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Advantages of working at a University? 2016-11-05 19:45:05 Post No.17737686
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Advantages of working at a University?
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This semester i'm WORKING at an university.
Next semester i will go there as an STUDENT.
What are something i should take advantage of before i leave?
Appreciate any answer really
PS: I work at the office section, so i have access to everything.
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Hard to say, does your country lack any facilities that universities provide? I mean there's going to be libraries and clubs for common interests, restaurants and bars, but cities have all those things. You can attend talks, meetings and lectures (country depending) but likewise you could do that anyway without working or studying there.
The uni library will give you access to all academic papers though, which are usually behind paywalls.
You could maybe take advantages of things like woodland running trails and the gym. Since you'll be there anyway.
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>>17737749
I think i'm good on "supplies", but i i'm wondering if there is some information i should save for myself or anything like that. Ethical or not.
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>>17737686
>What are something i should take advantage of before i leave?
nothing, there's nothing to take advantage of anyway.
i currently study and work at my university.
I'm incredibly close to killing myself right now.
I'm having a major break down
I don't know what to fucking do to calm myself down
I'm in so much pain
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Go and do something you enjoy. Keep your mind busy.
If you're too restless for complex tasks, go and clean the house. Stupid, but works for me
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Do a body scan
http://www.mindful.org/the-body-scan-practice/
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>>17737632
I know about body scan meditation and it just stressed me out even more
My mind is racing and this is too slow and it it is pissing me off
>>17737629
This isn't going to help
I'm having a full on panic attack or something
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I fell for the memes and only want a virgin gf now (which is obviously impossible). What the fuck do I do? How do I cure this shit I want to lower my standarts
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>>17737622
believe me, a virgin gf is the worst you can get.
1.: she'll be shit in bed
2.: she won't do any fun things in bed
3.: she'll dump you for sure because she'll think she's missing out something.
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>>17737642
That kind of cleared my mind I guess. Thanks
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>>17737622
My friend is 22 and dating a virgin girl and some things I noticed from her but he doesn't see it
> Very childish
>Its been 5 months and she only gave him a handjob once
>She won't even attempt a bj said its too gross of an idea
Its not really worth it, you have to wait super long and even then she might not be into it and all that time for nothing.
So I love gaming, I love anime but I hate the image people have of gamers and have of anime lovers. I am overweight (about 205 pounds) teeth are not white but not yellow either and not all fucked up, decent social skills I dont act like a cringey guy when I talk to people I dont know and if I know the person I just fuck around with them. My question and need for advice is how can I break the stereotypical gamer feel. Like I feel like people look at me and if I say I like games and anime they think oh im not surprised. How can I change myself to hide my true self.
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>>17737643
I can't deal with /fa/ they are way too cringe and never that helpful with new threads
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>>17737647
You don't have to post there. Just lurk, use it as inspiration. God you're such a fucking baby. Want me to hold your hand?
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My boyfriend got me flowers. I'm a little bothered by that. I've never said I like flowers. It's like he just sees me as "a girl" rather than an individual.
Advice on how to handle this would be appreciated.
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0/0
Are you even trying?
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>it's like he just sees me as "a girl" rather than an individual.
What do you mean by this?
Also, it really isn't/shouldnt be a big woop. its just a sign of affection/kind-ness
if it really bothers you just tell him you dont like flowers, suggest an alternative like a toy/candy/clothes ect. .
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>>17737598
You should appreciate the gift regardless. He did go out of his way to give them to you. And maybe tell him more about yourself, cause afaik flowers are the gift you give when you wanna gift but don't know what to gift.
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How do I deal with my mom treating me like a diary?
Every time I'm around her she ALWAYS tells me what she's been doing/her plans for the day/how she feels about xyz. Thing is, she has absolutely no interest in carrying on a conversation about any of those things. It's nearly impossible to interject, she just won't stop talking until I physically leave the room. And even then, she'll call my name as I'm leaving and say "Oh and one last thing blah blah blah blah" and carry on for fucking ever.
