There's a dimple on my breast and I can't get it checked out until monday
How do I deal with the anxiety it's driving me insane
>>17714944
Most likely benign.
>>17714944
The chances of it being cancerous or whatever your fear is, it's slim. You'll be fine.
>>17714960
What makes you say that?
Pic-Related it's her.
I was talking to this girl from class (I'm a freshman in college) last semester, we're both single and sat next to each other. We talked, exchanged numbers, went out last day of class to go smoke at her place and get Chick-fil-A, it went fine drove her back to her place and left.
Now here's where you will roll your eyes:
Over the next month school was out, we snap-chatted back and forth, she sent nudes and we had full on conversations about bullshit a few times. But I asked twice to, "hang out tomorrow" and do something. First time she didn't open snap for a couple hours and then replied, "Sorry! I was napping!" But I didn't open her snap until like a whole day later either so I didn't even reply back. We sent pointless snaps back and forth throughout the days for the next week then I invited her to a party, told her she could bring whoever she wanted with her too. She said, "Sure, asked for address, what's happening at the party and said she would come through." She didn't. But we continued to snapchat pointless bullshit the day after. I kept this up a couple days then I got tired of it. So I stopped replying to all of her snaps completely, I'm not putting up with this. She sent about 15 more snaps through the next 2 days before she realized I wasn't replying to her anymore.
Haven't spoken since, we still view each other's snap stories and shit but don't snap each other. I had a dream about her the other night after I had pushed her out of my mind completely but now I can't get her out of my head. Dream fucked me up. Stalked her on social media she's single too. So I am going to send something to her tonight but I can't fuck it up. I'm self employed running my own business from home, got nothing but free time, and money, and friends. I am super happy with life. Just wish I could have that chick. I want to send her a message tonight but I can't have it be some dumb shit that she just doesn't reply too. I also refuse to do long heartfelt stuff. I just want some general advice. I don't know what I want.
If anyone can help out, it's appreciated. I'll do the same if you need too if I can.
the autism is strong with this one
>snapchat
Fucking children.
Hit her up to go out again and see what you get. You did it before.
Literally what do you want from us?
Is it considered normal to not have any interest in marrying or having kids? Like ever?
I'm outwardly a pretty normal guy. I don't really have that much "game" but I'll go out to bars and clubs here and there but again, it's not really my thing. I'd rather stay home, listen to music, read, cook for myself, watch netflix, etc. I've had several one night stands but I've never had a real stable "girlfriend" in my life.
I'm 23, soon to be 24 and an officer in the military, which is (unfortunately for me) a very family oriented. When I make it known that I'm not interested in a wife, kids or even a girlfriend, I am met with reactions that range from puzzled to angry. One of my flightmates wives even told me that not having kids or wanting to marry is "selfish". She even said "what's the point of living if you're not going to have kids"? I think such sentiment is kind of unfair.
This translates to some of my friends as well. It gets somewhat obnoxious when they are always trying to set me up or telling me to go talk to girls in bars. I almost feel like it's not so much about me but my friends wanting to be the "master of hookups" since they are already in relationships. It's a weird dynamic.
I'm not gay or asexual at all, but I honestly have no interest in marrying or having a family. Is something wrong with me?
I was like this prior to joining the military, but all the horror stories in the military of failed marriages, relationships and illegitimate children scare me even more.
Ask her if you can then stick your dick in her. If she says no, tell her to fuck off.
dont do it tho srs.
>>17714922
I don't think anything's wrong with you, but it is a pretty strange view to have. The US military is a cult though, so anyone involved is going to have pretty much the same opinions, and you have a differing one.
>>17714965
in some ways
I'm 27 years old.
All women fall into these categories.
>In a relationship.
>Single mom.
>Under 21.
>Over 200 pounds, or otherwise sub 7/10.
Are there any exceptions or am I cursed to walk this earth eternally alone because I didn't marry in college?
Yes.
maybe if you brushed up on your game instead of making dumb ass posts on 4chan you wouldnt have this made-up self-created "problem"
if you continue to be this much of a drama queen yes you are destined to be alone
How much time spent together is considered enough in a long-term relationship?
