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Step1: even though you want to drink, don't.

You're done!

>>17895826
you don't need AA but if you're already calling yourself an alcoholic it is very unlikely you will be able to stop and/or control your boozing without some professional help

IMHO boozers are disgusting addicts no different than gamblers, narcotic abusers etc destroying 1st themselves and then everybody near them

FOAD

Shrooms

To make things clear, I'm not suicidal

Take some time, as in a few days and actually get a grip on yourself. Talk to the professor about the possibility of taking the exam a bit later.
I'm sorry for your losses anon, but these events are outside of your power. What's in your power is to accept these things, mourn in a way that isn't too disruptive and focus on your future. It's not easy, it's not painless, but consider your academic obligations as a calling that can't be abandoned no matter the pain.
You can do it anon.

>>17895804
get some professional counseling

many colleges have freebie counseling look into that

otherwise it reads like your life is headed towards the shitter

but you're smart have $$ self awareness - this problem can be fixed etc

>>17895790
You probably have no friends OR you have some shitty friends

The best you can do is find a new hobby. You either get some decent aquintances with shared interest, or you may find something that you enjoy doing alone.

It's a win-win

>>17895795

>You probably have no friends OR you have some shitty friends

Why is that? I have a few friends, although it's not often we hang out due to our schedules.

I do have some hobbies. I started going to the gym, I can tell I'm starting to see good results after only a few weeks. and I'm trying to self teach myself how to speak Italian.

>>17895790
You're not alone m8
Same issues here and can't stop thinking about girls even if I know I'm not the kind of Guy who likes to be with someone.
I already can't stand my best friend being with me when we went to a party the day before.
I need space, way too much.
But I found a workaround witch seems to arouse grills.
I tell myself I'm a peace of shit like pepe and that it can't really get worst if I don't get out of my comfort zone and keep at being a weirdo. It makes me happy and I'm like smiling to the the point where very social girls want to get to know me and when I reject them because I'm a peace of shit they get only more interested because I look honest. Then I feed my ego with their interest and I don't need anything more.

Get a brick hit them with it until failure no one has the right to remove you from your home grow some fucking balls

>>17895764
Roommate 2 drove me back to my parents house and explained to them why they had to drove me back to college for the rest of the semester. My whole family gave me shit about it, which is why i want revenge.

You dun goofed. Accept it. Move on. Try putting it in the past and focus on your life, and studies again.

Dear God I have no idea have a bump tho

>>17895749
wat

>>17895771

I can elaborate I have to clean this cum off this wall. I'm interested in products, techiques, methods, whatever you have.

The jizz itself is pretty standard, it's dry and smells like cum.

ask any other questions you think are relevant. If you're willing to let me cum inside u in the future so i'm not forced to nut on my belongings like an animal hmu.

thanks

>>17895696
I don;t think you look too young, just not masculine...

>>17895696
You wear t-shirts with superhero comic figures and wonder why people think you're younger than you are?

You look fine for your age.

>how do you guys feel about looking younger than you are and what age do people think you are?

I'm in my mid twenties most people think I'm in my late twenties or early thirties. Shit sucks.

> on how to look older and better.

For the love of god, don't pick up tobacco. If you do I will open a wormhole between our two computer monitors and punch you in the left ear.

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>I'm also worried what people in my school would think since the girl is in 8th grade

>>17895687
What's your point friend

>>17895685

If she's in 8th grade, then that means she's 12-13

and if you're a sophmore, then that means you're 14-15. Big deal.

Also comeback in 4 years, you're too young for this website.

Just be attractive to them?

>Why arent you allowed to ask someone who friendzoned you for a second 2nd chance?
I mean, you can. But the reason she rejected you then will be rejected a second time, and it will just make things extra weird.

