Is there a sexual orientation that you tend to be more attracted to people who changed sex? Particularly male to feminine. I might be that guy. I bet there are many like me..
How do I go about this? Is there any specific place where I'm prone to have more success meeting these people other than Thailand?
No chance for: gay-bars, don't wanna get gay guys picking on me. Paying for sex. I guess I'm pretty narrow minded. Still try to help me.
Picture related.
Bisexual.
>>17720155
its a special type of fag who wants his man to have a fem look and fem benis
>>17720155
>Is there a sexual orientation that you tend to be more attracted to people who changed sex?
Why does there have to be an orientation? Can't you just be attracted to trans people and not have a label?
Gay bars are honestly your best shot. Every since the trans explosions gay bars have kind of turned into all-purpose LGBT hangouts. Most places don't have "trans" bars, they all just kind of just flock to gay bars.
Unfortunately, the community you're attracted to isn't going to just be hanging out at book stores or coffee shops or learning annex cooking classes so you're kind of going to have to bite the bullet and dive in head first. Pride events, gay bars, online communities, etc,.
Good luck. Don't worry about what to call yourself. It doesn't really matter. Having labels is just an easy way for other people to categorize you and it won't help you find an identity.
are you happier if you are rich/have higher than average income?
>>17720129
No. Only the anxiety of not having income is gone, but the unhappiness is still there.
Yes. You don't have to worry about things like rent, food, not being able to go places, dressing well, taking care of your own, etc. Above poster hasn't been poor. I am.
>>17720153
Actually, happiness does increase up until a certain threshold, I think 200k pa or so.
Did I just friendzoned? I'm literally autistic, so I can't tell
Sweet move from you but not a good response from her
Can't really tell though from this convo
>>17720134
I basically told her that I have a French paper due in a couple of days and that I haven't started it yet
Depends on the girl. Some just enjoy playing hard to get banter. It's not much to go on.
>>17720080
Give it another week or so before you worry too much. Sometimes women just start their periods late. Could be due to stress or any number of things.
>used a condom everytime
She's most likely pregnant. Enjoy sleepless nights and being on the hook for at least 18 years
No sex is 100% safe anon, even if you used a condom perfectly every single time, theres still a fail rate of 2%. However, since it's extremely unlikely to use one perfectly every single time, statistics show that condoms fail more like 18% of the time.
If you are concerned, get a test. If you are REALLY concerned, get a plan B pill ASAP, if available in your country (your english is a little iffy, I'm assuming it's not your first language). You're already a bit late for the maximum effectiveness, but you still have a chance.
Next time, consider having multiple forms of BC. Get her on the pill, or a ring/IUD, use a sponge or spermicide. The more the better.
Why am I so prone to sexual deviancy? What do I do? Ever since I was young I've been into bizarre, deviant forms of pornography. Pedophilia, rape, etc. It's scares the shit out of me. I don't ever want to hurt anybody but I have some sort of insatiable lust for explicitly deviant and forbidden forms of sexual gratification. Should I kill myself? Again, I don't ever want to hurt or bring pain to anybody, I just want to be a good person. Help me, /adv/. Please. I don't think I can to talk to a therapist about this, there's too much shame and embarrassment involved. Pic somewhat related, the Marquis de Sade.
>>17720061
A big part is probably down to starting early, and porn for kids is always a bit bizarre but if you started with hardcore shit, the older you get, the more extremes you need.
Do you actually want to act on it? If not, no need to fucking worry.
I watched tons of rape porn and still like it but I have a hard time slapping my girlfriend when she asks me to and the thought of raping somebody disgusts me. So no harm done.
>>17720115
>Do you actually want to act on it?
No, absolutely 100% NO. It disgusts me to the core. The problem is that, being a moral person, even watching this shit is in a way co-opting these kinds of unacceptable behavior, but every time I keep coming back. I agree with you though, starting early with hardcore shit definitely fucked me up.
>>17720061
If you don't act on it, you should allow your conscience to be at least moderately clear. There's a huge difference between a pedophile and a child molester. While both of those things are fucking weird, only one of them is cancerous to the fabric of society.
Need advice about wearing or not a septum (fake) piercing. Does is suit me ? also I´m straight and I would like to know what girls think about it, thx :)
>>17720059
Yeah it looks good on you. Just so you know, it's a symbol in the gay community, so don't get surprised if guys start hitting on you or people assuming you're gay.
it's the only piercing I sincerely do not find attractive on anybody
Eh, I'm not huge on piercings in general but I don't think so.
