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Not OP but feel very similar

You are me OP, but unfortunately I have no answer to this. I just waste my time and slowly care less as I get older and closer to death.

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It has something to do with upbringing, doesn't it?

parents would force you to study and work hard to get grades in things that do not interest you and you can't see a direct impact of it on your life.

On the other hand they would always shame you for wasting times on hobbies like vidya, which are the things you like and bring you satisfaction.

Whole duality creates toxic process of escapism when you procrastinate, feel guilty about it, get stressed and thus procrastinate even more.

>>17800990
m8 y do you even do it? It's retarded. It only works as a placebo and because you feel bad about fapping for some reason.

>>17800998
no man i feel the shit effects,
im not doing it for girls

its my studies, i feel like i have no energy and i cant concentrate for shit because of porn addiction.

>>17801002
it's still a placebo
you're making excuses for being a spaz

you're still a spaz, just a repressed spaz that is now mad at themselves for failing a placebo group ritual about touching their dingdong

>>17800983
I know right?

My girl is also sensitive to touching her, she doesn't like fingering. I have to go down. I want to make her come vaginally. I think I might be able to get there with a super long warm up but idk...

>>17801010
Going down on my GF does nothing, strangely

for a bunch of pussies you people sure do know nothing about vaginas

help a fellow pussy out anons

You're not going to stick with these because you have vague shit like
>forming some sort of exercise pattern
>eating healthier
>joining some sort of club
>getting a job

>>17800931
This.

Make plans, not new years' resolutions. Join a group of sporters, tell them to keep you going. Go jogging with a couple of guys on a daily basis, it'll help you socialise AND excercise.

>Getting a job
Reply to any/all job offers to see what you could do, and contact nearby businesses that you would like to join or offer a good salary

>Joining some sort of club
Go into the city, find a club, bar, café or similar that looks nice and/or has people of your age in it, and go into it. Better to have tried it and not enjoy it and leave than to forever wonder what it could be like. If you leave a place, go looking for a next one. Keep going until you find one you like.

>>17800931
>>17801037
This sounds helpful. Thank you.

>>17800876
How old are you, do you have a medical history, are you on any medication?

>>17800876
If it was just once it could be anything or nothing. (Under the right conditions just turning your head quickly can do it). If it happens again, see a docor.

>>17800876
>>>17800876
>How old are you, do you have a medical history, are you on any medication?
this

could be bppv

New shoes?

>>17800793
post more pictures

>>17800803
Yea, new shoes will come. First have to heal these, then break in new at not work. Current pair of shoes are probably 2.5 years old or so, and it is time to replace them anyways.
>>17800806
Get your foot fettish shit elsewhere.

>>17800745
I used to feel that way too. You should keep trying. As long as you're trying, you should feel less worthless. You'll get there.

>>17800745
Let it be. You are you!
Actually, I have disabled with left leg. My walking is bit odd. So I feel as if someone laughed at me. But I have decided to turn the focus on thinking from my appearance.


*I am Japanese so I am not good at vocabulary in English

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>>17800745
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BGrFku2itk

>I'm too ugly to get a gf
Unless you're literally the humpback of notre dame, this isn't true.
The problem is in your insecurities and lack of confidence.

>>17800212
Jesus, I have a second class malocclusion that messes up my profil view, balding, 5'8, not exellent qualities. I have proof that women won't look at me, I see the disgusting look or indifferent look on their face when they are "forced" to talk to me IRL. Confidence isn't enough, if you're too ugly. It's meaningless.

>>17800207
>I want to be gay
>so I won't suffere anymore
I got some bad news for you boi you will probably never get a bf either

Do you have any other interests or hobbies?

>>17800014
Alright, how successful is cold approaching usually for a relatively attractive male?

Also where have you have the most success?

Whats the best sex position that you like?

What was the joke?
I personally wouldn't want to be romantically involved with someone who can't take a joke (this is assuming the joke was good)

Either way, you're best bet is to apologize, in person preferably. Will you see her soon?

>>17799935
Joked about how she was in bed
>The guys ate it up ,but her, not so much.
And yeah I'll see her soon

This >>17799935. Unless you made some truly horribly faux pas, she is just using it as an excuse not to talk to you. I.e. it was over before the joke.

>Will I really find someone who I feel has no flaws whatsoever?

Spoiler: no

I need more advice.

>>17799828
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

You might love that she likes Coldplay, while every former boyfriend of hers hated the fact that she liked Coldplay.

Also, what is your limit. Are you okay that she goes out without you. That she has lots of male friends. That she dresses kinda slutty. That she reads your texts without responding.

You'll always find things you find unattractive. Just as she might find the way you chew disturbing or the way you leave your shoes everywhere, petty shit you don't think twice about.

Guys:

What can make you so obsessed with a certain girl? So much that despite how unlikely it would be for you two to be together, or even after her bullshit you are still pining after her. Lasting years.

What causes such a strong case of oneitis?

>>17799725
>What causes such a strong case of oneitis?
Chemical imbalances? Or sometimes a person just hits that sweet spot of everything you desire in someone, it is hard to forget someone like that is all.

>>17799725
a lot of dudes are spergy and if a single even mildly attractive girl pays attention to them at all they can get hooked. For a more well rounded guy to get hooked like that on someone the chick has to be either exeptionally attractive, or connect with their personality in a way most women don't.

Jump off the roof of a children's hospital dressed as Santa

why are you forced unto death?

Kill a bunch of Trump supporters in the name of liberalism

>>17797247
>if you do nothing wrong what do you have to worry about?
It doesn't really matter. Faggots used it to spy on exes and look up personal info for the keks. Outside of low level abuse like that, some pissed off worker could frame you or release that shit to the public, simply because he had a bad day, it doesn't even need to be personal. It also can be personal because you fucked his wife or something.

AND then we get to the chance of a regime change, where it's going to be extra dangerous. What if the new government outlaws watching shemale porn?

AND then there is the chance that somebody else gets the data, government workers aren't known for their competence and it creates a great initiative for hackers, be it foreign governments or a fat dude with nothing else to do. This is all when you're an average person, once you're semi important like a journalist, the danger quadruples.

This are just the practical worries. From privacy POV it's also simply not cool if you're not having any and might influence how you act. It's not too different from having webcams installed in your place.

>dont the police/government do stuff like this anyway?
Maybe in fucked up countries like US or UK where the population is cucked by fear of unicorns and other unlikely shit like terrorism.

Do you realise that the government is made up of people? Like, when someone reads your messages, or looks at videos you took, etc, it's not Government Drone #249 doing it, it's Steve, who's now jerking off to the nudes you have on your computer of your girlfriend.

>dont the police/government do stuff like this anyway?
The only way they can legally violate your privacy is by presenting a case to a court as to why they think it's necessary to do so, and getting a warrant from the court. The judiciary thus acts as protector of the rights of the citizen. Widespread surveillance is therefore offensive on two ground:
1/It allows the executive to bypass a power that should belong to the judiciary, therefore insulting the separation of powers.
2/It treats every citizen as though they are a suspect.

>i get the "you have a right to privacy" blah blah
I don't understand how you can be this dismissive. Just because you don't value your privacy doesn't mean nobody else should be allowed to.

>>17797274

>I don't understand how you can be this dismissive. Just because you don't value your privacy doesn't mean nobody else should be allowed to.

maybe its because im depressed and dont care about life, but seriously.. whats the worst that can happen? as long as everything you are doing is legal?

paint the walls of my room black at night

too embarrassed

even as anon

I fingered my sister when I was a teenager and she was only 7 years old.