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I really want to git gud at singing, but I have kind of a small vocal range, and I can't hit a very high pitch either, while most of the songs I like are more high pitched/K or J poppy in nature. Can I improve my range with a lot of vocal training or am I stuck being a shitty singer?
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>>17732297
You can improve, but by how much you'll just have to find out by trying. Some learn singing easier with a good instructior and some will never become anything more than mediocre at it despite training hard.
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>>17732367
What if I can't afford an instructor
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>>17732712
2 words. YouTube Tutorials. They may not be perfect, but they work.
I am really struggling to find the will power to keep living.
Every single day I'm hurt. I'm always hurt.
I can't concentrate anymore.
I am having a really really difficult time. I feel disconnected to everybody. I feel under pressure and have no ambition to work my way out of the hole being dug.
I genuinely am having strong feeling towards wanting to die.
I don't know how to find my ambition to live.
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My advice is to change something major about your situation. I don't mean "hit the gym" or "diet" or something like that (although you could choose those). I mean, move someplace new, start a big project, cut bad people out of your life, start hanging out in a new place (like a pool hall, even if you don't play pool), that type of thing.
Old saying: the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again and expect different results. You gotta change something. Now.
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>>17732278
There is someone who I can cut out of my life who will lessen the hardship.
But I have a strong emotional bond to them and it's hard to come to terms that leaving is the right thing to do.
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>>17732281
You aren't talking about something small, like an awkward situation, you're talking about something big-- the biggest thing, in fact-- your will to live.
Trust me I have been there. My situation was that I was stuck in a band with some bad dudes who were keeping me from realizing my true potential. I was in the biggest funk of my life before I quit that band. Take from that what you will
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I need to get this fucking 750 out of my PC. I found a 970 on craigslist for $150 and a 780 ti for $125.
I read that Nvidia fucked Keplar cards, but my friend has a 680 and says that he's been getting pretty good driver support.
Based on what I've seen the 780 ti has more raw power but the 970 is more polished. I really don't plan on overclocking either of them, at least not right away since I'm buying used.
I'm pretty torn between the two, what do you guys think?
970
http://www.evga.com/Products/Product.aspx?pn=04G-P4-3975-KR
780 ti
http://www.evga.com/Products/Specs/GPU.aspx?pn=88601331-DBCE-436D-8EB3-37F1F63B6745
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Got the 970 (not EVGA) in my rig. So far nothing it can't run at high settings. Will eventually happen ofc but I'll worry about that then
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A 1060 would be better than the 970. The 780ti is obsolete.
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>>17732259
Pretty sure the performance is actually VERY similar. At the same time 970 will get longer driver support, actually drivers optimized for it and consumes much lesser power. The only issue is the meme 3,5GB vRAM but it's pretty damn fine for mid class cards.
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How do i become more mature?
My childishness disgusts me but i just can't stop being a prick and laugh about other people and feel superior (while i clearly am not), i try to concentrate on not being a fucking idiot but the thought is still on the back of my head, waiting for me to slip.
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Read classic literature
You will see caricatures of the type of person you've been
I recommend Theophrastus's Characters. Short read.
http://www.eudaemonist.com/biblion/characters/
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Current age?
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>>17732270
18, i've been like this ever since i was 13
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>walk into my room
>dirty clothes are neatly collected in hamper, or at least piled up closely around it in a compact mound
>walk into the room of any other living being
>dirty clothes distributed uniformly across the carpet as if placed there deliberately
Defend this.
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>walk into the room of any other living being
I am a living being and I don't do this:
>dirty clothes distributed uniformly across the carpet as if placed there deliberately
Your sample set is too small to make that type of general statement.
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>>17732235
It changes once you get past your early to mid 20s, anon. One of the perks of getting older
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>>17732255
I don't understand why people I know and respect do it though
Having dirty clothes everywhere just makes me feel poor.
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How do you avoid having a rebound relationship after a relationship has ended? What steps do you need to take and how long do you need to wait and what do you need to achieve before it's "safe" to start a new relationship after a break up?
Are rebounds necessary to fully get back into the serious dating game? Are casual "just for fun" type relationships the way to go?
I want to date my childhood best friend but I don't want to mess it up for obvious reasons.