P.s tho, you are pretty attractive in general, and plz don't wear hats you have surprisingly great hair
Typical neet with rotten teeth to the core.
Started visiting dentist lately and it supposed to be a really good one.
Later few times when he put his hands in my mouth wearing rubber orange gloves, I felt some kind of sour awful taste.
I asked him about it but he said the gloves are new.
Is there a situation when gloves used on you first time could taste sour or did I got gloves after someone else?
Probably chemicals on the glove so your stank teeth don't melt through his hands
Jesus how do people like this make it through the genepool?
Gloves are typically sterilized, they sometimes have a weird taste due to the sterilization process.
>rotten teeth
>worry about used glove
if a girl DOESN'T fuck me on the first date
does that mean she's not into me? like girls hook up with guys they meet at the club the same night, why is a date any different?
>in b4 ur not entitled to sex lulz just b urself
>>17720051
>implying there's a straight forward yes/no answer
I generally do fuck on the first date, but even when I haven't, she's still turned out to be into me
>why is a date any different?
Social structures.
Like it or not, most guys will think less of a chick who puts out easy. They don't mind screwing easy chicks, but easy chicks will never be wife material. We know that, so we tend not to fuck the first time around unless we literally don't care if we see them again. If anything you shouldn't be upset about a chick not putting out on the first date if you actually want her to like you, because it typically means she actually wants to keep you around.
But also, not all girls even do the casual sex thing. I don't. Unfortunately for you and me, you likely won't be able to simply tell the difference between a chick like me who doesn't fuck around in general, or the chick who takes it slow for relationships but is fine with quick ONS for people she could care less about.
You should ask yourself what you're looking for. If you just want quick sex, why are you dating in the first place? Why not just get with those bar girls looking for quick easy sex with no emotion too?
If you want a relationship, why is it so important to fuck on the first date? I can understand wanting sex to come fairly quickly in a relationship, but why does it need to be instantaneous?
>>17720111
I have been led to believe that there's the 'fuckable' guy and the 'boyfriend/husband' guy.
The fuckable guy is someone you just want to fuck badly. You're physically attracted to him, you like his presence, you want him inside you.
The boyfriend/husband guy is usually less attractive than fuckable, and doesn't elicit the lizard-primal attraction from his partner compared to fuckable guy. He's a safer 'catch', has a good job, has a stable life, someone you can cuddle and watch netflix with.
It's less about me looking a quick lay as much as it is me trying to put in the work to get a girl to desire me at that primal "must fuck now" level AND as a long term partner.
However if I had to choose between the two, I'd rather be fuckable guy.
I've probably missed the mark, in which case I'd love an explanation of why this train of thought is wrong.
How do I get over the damage anime did to my perception of women and relationships?
I started watching anime when I was 15 because I considered myself to be a loser and pretty much wanted to find something that would help me meet other people like me. Turns out I got along with weebs a lot worse than most people so it didn't work, but I did end up getting into a lot of it, especially the cutesy slice of life stuff. I can tell it fucked the way I view women and caused me to have extremely unrealistic standards for girls and relationships and I'd like to be able to move on from it but don't know how.
Just watch more mature anime that displays women in more realistic ways!
>>17720055
fuck off
>>17720048
It has something to do with the behavioral sink.
I can only occasionally get into and slice of life may be my least favorite.
Meanwhile I have a friend who watches maybe 80% of the seasonal anime every season, loves slice of life, is borderline autistic, and started alienating people.
He got kicked out of his parents so went to live with our other friend's parents while he fails communitt college. He also works part time and blows his money on not finding a place to stay.
Focus on improving your life and I'm sure the anime will resolve itself. Spending too much time in any abstract realm will damage you. Find a tether that will keep you grounded in reality.
I had a male friend that pays for me every time we went out. Most of the time only the two of us. Like when we go for a movie or dinner etc. I insisted him to pay for mine but he refused to let me do so. So from then I stopped offering him to pay for myself cause I know he wouldn't let me do it,no matter what.
When we party or so he always making jokes like "I want to sleep with you" or "let's fuck" or "You're too tough I can't confront you" kind of. Mind you he's only do that after few drinks.
What I don't understand is he never text me or ring me or anything. We talk but rarely, and the conversation is purely about stupid things, nothing serious. I don't think he likes me. I just can't figure it out why he always do that.
