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What did you say? Why did he make you meet his parents and grandparents over what he said?

>>17801500
Honestly he made a comment how he had cancelled someone to see me. And that she "was" good. But made it a joke and said it was all about the past tense of the comment. Then he said "gotta go to bed anyway goonight"

and i got all female and looked into it i think.
but we've come a long way for such a short thing, but i do believe i may have put him off because i said past tense or not it's not the most charming thing to say before goodnight.

>>17801505
just realised what i typed. probably assuring myself in the same breath but not doing a good job hehe

>>17801453
Sub obviously why even ask

>>17801456
>why even ask

some dubs can be better, and as i said, its more comfy to watch in dub because i can enjoy the animation more. half the time i miss out on what is going on because i am reading subtitles

In this specific case, I'd say sub.
The japanese VA did a much better job, IMO.

Sounds like you've got some depression growing in you I'd suggest definitely working out but also see a therapist to help you sort this out

>>17801451
Be social online then branch out into every day life. I understand what it's like to have no one to share feelings with, but most people don't really want to hear about feelings, which is a downer, but it's true. Adopt a couple of rescue cats. Cats are very good companions.

>>17801457
i thought about seeing a therapist but i dont believe they can help me.Because i try it before

>>17801460
i see that why they dont want to hear about bad things, i think samething too, but i need to connect with some to talk about daily things.This is what i am lack of

>>17801427
Guy, bitches will say bad stuff and be mean just like guys will. You have a low self esteem stemming from apparent anhedonia. Instead of writing in this board, book an appointment with psychiatrist or go to the gym to get those endorphins up. Those people aren't your friends. Get off fucking Facebook. It's cancer. No need to kill yourself. You're just another regular guy with a bitchy ex.

>>17801432
I've had facebook deleted for about 3 months now :\
I used to exercise daily but antidepressants just make me sleep with my time now :\

>>17801465
Guy, antidepressants are good for short term. If you're already on them, you need to actively fight the sleepiness and go to the gym and seek uplifting/fun experiences with friends and family or by yourself. Learn what makes you happy. The meds stabilize your mood, but if you don't actively seek happiness, you will become dependent on them. Sounds like you might have comorbidity that your psychiatrist is missing. Either way, you must actively take control of your life. Happiness is a choice. You can focus on the good. You can do it bro.

Maybe tell us the story about how you got shit talked in public so your story sounds interesting.

Also, keep in mind that this is what having a sharp wit is for. No matter what you do, you'll still revisit that moment in your head and regret the things you didn't do. You might be able to fix it by spending a lot of time watching comedians that destroy hecklers. I really don't know.

>Mano a mano

Wants to fuck with a guys car
Wtf is wrong with you OP?

>>17801389
>not your personal army

Never worry. The guy sounds like a rebound - its something women do.

Best thing you can do is continue on with your life. You'll get over her eventually. Delete her off FB/your phone/instagram etc to help push it out of your head.

As a man, its your duty to now become invested in yourself and your own personal growth. It hurts but you'll eventually find someone who'll treat you better than she ever could, take victory from that

>>17801356
Well, loving someone is always ok and noble feeling, but self-respect should be always put first.
If you put love before self-respect then you are a cuck indeed.

Simple and easy, you do with it what you want now.

>>17801376
Men do it too, the only difference is that most men only try to pick up women after a break up and don't actually succeed.

Either way, OP, if you had a good relationship it's completely normal to still miss her. But it won't get you anywhere so seek out distraction and invest in yourself and your life outside of a relationship.
If you really have to, motivate yourself by thinking that if you ever catch up with ex, you want to be able to tell her about your cool new experiences/pursuits and not about you being stagnant and miserable after she left.

All I know is that I think I exist. With every passing day I'm convinced everything is just a dream/simulation and I'm actually just talking to projections of myself as I write this

I want to die

>>17801293
That has nothing to do with my question

It means doing what you want to do to make yourself happy as long as it doesn't affect others happiness.

wat do

Your sex drive is higher than your girlfriend's sex drive. This will ruin you and make you start cheating. Trust me.

>>17801255
That kind of sounds like it's just making your life better. I mean what don't you have in this situation?

