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Cayman Islands?

Where in the world do you live where the government gets involved in inheritance issues?

>>17717351
America

I find Lenovo laptops cheap enough for what you get that I'd almost always rather buy new than used.

Problem is, that new one isnt anywhere to buy.

>>17718236
So buy a newer model...?

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No. Think you should probably give details, but 9 times out of ten it's not worth it.

I would send a message/text/letter. Depending on what you did, doing this in person maybe difficult for both parties. At least this way you can get it off your chest and it will be less stressful than an in person confrontation if they're still pissed/heart broken.

You don't miss her, you miss the sex and not feeling alone. You don't need another person to complete you, and if you do you are a worthless piece of shit.

Might as well kill yourself to The Smiths

>>17717800
This.

>>17717137
>I came out short I'm a mistake of human creation
Boo fucking hoo, shut the fuck up. You didn't come out mentally retarded, though one might not realize it, based on your post. First world problems. Fuck off

>>17717137
i will keep this short
>are you a girl?
if yes, this is fine
>are you a guy?
if yes, off yourself ur fucked unless you settle for an honest to god midget

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>>17717137

>Everytime I try explaining it to them they feel the need to patronize me and tell me I'm not allowed to be sad about the hand I was dealt at birth.

Everyone is allowed to be bummed about things in life but perspective is important. You have 2 arms, 2 legs, no cancers, tumors, growths or diseases, physical deformities or crippling disabilities.

Try telling some poor fucker born with no legs and a tumor on his face that you feel like a "mistake of humanity" because you're a little fucking short. It just seems a little silly when compared to people who are born with ACTUAL physical abnormalities that make their lives terrible, you know like cerebral palsy or some shit.

Its not that people don't understand, they just don't fucking care. No one has the time, energy, nor patience to join your short guy pity party. Either get over it and do the best you can or don't. No one cares.

>>17717115
>I say a lot of swear words, I have a very dark sense of humour, I jump and scream and run all the time
None of these things are really masculine.

> I feel they all want a pretty, shy and feminine girl who behaves like one of those popular girls in anime.
The only guys who want something like that are usually insecure or insecure weebs. Would you even be interested in them? Specially if you could find someone who likes you for being the way you are.

>What should I do?
Grow up. There is literally no problem with you (from the info you gave) and you worry about dumb shit ... which is actually a cliche thing for the insecure girls in anime to do, so you're clearly there somewhat.

D-did I fall for bait?

In all honesty I think you can't change your personality to be more girly. Oh, you can act girly, but will that really make you happy? You haven't really given many reasons as to WHY you want to be more girly. You assume boy will like you more and to some extent that might be true in some circles and for some individuals, but not all of us are weebs who want qt anime-like waifus (hue). What I can guarantee you is that boys won't start swarming around you if you act like a shy, cutesy, feminine girl. Guys want a girl to look feminine, but the preferences in personalities can vary a lot. And from your description you don't sound very masculine at all. Well, swearing a lot is not very feminine, but that's about it. Actually, some contrast between your personality and appearance can spark interest in most people.

Try to put things into perspective. Why is it making you sad? Are you shunned because of it? Will your life be significantly better if you become more feminine?

You can try to tune your personality to be more "appealing", but I don't think you can change it entirely. From what you said I definitely don't think you should try. Remember that no matter how you act you won't be able to please everybody.

Hm, I see... Then I guess I'll stop worrying. I still have a hard time liking myself, but I guess I'll get there some day. Thanks.

>>17717108

>suspended from my corporate slave job where my job is to peddle vapid materialist made in China bullshit to stupid consumers who think having the ability of choosing between various flavours of oreos is freedom

If you had half a brain you'd voluntarily quit pal. Get a real job.

>>17717251
Yea but op makes stupid decisions all the time...

>>17717108
>but then at the end some how both of us start fighting

You need to learn to control your anger or else it's just going to happen again.

You build yourself piece by piece until you can look back and long for the carefree days. Then you smile.