On top of that, she always brings up negative things, or bitches about my dad or me. Almost everything she talks about is either a complaint or boasting about her achievements/experiences from 30+ years ago. If that wasn't bad enough, she feels inclined to raise her voice to the most ear-raping volume when I'm standing 2 feet across from her. No, she doesn't have hearing problems, she literally only ever does this with me.
I can't fucking take it anymore.
>inb4 move out
Obvious solutions aside, what can I do while I'm still living with her?
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wtf is that thing
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How can I even start reading your question when you post sick shit like that?
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Looks like a deformed pig or something
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someone has my dox and nudes and is now threatening me, it's pretty scarry. what woud you do
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Here's a bump for you
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You a girl or boy?
Who has them?
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Can you dox them back? If so, just get everything documented, and threaten to go to the police for harassment and blackmail, if that's what they're doing
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>be in club
>coming to end of the night
>some girl gets pushed into me by her mate
>I push my mate into the two girls
>they get aggressive as fuck
>basically one kicks me in my balls and punches me in my face
>see one of them talking to random brown guy
>bouncer comes and does nothing says im pussy if a 5 ft 6 girl can hurt me
>I didn't retaliate because they probably would of arrested me if i did
>leave club go to takeaway with two friends
>one guy eyeing me up whole time im there
>friend see's this guy come towards me
>asks him what he's doing and this guy grabs friend by back of neck
>i pull his fingers backwards so he has to let go
>we leave take away, he paces after us and grabs friend by throat and headbutts him
>I throw him to the ground
My friends say there always seems to be aggression and violence when they are out with me. I consider myself a peaceful guy and I never look for fights, i just defended my friend. I didn't even retaliate to the girl that punched me in my face.
Why do people always want to start shit with me when im on a night out? I have got quite bigger since going to the gym but that can't be the answer
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>some girl gets pushed into me by her mate
>I push my mate into the two girls
???
If somebody gets pushed towards you, you start pushing your friend towards other people? I don't understand. It sounds like you started it.
Also, how drunk do you get? And are you an angry or hyper drunk, the type to get in somebody's face in public?
If you really don't try to start shit, you probably just have bad luck. Maybe you could try avoiding the places & situations where there would be fights. Bring the party back to a more chill spot before it gets too late. Don't be there for the close at the club when everybody is fucking wasted.
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>I consider myself a peaceful guy and I never look for fights
That's why some people go after you, they perceive you as someone they can bully and hurt to raise their status.
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>>17737458
>I have gotten a lot bigger
that is the answer. People always try to start shit with someone/something that they perceive as having something that they lack, or think that they are less than.
Money, cars, women, social life, etc.
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How do I know if my income is something to brag about?
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>Bragging about your income
For what purpose? No one will be impressed.
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It is never something to brag about but if you don't make at least 8-9 figures you ain't really shit in the grand scheme of things.
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>>17737445
if you make more than 150k a year, otherwise you look stupid
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GFs dad just got sentenced to Life in prison without the possibility of parole.
She's obviously devastated. How can I help her out during this tough time? What are some nice gestures to perform for someone in his position?
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>>17737437
well if ur black just phone up the obama admin and they got u
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Ouch. I'm sorry to hear that she's going through this.
If you don't mind my asking, what was her father imprisoned for? Sometimes the crime can affect things.
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>>17737437
> Life in prison without the possibility of parole.
Sounds like he did something fucked up, so why is she even devastated?
virgin here. How safe is it for me to eat out pussy? not a washed up club whore but is your average chicks pussy safe to get down on?
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Nope. Apparently you can get cancer from it.
Bitches never deserved it, anyway.
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Hahah ignore him. I'd reckon you're pretty damn safe.
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>>17737392
take a look at it before you go down town, and if it looks clean jump in there like a fetus trying to go home
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poorfag needs loan shark 2016-11-05 17:08:16 Post No.17737325
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Hey guys, I'm a dumbfuck poorfag and I need money. Was out of work for over a month; roommate covered the rent, but we're way behind on utilities and we're out of food.
I just started a new job last week, and I don't get paid until Friday the 11th.
I lost my ID, and the bank closed my account b/c no money in it to pay monthly fees. So I can't get a loan from anywhere -- not even fucking Money Mart. Not that I could anyway, with how fucked my credit is.
