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Just go for it brah

This is always stupid. Is that girl going to be a viable business partner or reference later on it life or is your best friend?

Don't do shit for immediate gratification, especially if it's going to ruin a connection in the process.

>>17805011
I'm trying to play the long game

>>17804946
Your 'friend' sounds shady as fuck.
I would call it off, desu. Go ghost.

>>17804946
>he's making over 6k a month working only 2-3 days a week, of which half is at home.
Enough IT or creative jobs for that. Or simply own business.

>pics of shit happening at his office when reverse img search comes up with some fucking tumblr cancer.
Now that's weird, very weird.

>now i've met him a couple times in person
Then it should be pretty easy to confirm most details. Poorfags act and dress and think differently from middle class fags who earn 6k a month. Also you can try chatting to one of the girls while you're with him.

>never seen either of the girls in person, only talked online.
Kinda weird.

>all 3 make mostly the same spelling mistakes.
>all 3 seem to have the same opinion on shit and argue about the exact same things.
Very, VERY weird. Specially the first part. Talk more to them, create certain situations ... sounds like fun detective work.

>when there's literally nothing to be gained.
There are always keks. I know a guy who pretend to be a chick for years online, it wasn't for gain or anything, he just got used to the role.

>the pics i got of these girls, both from him and them
Are they together on some of the pics at least? It should be pretty easy to find fresh pics from random girls.

>girl i talked a lot with had a disease and eventually told me she wanted to meet me only after she got her life back together
Sounds somewhat believable. What about the others?

>>17804964

>Enough IT or creative jobs for that. Or simply own business.
sorry, i forgot to mention that this dude has yet to celebrate his 20th birthday. he does say he works in IT, but even then i find it hard to believe his boss pays him that much for the shit he does. it's vidya related work.

>Then it should be pretty easy to confirm most details. Poorfags act and dress and think differently from middle class fags who earn 6k a month. Also you can try chatting to one of the girls while you're with him.
he does indeed dress like a poorfag and has some old shitty phone. told him to get a better phone but he says he doesn't feel like getting one.

i've seen a bank receipt of his that showed that he got around 10k that month. he told me it was his salary, but i'm starting to believe otherwise. he once got into a pretty serious accident (unless that's bs too) which i think he got a lot of money out of. my thoughts are he just pretends to be a richfag with a good job cause he once got a bunch of money from when that accident happened.

>Very, VERY weird. Specially the first part. Talk more to them, create certain situations ... sounds like fun detective work.
no clue how i could create such situation. any ideas?

>Are they together on some of the pics at least? It should be pretty easy to find fresh pics from random girls.
nope. that's a good one. no clue how i can get a hold of pics with both of them in it though.

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>>17804916
I don't know. I'd just buy a physical copy. You can write all over it and put it up on a wall for quick reference. We've got one at my job and it's really handy.

>>17805190
only reason I want a digital version is so that I can easily try different things out and then start over with a clean calendar. but thanks anyway, I'll probably just have to improvise something in ms paint or something

>>17804910
Tea with honey?

>>17804910

Shoot yourself in the throat.

If its Strep, get some penicillin asap. If its just sore, gargle with salt and warm water, even better with diluted Apple Cider Vinegar.

Other than that, painkillers, ride it out and don't be a pussy. I can feel a sore throat coming on now, just that time of year I think.

>>17804902
I wish they would deactivate me.

I HAVE TO LOG IN TO FACEBOOK. TO POST ON THE FORUMS, I DON'T HAVE AN ACCOUNT

>>17804902
>>17804918
make not so obvious fake account

also what forum? sounds dumb as fuck why dont you avoid it

>>17804816
Stop smoking and deal with your internal issues

Time to find a hobby that doesn't suck the happy out of your brain.

>>17805021
Oh there's definitely a lot of those

How about you go apply that advice first before coming back.

If you are healthy be grateful.

Different anon here.

25 years old. I realized that my actual vocation was medicine too damn late. I have been studying engineering since 2009 and given that I was a poorfag I flunked classes/only took few courses per period.

I finally have economical stability, at least to finish my career in two more years. But Im scared to try a career change at this point in life.

Dont know why I took something I didnt like to begin with. My true padsion is in anatomy. And I dont want to waste all that money I threw away, that my parents threw away (we are all poor)

Is it too late to change careers? What would you do in my situation, finish and then study medicine? I dont want to dissapoint people anymore.

