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do something "romantic"

watch some anime, usually some flowers or some gay shit will do

gotta suggest doing something private

>being a race traitor
Just kys

Ay yo girl u be gettin flibbity flab

I just told her and she got upset saying that she loves my body but won't care if I become fat or skinny and saying why can't you love me the way I am.
Not a smart move by me, next time I see her getting too much food I'll tell her that we should go to the gym or for a run and all that bullshit.
She's already chubby and I love it but if she gets more fat it's just disgusting

>>17718082
If she isnt overweight, she probably wont lose weight.
She needs to make the decision to lose herself.
You could go to the gym with her.

How heavy is she? What's her bmi?

What is it with female "friends" and trying to ruin relationships? this kind of shit is on here all the time.

They are jealous of what she has, they are obviously a bunch of used up skanks who aren't getting married.

Fuck man, this makes me not trust my GF's female friends, god knows what degenerate shit they have tried to get her do.

tell her that her friends are just trying to bring her down to their level because they feel inferior to her, that she should feel smug that she makes them insecure.

women love that shit, and it's mostly true.

Confronting her friends on it is a terrible idea they'll just spin it around on your that's what women are good at.

>>17717987
Kill her whore friends

graduate high school.

You can delete the instagram post if you want.

It's kind shitty thing to do, and you just don't seem to care about his feelings, that's fine. You are not responsible for how he feels. If you were only dating a month it's not a huge deal. He will probably be hurt though, so understand that.

>>17718021
> You are not responsible for how he feels

What goes so wrong in a person's life where they begin to think this is okay.

kys

>>17717961
Realize that no one lives this kind of life. Not even "alphas"

>>17717976
The couple in the video live that kind of life.

You're like a teenage girl who wants Kylie Jenner's life

>>17717889
Prolly better to get the tattoo removed. It's just a matter of having the lesser of two evils at that point.

Why the fuck would you get a tattoo if you hate them, is my question?
Were you that retarded as a kid to get one because of the passing fad and not consider your future? In which case, you have to atone for your dumbassery and endure your fucking mutilation.

>>17717895
Ease up, people make mistakes. OP is just questioning hat the best course of action is to correct a mistake.

>>17717888
bring weed

I hope you're not planning on trying to have sex

>>17717946
What? No dude we're just tryna catch a movie. I just wanna know if there's anything we should plan for in advance for the movie besides leaving early to snatch a good spot

Alcohol
Games
Fap

Basically this:
>>17717842

Distractions, distractions, and more distractions.
Also if you wanted to feel like you're making an effort you can try all of the different forms of online dating.
It likely won't get you anywhere, but at least you can say you're trying.

>>17717907
>but at least you can say you're trying.

Except that you aren't. This is like saying you're trying to get in shape cause everyday you do bicep curls with 5 lbs weights for 5 minutes and you think you're on the same level as the guy who goes into the gym 5 times a week and absolutely shreds it for an hour non-stop.

But hey, "at least you tried! :) Participation medal! :D"

Happiness is just an allegory, an abstract goal. Just set your personal goal and try to reach them. Don't think about happiness itself, otherwise you'll be wasting your time.

>>17717839
*your personal goals
Fix'd.

By this I mean learning something you always wanted to, or traveling to a place you never been before, etc.

>>17717827
>The only thing bringing me to my goals is a feeling of obligation, not passion, not legitimate motivation, just a feeling of "I have to get this done because I have to". It's been like that in pretty much every area of my life that involves doing anything productive.

Obligated by what
>society
...as in not partying or drinking or fucking
>yea
You dont have to do that
>but everyone else is
Right but you have a choice not to do that shit
>but people will think im weird
And?
>i want people to like me
Everyone wants to be liked but you eventually find out that you dont have to be liked, and no one has to fucking like you.
>but i wont have friends
Yea you will theyre just harder to find now but i assure you more people just like you exist
>but itll be hard to find them
Yea well. Life is hard.
>i just dont want to do anything
Aight well dont expect people to stop and pick you up if you no longer possess the will to even hold your head up.

>>17717813
I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.

Save tomorrow's problems for tomorrow.

>>17717813
Cause eventually you realise youre still alive. Then you kinda get used to that after it happens day in and day out. Its pretty effortless if youre not a lemming. You kinda get the hang of not dieing and its just a part of you now.

>>17717813
im scared of dying too op. Im scared of pain when I die mostly. I don't want to be in pain.

>>17717805
If I have LSD, I do LSD. The real question is whether to take both tabs.

If you take two, you risk your consciousness being cut to bits and slowly glued back together in an unpleasant fashion. If you take one, you might be dissatisfied with not having enough visuals.

Another important question is whether you have enough activities. Personally, I like to have a play list set up and a good netflix one click away, since I lose even basic decision making abilities on the stuff.

Also, my night is going well, thanks. I'm implementing and comparing solutions to the convex hull problem for a class, which is something I rather enjoy.

>>17717825

thanks, as it stands I'm leaning towards doing them. I'd most likely do the two, as they're decently but not overly potent.

as for activities, I've been looking for a really good movie to watch while under the effects. Is there anything that you could recommend?

Glad you're having a good one

>>17717831
Well, I frequently catch up on childrens movies, just mindlessly positive stuff. Especially if I'm with a girl.

I tried watching the Louis CK special from 2008 last time I tripped. I had forgotten most of the jokes, and he seemed like the most insightful human being in the universe, but it was too real and cynical, I didn't want to deal with it.

Fantastic Planet is a trippy one. I can't remember how I watched it. If you haven't seen Garth Merenghi's Dark Place, that's on youtube, that might be a good one.

Of course they are, OP. Nobody is so trustful.

>>17717776
Why dont people cross the street without looking both ways? Are they scared?

>>17717782
But can't they rationalize and accept that people treated them like shit because they were young and naive? Why would they become closed when that's not the cause of what hut them? This destroys their ability to form meaningful relationships for life.

You work for the next 40+ years, and then (hopefully) retire. Along the way, the general story is that you meet someone, get married and have kids

>>17717736
Are there viable alternatives?

>>17717741
Sure: win lottery, miraculously not squander it and retire early.

Hi OP I actually fairly recently found out I had low testosterone as well (similar age to you too) caused by a tumor(aint cancer got it tested) in my Pituitary Gland which made me produce more estrogen than a guy should produce. Which gave me bitchin tits. So I'd ask for a cat scan if ya can just to be safe. But once you get medicated and regulated T levels you should be feeling better or like a new person. Good luck.

>>17717791
Glad it wasn't cancer and that everything's working out! Thanks

I ha levels in the 300 range at 22. They don't give a fuck unless you're sub 200.

Why are you getting involved? YOU don't do anything, SHE does.

Tell her to contact the authorities.

>>17717717
>How would I stop someone like him for doing this to her?


99% sure the girl deserves this or much worse.

Stay out of it and let the man handle his woman properly. Thanks.