So my question is, where the fuck do I find a loan shark? I'm thinking of just asking my drug dealer (legit gang member) but I'm wondering if that goes against etiquette. Srsly, I just want to borrow $100-$200 at high interest (so what if I'm paying back $400). Otherwise our utilities will be shut off in 2 days. And I can't very well keep a job if I'm starving to death.
> tldr poorfag neckbeard needs loan shark, might get knees broken, will post updates.
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>>17737325
What about your family?
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>>17737352
No family, only child, parents dead. Might be some extended family out there but I've never been told of them so fuck em, not gonna show up out of the blue and ask for money.
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sell your body foor sex
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Okay /adv/ I feel like I love my gf, or am too obsessed with her, more than she is with me. She is at an event at a college for these past two days, and she has only texted me twice. I understand her maybe being too busy, but she is posting videos on her snapchat of her like playing ping-pong or doing other fun stuff with friends etc. I just know if we switched places, I would be texting her all day and wanting to just be talking to her. But to her it seems like she can easily forget me, and just go on with what she is doing without thinking of me. I have an obsessive personality, so that may be my problem too. I mean she tells me she loves me more than any of the other people she has dated, but I have never loved anyone but her in my life. I can just tell I am way more into this than she is, and I just want to know a way out of being this into her, when she isn't as into me. It sucks I wish I didnt even have to ask for ways out of being this in love, and this into someone. But it is really taking its tole on me mentally. All I think about is her, and all I do is stress over her cheating on me, or finding someone else better than me. Ugh I just need some help
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This is me
This is me
This is me
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>>17737278
Do you have a life outside of your girlfriend? Friends, hobbies, a job? When you have little going on in your life it's easy to get obsessed with our partners, but it's not healthy at all.
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>>17737313
The only hobbies I have outside of her are playing vidya rarely, working out, and thats it.No Job and I do go to school, so when I am there it makes it easier. I am also nervous shell leave me when I go to bootcamp in a few months. If she does that will fucking destroy me.
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How to tear down this person's wall? 2016-11-05 16:42:44 Post No.17737265
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How to tear down this person's wall?
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Hello /adv/
I've been in love for quite some months with a person I know. She obviously also likes me back or has a similar feeling (she acts very different with me than with others and some friends of her think the same) but when I confessed to her some days ago she rejected me saying she couldn't feel the same and that she was sorry.
Now, some friends of her have told me that she probably rejected me out of pride or because she's not sure about her feelings.
My question is, do any of you know a way to make her realise her feelings? Or do you think I am wrong?
Thanks in advance.
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It's a lost cause, mate. And next time don't fucking "confess your feelings". Just ask her out or something.
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>>17737265
>Or do you think I am wrong?
This one.
If she "needs to realize her feelings", that's her personal journey. You don't need to butt in.
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>>17737265
maybe she has issues woth you getting too close, so try keeping it cool and casual
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Balancing wide-ranging interests 2016-11-05 16:28:01 Post No.17737239
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Balancing wide-ranging interests
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I have many wide-ranging and unrelated interests. I also have the need/desire to get accredited/certified for most of them, but I understand that I can't get BA's or university degrees for some, and that I don't have the time/money for them right now.
How do I balance and prioritize these interests?
In case anyone is wondering, they are: literature, languages (I know about 5 atm , and I'm planning to take courses for 2 more), teaching, language editing, reading, food/cooking, travelling, sports (running, basketball, gym), Asia, China, film, politics, economics, history, and law.
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Just set time aside for each one and keep your mind clear of any other activity during one
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Certification from one source or another seems to be the most important thing to people all over the world. A piece of paper from a school that says you’re smart, a pat on the head from your parents that says you’re good or some reinforcement from your peers that makes you think what you’re doing is worthwhile. People are just waiting around to get certified.
Zappa
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>>17737242
will do, thanks m8
>>17737247
I don't need a pat on the head or peer reinforcement, I just want to know that I am a certain level skill-wise or knowledge-wise. I want that for myself and not for anyone else.
>makes you think what you’re doing is worthwhile
As long as I like it, it's worthwhile to me. I don't need anyone else to say what I'm doing is or isn't worthwhile.