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Give it time to get over the old chick if t was a long relationship and or messy breakup. Nothing wrong with asking out with friend and doing things so really see if you're compatible. Do go trying to kiss her first time out, control yourself or else you'll scare her off. Make sure she feels the same too and don't rush anything
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>>17732211
my rule is: sleep with at least one person before you start dating again, but don't date the person you slept with.
it'll build your confidence up while helping you regain control of your emotions.
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>>17733054
I try to avoid casual sex. I'm kind of faggot that way. Is there an alternative?
>>17733005
pretty sure the feeling is mutual. We seem to really enjoy spending time together and there's some tension, I think. Not sure if I'm imagining it though. Honestly we're pretty close. If we were together all that would be different would probably be sex.
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Is it inappropriate for your brothers wife to kiss you/hold hands/hug you?
I know it seems like an obvious answer but I can't tell if her kissing me on the cheek when she see's me and when I leave, Hugging me (like in a way she hugs her husband with her arms around his neck and her body pressed against his), and holding my hand when we are walking together or crossing a street
I can't tell if It's inappropriate or not and I should call her out on it or she's just being overly friendly with me. It's like shes purposefully doing things just on the cusp of inappropriate, But I've never seen her kiss or hold hands with anyone else. I mean I've seen her kiss my brother, but that's it. Not even her 2 female friend she does that too, and she KNOWS I'm not gay
I'M SO CONFUSED
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>holding my hand when we are walking together or crossing a street
wut???
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>>17732191
Dude, I don't solicit it...I'm 29. I don't need her to hold my hand
I just let her do it because I think It's a nervous thing she does. I could be wrong though
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Depending on age, she might just see you as a little brother. Spouses and in-laws tend to be weird with each other. Even though my sister and I aren't on the best of terms, I still want to get to know her husband better since we're sort of part of the same family now, you know.
If she starts flirting with you - and not in a teasing way - then you might be in trouble.
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so /adv/, i have a situation i need help with
One of my best friends/room mates has recently been asked to move in with her boy friend.
This is cool and all, and on one level i'm really happy for her, but i also honestly think her boyfriend is not even close to ready for that and that this will likely end up with her miserable and broke and I would hate to see her like that.
It's not that he's a bad person or abusive, but they've barely known each other a year and only been dating for less than 6 months, they only hang out a few times a week, he never wants to do the things she likes to do (art shows, concerts, day trips/hiking) and has made no effort to meet and hang with her friends. He mostly cares about video games, and I hate to be a dick, but he frankly just doesn't have the taste for art and music that she and our other friends do. He doesn't have a car, washes dished at a ramen shop, has no plans to go to school or work on his career.
I sincerely think she likes him because he's nice, cute, and they have good sex the 2-3 times a week they see eachother. She's had a bunch of shittier partners, and she's never even had a fight with her current partner. She's always been a romantic and an idealist and she's always tried to make these so-so relationships into something way more than they merit.
I feel like she's settling.
I know this is like none of my fucking business, but i really want to talk to her about it because i don't think she knows what she's getting into and i think she's going to set herself back quite a bit if she does this.
Should I say something or shut my fucking mouth. If i do say something, what should it be?
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>I know this is like none of my fucking business
This.
She is old enough to make her own decisions.
Some people need to fail to learn.
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don't say anything. is not your business. really.
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Shut your fucking mouth, your friends are not possessions and your post reeks of jealousy.
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Is it bad that I think of other men, of being intimate with them and I even flirt through messages / am friendly with them irl but do not EVER cheat on my boyfriend with not even a kiss? I think I confuse people Im into them but its exciting at first but after a while I get bored of them, especially after I get to know them better they dont interest me anymore (on a mental level).
I feel like Im unfaithful to my boyfriend and knowingly mischievous to the others and I dont know why I do it, I just get these thoughts and „play along„ close to the edge but still within safe zone so to speak
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You are the living definition of an attention whore.
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Yes, it is bad since you are in a monogamous relationship.
I suggest that you stop immediately and never speak of it or think of it again. If you confess this shit to your boyfriend, he will dump you... that is, if he has a pair of balls between his legs.
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Yes, it's bad. What counts as "cheating" isn't an official rule or law listed somewhere that you can skirt around or "play close to the edge" with. It depends on how you or your partner feel about it.