I find it increasingly depressing in my mid-twenties that my girlfriend and I are growing apart due to work and academia and in life, in general. We try to see each other at least once or twice a week since we live not, but a city away.
For those who are in a relationship, how often do you see your significant other? Is it enough? Could there be more time spent together? If not, why not? Does separation make you guys stronger?
To me it just bring unhappiness being away. I find that I grow apart from her the longer we stay away from each other. Maybe I'm just being clingy. But when I feel for her and I love her and I want to see her, I would literally drop would I was doing if only I get a chance to see her. But she won't ever do that for me. That feeling of unrequited love and passion.
6 years
See each other every day
Live together
It's enough
Have never been separate the entire time as she moved in within a month of getting together
You're not clingy, once you find somebody you love you never want to be apart.
>>17714885
I sleep at the same place as my boyfriend about 5 times a week (either he comes to my house or I go to his) and I guess I see him for the same amount of days. I think how often I see him is actually a negative and think we would have a stronger relationship if we saw each other less - the whole absence makes the heart grow fonder thing - only I can't really bring myself to see him less because I miss him when he's not around.
Maybe you can have nightly phone calls with your girlfriend or something where you can debrief about your days or video chat, have you talked to her about how you're feeling?
>>17714889
That's what I feel. I miss her when I'm away but she may think I'm clingy. Maybe she doesn't feel what I do.
>>17714970
We chat on apps often and as much as we both can. But I suppose it's just about getting older and adulting takes root.
She's the kind who's really youthful in her mind even if she's in her twenties. She doesn't really "get it" that when a guy falls for you he means it; I would literally walk out of class or my job if I could just spend one good day with her. That's how much I love.
But she doesn't see the impact of that. So she tends to shy away from once or twice a week. Having intimate moments and sex becomes difficult if you only get to see each other that much. There were times when we would see each other once every two weeks. We would be white hot then ice cold.
(Random unrelated file) So I've liked this guy for around 2 months now. I have trouble not thinking about him and we used to talk a lot. We went and got food with some friends. He started flirting with another girl in front of me. At first I didn't care but at we got closer I got me a bit upset. Out of nowhere we went from texting and talking a lot to him not even saying hi anymore instead looking away. He stopped texting me and it was weird for 2 weeks and still is. I caught him and that girl hanging out again but during a class, they don't talk outside of that class. He stares at me a lot also. What do you guys think is he interested at all or should I give it up?
Goddamnit OP, just give up.
You've had a crush for 2 months, give it two other months and it'll wash away... like tears... in the rain...
>>17714866
If a person is worth it, you would be together.
They would also have asked you out already. But they haven't. So either ask them if they still have feelings for you. If not, dust your shoulders and move on.
It would be obvious he doesn't care about you by flirting in front of you and awkwardly ignoring your texts.
>>17714888
Okay thanks, I know I probably should but I wanted to see what others thought
I'm a battle rapper and I'm one of best there is, but people are always fucken with me, like they just want to piss me off. I told some bish i hope a pedophile rapes her kid and everyone acted like I was so terribul. I'm a battle rapper, duh, I say the worst shit i can think of.
Anyway, so a bunch of people were talking shit, and one of them is this guy that people think is so good. he goes by Pope Adrian Bless, and I guess he's ok, but I'm definitely the best in teh city.
Should I write a diss track about him?
I know if I do I will get a lot of haters, but that's still attention and plays, right?
Check me out:
Twitter @thescribbleman
Instagram scribbleman317
U suck, as a rapper and as a person. I looked that Pope guy up tho, and he's actually pretty dope.
I say definitely write a diss track 4 lulz.
I hope you have a back-up plan.
>>17714860
I'm laughing so fucking hard right now. Why hasn't rap died yet?
>>17714908
If you dig deep enough, there's still intelligent and profound rappers nowadays
Hi /adv/,
> Be me, 23 yo male
> Woman at my job 32 years old
> Cute as fuck
> Calls me handsome
> Coworkers were always bullying me and she told them to fuck off
> She smiles a lot around me
But:
> not sure if she's just being nice
> I might be too young for her
> The job pays shit but it's still my job
I really like her guys ;_____;
She is so sweet and nice to me
>>17714846
Ask her out. It's not like you have to quit your job if she says no.
