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Having pic related over tomorrow and we're gonna bake and eat weed brownies. I have no experience with girls, kind of socially awkward, while this girl is a social powerhouse.
How do I make the move?
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>>17894552
Punch her in the face.
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>>17894552
She looks slow
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OP, do you have any experience with glass cutting?
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>on winter break from college at my parents house
>all my old friends still here
>all my old friends major junkies now
I love them the same, but I am not living that life
>"hey anon come drink/do drugs with us"
>"I can't I have to go back to the state where my college is early"
>"Why anon?"
I need a lie. I don't want to tell them "I am leaving early because you guys are junkies now and I don't want to be around it"
Can anyone think of a good excuse where they wont be offended or feel like I am demeaning them? I still love them very much, I just have moved on.
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>>17894506
you better get on that right away
those junkie "friends" of yours will quickly turn into enemies once they realize you've gone str8 and likely try to fuck up your life
no contact
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>>17894512
This is not a concern
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>>17894506
If they cant accept your lifestyle (like you are forced to accept theirs) than they are no longer your friends. Simply tell them, "Sorry im not really into that but we should do ___ sometime soon before I leave"
Or If you want a quick out
>"Sorry I have to go back to move into my new apartment/dorm"
>"Sorry gotta go back for ___ initiation meeting"
>"Sorry my parents planned some lame day activity over there before I go back to school"
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So /adv/ I've never had luck with girls in my life until college (lost weight, dressed nicer, talked to girls) and now I am constantly told I am attractive by random people at bars/my friends (usually rated 8+/10).
That all being said, I am so lost with girls. When I meet girls who I just want to hookup with (at parties/bars) we end up making out and going back to my place but for some reason they never want to have sex. They usually say they want to get to know me better/they want to hang out more. When I ask them why they say they either want to make sure that I am not in it just for sex or that they aren't a slut. I know I am not doing anything wrong up to this point, because these girls keep wanting to hangout again and only have good things to say.
I know I don't just want a fuckpiece, but all the girls I meet are not interesting to me at all outside of their bodies. What am I doing wrong on both accounts?
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To elaborate on that last part -- I am looking for a gf. But also a gf that is fun and sociable as well as a baddie. Someone I can easily talk to.
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Bump, and sorry if I come off as an asshole. A big part of this too is im trying to figure out the ethics of stringing a girl along if all you want is sex.
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>>17894494
Well OP it seems that you are making moves and bringing them back to your place, its obvious there is nothing wrong with you. The right girl will come some day bro try not to think about that too much and she will come when you least expect it. Until then keep on doing what youre doing
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jealousy issues/"Sexual obsessions" 2016-12-27 03:13:01 Post No.17894469
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jealousy issues/"Sexual obsessions"
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I realized in most cases of me having to get over an ex, deal with just being friends with someone I liked, etc. My sexual feelings towards them brought me down much much much more than my romantic feelings. Yes the romantic feelings do get to me and bring me down, but sexual feelings towards people really really really gets into my head and f***s with me. It has me worried, is there something wrong with the way I perceive sex? I almost feel disgusting for feeling this way. Like do I subconsciously feel entitled to sex from people? This can't be normal, getting this bent out of shape due to jealousy/sexual urges can't be normal.
This has always kinda been an issue, but something specific set it off and made me aware of it.
I've had a crush on my closest female friend for years, and it's hard. I've definitely felt something close to what I was describing above towards her. Like I know enough not to constantly try and act on it, it's something I keep to myself. However, the other day I found out she messed around with one of my friends and it just..... really got to me. I was overwhelmed with jealousy and jealousy is a major "trigger" for depression for me honestly.
I understand I can't change how she feels and all that. I'm making this thread to figure out what the f*** is going on with me. It's like I developed some kind of "sexual obsession" towards her.
I had a similar issue with my first real girlfriend when we broke up. The romantic feelings went away with time but the sexual feelings towards her stayed, actually made me fall into one of the worst depressions of my life during my grade 12 summer break. It got to the point where sex with her was honestly on my mind from the time i woke up til the time i went to bed. Again, literal sexual obsession.
What's causing this? why am i such a f***ing disgusting human being?
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>>17894469
Do you have mommy issues?
Do you act on this intense jealousy?
Have you been majorly hurt before by a girl?
Are you diagnosed with some kind of disorder?
There's a lot of information missing.
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Do you watch porn? Masturbate more than once every 4-5 days?
If so, stop.
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>>17894485
>Do you have mommy issues?
Nah I'm cool with my mom, she can be kinda overbearing but it's because she cares about me a lot and worries
>Do you act on this intense jealousy?
At best I'll let the girl know how I feel and that's it. It's not like I constantly make moves after i get a no. I know it's something I need to keep to myself,
>Have you been majorly hurt before by a girl?
It's something I've dealt with long before my first real heartbreak. That being said I was kinda fucked up socially when I was younger (something I'm still trying to recover from, really) and didn't get a lot of positive attention from women until recently.
>Are you diagnosed with some kind of disorder?
I've been to a few counselling sessions and the screaning tests put me in the severe range for depression and anxiety. My doctor said I can just say the word and be put on anti-depressents/anti-anxiety meds. So I think it's save to say I have some kind of clinical depression or anxiety, even if it technically isn't official yet.
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whats the whole point of this life shit when youre an outcast
I wanna hang myself in my 40s, ill only go half on this whole being alive accepting my life for being bad thing
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>>17894463
well go volunteer at a homeless shelter, that should make you feel better
then try to make something of yourself
i guess
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>>17894505
Helping other outcasts wont make me normal
i think i can embrace death tonight
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>>17894505
This. But when they're not looking, suplex them
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Got a $100 amazon gift card for Christmas, but I don't use amazon.
