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Hey so I have this friend who needed money but something sounded fishy with her explanations. She said she's on desktop at a pc cafe and she has no mobile phone. But when she messages me i see the messenger icon instead of the facebook icon. Is there any way to know?
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She may have been hacked and the imposter is asking everyone on their friends list for money. Usually they have some BS story like being mugged in another country or something similar.
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>>17719813

This. If your friend needed money, she can call you.
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>>17719806
Shes your friend so cant you just call her?

Its probably a hacker though like FP said

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Hanging out with a girl who was a friend for about 5 years. She came in and out of my life. We had a casual sex thing and I tried to go for a relationship but she ended it to go have sex with another guy at her college and dumped me completely. Came back after a year and we got to talking again, we started doing casual sex again, hanging out a lot, everything was fine.

She wanted to make it a relationship thing, but she's bulemic and comes from a messed up family, and I said I wasn't ready for that kind of commitment because she has a habit of treating guys badly based on hearing new information. At this point we're talking every day and hanging out on weekends and it seems awesome.

Year goes by, and she sometimes needs space and then comes back and everything's normal again. I'm starting to see problems because she keeps posting stuff about introversion, how sometimes introverts don't want to talk to anyone and its not to do with you, etc. A little bit would be normal but this is like all she ever posts.

Three month ago we're hanging out at her mom's back porch and she starts freaking me out by staring at me with this kind of manic happy look and asking me if I know what love feels like, because she doesn't know. She's asked her therapist if she was a sociopath and he told her she wasn't. I just give a noncommital kind of response because I have no idea what to do.

We used to go to a bar and drink together, and lately she's started to drink more heavily daily, eventually got in a big argument with family members and broke someone's stuff and then went to the hospital. She tried to go clean, but would suggest that I could drink if I wanted to when I go to her house, although I usually wouldn't.

When we had sex she'd usually be pretty quiet and stuff, but she started drinking again this last two months, while at the same time going really hard about "god wants me to live, im a survivor" stuff on facebook.
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Check if she's in a sect or so. Check if she still have some friends (other than you) and if so, if she sees them regularly.
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>>17719804
Anyway so the last two times she was loud and going 'oh fuck' and saying things like 'put your dick in my pussy', and she basically made sure the whole house heard her, brother, mom, etc.

Then she said that she was going to be busy for a few weeks. I should've known then that she meant to cut me out, but she has friends that she hangs out with and does stuff with, and right after the last time she starts cutting me off completely. I try to message her and ask her about her day but its just one liners back. I asked her when she wanted to hang out again and got no response.

The last day I was there, her mom was pretty upset that she fell asleep on the bed and I was still watching the movie on netflix that we decided to watch together, and she told me I had to leave if she falls asleep, because she was upset from a time before where she fell asleep and slid off the couch and was leaning against it.

I asked my friends how they'd handle that situation because I thought I'd just make sure she's okay and wait until she woke up, and they'd say they wouldn't touch her or interfere in any way when that happens, but it probably pissed her mom off.

So now she's completely cut off contact and maybe her mom thinks I got her back into drinking, when she'd be drinking before I even got to her house and could smell her wine breath over this last month, but between what could possibly be her mom's anger or her own issues its like that disorientation you see in movies after a bomb goes off. What happened? Why did she suddenly change?
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>>17719838
If by sect you mean cult, all I know is the god stuff.

She still has some friends, she even is posting stuff about wine's benefits on facebook, she also posted another "if Im not talking, its nothing to do with you" thing, as well as another one that says "If you're in my life, you're a lucky person" kind of stuff, along with countless posts about "trying to get your life together is progress" stuff.

She actually went to a party last night for halloween, as she showed off her cake and the other stuff, and I think has been hanging out with her girl friends pretty regular.

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This is a question concerning career advice, originating from a NEET.

I've escalated from 2 1/2 years of sitting at home and hating myself. I've got a job at a call center, making ~$12 an hour and now I want to go back to school. I'm trying to figure out how to do this, because I have already dropped out and have a student loan.

I took a single semester, passed the singular class I took, but was not able to fill out my FAFSA for the next term due to my mother being incapacitated. I couldn't fill it out without my mothers tax information. I have my eye on Saint Petersburg College in Florida. (Since one of the campuses are local to me) I'm looking to get into systems administration, and I want to know if I can go back to school (part time, so I can also go to work to pay off any debts) and if so, how would I even begin to go about it?
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Is "Bachelor of Applied Science in Technology Development and Management" even a valid degree? It sounds like they had to rename it to something bizzare because it doesn't follow any regional requirements for just "BaS in Systems Administration" or "BaS in Software Development"
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I'm not above bumping this until I get a response.
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I spoke to the head of IT at my job to try to get an idea of what he would personally be looking for if I want to be hired, and he said experience was key, and degree came secondary.
Should I start creating sandbox environments for demonstration purposes? I am aware of individuals building blogs to demonstrate proofs of concept.

