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Mom kicked me out and wants to reconcile 2016-11-29 00:28:37 Post No.17805770
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Mom kicked me out and wants to reconcile
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2016-11-29 00:28:37
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My mom kicked me out the house when I turned 18, on my birthday. I wasn't a bad kid or anything, I was quiet and kept to myself but she said she didn't want to support me because I wasn't going to college. She wouldn't hear me out and told she I have a day to leave or she'd call the police. I packed up my things and I was homeless for a couple weeks before I got help from one of my old teachers from high school. I stopped speaking to my mom completely after that.
Fast forward 8 years later, hadn't spoken to my mom since that day. My mother contacted me last week and wanted to speak to me. I told her I had no desire to speak to her and as far as I was concerned, I don't have any parents but she pleaded with me to listen to her.
I said fine and I gave her a listen. Basically she's hit rock bottom financially, she lost her job and has been ill lately. She can't pay her bills and she's going to lose the house.
Hearing this all I could "And? Any reason you're telling me this?" She said she wanted me to move and help her out. I told her I had absolutely no interest in helping her and she's on her own. She begged me and started crying and saying I'm all she has. I told her bluntly that I don't consider her my mother anymore and to never call me again, and I hung up.
She called me again today and told me she would do anything and she apologized for throwing me out. She starts crying again and said that I'm her only son and to please give her another chance. I told her I'd consider it and hung up.
Here I am considering. What do you guys think I should do? I'm really upset at her for throwing me to the sharks that early in my adult life. I was 2 weeks out of high school and I had absolutely nothing to my name but she didn't care and now she wants my help. I feel disgusted for even considering this but a part of me still feels a sense of attachment to her so I'm at least thinking about it.
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Fuck her, you reap what you sow.
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Nothing. You own her nothing.
She's regretting because she needs your help, not because she's actually sorry or does want to do anything with you.
plz do nothing and never answer to this bitch ever again.
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This sounds very made up. In case it's not do whatever you think you'll regret least later in life.
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Is it normal to feel really sad after sex?
I lost my virginity last year and after I did it I felt kind of a vague sadness and disgust with myself. I thought that was just due to it being the first time but in the few times since then I feel like crying before I even cum.
Am I just a big weirdo or does anyone else feel like this?
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>>17805769
>Is it normal to feel really sad after sex?
I think you know its not normal.
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>>17805769
Well first off, male or female?
And second, was it with someone you liked/loved or just some person who just wanted a casual thing?
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>>17805769
What do you think the disgust is about?
What was your sex ed upbringing?
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When do you become a bad person/abuser?
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>>17805758
When you let it bother you.
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>>17805758
Whats wrong with being a bad person
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When do you do bad things and/or hurt people? Have you hurt yourself or others, OP? Tell us more.
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>rear-ended a Scion FRS at about 5mph on wet roads (tires weren't gripping and I basically slid into her)
>some barely visible damage (scratches), no dents or injuries
>in my haste I forgot to get her phone number to settle this out of insurance
>just got a call from my insurance company
What do now?
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>no police report
Say she hit you.
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>>17805756
In very minor traffic accidents like OP's there is hardly a police report. The dispatcher sometimes won't even send a car out, especially if no one is injured and both vehicles are out of the road. You can demand an officer come out if you like in that case.
I doubt the person in the Scion did this, but you can report your own traffic accident to the state. There's a special form you can pick up at your local precinct and mail it to the Capitol. Or maybe she did since she's already contacted her insurance company she might be a thorough person, who knows. Worst case scenario she takes you to small claims court. Granted there's no evidence against you most likely it's a waste of time though.
Anyway, OP don't be a scumbag and just tell them what happened and enjoy your increased premium. Unless of course you're okay with being a dishonest piece of shit. It's people that don't do shit the proper way as to why your insurance is expensive to begin with and usually increases a few dollars every year.
inb4 y do rite thing fag, it's called being a responsible adult.