Maybe he thinks I'm broke or he being rich he would like to pay for a friend who studying and working at the same time?
>>17720027
> he always making jokes like "I want to sleep with you" or "let's fuck"
>jokes
>I had a male friend that pays for me every time we went out.
He wants to date you
>Most of the time only the two of us
He wishes it was a date
>Like when we go for a movie or dinner etc. I insisted him to pay for mine but he refused to let me do so.
You're making him think it's a date
>So from then I stopped offering him to pay for myself cause I know he wouldn't let me do it,no matter what.
He really wants to date you
>When we party or so he always making jokes like "I want to sleep with you" or "let's fuck" or "You're too tough I can't confront you" kind of. Mind you he's only do that after few drinks.
>He's not making jokes
>What I don't understand is he never text me or ring me or anything. We talk but rarely, and the conversation is purely about stupid things, nothing serious. I don't think he likes me. I just can't figure it out why he always do that.
He wants to give you the D and you're boring
>Maybe he thinks I'm broke or he being rich he would like to pay for a friend who studying and working at the same time?
At least give the guy a blowjob
>>17720104
>At least give the guy a blowjob
I don't know what else to say rather than this lol
So a couple of friends and I were able to meet some foreign girls and we took them around town and had a night date. It was a fun night until we brought them back to their motel. My two friends went and had sex with their partners. My date was probably expecting the same but I turned her down because I'm not into casual sex. It was akward because her other two friends are getting action but her. It got kind of akward. I just kissed her goodnight and went home. I don't really regret my decision but I feel bad for defying this girl's expectations. She wanted sex and didn't get it.
she'll live
>>17720024
You might have made yourself more desirable. However shell never have you because being into casual sex is major dealbreaker
>>17720024
Her friends, your friends are herself are probably assuming you are a closet homosexual anyway. So don't worry.
She will never let you approach her again tho.
Btw, you are a fucking idiot.
I made the mistake of majoring in journalism in college. Although I've had some articles featured in major publications, I quickly learned I wasn't well suited to the industry.
Currently I'm working as an administrative assistant. I'm good at the job, in particular when I'm not dealing with customers, but it's a dying profession. Most of the work will be automated soon.
I copped out of math classes in college because of high test scores and AP credits. I'd like to go back to school and for a more practical degree. At 28 I don't have much time left to find a career track. Whether I enjoy my work doesn't matter. I only care about earning enough to survive.
What should I study?
if you are tired of starting over, stop giving up
>>17720018
Do you think you know me personally? If so, I appreciate the sentiment, but bills must be paid.
>>17720006
Bump.
My wife thinks Donald Trump is an "inappropriate" Halloween costume
Before you ask, I'm apolitical and apathetic about the wider world
What does /adv/ think? She said she isn't going to the Halloween party with me if I do
I thinks it's dumb because she's going as Kim Kardashian after getting robbed
>>17719959
She hates the trumpster and would be butthurt. It's kind of lame but whatever. Your call on how to proceed. I don't think most people would care. If someone is butthurt about something you can't really be the sensitivity police imo.
>>17719959
Tbh Hillary Clinton would be a scarier costume.
Why do you care about being Trump so badly if you don't care for politics? Also if you want to go that badly is your costume really that big of a deal? I thought people that went to Halloween parties cared more about the party aspect.
>be me, 18
>socially retarded but good looks
>typical "4chan made me gay"-type of guy
> have this friends, he's 17 but looks 13-14 like really boyish
>begin to love him
>I begin to make subtle hints to him then he one day says hes hetero and i say i am too
>grown really distant to him, i think he sees me as really weird because i am a closet faggot
>wait everyday for a text by him like in the old days
>could message him, but that would just be pathetic wouldnt it?
>I just dont know anymore what do?
>we were good friends once, now barely talk
>still think about him every day
>why is life so cruel?
You could at least message him and try to stay friends.
>>17719911
But he clearly doesnt want anything to do with me otherwise he would message me...
>>17719920
What if he thinks the same thing because you won't message him?
Why do people need Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat at the same time? They're essentially all for sharing what you're doing, what you like, and what you look like. Why have three going?
facebook for family
instagram for showing off your life or pet
snapchat for sending nudes
>>17719826
This. Everything has a nice. For example, /adv/ is where people go to ask for advice instead of stupid stream of consciousness bullshit.
Redundant if you ask me. I only have jewbook and I barely use that. I have like 50ish friends and never post anything lol