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>Ask girl out
>She responds half hour later "like as friends?"
>Ten minutes later sends me a picture when she realizes I haven't responded yet
What do?
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>>17719780
>realize you have pretty much no chance with this girl cause she put you in the zone
>go with her as a friend and look for actual wife material
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>>17719780

What picture did she send you?

You're dead in the water here 9/10 but I'm curious
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>>17719785
I can't tell though whether that's what she's doing. I was really nervous she was but I'm thinking she might just be taken by surprise.

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Snooped on her FB and caught her cheating.

Shaking.

What do I do and how do I confront her? We live together and she's back in 3 days? Holy fuck, when you think you know someone.. I'm about to puke
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I'm sorry, Anon. What did you see?

Just calm down and get your bearings before proceeding.
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Are you 100% certain that you correctly understand the situation?

If yes, then you don't owe her a damn thing. You be already moved out in 3 days.
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if you know for sure she's cheating then dump the bitch

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>were in london in holidays for a few days
>my boyriend was oon party, he kissed some people around because he took some mdma with friends and they found the moment so, i quote " miracle that he had to kiss them all"
>thing is this was and is a no-no in our realtionship
>we got in an argument and somehow to managed to go back to normal between us
>still i am hurt as fuck and just can not be relaxed when his friends are around me
>in a few weeks his best friend is holding a party again and they want to take that mdma stuff or maybe even ectasy again, no problem with that but im feared of it happing again, seeing my love kissing someone else and feeling like shit even more
>when i tried to do so he just said i should get over it and learn to handle my feelings bc he can not turn past back for my sake
>since those word i`m having horrible nightmares especially about him and his friends,
>should i tell him again about my all this, or am i just a dummy for staying with him/thinking to much about this whole thing?
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He seems extremely ignorant, that's very rude to tell your partner to just "Get over it" simply because it's already happened. If I was in your situation I'd break up with him.
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>>17719720
he doesn't seem like he respects you. recently i had to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years because he didn't respect me as a person. it's hard at first, but you deserve respect and you'll be happier in the long run
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>>17719720
He wants to have fun, be as high as him or you'll not get along that well

And I'd hate to be around people whos on mdma come down
He may not respect you very much but who knows he's him? Be more understanding about that but if you can't forget about him

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I just ejaculated with alot of blood. It looked lumpy and the blood itself was tons and tons of fibers and thread like structures, while the fluid itself was pinkish/red.

Before that my balls felt as if something is trying to crush them between an anvil. But during the ejaculation I felt so good, simply because the preassure exploded away and I was left with an amaxing sensation. Now im abit more sore than usual, but theres no preassure anymore.

Should I be worried?
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>>17719702
>jizzing blood and flesh
>better ask /adv/

Are you insane? Go to the hospital, you may have cancer or worse.
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>>17719702
Yes. You should seek medical attention immediately.
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>>17719706
I had no symptoms before that besides the feeling of something squeezing my balls. Also no blood in urine. No pain while ejafulating and there are no lumps on my testicles. I check them once a week.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Is it possible for a person to stop caring at all after a breakup?
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How do I get closer to a girl? There is a girl in my club that I like but I can't work up the courage to just talk to her because I'm scared I might end up being creepy.
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Gonna ask again:

Females, what do you picture when you think "cute boy"

Are you attracted to "cute boys" but not "hot guys"?

I have obvious self esteem issues, but that's irrelevent.

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How do I remove the skin tag on my eyelid?
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DUDE I have one of those as well, just noticed it a few months ago
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A doctor can technically do it, but they'll do a hack job. You can go to a plastic surgeon for a nicer job, but it'll cost you a couple hundred buckaroos and it won't be worth it unless you have a handful of them.

The best thing you can do for yourself right now is lose weight. They only appear on fatties. I know firsthand.
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>>17719664
>>17719876
same but I have one inside my eyelid
it was not there a few days ago

How to introduce my gf to pegging?

I'm a 25 y old bisexual male. I've been with my gf for 3 years, sex is pretty awesome we usually practice BDSM and she helped me to discover my submissive part.

Some time ago I asked her to peg me, but she answered me that she doesn't want to "have a dick". For me that idea is stupid but I don't know if she has any other problem with it (like "awakening" the gay inside me).

Any tips to have my desire full filled soon?
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Let me bump it
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>>17719611
It's unfair to ask her to do something she's not into.
You already asked her to peg you, she doesn't want to do it.
Why do you have to force it on her?
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>>17719679
I don't want to force her, I want to make her know that there is nothing weird in pegging. She told me that she doesn't want to have a dick and I want her to know that I don't think she is a guy just for wearing a strap on.

