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I am an actual, contracted model who works out up to six days a week depending on what routine I'm doing, and I've been constantly compared to Evan Peters in both looks and style over the past four years. I have NEVER had someone call me ugly or unattractive. This is all context, because...
I have no confidence at all in my looks. Like really, none. I have a gf and I'm constantly worried that she'll find someone more attractive than me (because I find myself so dull, in my mind, that's all it'd take) and leave me for that person. It hurts me to think that she probably sees people more attractive to me every day, and I feel like a mess and a failure pretty much all the time, which I manage to hide nicely. But either way, I'm incredibly jealous, incredibly insecure and I always feel incredibly ugly. I see men who are objectively uglier than me be more confident, yet I cannot help but feel they're actually prettier than me.
How can you build your confidence up from such a low point? And what could cause this?
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>>17730542
Stop comparing yourself to others and focus on maintaining/improving yourself. By comparing yourself to others, you will always see yourself as "not good enough" because you're always going to be looking for validation.
It's okay if you see someone more attractive than you, but it doesn't mean that you aren't attractive yourself. If your girlfriend leaves you for someone more physically attractive and she only dated you for your looks, then she's not worth your time. Those kinds of girls are the ones you should stay away from.
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>>17730542
Getting just enough drunk to feel perfect helps me.
Then when sober I remember that feeling and try to act like it.
But fuck that. What's your routine, brah?
I didn't gym today and I feel like shit.
Next day is back/leg day. Gonna diddly hard
Also, she feels the same. Thinking about her feelings of insecurity helps alleviate yours.
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Well lad, the real confidence comes from within. The whole world can tell you that you're the sexiest guy alive, but if you don't want to believe it, you won't.
What caused it isn't really important, but it's probably high-time that you perhaps go to therapy or something like that (I assume that you're social and physical lives are pretty good due to your career).
Things will get better over time, just keep at it.
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>be femanon in uni
>go to bar or party with guy friends or male acquaintances
>they always kiss me
Is it normal for guys just to kiss girls they hardly know? Is it a big deal?
I don't really know them well and I don't want to date them, but I'm never sure if it's ok to refuse their kiss and when they start moving in it already feels like it's too late. Like, I would never ever kiss them on my own volition, but it's only mildly uncomfortable to get kissed. What should I do?
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Kiss on the cheek or the lips?
Lips I'd probably say is a bit weird, but depending on culture a kiss on the cheek can be somewhat normal.
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>>17730380
they heard donald trump admit to being a serial sexual assaulter and are now empowered to take advantage of women
>I dont even wait
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>>17730399
Lips. They just start making out with me. I kind of go along with it for a bit, then hug them and leave as soon as I can. I think it's a college thing, but I'd rather avoid it entirely.
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Why can't I read?
I mean I keep trying to read books but it seems like I skip whole chunks of words I get too flustered and end up going from line to line without reading what's in between
But even when I try to control myself and just look at every single word and read it all I still can't really read it. I read it but I don't understand it or don't remember it even though I JUST read it
What's wrong with me?
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sounds like you aren't really interested in what you're reading and your mind wanders around. I had that issue when I was trying to study the shittier subjects in college. Maybe there's a little ADD mixed with that too.
What are you trying to read?
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>>17730158
How old are you?
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>>17730163
Most things I try to read have been doing that to me
Currently I am trying to get myself to read fiction so I downloaded under the skin (because I liked the movie kinda) and I'm making no progress. I was trying the Hannibal books previously and although I made it through the Dolarhyde one, I felt like I rushed through the last half of it. I started the one that came after that and I was making no progress so I gave up. Then since I like stories where horrible fucked up things happen to unsuspecting people I downloaded on my phone some other detective book about a serial killer and I keep having it over.
So those are the most recent but non-fiction books on things that interest me have been really confusing too
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Almost 23
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Thinking of cutting my hair but I really don't know what sort of style to go for. It's been so long since I've had short hair and I have no idea if it would even suit me. Help me out guys please. Pic related is me
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>Give Me Attention And Tell Me I'm Pretty General
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>>17730045
Should have said I'm a dude lol
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just leave the badassery the way it is
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Jobs for people with previous mental hospitalization? 2016-11-03 00:13:37 Post No.17730037
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Jobs for people with previous mental hospitalization?