If you are doing things that make you think "I wonder if this is cheating?" then congrats, you ARE cheating. If your partner gets angry with something that you did and says that you're cheating on them, then as far as they're concerned you ARE cheating.
Of course, people can disagree on where that imaginary line is and some people can certainly be completely ridiculous (i.e. OMG You said hi to her, WHY ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME???) but at that point you either have to come to some kind of understanding or you break up - simple as that.
Do you think what you're doing would upset your bf? If so, then once again YES it is cheating.
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Does swearing to God count if you did it in a very bad state of mind? I swore to God I would stop doing something forever but I feel like I really want to do it, and I think it may have been dumb to swear off of this thing.
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Well if all this sounds silly to you maybe that's a real answer
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>>17732136
You think God knews I would brake the promise? Not the first time I've broken my word, but this time I took out the bible and swore on it.
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>implying god exists
>when was the last time you were happy?
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about two months ago.
i don't know what happened. it just worse and worse.
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Cant remember , I cant stop thinking about taking pills/drugs to feel happy, to feel something i just feel tired all the time.
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3 years.
Weed didn't work.
Pills don't work.
It's all starting to look very very bleak.
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Is there any point in using Tinder if you're not a Chad? You're always going to be competing with Chad who's just a swipe away, and they're just looking for a quick fuck so they'll match with even the most average looking girls. The girls closer to my league will end up matching with Chads and they'll ignore me. How do you stand out when you're not 6 feet tall or have a 6 figure bank account? Why would women ever pick you? I don't even bother messaging them at this point because if I do they usually ignore me.
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>>17732111
Just try it OP, it depends on your area.
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>>17732174
it really doesn't unless you live in a really unpopulated area.
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I think a lot of it really depends on your picture and bio. Even if you aren't great looking, having nice looking, flattering photos that make you look like a cool well adjusted person helps. Keep trying OP!
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I just received my first citation for speeding. The speed limit was 35 MPH and, allegedly, I was going 56 MPH.
I'm home now and I'm reading the back of the citation. It says I can request a "trial by written declaration". I have severe anxiety, so this would be ideal for me.
Can I go now and request it? Will it be ready? I want to give them as little time as possible to prepare. I'll go to court tomorrow if I can.
What should I do?
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I just want to add that I can write more effectively than I can speak. If I go to a trial in person, I'll write up something to say then forget everything on the spot. Again, anxiety.
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>>17732091
Write "I dindu nuffin, I'm a good boy"
It might work
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Its the request that should be a written declaration. Your trial will be a normal one.
Retard.
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19 yrs old and 13yrs old 2016-11-03 18:54:23 Post No.17732045
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hello im 19yrs old i just want some advice on what to do
so my social life IRL got messed up so i became an introvert man and got attached into online friends and sit on my computer whole day to do works online like freelancing,sometime later i met a girl online she said she was 18yrs old and we became a couple and opened my private life into her weve been together for 4months now and already did SOP and other erotic stuffs online and ofcourse dick pic and pussy
until yesterday she confessed that shes only 13yrs old(wtf she looks like 16yrsold)but i do really love her and she also feels the same way
im planning to visit her 6months from now cause shes only 800km away from me(but still need to ride a plane or a ship cause philippines)
so what do you think is 19yrs old and a 13yrs old acceptable?
or i need to stop(i do really love her)
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>>17732045
if you sex her you go to jail, also a 13 year old girl is like a powderkeg, one moment she will love you the next she will go nuts her parents will be involved and you will be getting your backdoors busted in by the phillipine authorities or some shit. Not worth it man. Pretend she no longer exists.
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She's just hitting her puberty, wait till she's 16 for real this time
Dude u fucked up Chris Hansen is going after u
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pretend that she no longer exist makes me wanna commit a suicide im so dead inside or should i wait for her to grow up but at that point shell find another man which really bothers me
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Can someone come with a name for a gang? 2016-11-03 18:51:20 Post No.17732037
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Can someone come with a name for a gang?
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2016-11-03 18:51:20
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I want someone to help me come up with a name for a gang or a group we don't intend on fighting but we would like a name-
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>>17732037
Lil dick bandits (lbd)
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>>17732037
Sountheastern Spergs
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Too Stoopid
(to come up with an original name)