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The entry level deckhands on my boat make $290/day for 2 weeks on/2 weeks off. Tugboat jobs pay well.

www.msc.mil is the US Navy's civilian ship crewing agency. It's not a military job, but you work either as a cook's helper/cargo handler/or on deck or in the engine room of a ship. Pays very well. You need to be willing to be on a ship for 6-12 months, but you'll make over $100,000 your first year, and it's not like the military, you go ashore to go whoring and drinking if you want and can be a lazy fatass so long as you do your job.

>>17735596
There's just 2 problems with that...i live in the UK and i'm quite far away from the sea.

>>17735565
brain surgeon
astronaut
member of parliament
top tier barrister
currency trader

>>17735534

Being efficient and appreciating mechanical design can be appealing. Not a bad trait.

/thread

>>17735554
1. You can't /thread your own post
2. I don't think I care about mechanical design , more just being efficient , and biking saves money

>>17735569

Since I'm not OP, I can /thread OP's post...
But then you say you are OP. So why were you accusing me of being you?

contd.


So right now, I'm sitting here feeling a rush of thoughts and emotion. I feel guilt and shame for taking things so fast at the first date. I can't tell if I'm fully physically attracted to her or not. I have no idea if I should continue this relationship and risk hurting her if I feel unsatisfied. I wonder if I should seek other sexual partners in the meantime to get a better idea of sex. I wonder if the procedure left me unable to feel sexual pleasure. And I wonder if I had not pressured her into anything during sex as I was desperately trying to climax.

She wants to meet me again this weekend and I'm confused as fuck as to how to proceed.

Everyones first time is a little awkward, and so will the next few times, don't worry about it. Also don't jack off to much, and when you do use lube and use long gentle strokes not a fucking deathclaw grip because when that dick goes into a pussy it doesn't know what its doing

>>17735431
You masturbate too much. That easy.

By getting a fucking job. Part-time obviously

By not fucking going, what fucking degree does a landlord need? Especially if I'm paying a management company to take care of shit?

>>17735427
Engineering, still haven't decided which one, electrical or systems probably
>>17735420
Doing, I just mean in my free time

Never

The ideal age gap between a man and a younger woman is anywhere between 8 and 15 years

Women prefer the security, maturity, experience, and confident masculinity of older guys

Hypergamy n' all that

Elementary girls want middle school boys

Middle school girls want high school boys

High school girls want college boys

College girls want working professional guys

Nah, most 26 year olds are about as legally retarded as most 19 year olds.

30 might be a little different, thats usually about when the adult brain seriously starts forming.

If you're talking just sex, then as long as it's legal and willing fuck it. But for an actual relationship anything over 30 and you won't even be able to stand speaking to an 18 year old, they're too dumb and annoying to put up with.

It's legal.

>>17735385
Get undeniable evidence that he cheated, show it to him, and break up with him. Then take a deep breath and get out of that high school mentality. Best revenge against an ex is moving on and living a happy life. You will be wasting your time humiliating him and it's a very immature and out of control thing to do.

I know I didn't give you advice for what you asked but please consider not doing anything revengeful because it will help you grow as a person.

>>17735385

The best revenge is not caring.

>>17735385

He doesn't look like a cheater. He doesn't have the eyes for it.

>>17735366
Stop being a pussy and break up with her if you're unsatisfied with your relationship.

>>17735366
Grow up and tell her you've moved on.

>>17735366
ask for a threesome with her sister

I don't see how? Pay the girls fairly and have appropriate rules for guests and there you go.

>>17735352
as long as you are ok with working with immoral and undependable person. I have a friend who runs a kitchen at a strip club. Shes had people who tried buying it and then when she is about to accept the deal it was lowered by 60 percent. then when she said no then the guy tried hiring her people and bringing in food trucks to kill her business.

Just a reminder a lot of fucking seedy and shitty people around strip clubs.

>>17735360
also she has a employee who is constantly stealing from her and she never fires him because he is dependable. She had so many people quit on her its not funny.