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I applied to six "low-tier" min-wage jobs, rejected by all of them. Even Stop & fucking Shop which hires drug dealers without a second thought. Is there a place that hires the "mentally-ill"?
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why are you telling them you were hospitalized? As long as you are stable now, why would it be important? It's just an illness. I wouldn't tell every potential job offer that I had my appendix removed.
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>>17730869
I dont tell them, they find out through refrences and background checks.
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What were you hospitalized for?
b4 you call me a nigeria for buying replica shoes I'm not paying 400 for these shoes
>i see these shoes
>i like these shoes
>i see price tag
>i don't like price tag
>go online to see if there are some good replicas
>find some sites and choose the ones with the most reviews
>$74.78
>fug yea
>pics look good so I purchase
>they ship from China so I bought faster delivery
they came two days ago and I'll be honest the quality isn't very great and the stripes are like two whole inches from where they should be.
Should I keep these or return them and buy better shoes
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How could you post this thread without a picture of the God damn shoes you imbecile? Holy shit, please hold yourself to a higher standard.
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>>17729961
Good luck returning shit to china
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>>17729961
If you don't want to pay 400 bucks for the shoes you don't like them that much and therefore should do without
And if the replica is shitty quality it won't last enough wears to make it worth the 70 so return ut if you can
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Family life is shit- abusive brother
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i live at home with my brother and dad. my brother is a very serious alcoholic who also abuses meth and any drug he can get his hands on. most of the time he's not abusive, but it still sucks because he makes a huge mess and cleans nothing, and is just like this pathetic mass of selfish self-loathing. it's sad to look at him.
but then once a month or so he gets hardcore pissed off (and fucked up on alcohol/meth) and throws these violent manchild hissy fits. like he'll start screaming at me that i'm a faggot and should kill myself, then breaks things like chairs, electronics, and pictures, and like punches holes in walls and doors. and sometimes he'll threaten to kick the shit out of me, which he absolutely would be able to as he's bigger and stronger than me. he's only actually beat me up once and it was a few years ago.
so how do you like deal with this? moving out is always an option, but it would come with a lot of downsides and i don't really want to consider it right now. he's going to end up in jail probably within a year or so, assuming he's not dead before then. already he's on probation and he'll continue fucking up but i know from past experiences that the courts are slow as fuck to do anything even when he fails his drug tests. sometimes i think about calling the cops on him to speed the process along but i don't know.
we still hope he can change, and we love him and shit. it sucks.
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Hello? :(
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Where's your father in this situation? Is he too much of a pussy to do anything during his drunken fits? He should be the one giving your brother an ultimatum.
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>>17729888
good trips
not much you can do if it's not your house. options are wait for him to get imprisoned or move out. the other thing you could do make your feelings known to your father.
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I know I'm probably not going to get any responses, but will try to ask anyway. I'm a 27 year old straight male, but back when I was a kid, I used to be attracted to boys. When I was roughly between 9 and 15, I had crushes on boys in school, fantasized about them, and even occasionally fapped to cp at some point during that time (thanks to 4chan, no less). I had zero interest in girls at the time, but then, for whatever reason, at around 15 or 16 I started becoming sexually attracted to women and watching regular porn. Within the span of a few years in my late teens, I transitioned over to being completely heterosexual. But I was never actually attracted to adult males, only to boys that were around my own age while I was in my early teens.
But the thing is, even though I'm attracted to women now, I see them as nothing more than sex objects. I've never had any kind of emotional connection with a woman, nor does such a thing even interest me. I have a purely physical interest in them and that's it. So obviously, I've never been able to date anyone because of this, and the only sexual experience I've had is with hookers. Sex has never really felt that great to me. It's kind of a good feeling before and during it, but right after I'm just laying there thinking "ew, what the fuck am I doing here with this person". I know this could just be because they're hookers, but I don't know.
So my question is, could I be repressing some kind of latent homosexually? I don't find anything about men physically attractive and the thought of having sex with a guy just disgusts me. But, I feel like I'm not totally into women either besides the empty sexual attraction, so what exactly is going on with me?
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>>17729694
Early teen same-sex crushes are totally normal and common - even more common among girls. Two things are happening to your brain and body at the same time - sexual awakenings and the first real steps away from family in search of friends. And almost inevitably they get a little jumbled together. Totally harmless.
