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My wife and I have been having some major problems. She has been acting shady for quite some time. She is currently staying at her dads house. Today I checked her Chrome history and discovered she has secretly created a new email account and it shows some emails forwarded from Whats App with some dude she has been chatting with consistently.
How should I handle this? Should i confront her with the dudes name?. Confront the dude by calling him at his work?
Should I just ignore this shit and keep it in my back pocket?
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Before you accuse her of anything, you better have undeniable proof.
Chatting with someone does not imply cheating.
She might be using him as an emotional pillow due to the issues you two are having.
Find out the facts.
Do some investigating to find out what is going on.
Start a convo with the guy and ask about current girlfriends, etc.
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>>17734982
Thanks thats good advice.
I dont know the guy but I did some weak doxxing and found out he is a former co worker of hers. I have his work contact number but the dude is a completely stranger to me, is contacting him a good idea at this point?
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>>17734997
In this day and age mate there's really not much you could do, being cheated on leaves you as nothing but the victim and so everyone will feel sorry for you, laugh at you and your wife may try to make amends or whatever.
I was cheated on my girlfriend was making out with some guy at her work, just had to let it go, what's the use in caring? Who can be bothered with that level of anxiety and agony. Meditation and hypnosis are your friends right now mate and just tell her simply that you read her messages.
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>be confident
>high self esteem
>feel invincible
>proud of who I am and ready to share myself with someone
Enter relationship with a guy:
>lose my virginity to him
>he is cold
>never compliments me
>puts me down
>does not reciprocate affection in bed(too tied, not in the mood, even right after I make him cum)
>blames me when I tell him my needs aren't met
>keeps me dependent on his approval
Now...
>no confidence left
>hate who I currently am
>want to go back to being myself
My one and only question is this...
Should I sleep with other men while I heal myself? Will it help my confidence go up to feel approved and receive affection? I know theres a lot of men who love pleasing a woman sexually and I would like to please them back just to feel reciprocated and appreciated...
Will casual sex help me feel empowered or will it just make me feel more insecure and taken for granted?
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Just to clarify I'm not asking to cheat. The relationship is over.
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Also I was thinking of sleeping with virgins because they would appreciate me more, and maybe actually try to reciprocate affection(even if they aren't good at sex thats fine, I just want to feel like someone at least cares enough to try)
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If I learned a girl slept around to feel better about herself, my opinion and respect of her would drop. A lot.
If you don't care about that, I suppose it's your life.
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So basically I want to make my resume be a little bit longer and make it look like I have more work experience than I really do.
I graduate next year and am applying for jobs.
What are the chances of the employer figuring out I lied about work experience on a resume? What should I say if they want references from that employer? Or will it be so petty and insignificant where it won't matter?
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Most everyone does it. They call it, "Padding," your resume as a cute term to show how accepted it is.
Chances of them finding out are slim. The only thing you worry about is writing a check your tiny dick can't cash, as you could find yourself in a job that's way above your ability.
Though...that doesn't bother a lot of people either, as at least 50% of employed people I know are working jobs they're completely unqualified for.
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McJobs won't care.
Reputable jobs will care.
Lying is not a good way to start your career.
If was looking for people right out of college, I would expect some related experience before considering hiring them.
And you bet your ass I would be calling references.
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>>17734972
>McJobs won't care.
>Reputable jobs will care.
Basically this.
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>need money for food or gas
>dad will willingly put $200+ in meal plan account or fill tank every time
>need money to go out with friends and have fun
>will barely give me $10
This is annoying as fuck. What are some ways or lies I can come up with that will get him to give me real money ($50+) in cash? Inb4 get a job, no, not yet get over it
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>>17734739
get more Good Boy Points than you normally do in a week. Otherwise, stay NEET you loser.
>b-but i wana go out with muh friends!
They won't be your friends anymore if you told them you depend on daddy.
