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how to forget about yourself? 2016-11-28 09:38:33 Post No.17804151
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how to forget about yourself?
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i need to stop knowing i am there
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>>17804151
Killllll urrrr sellllff
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>>17804151
Definitely kill yourself.
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Kill yourself.
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Being homeless might be the best option for me 2016-11-28 08:55:48 Post No.17804088
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Being homeless might be the best option for me
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Hi /adv/
I've had enough of being the black sheep in my family, being the big disappointment in the family, being the literal human piece of shit. 19 and unemployed, 35 jobs applied and not one single reply from any of them, wasted money on some stupid diploma and now government wants their money back from me. I can't even afford my own bus ticket, mum has chronic anxiety and dad seems really disappointed of me to the point where he refer me as "that guy" for about a year straight.
I just want to get away from this family, not out of spite or hate, but I just had enough for being the biggest piece of shit that my family has ever known, I sometimes ponder and think to myself that if I leave the house things will get better for them. I don't mind living alone, as long as its my life that I'm destroying and not everyone else that I love and care about. I lost respect and value towards myself.
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>>17804088
Have you ever been homeless?
Is not fun OP.
If you can't get a job with whatever degree you have, see if you can get some financial aid and go for another.
I'm doing electrical engineering, and from what I've read it's well payed, and will have a lot of openings later on.
If you don't want school, join a branch of the military
Navy, marines, army, airforce, whatever.
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Go be homeless then. Concrete camping has a way of encouraging one of 2 things, depending on the person
>eating the pile of self served shit that comes with homelessness in your kind of case and letting it fuel you to turn life around
Or
>giving all the way up and settling into a weak and parasitic life
Spend just 1 month living on the streets and see where it puts your values, I promise it will be the longest month of your life. You need to get motivated, and nothing motivates better than a cold hard plate of reality.
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Try being an alcoholic buddy, works wonders for me since I dropped law school, my ex gf left me for a richer guy, being unemployed and failed 4 applications due to my introverted nature that I get anxious when interviewed.
Now I got a father who constantly berates my mother because of his jealousy of her having admirers. So I just masturbate all day and play video games. Living with my parents when I'm already 22 fucking years old.
Fucking shit m8. Anyway refer to the post above me, just go out in the streets to motivate you. Tomorrow I'll try that and go to a national park by myself and just go where the road will take me.
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Suspicious buyer wat do? 2016-11-28 08:52:40 Post No.17804078
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I've listed my guitar for sale, this guy contacts me asking if its still for sale, I say yes, and he replies with this. Like he straight up wants to buy it for $1250 without even looking at it.
Am I right in finding this suspicious? What could go wrong here?
I'm thinking maybe he can try and put a claim against me with paypal to get his money back but I don't know.
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Super suspicious. What are you selling it through?
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>>17804083
Gumtree. Basically an Australian version of Craigslist
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>>17804096
Is it normal for people to contact you like that? Also I'd advise against Paypal for a transaction like this: not only are you going to have to pay a little bit for using the service as a seller, the buyer can also turn around later and say that there was something wrong and get a refund
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hey so I'm 18, I've smoked a total of fourteen cigarettes in my entire life and I've quit cigs altogether but I vape a good amount and I was wondering if I should be increasingly worried about my health from this point forward. Thanks.
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>>17804022
I once used vape to stop my cigarette habit, but its good for some things but in total no. The propylene glycol(pg) works of something like a medicine, in low dosage it can be good for your health, in high use of the substance it can cause problems towards your health. Honestly from a ex vaper/smoker neither is a good choice.
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>>17804035
thanks, I appreciate it. any suggestions on how to kind of reverse the effects?
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>>17804038
>Reverse the effects
Of what the vape or the cigarettes? The vape will clean quickly from your system, while you have only smoked 14 cigarettes you should be fine. Smokers and heavy smokers alike can actually get some of the tar cleaned from their lungs and bronchial tubes inside their lungs using the vape. But this does not mean smoke a cigarette, then clean it out with the PG, and repeat, it doesn't work that way.
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Girl A:
Current girlfriend. Pretty. Smart. Funny. Have a house together. Have a dog. Good sex life. No complaints
Girl B:
First love, slightly more attractive, funny, pretty, we've had a thing for each other since were very young. If there's such thing as a soulmate it's her.
So do I stay where I'm at and just forget girl B (which is almost impossible for me) or so I leave my current life behind to go risk it with girl B?
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>no complaints
Do you actually love her? Or did you love her and are just stagnating? This is the language you use for someone you 'settle' for.
Why weren't you ever with girl B?
You should leave girl A anyway because having another woman in your heart who you call soulmate is something like betrayal
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if you need to choose its always someone you havent met yet because you love none of these chicks
but whatever
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I have a long past with girl B.