Sneak meth into her food

Hmm it might have something to do with her being tired

>>17801244
Quit being boring.

>>17801222
Because they are at their prime - they won't get better than they are now. You, on the other hand, will get more attractive as you age.

>>17801232
>You, on the other hand, will get more attractive as you age.

this isn't a passive thing, you have to be somewhat successful/influential by the time you're in your late 20s otherwise you're totally fucked

>>17801243
Not really.
Stay in shape, have your shit together, have a somewhat interesting lifestyle, be charming and you're already better than 99.9% of the 18 year olds.

No.

>>17801136
>Is this proof that women can never be forever alone?

its obviously a lot easier for women to find relationships but women have basically been programmed to believe their whole worth is determined by how they look.

i would honestly hate to be a women. most women are boring as fuck and pretty much do fuck all but care about looking good because of patriarchy. And the guy friends they have normally only really care about fucking them.

most women are also too stupid and close minded to actually take advantage of the advantages they have. for example women can literally just sell panties online for money, and make enough to live on. they seem to think that getting a career is a good thing, it isnt, no one wants to work 5 times a week, very few love their job.

>>17801136
Not necessarily OP.
If you're looking for an extremely shallow way of looking at it and that's looks a women can become forever alone. Looks fade. Why do you think women start to settle down? They have to or risk being left without attention due to not looking that appealing.

Then there's the other side of the coin. Personality. If someone has a good personality which is what most people look for in a person, they shouldn't be alone. Who wants to hang out with a 10/10 miserable bitch who is boring as fuck compared to a 6/10 who is top tier bantz.

Anyone can be forever alone OP.

I only use one, Joop! Go.

Get tons of compliments from women, very memorable and I get texts pretty often from friends who love it etc.

>>17801032
gasoline
cigarettes
sweat

>>17801032
>Polo Blue, Ralph Lauren

If you want something more rare/memorable:
>Armani Prive, Vetiver Babylone

Depression takes away all your hope and drive to do something. How can you try and fix things if all you feel is worthless? If you feel that even if you did do something, you could still never be happy again? Because you can't remember what happiness felt like , when you're depressed. And if you did do something, there wouldnt be a point. Because you'll die eventually anyway and you'll never be happy again in your life. You could win a million dollars and it wouldnt make you happy. So whats the point. You are a bleak hole just wanting to die to escape the pain. Depression isn't logical. If it was it wouldnt exist.

if you're depressed, the part of you that 'tries' is being crushed
that's why depressed people seem so lazy

>>17801009
99% of depressed people are just sad and seeking for attention

...and?

Part 2

Thats not to say she didnt have faults, everyone has faults.(These arent things that I dislike about her, I honestly dont think there was any part of her I hated) She was a hardcore SJW and we often got into arguments about some of the stupidest shit, but we always made up RIGHT AFTER and never kept grudges. She was very hyper and loud, I didnt mind that at all, but she would sometimes get ignored by her friends because of it and become self concious. She had a terrible ex-boyfriend that abused and used the fuck out of her and she had to go to court because of it. She would have terrible existential crisis and she would shake and start to cry. She also for a point of the relationship thought she was gay because she really liked the way women look. Whenever she would be with my friends she would start to get self conscious because of how pretty some of my female friends looked. She would think I would leave her for one of them a lot, but I always assured her I wouldnt.

I helped her through every little thing that I knew was hurting her. Whenever she would wake up in the middle of the night because of a existential crisis I would wake up with her, when a family member died I was there telling her it will be alright. When her friends were being shitty towards her I would brighten up her day. I did not help, in the place that mattered the most to her however.

She would want to act out plays like one called "Heathers" and I never would because I was awkward and felt like I shouldnt. She would always brag about bands and how much she loved them, and being the dick I was I would be like "its like youre obsessed". I feel so bad, it happened a lot. I would never sing with her at all when she would play these bands either, even though I knew the words. (The bands name is The 1975 btw). Whenever we would play videogames I would always get super pissed at the videogame and she thought I was mad at her. I never was mad at her.

Just bc it worked well in oitnb doesn't mean it will for you. Especially if your pic is related

>when even a grainy blurry photo can't even hide how disgusting you are

>>17800897
you look too brown for my tastes. Sorry OP.