe anxiety problems, can you tell me how you make your romantic relationships work? And what it's like to be in relationships for you?
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>can you tell me how you make your romantic relationships work
They don't
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>>17536799
yeah? what have your experiences been like?
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>>17536830
I'm not >>17536799
but mine was always been horible, always start when I'm drunk, get to talk a lot, have a good time, fool around but the next time I ask the girl out I cant do/talk shit until I'm drunk again and never date the same girl more than 5~6 times because of this weird circle
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I do drugs because I'm lonely and I hate my life. What should I do instead?
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Lift
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>>17536781
address your problems like an adult instead of hiding behind your shitty drugs.
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Drugs are boring
Coffee isn't.
Video games isn't.
Movies aren't.
Books aren't.
Girls aren't
Money isn't
Work isn't
Drugs are boring.
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How to be subtly sexy? 2016-09-05 23:51:25 Post No.17536762
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femanon here asking for what straight guys and les chicks think is hot. Things that are ambiguously or unintentionally sexy that makes you horny.
>ib4 be yourself you fake slut
I'm asking for a play. Pic related.
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>>17536762
zettai ryouki
Sexual assertiveness (aka you initiate)
Being a semen demon in general with an insatiable sex drive
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>>17536772
Well, I do like thigh highs.
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>>17536762
... why not just be attractive? attraction is sexy.