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>>17734747
t. wagecuck
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>>17734747
They already know I don't have an income. Why else would I be showing up with chump change. They also know my family is rich, and wonder why they wont give me more money to spend. Most of them are in the same situation but their parents actually give them money
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My mate was with this girl who said she was 17. Turns out that shes actually only just turned 14!!!! This chick lies about her age and sleeps with guys and then blackmails them with threats of going to the cops when she wants something. She is now with a 25yr old who has no idea what he's getting himself into.
Anyway, she uses her instagram to meet these guys and we have been reporting some of her pictures that are basically child pornography, but nothing happens because she doesn't look underage.
Don't know what to do, if we go to the cops then my mate could get charged because he's over 18.
Ideas? Advice?
Picture is of her.
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Are you in the US?
As a lawfag in Germany this is literally like porn for me.
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Have you tried /b/?
After what happened to Jessie Slaughter, they might be hungry for more.
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In Australia, not the US. I'll give /b/ a go. Thanks.
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>just measured mein dickus
>4.75" at best
Will any woman ever be satisfied by me?
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>>17734203
this may be a stupid question but would it depend on the size of the girl?
I'm worried about my dick size as well but what are we comparing our dick to anyway?
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>>17734203
Yes, of course.
Focus on foreplay. Go down on her, finger her, make out a lot - make her come before even fucking.
When it comes to actual fucking, find out angles and positions that allow deeper penetration (for example doggy or missionary with her legs on your shoulders).
Women's vaginas have some level of variety. It doesn't have much to do with the general figure of a girl.
In general penetration is harder with bigger girls, you can't get as deep. But it's not the vagina itself.
If you're overweight, lose the extra weight.
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>>17734203
It is not the size of the tool, but the skill with which it is deployed.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Guys: How often do you clean your penis? Do you often get that itchy, yellow cheese-like goo on the head?
Is your foreskin really tight unless you masturbate?
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>>17734175
>How often do you clean your penis?
everyday
>Do you often get that itchy, yellow cheese-like goo on the head?
No idea what you mean
>Is your foreskin really tight unless you masturbate?
No. When I was a kid aprox 12 lvl I hat phimosis and went to doctor with it. Doctor said I should try to retract skin everytime I pee - it wasfine in about 1 month
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Guys:
If you like creampies but don't want babies, would you still support your gf if she got pregnant (by helping her w baby or helping her get an abortion) or would you run for it?
Also, would you be offended if a girl wanted to bring sex toys into the sexual stuff you did? Like a vibrator or a butt plug etc.
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Is it better to believe r9k and stop trying cos it is hopeless, or continue approaching girls util fing gf?
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Third option: get off 4chan and live in the real world, free from its corruption
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>Literally taking the opinion of a cesspool of 1/10, basement dwelling retards
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>>17733929
Why? 4chan is just a bunch of information and opinions.
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I have problems getting close with women. My fear mostly stems (I believe) from the psychological damage from my shitty 4 year high school relationship and I know what most girls think about guys if they do something stupid.
Don't get me wrong. I am a strong and confident man, and I can talk to anyone in the right setting. I know girls want to fuck me because I've been told by a few I'm attractive. I meditate and work out every single day, I've even read a few seduction books. Granted I have been getting a lot more attention from girls than before but I'm not getting the amount of ass that I would like, or I would at the very least like a girlfriend.
The only girls in my school who are not fat or ugly are in sororities and they are the most arrogant and high strung women on this planet. I would rather be alone then be with someone with a boring and annoying personality.
I have a strong belief in myself but I never found myself to have the balls to approach someone completely random. I got this girls number who was flirty with me but it's been 3 days and I've yet to bother to text her. Tinder also doesn't work for me.
What can I do to get this problem solved? I thought that by studying self improvement for a year I would get better, but in reality I'm just as fucked up as before.
Does dating at least get easier after college or when you turn 21?
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>>17735503
>Does dating at least get easier after college or when you turn 21?
Nothing get easier just because. Until you address your raging self esteem and ego issues, nothing will change.
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you sound like a fucking potato go kys
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>>17735512
Like what? If women only like confident guys, you have to believe it until you are it is it not? I already take so much time to work on myself, like working out, meditating, reading, NoFap, cold showers...but nothing comes out of it. I'm frustrated and everything seems pointless.