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>>17805795
She probably did, which is why I just got a call. I'm not planning to commit insurance fraud but goddamn it, I really should've gotten her number.
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I'm a skinny nerd/druggie
I'm quitting drugs cuz probation soon, I want to hit the gym every day and get /fit/
but i grew up in a small town, and my dad was a body builder. He is very well known in this area and very popular. Literally everyone I know told me since I was a little kid "one day you're gonna be completely jacked like youre dad"
and since I was a little kid, I never wanted to work out or get fit, because I thought it was just a lame self fulfilling prophecy, and I wanted to live my own life and be independent.
I could also make some quick $$$ and get jacked at home in secret and not tell anyone, but I dont have the room for a $1000 home gym in my apartment. I could make it, but it would be more of a nuisance than anything, and we have a family gym membership.
What do?
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>>17805654
I got to 180lbs and about 15% bodyfat using just a barbell, dumbell, bench, and weights. There's no excuse not to be /fit/. Also. Check out /fit/.
It's 80% diet. 20% lifting.
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So the way I see it I can't really go out to the club on probation, because I'm bound to do drugs/ eventually run into the cops walking home. So i can spend probation in 1 of 2 ways. Either at the gym every day whipping my ass into shape, or doing what i've been doing for the past 12 years. Sitting in front of my computer, on 4chan, eating doritos and drinking coke, playing diablo and cod and magic the gathering and shit.
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>>17805659
Did you do that from home or the gym? and how much did it cost you to buy that shit?
How were you eating? i don't eat healthy at all but I eat alot of chicken already
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i imagine you get these threads a lot but any advice on a painless way to kill myself?
i tried going to my dad's house and stealing one of his guns but he has a stupid fucking fingerprint gun safe.
i can't get a hold of a gun myself.
i don't have any prescriptions anymore.
they don't sell pure helium anymore.
is n*mbutal reliable? i don't know how i'd get it in the states.
don't tell me to see a professional or that "it gets better" because the professionals can't help and it doesn't get better. seen therapists for 15 years, taken at least a dozen different meds, spent months in the hospital.
just give me advice on painless ways to go
>inb4 hurr durr live 90 years and die in ur sleep
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>>17805623
>Stupid safe
Its job has been done.
Why not join the military for its toughest job? Or suicide during training :O
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>>17805641
i'm a lazy, useless sack of shit so the military would either kick me out or give me some shitty job where my failures couldn't risk someone else's life. i guess i could suicide in training though if they gave me live ammunition
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>>17805650
I know of a kid who jumped off third deck like a week in.
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How do I become friends with a woman without an ulterior motive? If I don't want to fuck or date, I have to remind myself that they exist. I feel like a jerk but any effort I make to contradict this feels fake.
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you dont and it doesnt make you a jerk you fucking cuck
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Make friends with girls that have similar interests
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>>17805603
I don't really connect with people quickly based on our interests. It takes me a long time to want to share the stuff I like with people. I'd rather find out what kind of person they are and work from there.
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Im planning to propose to my gf, I don't know SHIT about rings.
I just saw some things that would look good on her on amazon. Is like an emerald a good stone fir an engagement ring? How much should I spend on it?
I just need general ring advice. Also how do I make sure the ring fits her?
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>>17805576
Do you have a job or income ?
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You are better off going to a jeweler and asking about engagement rings.
There are many styles that cover a wide range of prices.
You will need to find a way to size her ring.
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>>17805580
Yes. A bit above the US average earning salary. I have over 20k saved in the bank from when I lived with my parents and saved money. I know I should have invested in an ira or similar earlier but I wasn't sure if I was going to need to make something like a big house down-payment, relocate, Stay or whatever.
Right now I'm just thinking for 500 to 1k for a ring makes sense?
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Would it be retarded and awkward to play katawa shoujo at work?
I work in a call center, and while we're dialing we're allowed to pretty much do anything we want. People play games, watch movies, text, read, eat, etc. It's an extremely laid back environment.
