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I think I might be broken.
I can seduce and hypnotize, be very emotional and passionate, but only until I get what I want. I want emotions, to drain them out of a man, to posses his heart and soul... and when there is nothing more he could give and there is no way he could love me more, my emotions die and I leave to find another victim. I can always 'come back' as if nothing ever happened, but that other, weaker person can't. He feels lost, insane, empty...
I can easily understand anyone, their desires, secrets, fears... I attract people who can be very passionate, who are looking for deep and transforming relationships, who are capable of letting themselves go so they can completely connect with another person and get transformed. And I do it also. But for a while. Sooner or later (or should I say as soon as I get all there is) I wake up from my dreams and in emotional sense I become nothing more than a cold and untouchable woman with no interest in that person, no desires, no remorse... The story repeats constantly. I'm always the one who decides to end it, the one who 'cheated', the one who is to blame for everything. And my feelings about it? I'm sorry, but I'm not. That's the way it had to be. There is always a reason why two people meet, they both need something out of that relationship and they get it. I have to admit that it does feel kinda strange when you look at the person you were really connected to and feel nothing anymore, especially when they try to make me remember how it was, how good we felt together etc. But for me there is no way back.
I have been told many times how incredibly attractive I am. They say that I move, talk or look at people in an extremely seductive manner, unconsciously, and that's why I attract almost anyone. Younger, older people, men, women... all of them. People fall in love with me at first sight, they find me unusual but irresistible and I have heard many times that I have the most beautiful eyes they have ever seen.
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Do you live in Europe OP? Yes, you are broken.
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>>17734269
Post a picture, then drink bleach you cunt.
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you must be 15 and have just found out u can break hearts.
eeee lmao
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Why does it feel so scummy to compliment a woman?
For example, I saw a picture of this woman with a beautiful smile. It actually soothed my troubled soul and I felt more calm than I have in a long time.
I felt compelled to tell her that her smile soothed me. I did not though because it seemed scummy abd predatory. Why do I feel this way? It also felt cheesey.
Women... Do you mind if a guy compliments you?
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Depends on the situation and the compliment, really.
Like if somebody says "hey, I just wanted to say that I think you're pretty" ot something like that, it's no problem ay all. It's an honest compliment.
But if a guy comes up and his words or behavior suggest he has no concept of personal boundaries or appropriateness, then it puts me on edge. Like if a guy blocks the door, or says "hey baby, I wanna lick those tits" or asks me out and then doesn't listen when I say no or that I have a boyfriend. I've had guys who haven't talked to me for all of five minutes trying to gete to cheat on my boyfriend/husband with them.
Basically, be respectful and you should be good.
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>>17734299
I understand. I also like making people happy but I often am afraid because I don't want to piss women off with compliments. Like if I say "I like your long hair". She could take it the wrong way. So I usually just keep compliments to myself. Especially in work place.
If you say "nice dress" that could be taken as sexual harassment.
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>>17734325
If you don't make it sexual, then it's not sexual harassment. The key is in your behavior. If you phrase it non-sexually and then continue with what you were doing, then it's not harassment. If you leer and stare, if you invade personal space, if you demand something in return, then it's harassment.
Don't be afraid to be nice, the world needs more nice.
> Lonely, depressed and diagnosed with aspergers
> Decide to go on omegle with best friend
> Go on a quest for gamer grill because we are sad fucks
> I meet countless girls and none of them have something in common with me
> As soon as im about to give up out of sadness
> Meet shy girl with allot in common and interests and talk with our cams on
> She likes me for me not because of how i look but she does think im hot
> We talk more over on skype and she tells me not to make fun of her voice
> She then joins a skype call with me and sounds like nyanners
> Later i find out she plays overwatch, Nekopara and might be a pervert like me
> At this point this was destined to happen
> Ask her if she loves me
> Says ''OF COURSE I LOVE YOU You're always so sweet and kind to me and you're also cute n adorable''
> Confidence boost
> Tell her about my feelings and we keep talking on from there
> She is sick at this moment and i dont know how to make her happy or flirt with her
> I feel like i cant make her happy because we live in different countries
Please /adv/ I really need your help on this one. There are barely girls in my area and i feel like online dating is my last chance at becoming happy. (Im 16 and she is 15)
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>>17734248
>THERE ARE NO GIRLS FOR ME :(((((
>I'm 16 and she is 15
Fuck off, OP.
