I got into Pickup Artist stuff when i was 19. I was a virgin.

Do you have any other interests or hobbies?

>>17800014
Alright, how successful is cold approaching usually for a relatively attractive male?

Also where have you have the most success?

Whats the best sex position that you like?

>>17800014
how do i put my thing in her thing?

>>17800014
Be completely honest man, you don't find that lifestyle depressing at all? I had a few one-night stands in my college years, but I always just found it kinda awkward and shallow and unsatisfying. Do you have any feelings at all for the girls you fuck?

>>17800014
>I have slept with 255 women. I have tried it all. Even did a full year of approaching 100 women a day on the street.
Why would you brag about this?

>>17800037
I went through my list and the most effective ways are:
1: Internet/match/tinder etc.
2: Clubs while drinking

These are ahead by far. Cold approach, clubs while sober and pure luck are all way down the list.
It was about 1/800-1000 cold approaches on the street during daytime that led to sex.
With that said, i was doing a 39 year old Brazilian milf for 6 months when I was 23. And she was amazing. And that was one of the cold approaches.
I was testing a lot of different ways at the time, but I don't think I could have gotten better than 1/400 at best. But I learned a lot from the cold approaches.

Best position is doggy, and girl on top sometimes.

>>17800296
It's been very hard. I have been very depressed at times because of this.
There are so many failures for every victory.
The downsides of all of this is a chapter on its own, but I do have feelings for almost all of them. You get very lonely and it's nice just to be with someone.
I dated many of them for a while, while I continued finding new girls.
The girls I sleep with while I'm drunk are not very satisfying, but when I'm sober it's great.

>>17800297
Because it's been a lot of hard work and it's an achievement I'm proud about.

>>17800297
Because it's fucking hard. Unless he looks like a model, this is not easy.

>>17800360
What continent do you live in? Do you live in a large city with millions of people or in a suburban area?

>>17800014
How do you stop yourself from having feelings for someone after multiple sexual encounters?

>>17800396
remember how terribly things will turn out if you act on them

>>17800014

Might be outside your realm of expertise but.

Should I bother getting my shit together before i start trying to date?

I've just put it off forever dating forever thinking it might help motivate me, but it hasn't

So now i'm thinking of trying the reverse sort of seeing if dating will motivate me to get my shit together (which i'm still working on) even though common knowledge seems to be not only will it not work but if it does it's a unhealthy and a bad idea.

>>17800426
What would "getting your shit together" entail?

Generally though, I say work on getting your shit together just for your own sake, try to date as much as you want to along the way, and let the chips fall where they may. I'm going into fortune-cookie territory here, but everyone's a work in progress. Don't use one thing as an excuse to avoid the other, just work on both

>>17800442
>What would "getting your shit together" entail?

ah, I know its silly and limits your ability to give helpful answers but even anonymous i'd rather not list what i consider my personal failings in life.

>I'm going into fortune-cookie territory here, but everyone's a work in progress. Don't use one thing as an excuse to avoid the other, just work on both

that probably the best i can expect really so thanks you. i'm just looking for some outside motivation, since its very hard for me to self motivate for social situations, I find them tiring even when they're enjoyable

>>17800379
I live in Norway. When I moved to a "big" city, I moved to Oslo. I'm back in my hometown again now as I hit a major wall after a while.

>>17800396
It doesn't really stop. As long as you have a backup woman, everything is easier. Then you don't get too dependant on just 1 girl and it doesn't hurt as bad when it goes down the drain.
It's easier said than done, but a less attractive side chick is the best for when you need comfort or haven't gotten laid in any other way.

>>17800426
There is no reason to wait. It only acts as an excuse.
there is no such thing as out of your league and stuff like that. The first thing you should start doing (as I regret I didn't start soon enough) is diet and exercise.
and what do you need to figure out? School? Work? Money?

>>17800466
I'm really not trying to judge you, but have you considered that it might not "go down the drain" every time if you weren't sleeping around so much, stringing "backup women" along, approaching 100 girls a day, stuff like that? Most quality women I know would consider this type of lifestyle a dealbreaker for any kind of serious relationship. The infamous "double standard" for promiscuity isn't as real as people think it is, women kinda look down on it too. It sounds like the women you meet are basically using you like a slut, because that's basically the way you present yourself

I'm not trying to call you a bad guy or anything, but it sounds like you're not all that happy with things the way they are

>>17800480
It's okay. The thing is that if I didn't do all that stuff, I wouldn't have that 1 girl to begin with. I'm a normal nice guy and the way I do my business is a fancy way of being a douche. And women find it attractive.
women hate men who's slept with lots of other women. But as long as they don't know the number, they are first in line to become the next one.
Many things I do, is a deal breaker for most women. I won't spend my money on them. I won't listen to work stories and most importantly, I don't do drama.
I could make it work with most of them, but only if I give up things from my life for someone who is mostly a replaceable cum-bucket.
I have some good female friends and I love them for their personalities. I don't need to give up anything for well... Cum-buckets.