>>17717060
>longing for carefree days
>smiling

sounds horrible, why build yourself into something then long for what you were

>>17717052
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son.

>apparently

>>17716928
>then what the fuck is feminism?
A way to weed out the betas.

Feminism is about whether you have the same chances within society and in the public realm.

Private relationships are different because it's hardly about being equal for the law or whatever but about personal, intimate preferences. Not to mention that heterosexual attraction and relationships are largely founded upon the differences between men and women. What men like in women (curves, soft relatively bare and rosy skin, big eyes) are the things that separate them from men and vice versa.
Now for most jobs that depends on rational thinking biological differences are hardly relevant. For a romantic relationship rooted in sexual attracted that directly relates to physical differences, it is different.

I don't see how this is much different from BDSM not being domestic abuse. All in all it's about choice. It's not very feminist to say that all women should work regardless of whether they want to or not. It is about making sure that if a woman wants to work, she's not hindered any more than a man would be in her shoes.

>>17716939
>Feminism is about whether you have the same chances within society and in the public realm.
I want an equal chance of being approached by a woman

>>17716822
Stop wearing shorts, for starters

>>17716824
But it's hot as fuck

>>17716828
Then don't complain that you look juvenile

>>17716793
>a borderline personality disorder
>I might have one

They're not Pokemon.

1.don't tell anyone
2.learn the symptoms and work on them continuously
3.remove yourself from people. it will not get better and you will drain them and ruin their lives. you will also ruin yours every time your social life blows up.
4.get a job where you can be distant in bad periods and close to people in good periods. to find a good balance is vital.
5.do not. DO NOT. get a job where you need to have solid integrity, present yourself as an honest human bean at all times, and seem like a trustable reasonable person. you will fail and they will smell the rat on you.

if you have it your life will suck. it will never get better :)

>>17716803
*and remember, it is always your fault. you are the big bad wolf always :)

It only hurts to think of losing him because your brain keeps flooding itself with love hormones when you're around him.

When you get rid of him it'll be like quitting smoking, but it'll be worth it.

>>17716628
Not worth it

>>17716628
From experience and still in that situation I can tell you it is so so hard. But for every good moment of love you feel and for every good memory you think of just think of how much hard work it is and how unhappy the relationship has made you. Only time and being 100% away from this person will help. Hang in there OP.

>>17716549

What makes it worse is she still does the same kind of shit today, just with less catastrophic consequences. She has learned nothing. This is just one of the things she does, she also never believes anything I say ever, but when called out on it insists that of course she believes her own child because not doing that would make her a bad person, which she isn't.

I've completely gotten over the bullying I experienced at school, time healed those wounds. But I have never been able to get over my anger and disappointment directed at my mother. What do I do? I feel like breaking contact is the only solution but she's not actually a terrible person. I can't "show her this post" just like I've never been able to talk to her about it, because she'll just tell me that I misunderstood something.

I'm sorry for the rant but even this post is just a castrated version of the full extent of the anger I feel towards her. My anger keeps me up many nights every month, it made me stop studying and write this post. I've wasted two hours on this rut already and I have to prepare for a test. Please help.

When you have a child and they turn into narcissistic obsessive cunts, it's easier to just let it slide and hope they kill themselves

>>17716549
Sure, she doesn't sound overly competent but I don't see why you'd hate her. Most parents have no fucking idea about parenting but at least it doesn't sound like she actively did anything to harm you.

>was not calling the psychiatry when I told her I wanted to die.
It's a decision with unknown consequences for her, why would she make it? How well does she even understand mental health?

>she'll just tell me that I misunderstood something.
Sounds like the case, plus some kind of unrealistic expectations.

How about you, what things did you do for her?

I like to fuck single moms

>>17716277
"haha this guys a moron lets see if he can think what im thinking"

>>17716284
I'm /x/ I don't doubt people's abilities.

>>17716253

Have a drink and loosen up.

>>17716269
Probably. I'm just scared because I do ROTC and don't want to fuck my life up.

>>17716270
>rotc
lmao