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I'm tired all the time and I don't know why.
I'm a 21 year old guy, I'm in pretty good physical shape, I sleep like 10 hours a day, I have a healthy diet, I take vitamins, fish oil, minerals daily (without exceeding the recommended intake) I don't eat much sugar. I don't smoke, I don't drink. I do drink a few cups of black coffee a day but what the hell, I have to do something to stay awake.
I look like a complete trainwreck, I have deep dark circles under my eyes and I've had them for as long as I can remember, I don't get what's wrong with me, I'm a bit lonely and depressed but surely it can't be that bad.
Any idea what could be wrong with me?
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>>17736910
>I take vitamins, fish oil, minerals daily
Don't take that shit. Supplements aren't regulated(I'm assuming you live in the United States). Oh, and chances are the fish oil you're buying is spoiled.
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>>17736910
Bumping. 20 and I can relate. I feel like Hell. Bad enough to where it interferes with my daily activities
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>>17736910
Sleep nine or 10.5 hours, not 10 or 9.5.
Dont ask. Just try it
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How do I stop feeling inferior to girls who have relationships and babies and stuff?
I just feel like I'm not as good as them, they've got their shit together, they have boyfriends and families and children, I've never even had a boyfriend before despite being in my mid twenties
They seem to be able to talk pretty easily and know what to say, how to act, and they're loved too
I don't know what I'm doing, and I didn't make the cut as far as relationships are concerned
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You're fine. I'm sure there's someone out there who wants you. Also why the rush? Having family is a burden
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>>17736905
I'm clearly not fine if I'm a decade behind everyone else.
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Everyone is secretly unhappy and wishes they were in someone else's shoes.
People without kids fantasize about having them, people with kids fantasize about not having them. This is true of almost every binary.
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I have many interests and hobbies but I'm a spiritual person and I strongly feel I want to be a wife and mother, not have a career.
Should I pick a religion and convert, or find a man and convert/revert with his help?
I figure any man willing to date someone outside of his religion is not religious enough to truly want the stay at home wife thing. Everyone is an individual. But I want my best bet.
I know Islam is a good possibility because it erases all past sins when you revert, doesn't have much emphasis on physical virginity to begin with (all the prophet's wives but one were not virgins), encourages headcovering (I wear a headscarf), and encourages women to stay home
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>I want to be a lazy cunt who does nothing all day apart from presenting my hole to my husband
Lmao, women.
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>>17737162
I didn't ask if YOU want a stay at home wife. Plenty of men do
It takes more to make a home than a pussy residing in it
>wash the clothes, put them away, maintain them (replace buttons, repair tears)
>vacuum, sweep, wash floors
>clean bathrooms
>decorate house, including for holidays
>shop for, prep, and cook snacks, dinner and breakfast, prepare packed lunch if desired
>clean kitchen
>garden in the yard
>herb garden on the porch or a sunroom
>chickens for eggs
>offspring to carry on the family name
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>>17736867
>Not a virgin
>Wants a religious man to wife her
No thanks.
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Video games are better than life
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I feel that way more and more as years pass by.
Life is problem after problem, constraints, fitting in instead of doing what you want, social pressure, every single choice is about money, etc...
In video games I can do interesting things I actually want to do and I'm not just forced to. I can live so many things I can' t in real life because of money or social acceptance and have so many different experiences compare to the routine of real life.
And as I say that, I'm not some old virgin living in my mom's basement. I'm 38, I work, I have a wife and a home.
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I've come to a similar conclusion thanks to a review I watched of Baldur's Gate:
>The act of withdrawal from mainstream pop culture interests [is] usually deliberate. Worlds of fantasy can allow a broader range of creative storytelling possibilities than limiting yourself by what is seen as valuable by the mainstream. Roleplaying is intentionally empowering; it's about improv, it's about self-identity, it's about the social connection and shared experience of adventuring.
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>>17736846
>>Life is problem after problem, constraints, fitting in instead of doing what you want, social pressure, every single choice is about money, etc...
>Not dropping out of society to grow weed with your hippie gf
Seriously, think about it.
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>>17736846
I feel ya man, I'm a kid compared to you though
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What do you guys think about revenge? I ask because all my life... People would get aggressive with me but I would be the bad guy if I retaliate.
Now I am reconsidering things. Why should I "drop it" if they got ugly with me? Why shouldn't I just go full shock and awe on them?
For example, a while back a woman verbally assaulted me because she thought I groped her on the train. I did no such thing but she assumed it was me because I was in arms length even though I saw the dude who did it and he got off the train right after.
Long story short. She yelled and screamed at me. I didn't tell back.. But what if I had?
Retaliation.. Abd revenge go hand in hand. What if I started retaliating more? What if I exacted my revenge more often?
