Do people normally Facebook friend their past dates and sexual partners they find on Tinder?
Unless you're actively dating that person, this kind of bothers me.
>>17718787
Why does it bother you?
>>17718791
Mixing sex and friendship tends to be like navigating a minefield. Too many horror stories to count, but it makes me clench my asshole for the same reason any mentions of race and sexism these days would cause my sphincter to tighten. You just know shit's about to go down as a result.
>>17718800
Well what do you mean exactly? Like what about the horror stories? I'm just unsure of what you're trying to say here. I don't understand why do you care about people Facebook friending past dates and sexual partners. It seems like it has nothing to do with you.
Where do people cruise for NSA sex in 2016?
>no Tinder or anything else requiring social media accounts
>no prostitution
>Semi-legit userbase
Thanks!
Clubs
>>17718716
As someone looking for NSA sex in 2016, what's wrong with Tinder? Just the requirement of a social media account?
>>17718723
I torched my FB bruh
Hey guys.
So there's this girl I'm really into who started texting me over the summer. After one really deep conversation I asked her if she wanted to see a movie and she said yes.
So we got to the theatre and at first I didn't recognize her; she had cut her hair really short. We went up to the counter to buy our tickets and I said something like, "One for me and one for her." And then she told me her preferred pronouns were he/him.
I could talk more but basically my question is should I pursue this chick, or should I just get over it and find another one?
Also this chick is fucking gorgeous. Like an actual ten, with a great personality. Should I try and convince her not to go trans or get over it?
Long story short OP, it sounds like she's made her mind up in being trans, unless she is interested in you 110% and you see absolute perfectness in every way with this person, then don't even think twice about trying to convince them to change their mind. Does this person have an interest in you?
isn't it funny how when you find a woman you'd like to be in a relationship with, you immediately stop thinking there are more women out there
How was her attitude when telling you about her preferred pronouns? Was she upset in the slightest? If yes, don't go after her.
Also if she doesn't make a major deal out of stupid stuff like pronouns then go and date her. Just don't try to change her. If she prefers to be a he then whatever.
Sup, /adv/
I'm 19,and I've never done weed or alcohol.I've always been interested in psychedelic substances,however.
Recently, a friend told me he could get me some acid,and I readily agreed,and paid close to ~20$ for 300ug.
Should I do LSD or am I too much of a beginner to try?
If yes,should I do all 300ugs of it at once?
Thanks
i'm not sure about the measurement you'r saying .
but i'd go with a small dose to start with . a small dose of lsd is similar to getting stoned , you just feel really really happy and smile loads , everything is funny .
I would recommend it , I used to drink and smoke weed before I took the stuff and its better than both. I have took larger doses and then you get more hallucinations which are pretty funny at a low level . imagine things melting and floating its like that .
definitely a fun drug . I first took it in 2006 when I was 19 . probably the best drug iv took and ive took all of them except heroin crack etc . its quite rare where i live so I can't take it that often . last time I had it was a year ago , before that 06 while there was people selling it
take with a friend who won't fuck with your head while youre tripping or take alone . once you have took the stuff you don't want to drive or use your oven or anything like that . music is good
It's probably a bad idea to do it alone. Do it with someone experinced who can sit by you during the frist time.
If you trun paranoid shit can go seriously wrong, especially if you're alone.
>>17718691
>>17718696
Thanks,anon.
I've already decided on a tripsitter,a close friend of mine who I trust.
Really looking forward to the visuals,and listening to music as well.
"ug" is micrograms,btw.
So I cucked this old paki motherfucker with his hot Russian wife, whom he treats like garbage, for like a year, and just now got caught going with her to a haloween party. Not exactly caught in the act, but he mad.
Motherfucker is broke as hell and on food stamps, and also a green card holder without citizenship, but he has connections with every fucking shitskin in a hundred miles somehow and I don't want to get removed by kebab. I have piles of guns and armor, but no matter what they say, I don't think one can /k/ 24/7. For one, I don't think it will go over well at work.
Also he's my landlord, but he's technically squatting on the property, which is bank owned, and some kebab friend at the bank has been keeping them from kicking everybody out. He wants me to move out tomorrow, which ain't gonna fly as I've got work, and I you need to give a 30 day notice to tenants anyway. Besides, I doubt I could be evicted without getting the entire house evicted, but I don't want to get robbed by sandniggers.
What should I do, and also what the fuck have I even been doing this whole year?
>>17718676
You fucked up. Better pack your shit and go since you haven't mentioned any friends who can sit your place for you. Not that you'd be a shitty enough person who would put your friend in that kind of position anyway, I hope. The cards are against you considering he is your "landlord."
Shouldn't have shit where you eat, gotta pay the piper.