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>>17734248
Op, you've made a critical error here.
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>tfw I'm now an adult and I suddenly don't understand wtf goes on in the mind of teenagers
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I'm only attracted to exceptionally intelligent people, or extraordinarily artistic people.
But they're so hard to find, no one compares to the guy I last fell for, for instance.
Physically I'm not too bothered, as long as they're healthy looking
How do I lower my standards? I can't seem to.
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>>17734238
Why would you want to?
Maybe try the internet. I've met lots of exceptionally creative/intelligent men through 4chan or omegle. You don't have to lower your standards if you broaden your scope. You have to be willing to engage with people long distance though.
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>>17734238
hey gal incidentially i'm exceptionally intelligent AND artistic
asl
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>>17734241
How do you meet people on 4chan?
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I have no idea what to do with my hair and how to improve my facial aesthetics. I have ugly and asymmetrical face (huge forehead and my right eye is hooded + dat weird, crooked smile) - so I figured it's best to leave my hair alone so it doesn't drag attention to my face. Decided to finally cut it, but I have no idea what would suit me. Any ideas? I'm really insecure about my looks and I really don't want to fuck this up.
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>>17734190
I think something like pic related would suit you well.
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>>17734190
There's nothing wrong with you at all; you're quite pretty. Having a big forehead is trivial, it's not a bad thing.
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I can't understand why you are painting your eyes black. It doesn't hide your identity if that's what you wanted lol.
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When are the best times to make eye contact during a conversation? Especially with women, I have this problem where I either make to much eye contact or to little. I feel like I come off as creepy and intimidating and I hate it.
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>>17734178
start and finish with eye contact, or while they start talking, or are making a point.
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>>17734178
Eye contact is best when listening. More more when you're listening. If you're speaking, you can let your eyes wander and keep making eye contact, but probably like 33-60% of the time. Don't try to calculate this as you're doing it. Just make occasional eye contact as your speaking and when you're saying something you think is important.
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>>17734178
Pay attention to what others do. I've noticed people look away from convos all the time, usually to let the other person rest for a bit or because they have someone they "prefer" when in group setting.
In one on one, let your eyes wander away every once in a while. Take advantage of loud noises to look away for a few seconds.
Anyone else find that when you're alone at night, you start getting really down on yourself and second-guessing decisions? More specifically, I've sat down with an Army recruiter twice now and can't seem to keep a consistent mindset about this whole thing.
Throughout the day, I'm all-in and think this will be a good experience for me. But once the sun goes down, I'm left alone with my thoughts and start panicking. I sometimes have to get out of bed and watch TV for a bit just so I can calm down and go back to sleep.
How can time of day affect my mood so significantly? Are there any tricks to dealing with an over-active mind at night?
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>>17734167
Because taking nonsense orders that are going to get you killed from a knuckle-dragging imbecile is a really bad idea. Go get a job. Get 2 if you have to. Work so hard you can't think anymore. If you still want to be an ISIS target in 6 months you can.
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>>17734167
Try progressive muscle relaxation.
And avoid jobs that might get you killed. I would be stressed too if I had to go the army.
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Anyone have advice that doesn't consist of
>army is stupid you gonna die
???
This doesn't only apply to my specific situation of joining the Army. Just making any big life decision... I'm always excited about going through with it during the day, but get super bummed out at night.
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How do you hide your side chick from your girlfriend? Tips from those with experience
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Have a friend who has a brother.
Introduce GF to friend, and by proxy brother at same time.
Save Side Bitch as your friends brother.