Revenge to me seems like the only fucking concept worth knowing. If someone kills your whole family, how could you not kill the person who did it?
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because it acheives nothing positive, say someone calls you an asshole and you punch them, in that moment where expressing your "rightness" over someone else may make you feel like youre the good guy but whatever his original point was, it stands, and it creates an unsafe enviroment with bystanders and if it gets worse, you pull the authorities into it even though you could of thought about your actions
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Typically I don't think revenge is worthwhile, but in the situation you describe raising your voice would simply have been standing up for yourself. If she does not believe you then anger at being wrongfully accused is completely justified.
In fact, backwards as it is, chances are that how calm you were was part of why she did not believe that you hadn't done it as most people get pissed off being accused of something they never did.
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I think you are confusing revenge with defending for your self. Revenge ranges from petty and vindictive to destructive and probably outside the bounds of the law.
What you are describing, sounds to me like what most would cal testicular fortitude.
AKA "Having A Pair Of Balls". This can apply to females too, BTW
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>finally snapped at work Thursday night and quit
>had been miserable for months now but didn't want to quit because in the end I liked the job and the people I worked with
>but a new boss just completely ruined everything
>know my friends there aren't mad at me about it but feel like they are because I'm massively insecure
>they're probably the best friends I've had for a long time
>one I'm basically in love with and we're really close and he probably likes me too but we're both just afraid of a relationship
>kind of want to just delete them all off Facebook and move to Oregon or at least another town because I'm tired of living here and I half don't want to be friends with friend I'm in love with anymore just because of how I feel
I'm a fucking mess, I have 3 paths I see though. I either move to another town to one of the factories I applied at, I get another shit job in town and finally just finish school, or I pack my shit and drive to Oregon (I live in Indiana)
And I can just see myself becoming a loner again, but the only reason I even got the inspiration to go to school again was because of the close friend I like to much, they've all made me such a better person.
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>>17736827
That story sounds like a plot for a shitty TV show.
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>>17736827
Finish school. That's the path that will at least open more possibilities for you in the future.
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>>17736833
I know right.
I'm 25 too, and these friends are all like 20-22 (the fucking love interest one is fucking 20), when I was 19-20 I joined the Army and didn't think this is where I'd be at this point in my life now.
I'm down to my last few months (month actually too if shit goes straight) of Reserve duty, this was the only thing tethering me here. Besides these friends I'm like afraid to have I have nothing here.
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Breaking up with someone you love
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How do I break up with someone I love enormously? Yes, I have to.
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There is no easy way, just tell it how it is and end things. If you say you have to then there must be a good enough reason likely going to benefit both of you in the long run, do it knowing that moving forward you can both find happiness.
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Be honest, be direct, do not negotiate. Tell them you love them but you have to. Understand that there's no way to do it without hurting them. Just hurt them and get it over with.
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What is your reason if you don't mind saying?
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dont normally come here for advice but man.. i dont know who else to ask
my ex broke up with me for another girl who he had only known for 2 weeks before he dumped me. he blocked me on fb and ignored my calls, never told me about this other girl. i had to find out myself when i went on his fb page. he calls me the next day and says sorry, that he thinks im nice and everything but he has no feelings for me anymore. uh, what? just a few days ago he told me he loved me, and just a week before that he cried otp when he thought i was actually trying to break up with him. no feelings huh? i dont fucking understand this. now 3 weeks later he hits me up..calls me at 2 am and is crying. he broke up with the girl he was with yesterday. but why is he crying? then tries to tell me he loves me when just a few days ago he pretty much tells me to fuck off when i tried contacting him again? he broke up with her because she cheated on him. im thinking he's upset because he really liked this girl, but im just a second option. im right arent i? what do i do and what does this mean..what he's doing?
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Just drop him. That's probably how BPD men act.
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He's for sure stringing you along, hoping to get a comfy space with you as a backup. His previous behaviour/way he broke up with you indicates that you can't trust him on this; even if you did go back to him, as soon as he spotted another fresh chick to chase he'd drop you. Alternatively he'd cheat on you (which he was probably doing already).
Steel your resolve and don't resume the relationship.
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>>17736763
Cut contact OP. Don't try to understand it, just stop.
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why is shitposting so much fun?
why can't I stop?!
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because it's easy and doesn't require a lot of effort
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Because you realize that you are a nobody in real life and take it out on the internet by being a massive attention-seeking whore.
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Because making people angry fills your desparate need for attention but doesn't actually require you to connect with people in a healthy way.
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Are any books about self-discipline? Jesus /lit/ I'm gaining weight and making things I don't want to because I've become really anxious this week. Also I'm feeling with a huge lack of motivation to even practice the language I'm studying but I'm thinking is because I can't find anyone to be inspired by I just want do what I need to do skilfully and in track.