Big risk
I'd say about 90% chance you end up fucked and not in the good way

A relationship with someone unstable is the last thing you need right now


BUT YOULL PROBABLY DO IT ANYWAYS

sorry, I finished Love on Netflix last night and I'm still bitter

>>17804765
Noted

>>17804755
Damaged goods, just fuck her and look for a real girlfriend.
Avoid emotional or financial commitments with her since it won't last but you can still have fun while it lasts.

>>17804724
I swam in the pool earlier this year, in April.

>>17804731
This. It's not necessary to say exactly when if you say "earlier" and if you say "in April", you do t have to say "earlier" because you can't have done something forward in time, obviously.

>>17804731
>>17804740
thanks, guys!
totally makes sense. I still don't get why there is a comma before "in april" or "obviously"(in your sentence) tho. would anyone happen to know?

>>17804720
-more fish in the sea
-guys have lower standards than women

We don't care.

If he likes you he wouldn't mind at all

That was no dream

>>17804705
:O

>>17804702
The other day I dreamed that I smothered a little kid to death. I also dreamed that I grabbed some red head hot chick and repeatedly banged her head against a concrete wall until she died.
So I'm interested in this thread as well.

>>17804674
The late-at-night question is easiest to answer. When you see a lone woman walking ahead of you, make some noise to show you aren't sneaking up on her. Cough, whistle, pretend to talk on your phone. In extreme cases, cross over to the other side of the street for a while.

Most women are pretty afraid of strange men. I remember reading a statistic about how what men fear most about a woman is that she will reject them, whilst what women fear most about a guy is that they will be MURDERED by him. Essentially, any girl you approach is on high alert until you make her feel comfortable.

>>17804674
Okay well as a female "no is a perfect answer" IS intimidating. It's a weird mix of insecure and overconfident, to me it says "I know you're going to say no because why wouldn't you, but I'm fucking fine with that!!!!". If you think that it sounds good, I figure you come on too strong in areas too. Try just ~taking it easy~. A good nonthreatening addition would be something that minimizes your own presence and allows her to make a graceful escape, like, "if not that's fine, I really am as bad a dancer as I look." Like if you're looking to come on less strong stop trying to game for half a second

>>17804656
I'm really sorry that you are feeling like this. I live in Chicago and I have a roommate whose from Dubai. He's one of the best persons I have ever met. I'm really sorry that my people are behaving to you like this. I hope you get happy soon in the future. Don't be suicidal in anyway, brother. Hold on.

Don't be a self defeating fuck, you can tell them all of that and more. Once people get to know you they'll see you differently. All that uncomfortableness you feel when you first meet, and those awkward questions are just people trying to find out what you're like. Don't take it personally. Just show them what you're like.

>>17804656
Continue casually travelling until you find a country that is zen and peaceful enough. The usa does not even come close to register in top ten happiest countries, not even gonna factor in 9/11 and prespectives to the middle east.

Why not claim to be from Egypt to normie white people? My Egyptian friend sometimes claims he's hispanic for the lulz. Only tell close people or other arabics you're from saudi. How brown or racially ambiguous are you?You punk arse

Maybe try the literature board?

>"Fake it", the book

That's what it boils down to. If you cant be fake, you're fucked. Being honest or "real" only gets you used.

>>17804584
This is by far the best book you will ever read to further your career and/or social life.

First of it's kind and after you read it you will realize every self-help book is a straight rip-off of this book

>>17804580
>>Meet this girl
>>spend a few days with her to get to know her
>>know she has a boyfriend


I feel like we are missing some info here

Where did you meet? How or where did you spend days with her? Especially since she has a boyfriend?

Also why would you crush on a girl who is into a relationship who obviously is so open to fucking around with other guys? Dont you fear the same will happen to you? She sounds whorish

>>17804580
>"ur like a brother to me"
for her it is not out of the blue she just wanted to let you know how she sees you

I doubt the weekend trip will ever happen or you misunderstood

>>17804598
>I doubt the weekend trip will ever happen or you misunderstood

It was pretty direct and clear.
"maybe we can do something this spring, travel for a weekend like the first time"

>>17804590
>I feel like we are missing some info here
Didn'think it was important

>Where did you meet? How or where did you spend days with her? Especially since she has a boyfriend?
adressing this in a minute, I'm in a hurry.

>Also why would you crush on a girl who is into a relationship who obviously is so open to fucking around with other guys?
Well first of all I can't control that, and second I don't know if she's like that.