The reason why I am with A is because be was engaged and I got tired of waiting around and I wasn't going to ruin an engagement
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I'm 24 and work a shitty job. I want to be able to afford wife, child, house
but dont want to grow old without experiencing any further adventure. Do I join the
army or go to college? Plz help.
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College for sure. That's where you meet lifelong friends, girls. Army's just a bunch of dudes which is fine if you want adventure without poontang or chance at non-gov job.
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>>17803984
>Implying soldiers don't get mad pussy
Are you fucking high? I mean you can get laid all day long, it's just harder to find a stable mate.
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>>17803989
That's what i meant to say stranger
You don't get a lot of nice girls if you're in the army. No one in their right mind wants to go for a dude who'll be stationed in who knows where for who knows how long, when there's a lot of dudes just as good, right near them.
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NEET/shut-in improvement thread! 2016-11-28 07:54:50 Post No.17803960
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NEET/shut-in improvement thread!
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2016-11-28 07:54:50
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Welcome to the NEET/shut-in improvement thread!
>old thread
>>17787072
>Discord
https://discord.gg/AAhJ6eR
Join us for help on improving your life and becoming more social or just helping people with these things! All are welcome, as long as you follow the rules.
>What do I do in the threads?
Ask people for advice on your NEET-related/social problems, or join our discord group to do the same.
>I need help but I'm not a NEET, can I join your server?
Absolutely. Anyone is free to join our group if they feel like it could help them improve, or if they want to help others.
>I joined, now what?
Post in #introductions and one of our staff members will give you permission to post in the other channels.
NEET IMPROVEMENT RULES
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2. No doxxing or spamming. If you post any personal information of another user without their consent, you will be banned. Spamming will result in temporary loss of text privileges.
3. Please try to genuinely improve your lot in life. We're not here to circlejerk about how horrible our lives are. We'll all slip up or need to vent sometimes, but overall you should try to be positive and move upwards.
4. The #support channel is for advice only. Check #rules for a description of all other channels and rules.
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I'm heading to essentially community college this spring, after two years of NEETing.
I feel sick to my stomach, mostly because I'm terrified of flunking the courses. I'm only taking about four classes, but biology and algebra seem like too much. I just want to knock them out of the way to take another science class and finish credits, but I feel incredibly unprepared.
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My new job was commission only. They lied on the description and tried to lie to my face. I walked out and now I'm unemployed again. Welfare is purposely incompetent as well. I may have to live on the street. Even Mcdonald's is rejecting my applications. I'm not even socially retarded man, fuck this.
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>>17804408
just sell drugs, its the only job constantly on demand
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Sexually Attracted to being Sued 2016-11-28 07:38:30 Post No.17803922
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Sexually Attracted to being Sued
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I get off on the idea of a business finding some way to make me pay them. For example, I've emailed businesses claiming to have defamed them, used there intellectual property without permission, and the like in hopes that they will pursue me. I'm apologetic, give them my personal info, and offer to pay their legal expenses. So far, no one has paid any attention to my emails.
I kind of want it to happen so that I learn my lesson by being screwed over. Kind of a hit rock bottom approach. How do I make myself a doormat for a business? Without actually doing anything wrong, how do I get them to sue or bill me for birthing in return?
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what t h e fuck
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>>17803956
Never mind
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How? Do you plan on jerking off to their email reply or some shit?
So I'm 21, this girl I'm seeing is 16. We have been seeing each other for a few weeks, I met her parents and they are okay with us seeing each other.
Last Friday she came over to my place and we decided to do some edibles together, mind you she has smoked weed before and had edibles and been totally fine (importance being she is on anti-depressants that have been known to cause panic attacks and the like when mixing with weed, but not always with everyone). I had not known that mixing these two things could be harmful, and I would have guessed if she was fine smoking weed before that she is able to handle it.
A few hours into the high she starts dry heaving and eventually it leads to her having seizures and fainting and then coming out of it which was really fucking scary, and me being high added to the terror of what was happening. I ended up calling 911 and they came and took her to the hospital where she ended up being okay. Her parents weren't mad at me nor her and understood that we had both individually chose to take these edibles.
She had only told me when her heart started racing that mixing weed with her anti-depressants could have harmful side effects, but not that she was intentionally hiding this from me, that she just didn't think anything would happen since she had done this before.
I was terrified and panicky the whole time, particularly about the liability of her if she happened to die or whatnot under my responsibility which freaked me out. After this episode I feel like I have lost my trust for her. I feel like this event was traumatizing and anything associated with her makes me sad, but from her point of view she misses me and is hurt by the fact that I feel like I don't want to be with her anymore since I was so shaken by the event.
I'm really conflicted in how I feel because on one hand I feel irrational about not wanting to see her when she was sent to the hospital and probably more than anything wanted my support and care for her
cont.
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If she didn't think anything would happen (and no its not really a known contraindication) then why are you having trust issues?