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I fucked around a lot in high school, as well as college, and I'm graduating with a bachelor's degree in one year's time with a BA in Philosophy.
I may have a bit of financial leverage upon graduation, and could go through some type of graduate program.
How fucked am I, or if not, which type of graduate program should I consider?
MBA?
What sort of job could I get with an MBA? Is this just a certification to be an office bitch, or would I have some kind of future?
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>>17735486
You'd have way more of a future than you would with a philosophy degree, which mostly qualifies you to either make coffee or deliver pizza.
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>>17735496
No kidding.
Reading between the lines here, I'm guessing you think I'm pretty fucked either way.
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>>17735486
Getting an MBA is good, but you cant really get an MBA with a philosophy degree. Yeah you can get one from a really fucking shitty business school but thats barely going to hel pyou, just put you in more debt and on top of a basically useless degree you will have no actual business skills.
So no. You honestly might as well go into law or just kill urself. Honestly, as a businessman myself we dont want lazy ass retards like u near our sector. Just stay far far away, trust me your bitchass is not cut out for business. Were straight cut throats and ure not and thats why u took the soft ass philosophy road, cause u flat out CANT COMPETE against others.
tl;dr mbas are good, but they wont help u.
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I just need advice.
This chick not saying I want to fuck her ust be her friend or w/e but she is doing some seriously stupid shit that pisses me off.
> meet girl on train
> befriend her
> text her everyday, hey im waiting for train wanna come
> always come right before train, and frequently stays late, gets to train late, yada yada.
> stop texting her, because fuck that.
> see her in school a week later
>just give her a hey and a wave, like " i know ou dont really wanna be my friend but im a nice guy so Im not gonna force you too be"
> she stops and starts asking me hey are u stil ltakeing the train yada dada did da.
> next day i take the train I text her, hey im on the train.
>No answer. See her get off train.
> get text 3 hours later. Hey sorry I just saw this message now.
Explain this bitches actions. Should I just never text her again? I'm not 100% cool with someone not wanting to be my friend, but I CAN live with it. What I cant live with is people acting like my friend every 5th day and Like a straight asshole hurting my feelings the other 4.
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You're seriously this upset over one text? Sounds like it could've been an honest mistake by the context.
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>>17735451
Yeh but what 20 year old girl doesnt have her cell phone on her 24/7 and check it 24/7 esp. after a long day of school esp. on the train. Plus she knows I wait for the train in the same spot everyday, and I am especially friendly to new friends so they know like "I am your friend dont ever doubt." So I guess I value that type of attitud very high and yes it does upset me majorly
Secondly every single day I asked her if shes taking the train, and sometimes she would give me an excuse for like why she cant sit with me so yeah I reall am upset with the text cause she could've literally just never texted me again and I NEVER EVER EVER Would've bothered her again.
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>>17735451
I even responded to her. Ill maybe see u tomorrow, and she says probably.
Probably? Like motherfucker I hit u up for the train 9 times and u dodged, and U say probably, when clearly the truth CLEARLY the truth is maybe.
I can say I dont have a lot of girl friends, but are they all like this... I cant imagine they are.
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A sad story, please tell me I'm better off now
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>be me
>18 y/o virgin, self-esteem shattered by being voted "40 year old virgin" at school prom
>meet absolute qt whose in the year below me, genuinely an 8-10/10.
>tell her I almost certainly won't be going to uni this year as I fucked up one of my exams
>miraculously get a placement
>bothsad.jpg
>we agree to have a fling instead, that lasts until I move away to uni
>she has fairly severe mental health problems - she doesn't always shower, drinks alone, lies down on the sidewalk when things don't go her way, self harms
>fundamentally a good and beautiful person, try to nurture her and start catching feelings, almost as a father figure of sorts
>time to move to uni
>she slashes her wrists, vomits and is on suicide watch
>too scared to risk a long distance relationship, considering I've only been seeing her for like a month, and the freedom of uni really appealed to me
>uni is not the endless orgy i was expecting, start to have breakdown, don't socialise, reclusive, stay in bed all day etc, constant feelings of guilt
>few weeks pass, can't stop thinking about how depressed she is, go back home for the weekend, buy her roses, ask her to be my girlfriend.