But of course, no means no and I won't do anything she doesn't want

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I can't break up with my boyfriend. We hate each other and fight every day, i know i could find someone else, but we're both insecure and back out at the last second. This has been going on ever since the start of our two year relationship. We make each other miserable, I'm not even attracted to him anymore because all i can think about is how much i hate the things he does.

What do i do?
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What are some examples?
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>>17719606
Look, it sucks, but you just gotta go through with it.

There's not point in being in a relationship if neither of you are happy.

Write out all the points you want to make and get your thoughts in order, sit him down, and explain to him how you feel. Let him respond. Then just end it.
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>I can't

No, you won't. There's a difference.

Just do it already. The longer you wait, the more you're prolonging your, and his, misery and missing out on more and more opportunities for an actually happy and fulfilling relationship.

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I'm a 21 girl starting uni next semester and I'm shamelessly infatuated with a much younger right -wing, anime loving, christian boy. What do I do about it? Do any of the girls in here have experience with dating younger guys?

I'm not a pedo, I look his age and the boy is too damn cute for me to handle.
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> a much younger right -wing, anime loving, christian boy
Sounds like the average /pol/tard, so I guess he's 14.
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>>17719596

date him. whats the problem?
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>>17719607
He's not 14 LMAO
And not a /pol/tard.

He's innocent and normal.

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I'm 26, I've become a bald guy, and my head shape is terrifying. My head is massive and super round, like weirdly round. I look like an alien.

How the fuck do I deal with this without coming off as a freak to everyone?
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look m8 my family all of them are bald and at some point, my genetics will hit me bet you can do, is shave your head, or Buy tons of useless, shampoos,treatment who will cost $ a lot of money,

take this advice from someone who's gonna be bald in 10 years... kek
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>>17719575
you tried minoxidil?

I've always planned on getting a wig when it hits me, but for now the minoxidil is holding it off.
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>>17719575

Become one of us...

Ayy

Lmao

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Okay. I've got a question for all you neuroscientists and psychiatrists out there

What are the possible causes of the following:

>wake up one day, realize I have no emotions
>I used to be a super happy person, very kind and outgoing, sappy scenes made me cry
>now nothing. I tried to imagine my family dying in a car accident, and I felt nothing
>I was deeply in love with a wonderful girl before this; I woke up one day and suddenly felt nothing towards her
>I used to be deeply motivated and have a ton of goals and dreams. Now, If I failed college today, it wouldn't bother me
>Can't feel any emotions any more. Not happy, not sad, not angry. Nothing.
>If a tree fell on my car today, it wouldn't bother me like it would have before this started
>used to be super horny all the time; now have zero libido. I can still orgasm, but I don't have any sex drive, nor do I feel much of any sexual attraction towards anyone.

It has been going on for about a week and a half now. I am very concerned. Before you say "see a doctor", I already have an appointment scheduled. I just want to know possible explanations for it. Everyone in my family, and even my coworkers have noticed that something is different about me. I am just not myself anymore.

What do you know of that could cause this??
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You're depressed. Get out in the sun and take some vitamins.
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>>17719638
what vitamins?
Also, why did this just happen so suddenly?

I have been getting plenty of sunlight lately.
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Honestly, you need to see a doctor. it could be depression, but it could also be lots of other stuff.

And while previous anon suggested sunlight and vitamins, it is not a cure-all for everybody.

Along with sleep, financial security, a social life, fulfilling hobbies, exercise, and a healthy variety of food (and a little bit of dessert, too), they fall under the category of things that your body needs, the lack of which can cause/worsen depression. Getting all of these can cure depression in some people, but others need medicinal intervention. Medicine can also help give you the energy to seek out these things, since depression makes you less likely to take care of yourself effectively.

My whole class genuinely thinks that a woman that has the same job as a man, working the exact same amount of hours, gets paid less, I've told them that the statistics include all different types of jobs and all work times but they still think the same, what arguments and facts will change their mind?
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>>17719508
It's already illegal for an employer to pay a woman less than her male counterpart.
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>>17719508

its true though. not universally, but when it comes to higher up positiosn women tend to make less.

women and minorities actually. its not a BIG deal, i mean you negotiate your own pay, and women are not taught to negotiate and such.

its a small issue that gets smaller each year as negotiated pay is becoming less and less. most companies have standard for a job and women are just les likely to haggle adn such.

its not like they're all magically making less minimum wage then the rest of us.
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The actual study that it's based on. It admits that the biggest point of "wage gaps" is that there are fewer women in upper management.

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