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Sexual relationships: just along for a ride? 2016-10-29 20:13:56 Post No.17716782
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Sexual relationships: just along for a ride?
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2016-10-29 20:13:56
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I feel as if I can't say no to women.
reasons
>I want sexual experience
>I want sexual experiences
>I crave love/belonging
>I am existential and bored
details
>male
>22
>4 partners
>5/10
The problem is that it feels like these relationships are *happening* to me. We can't control who wants to be with us, and we can't control the pros and cons of agreeing. It seems predetermined, like we're along for a ride.
Does anyone else feel this way?
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>>17716782
No.
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>>17716890
>nobody else feels the same way
huh
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>>17716782
That's because you are just along for a ride
You can control what you do but most everything else in life just sort of happens to you
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>get really close with a girl
>get comfortable, open up, she does the same
>realize she has been hurt before and it has changed her
>getting more close, but she is closed in certain areas of emotions
Why don't/can't people give them up completely to the other person even if they trust them? Are they scared?
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>>17716639
you will not understand until you have had a similar experience. if you step in a bear trap, or stick a fork in an electrical outlet, you will be hesitant (at the very least) to try again. same principle applies to your question.
t. damaged anon
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>Been hurt before
>WHY WONT SHE JUST COMPLETELY GIVE HERSELF TO ME WHOLLY AND OPENLY
Because it fucking hurts when it goes south you fat fucking idiot
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>>17716656
Describe me in words or suggest me literature/films. I haven't had experiences but I'm capable of feeling it using some medium.
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So I got a job in retail and policy is we aren't allowed to have headphones in. I'm looking for a way to be able to discreetly listen to audiobooks/podcasts while at work. Was looking at micro bluetooth earpieces but most of the ones I find would still be to noticable or only lasts about 3 hours. I can wear a hat so I was thinking someway to be able to hid headphones in there might work.
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say it's a hearing aid, moran
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>we aren't allowed to have headphones in
>so i'm gunna wear headphones
I hope you get fired
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>>17716621
Do you understand what a fucking job is cunt? You literally got one of the lowest end/lowest skill jobs out there and before you've even been been there for a significant amount of time, you're already looking for ways to blatantly disregard policy?? Because you can't go 8 fucking hours without music?
I hope you change your attitude anon, because you won't last long in the work force.
I don't like my girlfriend and being with her is making me miserable.
But everytime I attempt to even do so, she starts beating herself and threatening suicide.
It's exhausting. I know I don't love her. Being with her only because I don't wish for her to hurt herself.
What do I do so that she stops and we're able to separate peacefully.
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>>17716604
leave her, her own fault if she does something
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Check the video recording laws in your area. Is it legal to film someone w/o their consent? If yes, put your phone/camera on record when you break up with her. Be firm. When she starts freaking out and you have it on camera, then is the time to step outside for a moment. You can even placate her and tell her youll think about not leaving you just need a moment to yourself outside. That's when you call the police. Stand outside when they arrive and show them the video before going inside. Tell them how she's threatening suicide because you broke up with her, and ask that they put her on a 72 hour psych hold because she needs help.
It sounds mean, but I assure you, this is the KINDEST thing you can do for her. She desperately needs professional help.
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>>17716604
Contact a psychiatrist and tell him the details.
Then just dump her knowing that if she does hurt herself it will be the psychs fault for acting unprofessionally.
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My girlfriend keep testing our relationship, doing tests like about how I must eat 2 packets of super spicy ramen in 5 minutes because she ask me too, if i don't, I don't love her. I can't stand spicy stuff.
She said that at least I should try, that means I'm still putting effort into the relationship. And I'm like what the actual fuck? It's just fucking noodles. And now she's saying that I've never put my mind into the relationship and stuff.
What do guys?
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Why do you want to be in a relationship with a person that dumb?
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>>17716587
Honestly, I love her. There are some parts of the relationship that's freaking awesome, and some parts that is just plainly stupid.