>>17714852
this, or you could ask her if she's single and see how she responds then just roll with it from there
>>17714852
Oh shit I forget to mention
> She has a guy she's seeing she is not getting along with
Should I ask her to get coffee?
I think about her all the time. I can talk to pretty much any girl who is attractive or not attractive, w.e. this girl is harder though because I have feelings...
why can't I cum with my gf lads, had sex for 2 hours it was great, didn't even get close to cumming, got a 40 minute blowjob it was great, didn't even get close to cumming, I mean I just don't get it is this a common and fixable problem?
you are probably fapping too much
>>17714794
I jack off once every couple weeks
>>17714796
hmm, maybe you should try to get kinkier with her
about to go on my first date ever
how do i not ruin it
don't talk about religion, politics, or sex unless your date asks
ask a lot of questions about them, get "their life story"
be funny
>>17714792
how much physical contact should i make
Start light with just hugging when u meet, taking her hand when moving to the next activity and nudging we shoulders.
My oneitis got a boyfriend (pic related) and I'm devastated.
I plan to wait it out and ask her out when she is single again.
I'm worried though. Do you think her sexual expectations will be changed because of her experience with him? He is known around town as a sex god.
Move on.
>>17714755
He's a fucking nigger. Never speak to her again and under no circumcisions ever do anything sexual with her and date her. For fuck sake I can't believe you need to be told this.
>>17714755
>Dyed hair
Eww
I'm going to college next year for computer science, and I'm wondering what yall think about doing a minor in music. I'm interested in learning music, but I don't know if it would look ridiculous to have a major in CS and a minor in something completely unrelated like music. What do you guys think?
If you want to be marketable when you graduate into the real world, no.
You should minor in business.
>>17714680
Fuck it dude, you'll go a lot further learning something you enjoy then something you think will make you more successful, ironically
>>17714715
> Implying he won't enjoy business as his minor
Okay hmm... I guess I've considered this for a while but never really got to thinking too hard about it until fairly recently after breaking up with my girlfriend. I like shemales/pre-op trans and kind of would like to meet one and see where it goes.
I'm not gay, not that I really have a problem with people that are. I just don't like the male body or any of the other types (muscular, slim, pudgy, w.e) , it's just not for me. But I like a girl with a dick aspect since it seems to excite me. I get what they like and I know when I'm doing well etc.
How would I go about meeting with someone with that demographic? I'm not purely looking for anything sexual, I mean of course I am sexually attracted to them but I kind of only get into it if I like them at least on some level.
I guess I'm not expecting much but feel free to give me advice. Or tell me to fuck off etc.
Also pic related isn't a doujin, it's a mango.
>>17714677
Take it from someone who fucked a tranny before, Don't Do It. You're confusing pornographic fantasy with real life.
It was by far the most disgusting experience of my life. The one I fucked looked beautiful and feminine in all the pictures he sent me, but when we met irl, I picked up on the little things, like his square body, masculine scent, and the prickly stubble on his legs.
Trannies are without a doubt the most mentally deluded, dishonest, and unintelligent people in the world, because they can only justify their lifestyle by aggressively denying reality.
You're better off jerking off instead.
>>17714711
That's kind of the fear I have with it to be honest, that I'll get in there and they'll be barely even a fraction of what they claim they are and I'll just regret the whole thing.
I mean I've already seen it with dating app girls, I can imagine it'd be the same if not worse with... This.
I've been trying to ween myself off it slowly to be honest and been getting back into vanilla porn but I kind of have had this fetish for years now. I kind of want to let it crash and burn.
>>17714725
stop watching porn altogether. use your imagination, or if you have to, use pictures of blonde girls nude in wheat fields.
>tfw to intelligent to fall in love
>>17714673
Too intelligent to spell too it seems.
So what kind of advice are you looking for?
>>17714708
>too intelligent to spell too
It's a meme you dip
>>17714708
Hello, newfriend.
Very new, it would seen.
Is it possible to go from a decently looking guy to a hot guy? Or is there a genetic wall that I will eventually hit. If there is a way, how?
>>17714670
Pity bump
>>17714723
Holy shit, I forgot just how faggy Ramos looked.