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>>17803868
cont.
but on the other hand I legitimately feel scared and frightened about the whole event and I feel panicky even thinking about what happened. Being high probably didn't help with the whole situation either.
I'm not really sure in what direction to go or if I should continue to see her. I told her I needed some time to just process what happened and to get over it.
It feels awful because she cares for me so much and prior to this I felt like I cared about her and for her well being and invested some amount emotionally into her, but now every part of me feels like I want to do anything but talk to her.
What does /adv/ think?
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It happens bro. My husband was good for yeears. Then one day, after 5 years, I found him on the floor covered in his own piss. Turns out he had a bad reaction to a drug and started seizing around 3am.
If you can't handle it, don't get into a relationship EVER. You just never know what will happen.
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Is it even worth it to have a long distance relationship?
Starting talking to this girl I met at band camp a couple years ago recently and we've been talking all night and we just started using the video chat thing on snap chat. I'm really into her now and I'm pretty sure she's really into me. She lives 2 hours away from me and I don't know how long distance relationships work.
If it is worth it, what are some tips on maintaining this type of thing?
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Two hours != LDR ...
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I've been in a few myself and it never worked. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's HIGHLY unlikely. However you will probably not take my word for it and test it for yourself, which is the logical thing.
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Long distance relationships really need some kind of plan to get together in the future to be feasible. They're a temporary substitute for a normal relationship, and much more successful if you do them if necessary throughout the course of an LTR.
Quite frankly, what are you gaining out of this? 2 hours isn't that far, maybe go meet up with her before you commit to any kind of relationship. An LDR is more of a meaningless title in your situation until you two meet again in person.
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I went to a party and I told this girl who I am interested in that a girl said she had a crush on me. The girl I am interested in said, "This is why I don't want you hanging out with other girls." I said, "Hm? Why?"
She then stopped talking to me. What did I do wrong and how can I fix it?
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This is what you get for playing games
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>>17803837
What games?
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>>17803908
Trying to make her jealous and/or trying to 'prompt' her into being interested in you
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How unattractive is not having straight teeth/any cheap fixes
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>>17803752
Imo it depends on how bad your teeth actually are. Pic you posted is not bad.
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if there were cheap fixes, braces wouldn't be a thing
your teeth are not too bad. even if you were a girl.
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>>17803752
It's not a huge deal and probably adds a bit to your character.
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sup /b/
tl;dr i got arrested for burglary last night and i need some people to talk to
i'm in a really fucked up situation right now. last night i got blackout drunk with my friends at one of their beach cabins in maine, and then we went for a walk and found an empty cabin that looked abandoned so we went in through the window to explore. we were in there for a little bit and then police came and arrested us.
we got charged with burglary, which is defined as entering private property with the intent to commit a crime within (including theft, destruction of property, or defacing property) but i think my case is more similar to criminal trespassing because we did not commit any crimes within the property and did not intend to do so.
we spent the night in jail and had to pay $5000 bail to get out (plus a $600 fee to pay the bail) and actually one of my friends is still in there tonight because his bank was closed.
i'm really feeling fucked up about this and i need someone to talk to. does anybody who has law or criminal experience think that i could bring my case down to trespassing and thus bring it down from a felony to a misdemeanor? and does anybody think we could get off with a fine and community service/probation instead of jail time?
please ask any questions you have, i would appreciate any help or consideration.
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i beg your pardon
sup /adv/ ***
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>get released on bail
>don't go and see a lawyer immediately
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lawyer up bruh
maine? you must be white. with a good enough lawyer you'll probably just get probation
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Without compromisinf your health, comfort and social standing, is there any possible way to become completely unappealing to men?
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>>17803736
Would dressing very conservatively be considered messing with your comfort or social standing?
Also delete social media and make everyone think you have a boyfriend helps, too.
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why do you want to be unappealing to men? are you a man?
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>>17803736
Be gross, don't shave legs, fart, burp, talk about pooping and other unlady like things
Also - be more of an outspoken feminist type. Some might like it but the majority of guys will be turned off by it
be me:
>27 years old
>good gpa from highly ranked school
>worked 4 years in finance
>am now attending a top-ranked business school
On paper, my life is going extremely well.
And I hate it.
I have no friends (only "associates" who themselves care only about bettering themselves). No girlfriend.]
I have no free time. Any non-working time I have is spent worrying. Every moment of my life is spent obsessing over my next achievement.
At a visceral level, I'm completely empty-I never feel satisfied, only bored, frustrated, or stressed.
I want out. I don't know what to do. I have been for a while seriously considering just ending it all.
What would you do, /adv/?
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>>17803712
I'll be your friend.
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>>17803718
OP here.
I really do need a friend. If I gave you my email, would you contact me?
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>>17803726
sure, but do you have steam? It's the main instant messager I use. If you do I'm FAVelour, add me.