Make sure you set ground rules.
I.E. I text first, you don't text me unless it's in immediate response.
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Just break up and don't be a cheater.
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>>17734165
Do not tell side piece about the gf or wife and sure as shit have no possible way they ever come in contact with the same social circles. Side piece needs to be in another town you frequent for work so you have a reason for being there. I keep two phones and side piece has never been to my home or knows where I live. Oh, if you begin to have feelings for side piece disappear.
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how soon do you ask a girl out if you've just met
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When you've just met a girl and got along alright, how soon should you be asking her out? How well do you need to know her first? And do you have to make small talk by txt once you get her phone number?
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Usually during your first conversation. Just talk a bit about anything and slip the question. That is if you're an adult and not a high schooler.
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>>17734160
Depends.
If it's a person you don't usually meet (like some random you met at a party or at an event), then it's okay to ask her out during your first conversation.
If it's a person you meet frequently, I think you should talk for a while, like a couple of weeks at least and flirt to test the waters.
It's mostly about the consequences - if a random person turns you down who gives a shit, if your classmate for the next 3 years turns you down it becomes more complicated.
I personally hate small talk, I prefer texting sporadically.
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>>17734160
This >>17734187
If I can actually hang out, I wait a bit and get to know her.
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How do I get recruiters to stop calling me?
So I graduated this year and two months ago, after some travelling, I decided to get a job. I uploaded my CV online and started getting lots of calls, so far so great. I got a nice job through one of them. It's worthwhile and I like what they do.
Now I've taken my CV down from all the sites and I'm still getting calls. Every day no matter if it's 8am or 3pm. They all go through the same procedure when I say I'm not looking for a position, they want to name and location of my current company. They have some kind of script.
Should I have not left my phone number on the CV I uploaded? I'm not sure how effective email is although I know it would still work in the end.
Do they ever stop? is this what adult life is?
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Oh, and how do you handle recruitment calls during work? I would ignore all my calls but I'm waiting on a plumber at the moment.
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>>17734159
Listen asshat, the job of your fucking DREAMS is in the hands of one of these recruiters. Plus, there may be a day you will actually need them (it happens). Be nice to all of them, one of them holds your future in his hands. You just can't see it yet.
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>>17734171
Lol who cares if they like me, they are paid to chase me down. If there wasn't a company offering them a months worth of salary for getting them someone they wouldn't call out of the kindness of their hearts.
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Yesterday my gf went to my house only to get a text to go back home. However later on I found out she didn't respond to her mom and I tried getting her to go back home after which she started acting quiet.
She texted me After going home. talking about how she thought I hated her and tried kicking her out of my house when I just didn't want her to be on bad terms with her mother (she is 17)
She's still answering my texts but is acting very passive aggressive sending one word texts at a time
What do?
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>>17734155
Try watching TV or playing video games for a couple of years until she grows up. I don't know why you would put up with this shit. Tell her to cut it the fuck out.
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>>17734177
Should I tell her this
I
> Iknow you were very upset because I unintentionally made it seem as if I didn't want you with me or something like that and I already explained to you why. I don't have to explain myself any further. But then you act like how you did where you won't tell me FACE to face what you're feeling and then you apologize over text and say you're not mad at me but then start texting me with one word answers. You're acting very childish and I don't know how longer I can tolerate that.
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>>17734155
Yo nigga. You subscribed to sandpapercondoms?
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Help me /adv/, my mom caught me hummingbirding. I've never seen her look so ashamed. I tried explaining how it doesn't hurt the birds in any way, but she just left the house without saying anything
What the fuck do I do? What do I say when she comes back? I'm really scared and nervous right now.
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>>17734147
Kill yourself
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>>17734147
WTF
Turn yourself in to to PETA and the ASPCA.
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what is hummingbirding?