You did a shitty thing by hitting on a married guy's wife. Even if he was treating her like shit, you fucking his wife behind his back didn't really fix anything, it just added to the mess.
Either tell him it was a misunderstanding and nothing happened between you two, try to cover up your tracks; or go out and move to another place where you won't meet problems. Next time think your decisions through before you put your dick into anything.
>White trash cucks sandnigger
>Gets owned
Lol how phatetic can you be?
Get a life.
So my gf thinks she still weighs 110 lbs but she packed on the biggest beer gut i ever seen snapped this pic (she's passed out) how do i get her to believe me that she's a tubolard?i mean, she looks obese on her stomach! I bet she weighs 150lbs!
Show her a picture of a naked skinny woman. Then show her a picture of her naked self. Ask her to spot the differences.
>>17718613
>150lbs
Try 200+
Start looking at other women in front of her and saying things like "damn that girl looks good" or just get her a gym membership
I just started checking out other women and my girlfriend got insanely jealous and wouldn't eat for days on end. She still does this sometimes, but she lost a good 40lbs
>>17718613
Dude, I have been 200 lbs and my tummy never looked like that.
Just show her this pic.
My husband sets his alarm to 645 or 7 on the weekends always claiming he wants to wake up early.
Then it goes off, wakes up our 1 year old, and I have to get up and take care of her while he sleeps until 9 or 10.
I ask him to let her wake me up naturally, which she will between 730 and 8, and he tells me to shut up.
What kind of weird crap is this? It gets our 1 year olds sleep schedule off for almost the whole week and its very obnoxious.
>>17718611
>and he tells me to shut up.
Somehow I get the feeling this isn't the only problem with him.
>>17718611
Push his ass out of bed & make him get up when "his" alarm goes off...
Bonus if you make him take care of your child too.
Maybe consider that you have something he wants & telling you to shut up =/= sex
>date an obnoxious prick because he's "hot" or some shit
>spend the rest of your life either trapped in an abusive relationship or as untrustworthy used goods who can only attract dregs
My best friend in the entire world wants me to be a sperm donor so she could have a child. She came to my place with her partner a few days ago and dropped this bombshell on me.
We know each other since early childhood ad have been friends for basically 24 years now. We were always there for each other and we have a history together. I was always ready to do anything for her, and I have no fucking idea why this bothers me so much. She gave me till next year to give her an answer and said she will be fine if I refused. I'm extremely happy she wants me to do it, but there's a mixed feeling inside of me I cannot explain.
She also explained that I would just be a donor ad that's it. We would sign documents and I would be completely "off the hook" as a father. Meaning I will have no say in his life, and she will not be able to bind me with anything either. No child support etc. But they both said that they would be okay If I spent time with the child if I wanted to and they would be happy if I did, but I would always be just a family friend and could never lay claim as a father.
What the fuck do I do? I feel like my world flipped for some reason. I don't know why it affected me like this.
>>17718605
Why dont they just adopt a
Kid?
>>17718615
I know she always wanted to have children so I guess she wants to give birth? I'm not really sure, I didn't ask since I wasn't even sure what to say then. But that question popped into my head way too many times aswell.
wouldn't recommend it . you will always know the kid is yours and not being able to be a father to your own child would drive you crazy . and the child should have a father figure .
how would it feel if she died somehow and you couldnt look after your own child because you were a "family friend" .
women are impulsive and crazy in some ways (its not sexism its true , guy's are similarly crazy but in different ways) and it seems they all have a desire to get married and reproduce .
straight femanons, be honest, do you get turned on at the idea of being the "top" in a relationship with a guy? like pegging him in the ass etc.
also does liking pegging make you a cuck?
Depends, can I feminize you too?
>>17718655
if you're an actual female then yes
I don't think as much as you mean. I'm a switch in terms of what I like, I like being the more active partner and I would love to try pegging.
But none of this feels like being the "top" in a relationship, something that does not interest me, and I need a man to be able to switch it up and sometimes be the more dominant partner, too.
Basically, some aspects but not the full picture. Also not into any type of real power play.
Where and how can you find platonic love? preferably not LDR. Would still like to be able to hold hands, kiss or hug, maybe dance romantically ONCE in a while.
>>17718564
Just need to be lucky enough to meet someone who is
1) Into that kind of thing,
2) Someone you like.
3) Someone who likes you.
So it's gonna be pretty difficult desu.
>>17718578
;_____;
>>17718564
>Would still like to be able to hold hands, kiss or hug,
>platonic love
>5'4
>two digit IQ
>HS dropout
>poor
I know it's unlikely that i'll ever amount to much, but whenever i find myself wasting time on the internet i think about the useful skills i could be learning and get depressed, i seem to have a sliver of hope left in me.
How do i get rid of it?
what would you like to learn?
>>17718524
I don't want to learn, i want the sliver of hope i have that at times makes me believe all i have to do is work really hard and anything is possible gone.