But if it means anything you do make a lot

>>17735318
Stop talking to her and stop investing yourself into her in any way. You messaged her and she didn't respond. There's nothing you can really do except focus on other things until maybe she messages you one day. It would be a waste of time to keep her in your head.

>>17735603
She did respond and we were in the middle of a conversation and she goes offline.She didn't even see the message and no way did she have to do something because now she is sick and can't go out.Then she's online, doesn't see my message and goes offline.

>>17736742
My biggest issue here is that we were constantly talking every day and grew close to each other.Now it's like she doesn't even know me, because her messages are plain and short.

>>17735322
ok, good for you.

>>17735317
Sounds like your therapist was a cunt and you are now feeling like your dad. Even if it wasn't "domestic abuse" your mom was still an abusive, controlling cunt. Emotional abuse is a very real and harmful thing. Beating yourself up as much as you are for this is clearly signs of how your mom Fucked you up.

>>17735249
stop being so needy

>>17735249

She's out of town and has stuff to do. Obviously she'll have better thing to do than answer your inane messages. Leave her be and let her enjoy her holiday. Afterwards you can ask how her weekend was and if she doesn't respond then either, then take it as a hint.

>>17735251
I haven't messaged her since. Also if I did cod off as needy do you think she will be receptive come Monday?

>>17735234
Teach him to be a god at oral

Sex toys.

>>17735234
>Leaving or cheating are not options.
Then there is only open relationship, masturbating and oral/fingering.

>>17735211
I thought I had BPD, was sure of it for years, so I went to a psychologist, who told me I didn't have BPD.

I'm sure someone else would've diagnosed me with it while others might not. It's all arbitrary. Just try to work on yourself without a label. Google DBT workbooks and do the exercises and see if they help.

>>17735217
Thanks for the tip,what made you think you had BDP in the first place,why were you sure of it for years?

>>17735282
I thought about suicide 24/7, had a problem with my temper, had a slight problem with self-injury during my teen years. I was really fucked up personality wise and never had a friend. I was really sensitive and probably pretty narcissistic.

What makes you think you have BPD?

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>>17735065
No. Fucking an escort is NOT the same as having sex with someone who is into it.

> Never been good at meeting women
Meeting women is a skill. What, you want to take the final on the second day of class? Go fishing, my boy.

It's Friday night. Go out to where women are, and talk to 3 of them. Just talk. Don't try to score a home run or get laid, just talk.

It will be awkward. It will be painful. But it will net you experience. Next week, try something else. Go places, do things. Read up on communication techniques. Learn.

The easy way out never works.

>>17735095
I always think that people who say this are talking out of their ass. Like if they were actually as bad as the people they were giving this advice to, they would know how stupid it sounds. This works if you can just talk to a random person, but if youre a social fuckwit like me then you just get this:

"Hey, hows it going?"
"Good, you?"
"Yeah, good."
....
"Hows your night?"
"Good, you?"
Yeah, good."
.....
"Ok bye"

Like what do I get out of that. Ive had plenty of stupid little chats like this, never did it make me better at it.

I just want to not be a virgin and not have to think this way; never done it, not an adult etc. Bruv do you actually have any experiences here or what.

>>17735141
I used to be like OP, couldn't talk to people for shit.

If your skills didn't go up with a thousand hours of experience interacting with people (20-30 conversations don't count), you might be autistic or something. Even the shittiest neurotypical people are bound to gain social skills if they put in enough effort.

Not the person you're replying to btw but I agree with his advice. No pain no gain.

>>17735017
clearly there is something that you do wrong. To me it sounds like your ego can't handle rejection so it must be that the whole world is crazy rather than that you must change

I've been ghosted before, idk why people do it. If something was wrong, why didn't they tell me? If I was doing something that may have bothered them, why didn't they say anything? I don't understand, and everything seemed fine until I realized I was blocked. One came back, but still won't tell me why.

Girls do this shit all the time. You did nothing wrong. Move on, nothing you can do.