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I used to be in an abusive relationship with a girl. It was really bad, she would hit me, lie to me, manipulate me to stay with her and constantly yell at me. Eventually my parents eves dropped one day and heard her yelling at me and they eventually told me she was abusive. It took me a long time but I eventually forced myself to get away from her by breaking up, not without her stalking me though and having to change my phone number because she wouldn't leave me alone.
Now it's years later, I still refuse to ever talk with her but I'm worried anything I do in the future she'll try to ruin my life by spreading more lies. She lies a lot and doesn't mind lying, even told me she does it to get her way. I want to eventually make a video game or write a book but I'm afraid if I'm in the public spotlight at all, she will jump and try to get money out of me by threatening to spread rumors about me to make any public image look bad.
I feel like she's constantly watching and wants to still destroy my life. She was a control freak and also twisted anything to make herself seem like the victim when she was abusing me the entire time and all I ever did was try to make her happy.
I feel trapped and just worried she'll come back to haunt me in the future. What do I do? Just keep moving forward? I mean I know I can't get in trouble for lies because you need proof, but I know the public loves drama and if anyone comes out saying whatever they want about a person, the public immediately believes it.
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Do what you want senpai, hell make a game having to do with abuse and state that you have been abused by a past spouse. Don't let her hold you down, she can go fuck herself
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>>17734116
It's years later. If she isn't still popping up in your life, then chances are good that she's moved on to some other poor sap.
If you're still in the same town as her, I would highly encourage moving.
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>>17734134
thanks, it's just she's a scorpio and I know she has the personality type to not forget stupid shit years later. at one point she offered to pay for a plane ticket to visit her parents back when we were dating, and I said I couldn't go unless she had paid because I didn't have the money, but she said it was ok and I didn't have to pay her back. then after we broke up she suddenly starts screaming that I owed her the money and then kept changing the amount to more and saying it was 'interest'. I'm just afraid she'll be crazy enough to do pull that again one day if I'm ever successful. I know I'm not yet and idk if I ever will be, but it's not fun being afraid of doing too good in life in fear you'll have someone come back to try to ruin you.
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Grew up without a father, thoroughly pussified in my younger years. I went from being a shy pussy to a silent autistic porn addict. Is there anyway to undo the autism? Most people think I'm normal on first glance ive been working out for 3 years and am pretty toned but as soon as I speak to someone it's like a frag grenade goes off in my head. My voice is light I say retarded shit, complete train wreck with woman reguardless of how hot or busted they are. I can talk normal when I'm among friends. But new people or chicks it's like ptsd. Help
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>tfw a silent autistic porn addict
I need help too
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>TRIGGERED
I don't like how you use pussy as a negative concept to describe your own insecurities.
Well first lay off the porn and get a sense of reality back. And treat people like you'd treat your friends. Say whatever pops into your head, if they run away, so be it. There are plenty of fish in the sea and your life us too short to be someone you are not. Eventually a girl will laugh at your autistic ways, find it cute etc.. You just need to stop being so damn self-conscious and embrace yourself for what you are.
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What kind of porn?
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So im hoping someone can help. im a 23 yr old f and i have a reletively new boyfriend whos 39. due to some unforseen circumstances we moved in together quickly and as a result our relationship moved quickly (i love you, things about our past etc.).
ive seen on his computer and hes told me what hes into sexually (femdom, cock shaming, pretending im a little girl, rape fantasy) some im okay with... some not. im not a dom, and i dont think i ever will be. my fear is im either going to be very uncomfortable with sex or i say something and hes ultimately not happy and might end up cheating on me, even if he didnt mean to. i really just want to make him happy but i dont want to be completely uncomfortable either.
which route should i go? and if i go uncomfortable route ... how do i even begin lol
thanks! im never on this site i have no idea if im doing it right.
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it seems to me that you rushed things quite a bit.
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>>17734109
its been about 7 months, and i know. we both love each other, were just not seeing eye to eye on sex. you think 7 months is too rushed? thanks :)
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>>17734145
If you want him to be happy then just do that stuff once in a while. If you can't even do that on a regular basis like once a week/month then maybe you don't really love him