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>>17716579
laugh in her face and give her the boot
i am having trouble believing that this person you describe is real, thats how ridiculous this is
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Why does everyone value sex so much.
t. Virgin man
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>>17716577
because it feelsgoodman
also this is subjective, there is no single answer that applies to everyone
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>>17716577
Well, personally, it just feels really good. I enjoy the rush of pleasure inside my body and looking at the other person's parts is very appealing to me. For some reason messing around with another person is also much more pleasureful than just fapping.
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>>17716577
The ironic part is that it's you who actually vales sex the most , which makes you needy , which turns off women universally .
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How do i spice up a text with a girl im trying to get?
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>>17716513
text her this:
"what's worse the holocaust?"
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>>17716625
Come on she not Jewish, i think.
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>>17716513
Tell her you got her mother as hostage. But to do this, you must kidnap her mother or else she can just call her.
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is something wrong with my back?
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idk but you're cute
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>>17716442
No just pull your shoulders back and stand up straight
I'm taking some extracurricular classes lately, and there's a cute, introvert girl that I like. We once hanged out with some mutual friends, and since then we've had some small talks before/after our lessons.
Last week, I waited for her at the bus stop (her home is a bit far from where the place we have our classes is - I don't take the bus unless I want to go downtown).
Anyway, we had a general conversation, and before she left the bus, I asked her if she had plans for Friday or the weekend (to be precise, I asked her if she would go out with her best friend that they usually go out, I happen to know her), and she said yes at first, but then she changed it to "I don't know, maybe". I asked her if she wanted it to come with me and some others guys/girl she also knows (my best friend had his birthday and he took us out on Friday), she mumbled something, and then just left saying: "Good evening anon" (I also told her to text me because we haven't yet decided if it was going to be for Friday or Saturday).
She didn't text me at all, and she probably didn't go out that night.
Should I try again while we're on the bus to ask her out, but this time just the two of us? Or is it a lost case? She showed some interest while we were waiting for the bus (she could just say hi and then remain silent, but she instead chose to talk to me, at least she doesn't hate me I suppose). Could this be part to that she is kind of shy/introverted?
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>>17716417
Do you really want to be in a relationship with such an indirect, beat around the bush, indecisive, ambivalent, shy, passive person that you have to be ridiculously pushy to get anything done and always be in a state of uncertainty whether she wanted it after all?
If you do, at least sign a contract before having sex so at least you dont get wrecked when she cries rape on you, all because she mumbled no.
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>>17716440
Jesus Christ, I haven't even got to know her, that's why I want to go out with her, so I can get to know her and then decide if I want to go further with it. You don't have to be so edgy.
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>>17716490
OP you are an autist and probably scaring this girl
dont talk to her assertively again and forget about being friends with her. shes probably told 5+ ppl about what a creep you are
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I have a disgruntled ex whos been posting falsified public reviews of my business talking about how manipulative and evil I am not do business with me, etc. Google wont remove the review because its not against their terms of service.
This review will surely hurt my businesses image and lose me money so I need it removed. A bad relationship is separate from business and employment, and it should stay that way. I have nudes of her and am thinking of blackmailing her or ill threaten to mail them to her employer and her friends. Sure, its a shitty thing to do and I dont want to, but at the moment its the only thing that would work.
Whats the surest and safest way I can go about this and protecting myself from being charged? This is obviously illegal so I will contact her through an anonymous method (maybe a payphone (if these even exist anymore), I am not sure) and simply say "Remove the negative review and you wont hear from me again. If you dont remove the review, I will mail your employer your nude pictures" without incriminating myself by stating anything that could link it to me. By calling her with an unknown number she wont have any evidence she could bring to the police compared to say, an email.
What do yo think?
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>retaliating with a felony
real smart OP
kik isn't gonna work, every form of electronic communication is easily traceable and the fact that you'd say REVIEW in the message just points straight at you. The can convict you on that alone. Your only option is to make some fake emails and post better reviews
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>>17716383
ur dumb, thats enough to figure out who it is. just sue her for a fake review.
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>>17716383
You should just accept it. Blackmailing will only escalate the situation. Giving her any attention will only escalate the situation. It's only an online review, and it will the situation will eventually die down. Be rational. The best thing you could do is maybe continue to appeal to Google.