These days I've been making startpages for /wg/, playing civ v, or watching shitty tv shows. I'm really in the mood to play some KS, but would it be too awkward? People walk behind me all the time, and for the most part I'd like to avoid those judgemental looks.
Even in the normie games I played like Sims 3, I refrained from creating big tittied sluts like I always do.
What do?
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They'll probably see the anime and think "wow what a sperg"
Just don't give a fuck
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>>17805555
KS has some sexy scenes in it. Is questionable when whorelegs is asking you to plow her asshole.
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>>17805555
Nice quads. The only reason I say you should not is because of what this anon >>17805778
mentioned. Sexy scenes could get you fired.
>Been friends with female friend for a while
>Start getting a bit /fit/
>Tells me I've been getting bigger as she feels my gains
>Tell her I have a foot fetish
>She sends me pics of her feet under the guise of "hey what shoes do I wear"
>She knows I like short hair
>She tells me she is thinking of cutting her hair short as she is getting tired of long hair
>We start talking about fetishes, she doesn't have any apparently. I tell her mine and she replies with things like "oh yeah I've actually wanted to try that out, I probably couldn't do that unless I was positioned like x, etc"
>We go out dancing at a club, she shrugs off all guys who hit on her
>She also wore a somewhat see through shirt without a bra, she pulled the shirt aside to show me her tit and how her nip was covered with some sort of band aid
>Tells me when we leave something like "fuck I really wanna make out with someone"
>Knows I am a KV
>Knows I have a small cock
>She tells me she'd rather have someone my size, also tells me she is tight apparently
Does any of this actually mean anything or is she just toying with me?
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I know this is all new to you and all, but she wants the dick faggot
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I can't believe it but this bait actually triggers me hard.
Fuck you for having a girl so fucking interested in you, it is terrible. I have to fucking force the girl I fucked last week to go out with me again, and then there's this faggot called OP who has a girl coming on so strong.
Just fuck her you asshole and fuck off from /adv/.
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>>17805489
Yeah its rather obvious that, if things really are as you put them to be, she wants the d.
i need help killing myself. I domt know how but I'm 110% sure i want to die. please don't try to convince me otherwise it won't do anything. just help me find ways to do it
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>>17805487
see your pic.
also, don't kill yourself m8
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>>17805487
If you arent too proud, Try to run up to a cop and try your best to kill him, do your honest best to reach for his gun and kill the guy, really just do your best since you're not gonna be able to most likely, and you'll get shot. Of course your parents and family or friends will wonder what the fuck just happened but since you're obviously depressed they'll just think you had a psychotic incident which ended in you trying to kill an armed cop.
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im really small and thin i wont be able to and here cops dont shoot so easily
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Hello,
Do anons know what the difference between Health Savings Account (HSA) and Flexible Spending Accounts (FSA) are? I would like to choose one to save some tax money in the coming year.
Also wondering why does the government give such complicated options. You get to save money on taxes IF you can predict that you will be spending some money on your health?? Why not instead refund the money that one would have saved by FSA/HSA accounts (the pre-tax dollar amount)?
Thanks.
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You seem to think the govt has your best interest at heart. Get out of that mindset if you want to survive in this world. Also go HSA
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I believe a HSA is what low life companies offer when they don't care enough about you to offer real fucking insurance. Basically they put some money aside each week into a savings account. When you have a medical emergency you can draw money out of it to pay (ONLY) medical bills.
Get another job that cares about their workers. I don't know what the other is.
They probably offer to match "up to 10 dollars" a week for retirement too? lol
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>>17805467
Don't know about FSAs, but I do know an HSA can double as a retirement account. At some age (I think 65 but I'm not sure), the HSA money can be spent on whatever you please and the appreciation is untaxed. Put another way, they are doubly tax advantages IF you treat it like a retirement account. There are stiff penalties if you take out money for non-health expenses before then.