>>17895641
It happened out of no where immediatley after a date where we made out for a while. I asked her why and she says she just sees us better as friends which is bs. I said ok but fuck that i still want her bad

>>17895629
It's beautiful, but not worth $1300. Truly invest in diamonds and gold if you are to get them. Rose gold is inferior (copper added to gold), just like canary diamonds (yellow diamonds marketed as rarer or higher quality when all they are is discolored).
She's going to love whatever you get her and just be happy that she's engaged, but do some research on where the after Christmas sales will be, look at some in person and you'll really get a good look at what will be a good bang for your buck.
Because my Mum works at Macys and has a discount, my fiance got me a gorgeous ring and band for 2K when the set was orginially 5K. He bought it on a Macys card and reliably paid it off over the course of a year. As long as you make those payments on time monthly, she can have an even better ring and it's an easier bill to swallow.

Don't buy into the fucking diamond for fucking ever bullshit fucking shit marketing scheme.

>>17895629
Google "Moissanite", OP, it's superior to diamond and way cheaper.

>>17895593

I have 1200 friends, and only regularly (daily or over 4 days a week) talk to about 5-10. I think this is normal. I mean, my best friend and I talk via Facebook only like once a month, and we're unequivocally best friends.

I think it's just a matter of firing up a normal banter with someone you see frequently enough for it to not be weird. I have no problem with the scattered messages I get from time to time, but we'll have a conversation and then let it rest. I say, if you want to talk, message the right people. Some people just aren't texters or typers.

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>>17895593
>>17895608
Having people you talked to once in your life on your friend list.

>>17895608
>1200 friends
Are you just adding random people?

Stop eating paint.

Impetigo?

>>17895583
>Impetigo?
This.

>>17895528
If what you say is true, then she is a crazy bitch. Why should she be in charge of your private life? Do you pester her about her life? A romantic partner shouldn't be all that you seek in life. If she breaks up with you simply because you have other needs that are unfulfilled by the limitations that nobody can help to stop (college is important), then you have to ask yourself, is she really looking out for your best interests, or just for herself?

>>17895535
She should not m8, thats the point. Shes an amazing girl, haven't seen a better one. And she understands that and asks me to be even better guy.
But I have literally no private life. None. I think I love her, but I have lost everything that I was before her and shit got me scared day by day.

Different anon here, a femanon.

I love when my boyfriend masturbates because I know he is relieving himself. We meet up several times a week but I can't always be there, or I'm not always in the mood. And I want him to relieve sexual tension, so I think it's good that he faps.

By even I masturbate to help me sleep sometimes.

Tl;dr if your girl doesn't encourage masturbation when you can't have sex then she isn't looking out for your wellbeing, and isn't right for you

the blue screens were SYSTEM SERVER EXCEPTION also

is this the wrong area or are you guys just faggots?

>>17895523
Both

>>17895464
Simply : Treat her like a human being and don't put an act. You need to treat her like you'd treat her normally. If you're an asshole, then change your behavior and she'll see it.

Your attitude right now is why she is gone
>I was selfish
>first relationship
>need her back ASAP

You are selfish, and arrogant.
This is your first go, even if you fix it the shadow of how you 'used to be' will always haunt you and her.

I used quotes because it's a bit misleading otherwise, because without them you might believe you ever changed or ever could. Nobody changes we just edit out behavior that others do not like; just because you put a blue film over a red light doesn't make it blue.

For you to in any way believe you are meant to be with her and only her is showing of a very skewed perception in relationship dynamics.
The only reason you want her back ASAP is so she won't fuck anyone else, you don't care about her at all.

She did you a disservice by telling you what you did wrong, because now you will just pretend as opposed to you discovering it for yourself and perhaps coming close to an emotional restructure.

RIP

>>17895487
I'm >>17895483 and I disagree. I was just like him, and I got back with her.
I was too confortable, for example : I don't like birthdays so I didn't make her one. (while it's a very important date for her), I used to trash talk her (it's just bantz, bruh)
So she left me. Months later, we came back together and I understood that I just needed to treat her not like I would like to be treated but what would make her happy.
I really changed. I'm not putting an act to let her be with me, I try to be kind to her and do my best to make her happy.

Something you have passion for you faggot drifter

>>17895462
I don't have a strong passion that's the problem

Everything is about equal level of interest

I feel like other people just know, FUCK I LOVE TO CODE IM GONNA DO THIS FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. I just don't have that

I found that you get good at things that you enjoy doing
pick any of those things that you like doing and keep doing it