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How do I handle being the less successful partner in a relationship?
My boyfriend is basically a rock star. He might even be in movies soon. He's surrounded by "important" people. He makes money from touring. People who are fans of his band stop him in the street in the middle of our dates just to talk to him. I even get stink eyes from his female admirers.
Me... my life isn't terrible or anything. But I'm way behind my man. I've been physically ill for the last year. I suffer from depression and anxiety that is crippling at times. I'm a chemistry major but I've failed 4 courses and probably won't graduate on time so I'm dealing with that. I like to draw but I don't know how to market my art. Sometimes my boyfriend gets mad at me because I'm not always in the same good mood that he's in because I'm up against a lot. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate my life, I'm just on a tougher path than him. But I don't know how to explain that to him because everything amazing seems to fall in his lap. And honestly, I get jealous a lot. I secretly want to be successful and be a rock star too but I've worked really hard to succeed in life but it just didn't work out as smoothly for me, and it makes it hard to relate to him sometimes.... wut do?
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you worship his dick so he dont leave ur ass
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>>17716342
I'm not scared of him leaving me. He's loyal.
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this didn't "happen to you", you are responsible for the quality of your reality, no one else has the power to define it
you have the capacity to control your emotions, you just haven't learned how yet. we all do. if you want to be happy and for your relationship to succeed, learn to enter state the way your bf can. read up on emotion regulation, meditate, study cognitive behavioral therapy and internal family systems.
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Just started dating someone and it's going well.
Someone pls tell me how to be a good boyfriend.
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>>17716307
put your pee pee in her poo poo
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>>17716307
Don't ACTUALLY love her.
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>>17716307
ask her how are u every 30 mins and give her advice when shes venting.
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How do you deal with just being friends with a girl you like without it killing you inside?
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That's no way to have a friendship man. If she doesn't want a committed relationship, it'd be best to move on and find someone else.
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stop being friends with her
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>>17716302
>tfw can't be friends with one of the all around nicest human beings I know
I guess that's just life
For a while now, there has been a group of teenagers coming to sit at my doorstep for their parties.
They are noisy, they litter, the smoke of their cigarettes gets through any opening, and they're disrespectful to me and my blind elderly mother.
Any attempt to tell them to behave has resulted in nothing, as expected. For some reason, when we called the police, they have done nothing. Just drive by without even stopping.
This is not America, so I don't have a right to hurt them or threat them even if they're in my property. I am an autistic chubby manchild, so I'm not confident to stand up to them. And they are a large group.
What can I do?
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Please, send help.
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>>17716260
Put something sticky or messy on your steps so they cant sit there, get a huge dog to scare them off. Work out and get stronger so you can stand up to them
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>I can't stand up to them
Either that or put up with it. They're a bunch of teenagers mate, grow a fucking pair.
drop (ice-cold or boiling) water on them next time they do that. Have a knife or a bat handy in case they get any funny ideas. Most likely the water will be enough to send them running, but just to be sure, you should get out with a bat and yell at them that you'll beat the shit out of them if you ever see them again on your property. Bonus points if you're naked or at least only wearing your boxers.
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Pls motivate me to hook up 2016-10-29 17:06:43 Post No.17716234
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Pls motivate me to hook up
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This tinder match I've been text gaming the last couple of weeks wants to meet up tonight, and I don't feel like doing anything.
She's a tiny, /fit/, platina blonde single mom. Broke up with her loser boyfriend of seven years, so basically hasn't had sex with anyone else since she was seventeen, which is kind of hot in and of itself, and I'll be her first fuck in over a year.
But I'm hung over and lazy. Tomorrow I'm going to fuck a cute female chatting buddy I met online, who wants me as a fwb. Should I just relax tonight and save myself for her, or is it worth fucking two different women two days in a row?
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If you too lazy to smash you don't deserve t smash, nigga.
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>>17716256
That's not motivational.
Give me pros and cons at least.
OP pic is her btw.
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>>17716266
Wait but why not just tell her "I'm really hung over today. Do you wanna meet next week?"
I don't understand