It's hard out there.

If anyone wants to keep in contact with me, then go to fetlife.com and make an account. Then give me your name here and I'll message you.

>>17800014
I have a question about cold approach (the most unlikely to work, I know).

I think I'm a fairly attractive guy, obviously not a 10/10 but I get by and I see women look at me sometimes and smile sometimes. How could I possibly cold approach one? Usually it's at a mall so there's no mutual ground or reason to approach them.

I find it relatively easy at parties at least since I know the host and we at least have mutual friends but a mall is completely me being a guy she knows nothing about.

>>17800580
Ye, that's kinda why it's the least successful thing, but doing nothing does nothing.

The best way is to have a conversation breaker. Like if you walk into each other or something like that. That way it comes off as natural.
Don't ask for the time or the direction, then suddenly go into pickup mode. It comes off as unnatural.

It's easy to get numbers and they are rarely fake, but they get you nowhere unless you make a really good impression.
And try to find girls walking alone. if you open one in a group, then win her friends over first by being charming and funny.

If you want to cold approach, then you should make a day out of it. I was supernervous everyday until I had talked to 2-3 women. After that you get adrenaline pumping and it's easy.
I would go somewhere and get those first ones on some less attractive women.

Then you just need to get honest. "Hey, I saw you from over there and I just had to tell you how cute you look in that "shirt?"

Then it's like you hit on her but not really as u gave her a compliment on her fashion sense. You can comment on anything that stands out a bit. Just don't praise her looks.

Then change the conversation into other stuff and try getting her on a short date on the spot. Coffee or something.

If she's in a hurry then get her number and text her like 15 min later so she gets your number. Mention something funny from the conversation in your message.

A general rule is to always strike while the iron is hot.

I used to teach a few guys that they had to be rejected enough so they wouldn't let their pride get in their way of approaching girls.

>>17800639
>"Hey, I saw you from over there and I just had to tell you how cute you look in that "shirt?"
Doesn't that kind of come off as creepy? I was expecting something more subtle. Since usually they look and smile at me, couldn't I approach and just say something along the lines of "Hey, I noticed you looking at me and I'm probably embarrassing myself but would you like to get lunch with me?"

There's a girl that works at some little kiosk that looks at me every time I'm nearby so I've been wondering if I should go that strategy but mentioning seeing her looking for the ast few weeks.

>A general rule is to always strike while the iron is hot.
15 minutes seems a little too hot though, wouldn't the end of the day be more ideal?

>>17800658
Ye, I was just giving an example.
You sound like you got the idea of it.
The 15 min later text is just to give her the opportunity to text you through the day as she now has your number.
But send her another text later that day too.

What's your advice for somebody who sees no point in trying anything with women?

>>17800723
How's my my example approach of mentioning seeing her looking at me and asking her to lunch? Is that fine?

I'll keep the text part in mind. I just figured sending anything that soon would be seen as coming on too strong. Also a general rule after a date and such is to wait a day or two to contact right? What do I say that day or two later? Do I straight out ask for another date?

>>17800739
Suicide.
or absolute robotic autonomy.

>>17800014
Do you still feel empty inside?
I don't have problems talking or interacting with women but lately, more so after having heart ache over an attractive girl I'm just not that attracted to physical beauty anymore. I'm lucky that I have a don't give a fuck attitude now but thing is: I really don't care that much. Am I just jacking off too often or watching porn too much or what is going on?

>>17800014
How sad is your life that you actually counted the number of women you slept with?
I lost track after 5

How long do you think you can keep it up before you end up with a baby or some shitfest of an std?

>>17800639
>try to find girls walking alone
>Then it's like you hit on her but not really as u gave her a compliment on her fashion sense

You are the reason why women feel uncomfortable about completely normal compliments and conversations from dudes. That's creepy as fuck, man.

Why?

How to get into threesomes or more, while keeping the people involved non ugly or fat?

Used to be really into pickup, dropped learning "technique" in favor of self-teaching/trial-and-error, became one smooth mofo for a while, but settled into a relationship for a couple years and let my social skills in general deteriorate. If you're willing to teach, I'm willing to learn.