>she's too hesitant to say yes, has also started sleeping with another guy (clearly a rebound)
>proceed to get drunk with her and her friends, pass out, puke, cry hysterically and tell I love her and I can't live without her
>she spends the following day holding me, also go dog walking with her and her father, he buys us lunch
>are we roleplaying a relationship?
>go back to uni
>phone call like two weeks later telling me she's now official with rebound guy
>cry hysterically, send her a huge text wishing her well
>side note: she also has a psycho ex who she has to negotiate not beating the shit out of the new guy
Please tell me I can move on from this, and that it was reasonable of me to not ask her out before I went to university, and that I'm most likely better-off in the long run.
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Things that didn't happen: the blog.
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>>17735383
I can assure you this is all real. I'm not entirely sure what's so unbelievable about it.
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c'mon guys, I need to find some peace with this whole situation.
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>Be her, single for a year, never had anything serious, longest relationship 2 weeks
>I come along, 8 months together, was her first kiss and first everything else
>Opened up to each other about a lot of things, she really trusted me and loved me, I always done cute things for her, bought her things, treated her like the only girl in the world
>But then she randomly ends things, nothing major happened, their was no other guy, it was just over
This happened 3 weeks ago. And since then we've just been on and off again arguing, with her mostly contacting me first when I try ignore her. And just now, she made a snap while wearing my hoody (the one I wore when I gave her first kiss which is why I gave her it) saying "Just wanna find someone that will treat me right". WTF!?
And she tells her sister does she know anyone single that will actually make an effort and her sister keeps mentioning me and she responds with "no stop that's not even funny".
What the fuck guys? I didn't make an effort? I guess me giving her cute notes sometimes when she'd come in the shop (where I work) with cute messages, or me buying her favorite hot chocolate, or always being there for her, always kissing and hugging her, making her laugh, turning her on, talking till past midnight, snuggling and watching movies, buying her, her favorite movie, random clothes and sprays, even a Minion teddy which she's fucking obsessed with, getting her B&Js, always complimenting her, overall just showing her how good she made me feel, ISN'T ENOUGH?
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>>17735315
>treated her like the only girl in the world
thats where you fucked up.
you put pussy on a pedestal
never make her feel like you're lucky to have HER
make that bitch think shes lucky to have YOU
ignore her ass
she'll crawl back after a few weekz
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>>17735338
How do I find the right balance of that though? It's not like I'm weak or not confident. She's my first serious girlfriend too.
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>>17735315
how many goddamn times are you going to post this shit
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Is there any benefit to that nonsense?
Like, people claim that it boosts their energy or some shit, but I ain't buying it.
If mother nature didn't want us to jack it, she wouldn't have given us two lovely mistresses on the ends of our arms, if ya know what I'm saying.
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>>17735298
Every time I do no fap my life becomes better. I get in better shape, women find me more attractive, my hair slowly stops thinning, I accomplish more.
Take from that what you will.Best time of my life was during the 6 month no fap period I had. Though I was super butthurt because I accidentally ejaculated by massaging my balls.
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>>17735298
I don't think there's any scientific basis to it but sometimes exercises in willpower and delayed gratification can build a lot of strength and character.
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I reckon if you were jerking off on girls you wouldn't be getting problems
What is your opinion/what do you think your gf treat's you like everyone else? The only real Royalties I have is kissing and fucking(do a lot of both,and is going well). We are 8moths strong.
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>>17735223
Depends on how she treats other people in general, probably. If she treats people well, you should have nothing to complain about. How should she be treating you?
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>>17735223
What do you expect her to do, treat others worse?
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>>17735223
My wife treats me like shit from time to time. There is no one she would nag on like me, no one she would yell at like me, and no one she would be grumpy over a full fucking day like me!
But then again, we have our god and bad times. I try not to think to hard on it, because I know the bad, grossly outweighs the good.