Ex girlfriend texted me a love heart and then 30 minutes later tried to call me, what am I supposed to make of this?
We have been about 9 days no contact now, and broken up for nearly a month. A lot of that period was spent with her thinking we need time apart and then wanting to back together in a cycle, to the point where I just blocked her from everything and deleted her number because I was sick of her confusion. These last 9 days I've felt much better and slowly moving on, but now this has just taken me back a bit. I haven't responded and probably won't but I do still love her and want to be together, I just want her to feel the same. A lot of the break up I pushed for because I could tell she was very confused about her life, I knew if I tried to make her stay she would and I didn't want that to be the way it happened.
I thought after a week of no contact it would be smooth sailing from here, we're both moving on, but I guess not...
>>17718518
She broke up with you to fuck someone else and now that shes done she wants to get back with you. Move on.
>>17718543
Alright, thanks for the insight, would prefer not to go with the route that assumes all women are whores though. She has never been a liar, and if that's something she wanted to do I'd be happy to continue being single and find someone else, more power to her. But I don't believe that is the case.
>>17718518
Talk to her
I am a community college student, and sometimes I help my friend out in situations. I am trying to get skills needed so I can get a decent job to earn a decent living. Sometimes my friend smokes pot in my car using a small glass bowl pipe, and though I let him, I never smoke or drink anything myself.
One day, I had my parents take my car in for a wash/cleanup while I was at school.
When they returned it to me, they claimed the cleanup cost $500 and that the cleaners found Meth residue all over the dashboard and steering wheel, with traces of heroin. Apparently it was the grime on my steering wheel that I thought was just sweat coming out of my hands. I confronted my friend about this, asking if he is either smoking meth behind my back by lacing his weed or if his dealer is lacing his weed in an attempt to get him hooked on other substances. He said he wasn't smoking meth and that it is likely that it's just because I haven't had my car cleaned in over 3 years and that I live in a polluted area, and it is possible that meth residue resides in such pollution. I always thought my friend was just smoking pot, he never showed any signs that he was on meth(scarred skin with all these bloody patches, missing teeth, aggressive behavior). I do live in a polluted area, so tell me /adv/, is my friend on meth? Or is it possible that the inside of my car can just get dirty with meth residue from pollution alone?
>>17718513
Three things wrong with this story.
No, you can't get meth residue from air pollution.
What kind of car wash tests for drug residue?
What kind of car wash costs $500?
Try better next time.
Can't tell if bait or serious.
Break off your friendship with that deadbeat faggot. He's an S tier degenerate for using your car to smoke his shit in.
>>17718517
It wasn't just Car wash. It was a cleaning service too. According to my parents, the cleaners cleaning the inside of my car said they found traces of meth with tinier traces of h. The inside of my car smelled weird, so my father decided to get it cleaned.
On the subject of price, it could have been just $250. Still a lot. This incident happened three weeks ago, and it's been bugging me so I came here for help.
Hey /adv/, I need a list of 5 reasons why women DON'T deserve rape. But I have been staring at a blank page for 4 hours now.
Can you help me out?
1. They are our symbiotic partners
2. They are the mother's of the children of our species
3. They are our rightful challenge, so that we do not fall into laziness
4. They are beautiful, the generously given inspiration to our affection
5. They are human, and you fail at life if you don't accept your purpose as someone who fight against the evil machines that made you the way you've become this far
>>17718514
I thought "no memes" was implied...
No entire group entirely deserves or otherwise anything so ultimately, it depends on the individual. If a woman has five distinct reasons why she's a good person then there you have it.
How does one deal with perfectionism?
You really can't. I've had OCD (which included perfectionism) for over 10 years and I've never dealt with it. The levels start extreme for about a month then slowly calm down then something occurs and triggers the OCD.
All I'm trying to say is, once you think you've dealt with it, something triggers the idea and it comes back. It's always there.
Convince yourself it doesnt matter
Perfectionism comes from the thought process of things needing to be as good as possible
Just reconvince yourself that some things are good enough even if they arent perfect
Harder than it sounds but worth the effort, unlike the perfectionist bullshit you do
Perfectionism is 100% perception
Aim to work on your goal for X time rather than to accomplish/complete something and it will change your perception
Example: I set a goal to create a website with features Y and Z within 1 month.
>Perfectionist route
I then start working on it and get hung up on little details every time I sit down and work, or I don't even start.
>Work route
I aim to work on it for 2 hours a day 5 days a week. Now when I'm sitting down I'm trying to figure out what I can realistically get done in 2 hours so I find something manageable and work on it. If I get carried away with little details I remember that I'm only trying to finish this one feature or piece for today and that the little shit doesn't matter or can wait in a notepad until after I'm done.
Simple shit.