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>>17729714
Ok, but that doesn't exactly explain why I have no emotional feelings for women. Is that just an unrelated thing then?
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>>17729758
You probably just haven found the right woman.
I know I haven't. I've had mild moments where i found an interest in a woman, but that quickly fades and all I really think of them is sexually or platonic. But that just might stem from my issues in self loathing.
Just because you don't romantically like women doesn't mean you're still gay or anything.
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Can i have sex with a girl and not kiss her? Can i skip blowjobs and just fuck her with a condom? Pic related
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>Can i have sex with a girl and not kiss her?
Yes that's what millions of prostitutes do everyday dumbass
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>>17729585
Kissing and blowjobs are usual parts of foreplay. I know we men can get hard and ready to fuck in a second, but it's much more enjoyable if you do some foreplay first.
Also, she might feel insulted if you just fuck and leave. So I'd say I don't see much success in your future.
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>>17729592
Chick related in a nymph. Im dtf but dont wanna get all cuddly. How do i go about?
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How true do you think the general /r9k/ outlook on modern gender dynamics is?
I know it isn't totally on point, but how much are they getting right?
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>>17729402
That's a board full of hateful fucks. Even if they stumble upon something worthwhile, you'd be better off not hanging there. Better for your sanity and personality.
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and what, exactly, is r9k's outlook on modern gender dynamics?
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>>17729402
thats one sexy bunny
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Girls
how much weight does having a good personality carry when looking at a guy?
I'm average looking. Probably 5.5/10 but this girl I've been dating is easily a 7.5-8/10 she's gorgeous, but we also click very well. She told me that I'm "cute" and she said that she is falling for who I am. That she feels we are on the same mental wavelength with everything and loves it. It's just hard for me to believe sometimes how she could like me with how attractive she is.
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Fellow guys: How often do you clean your penis? Does it hurt A LOT when you pull your foreskin?
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>>17728425
I'm cut, so it gets cleaned everytime I shower
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I know for a fact that someone is going to cheat on their partner this weekend. I know the person more who is going to cheat but I also know her boyfriend. I just think it is wrong and I hate that I know details about it and why they are doing it. Should I tell him or mind my own business?
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>>17727977
tell him he deserves to know.
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>>17727977
She might still back out give her the chance to grow a sense of morality if not then listen to yours.
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>>17728121
No fuck that, she's already having intent on cheating, that's enough to dumb the worthless bitch.
Hi /adv/ its been a while.
I've decided I'm going to kill myself, just not how or where yet. I'm tired of being in pain so I'm actually a little anxious about the whole thing. The advice I've come to ask is how to break up with my partner of three years so he hates me and when my death comes to pass he doesn't miss me. I can't hurt him with this. All help appreciated. Pic unrelated, I'm on my tablet with no pics.
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you are going to hurt him anyway, so might as well just be upfront with him. maybe he could even help you out of this, as long as it isnt physical pain with no medical solution.
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>>17731675
Yes, because telling him I'm going to kill myself isn't going to get me potentially sectioned before I can do so. I just want him to get over me asap.
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Fuck, started writing a responce, and realised that you are a girl.
Fuck you. Your live is incomparably easier than mine and other shitty guys, but you still want to suicide. I at least wish you the most painful suicide possible.
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>bus didn't show up again
>1 more absence before I fail a course and get thrown out of home
Should I just end it now?
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You raise hell and get there by any means possible.
Bike is your most viable option. Borrow one.
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Stop dualposting from /r9k/.
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>>17731439
Isn't it the bus driver's fault? What else are you supposed to do, hire a cab?
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Most embarrassing moment 2016-11-03 12:54:20 Post No.17731384
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What's the most embarrassing moment of your life? I just shopped at Walmart without knowing my zipper was down the whole time. Help me feel better, /adv/.
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>Was you dick hanging out?
If not, no reason to be embarrassed.
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Embarrassing and humiliating. Dating over a year and parents kept wanting me to introduce my gf to them and family. Weekend visit, stay with parents and full house of relatives. Parents love gf, everything seems to be going well and big family get together the 2nd night. Hear mom yelling at someone to get out of her house. Go toward yelling and see gf and my cousin with their clothes in their arms coming out of the room he was staying and my mother yelling out, out. gf went to room we were staying got her bag and she and cousin leave together.
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One time I farted