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should I stay or should I go 2016-11-28 21:54:36 Post No.17805436
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should I stay or should I go
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2016-11-28 21:54:36
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im 21
I live in west yorkshire UK
I earn 6.95 an hour working nights
I have 2 choices
1-go to university next year to study music, i want to ideally be a session musician, teach my instrument, and maybe have a few band related projects with the aim to essentially earn a living
however because im not an idiot who thinks my music career will jsut take off I know in 3 years id be coming back to living with my parents and I want to move out permanently I dont want to have to be living with my parents in the next 4 years
alternatively
2-fuck all that, stick with my job now, which I enjoy and has great moving up potential due to people leaving and positions needing to be filled. but not great wage potential
move out and get my own flat, but id have to rent because I cant get a mortgage. Id be poor but id be my own person, no parents, my own money and in a few years I'd be a manager which could lead on to higher paying work in the future.
should I stay or should I go to uni?
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>>17805436
Your picture is horrifying.
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oh babe you've got to let me know
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>>17805436
>great moving up potential
>not great wage potential
that sounds shit. moving up without your wage also increasing significantly is just accepting more responsibilities and not being paid more for it. that's terrible.
but either way i think option 2 is better. it's basically what i'm doing. just said fuck it and moved to australia. i'm independent now, and the only thing that would cause me to have to ask my family/parents for help/money again would be if i lost this job and couldn't find another within a couple months.
which is possible but eh. i'd rather be homeless than ask them for help again.
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My mother hates me and I can't get over it.
She just recently backstabbed me really hard, something I can't get out of my mind and it could actually ruin my whole life.
What should I do? How can I forget about it?
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>>17805358
Well, elaborate. How did she backstab you?
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>>17805358
Distance yourself. Give yourself the time and space to heal. Take the time to think about the situation and your general relationship with your mother. Is it good, is it healthy, is it worth saving? Don't make hasty decision in anger, but if you deem it best for yourself and your future, cutting a parent out of your life is acceptable if she's causing more harm than good in your life.
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>>17805362
She made my father press charges against me for stealing his money.
The accusation is false of course, she is using me for money that she used fraudulently.
Many times she did lie about me.
But I don't judge her on that, I know I've done some bad things to her myself.
I just did never think she could care this less about me.
>>17805366
It's my mother, of course it's worth saving.
To be honest I don't think it's possible though, she has her mind set about me, she doesn't even acknowledge me anymore and won't talk either.
It's not even about acceptable or not, I'm seriously so depressed about it, to think my mother hates me this much...
So ive been on and off with this girl for a while, her name is Emily and she's pretty emo, fairly attractive in my eyes, is currently overcoming a cigarette addiction, she cuts herself sometimes, acts pretty childish on a regular basis and is a lesbian who claims she's only straight for me. She loves me past what words can explain and as much as i hate to admit it i love her too. Not as passionately as she does, but i do love her. The problem lies in the fact that my brother, all my friends, all my brother's friends, and even my parents say that she's no good and that i can do better. And i want to do better. I want to go out with a girl thats normal, a girl that's desirable, a girl who i can make people jealous with or at least a girl who im not judged for. I would break up with her and pursue other girls but im so socially retarded that I starting up a conversation with anyone who I don't already know is not even an option at this point. So my only options are be with her, unhappy and self concious, or be single (something that im desperately afraid of) until another girl shows interest in me. Please help, this is tearing me to shreds. Also forgot to mention that, on multiple occasions, she's run away from home and i had to talk with the police to help them find her. Pic related
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break your text in paragraphs next time.
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>>17805371
Im here for life advice, not essay composure lessons
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>>17805353
She doesn't deserve you if you truly think like that. She is herself - you are controlled by social norms.
You should do what makes you happy - if you are as you say "socially retarded" maybe start by just talking with her friends?
Once you build up enough confidence end it and be with someone you think you deserve...