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Try the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius.
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just leave the house more
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>>17736702
Already read it and really helped me to get out of bed and to get some work done but now I'm feeling stuck.
do you think if i write her a song, she will come back to me?
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Most likely not
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>>17736673
IM STILL GOING THROUGH WITH IT
I can't give up, not yet.
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ggod your pathet tic
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How did you get your motivation back?
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>be me
>graduate college
>get addicted to meth
>get arrested
>lose money, health, and mind
>gf runs off with a close friend (considered him like a brother)
>become neet
>fail license exam three times
>sucked into a black hole of depression
>somehow find the motivation to prove everyone wrong
>study my ass off 24/7
>finally pass my board exam with blood, sweat, and tears
>pursuitofhappyness.jpg
This all happened within the past year and a half. There were a lot of times where I was totally lost but somehow I prevailed. That "friend" who I considered a "brother" is still taking the same exam I studied so hard to pass. He has failed seven times last I heard from him. So I pretty much got the last laugh. Just remember when times get rough it's just a lesson to see if you can handle what life dishes out to you. It's truly up to you on how you will handle every situation and what you need to do in order to attain what you really want out of life. Nothing is impossible. Just believe in yourself.
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>>17736650
i must become better than the filthy degenerates who think they are better than me.
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>>17736664
I like this story. I think I can work hard towards something, but I'm not sure where to start. I really feel like I need therapy but I have no idea how to get that. Any alternative options?
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Is it weird that, as a Jew, I'm genuinely concerned about my physical safety under a Trump presidency?
Obviously, he's made a lot of racially charged rhetoric in the past -- but none of Antisemitic. Weird, since his supporters are incredibly Antisemitic, as if seemingly unaware Trump is pro-Jew (see: Ivanka).
You can see that Antisemitism on /pol/. His supporters (((echoing))) suspected Jews who have criticised him in the past (knowyourmeme.com/memes/echo). The KKK officially endorsing Trump (www.npr.org/2016/11/02/500352353/kkk-paper-endorses-trump-campaign-calls-outlet-repulsive). Hell, when he did a rally in my hometown, the local Neo-Nazi chapter showed up.
I don't think his government is going to do anything to compromise the safety of minorities (expect Mexicans and Muslims maybe). His supporters, however, cannot have the same said about them. Who seem more active, more motivated, and more charged since Donald started appealing to them last summer. Who only appear to have gotten worse, more aggressive, since. In addition, hate crimes have been going up, while police action against them has gone down (www.thebureauinvestigates.com/2016/07/26/hate-crime-rise-police-taking-less-action-suspects/).
And I honestly do see his supporters using a Trump presidency as a means of enacting hate crimes against, well, anyone. Under an administration that'll more likely ignore it; letting those crimes go unpunished. Whether against Jews, Hispanics, Arabs, you name it.
I'm not trolling, unfortunately. I'm being sincere here. I honestly do feel that my life is at risk if Trump wins. And I feel that a lot of other lives will be as too.
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And? Hopefully you get your throat slit you hook nosed cunt
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>>17736633
Yes, of course that's what'll happen, you fucking idiot. Every night will be Kristllnacht once Trump is elected. His supporters will build concentration camps with trains that do loop-de-loops straight into the ovens. The police will stop enforcing the laws, Jews will be beaten in the streets to cheering crowds. Trump will personally pardon each and every one. Move to Canada to avoid the inevitable, though his supporters might form a second SS to hunt you down and take you back to the US.
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>trains that do loop-de-loops straight into the ovens
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What do you do on facetime? What do when she asks to see your dick and you're soft. WUT DO when kinda insecure, just whip it out with the best possible angle? I need some protips im not that big, just a small looking 7 or 6'8
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>>17736632
>What do when she asks to see your dick and you're soft
you tell her to help you get hard first of course.
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>>17736632
Get hard before hand, then when she asks show it, duh.
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Grt the fuck off my board norm
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What's the bare minimum necessary to start living on your own? Just turned 20 a few days ago. Live in Southern California.
Spent my entire life as a nerd studying useless shit. No money, No social skills, No job experience (Although have some experience in art and programming). All I want to do is live in some shitty room away from abusive parents. Is there anything I can do right now?
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Dorm with other college kids in apartment around cc or state college. Its around $400 a month + utility, you make close friends and get invited to parties. Seems like the best option desu.
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You can hop on Craigslist and see who's looking for some room mates in your area if you're that desperate.
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Are roommates the only viable option?
I'm fairly confident I wouldn't be able to connect with anyone. I'm not a fan of college culture and I tend to doubt there's many 20yos willing to let some geek in.