What get?
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>>17894457
10 10$ giftcards to amazon
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>>17894457
You sound like an 80 year old person.
You can literally buy anything, you fucking retard.
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>>17894457
Pokemon cards.
And then post codes on /vp/
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Coworker called me a bully. 2016-12-27 03:03:43 Post No.17894444
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Coworker called me a bully.
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Both of us are older 20's, males, in an office job. He's Asian, 5'8" and I'm white, 6'3". We give each other shit over sports teams, but we talk friendly over games, movies, politics etc. He likes to publicly announce stuff about his sex life and I usually say a snarky comment (he recently announced he has eaten ass in front of other coworkers and we teased him for the entire shift). Today he was talking about his 3 month dry spell and I joked about how he should hire a prostitute. He freaked out and said I made him feel small. Is it a case of he can't handle the Bantz? Should I Not comment on his sexlife if he brings it up? I don't know how to tone down my already subdued demeanor.
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just aproach him and be like "my bad my dude" and then ask him the questions you asked /adv/
if you want to know something for sure, go to the source.
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I did, I asked him if he was serious, he said yes and I immediately apologized. I guess I'm wondering if it's fair game to joke about if he's bringing it up? Because having graphic sex talk in the office is off putting and that's the way I deal with it, I guess.
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>>17894444
Who the fuck cares that he's Asian and you're white? Why the fuck did you list your heights? Tone down your already subdued demeanor? What the fuck are you even talking about?
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Every once in a while I flirt with this girl I like, and she doesn't really react. For instance, I dropped something and she said "it's okay anon", and I looked up and said her she "looks nice in glasses" and she just said thanks and kinda blushed and looked away. Today she posted some calendar with hot dudes reading books and I said "who needs that calendar when you have me to look at" and she just disregarded it, but she didn't reject either which is fine I guess? I know I should just ask her out but I'm on break rn. She acts like she likes me in person so I don't know why she wouldn't flirt back.
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>>17894406
your quotes are retarded
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>>17894406
>who needs that calendar when you have me to look at
That was a really cringey thing to say. If I were her I would of ignored you too.
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>>17894412
Just kill me :^(
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former NEET needs to know what's out there 2016-12-27 02:04:12 Post No.17894296
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hey guys, i just started an electrician apprenticeship, and the experience blew my mind, for once i don't hate going to work.
has anyone else wandered around for years in jobs which were terrible fit? i did a lot of childcare stuff but i fuckin hated it; ditto for the restaurant and retail jobs. i accept that you have to show up and do your stuff and get paid and that somehow some people find in themselves as cashiers or other stuff and they suck it up and do it but i never could.
my last job was as a dishwasher and it was okay but i guess it wasn't okay that i wasn't into dishwashing. people kept yelling at me to go faster or have a better attitude but i just don't fucking care, it's fucking dishwashing, i'm just there to do my stuff and make my money and leave.
should some people simply not be in some jobs? since i'm smart, should i try to have a career? i'm too poor and sick and disengaged and alienated to enroll in classes at this point, but maybe that should be my next move. everyone seems to require seat hours, and that's hard if you're working.
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>should some people simply not be in some jobs?
Yes. For example, if you're an educated person working a warehouse full of uneducated people, you're going stand out. You would be a bad "cultural fit". It doesn't matter how hard you work. They may like your work ethic but they know in the long run you won't ever be content so they fire you eventually.
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>>17894941
i'm not educated, i'm just really smart
>They may like your work ethic but they know in the long run you won't ever be content so they fire you eventually.
i had no idea this was a thing. can someone else confirm?
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I have my degree and I have done some temp stuff but the only jobs I seem to hold down or get are in retail or call centers. I try to have some outside goal like writing a book or working on more school. Today I wanted to yell at a co-work for being rude to me. Bitch seems to crticsize my work despite the fact I know what I am doing.
Hey guys
20 and virgin here, have had gfs before but never got to the fucking
Should i be worried about this?
Also, is there any way for someone to know by observing you if you're a virgin?
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No and no
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>>17894281
>Should i be worried about this?
no because you have had gf and could find other gfs
>is there a way for people to know
no. i didnt lose my virginity until 22. no one knew.
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yes, you should be very worried if you have a history of sexual relationships that are sexless. you've been doing it wrong on a fundamental level.
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Can somebody just PLEASE tell me how the ever-loving FUCK do you build up self-esteem? Please no "don't care about what anybody thinks" or "confidence is fake make it up in your head", please, I want an actual, factual, proper applicable-to-real-life ANSWER.
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For me confidence came when I realized I could accomplish my own goals. I wanted to run a 5k in under 18 minutes so I worked hard and trained for a long time until one day I did it. For me that was a big deal for my confidence level.
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Stop comparing yourself to other people.
Some of the most alpha men I've met were short, bald, and had stutters. But they didn't care, and their confidence in themselves gave them an indescribable presence.
Study stoicism, read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Another book that helped me was How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne.
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>>17894322
What if I don't have any goals? Do I just make some up?
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I'll look them up, though I'm not sure if stoicism would work for me. I don't have much feelings to begin with and I'd hate to lose the last of them.
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Anybody ever date a stripper? 2016-12-27 01:41:07 Post No.17894236
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Anybody ever date a stripper?
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Some dancer claims to like me. But im probably just getting played right? The lap dances are PRETTY intense. Theyre basically her straddling me face to face, almost rubbing lips or her kissing my cheeks. She lets me bite her neck, choke her, and pull her hair. Is that normal stripper behavior? Ive only been to like three clubs but none of those girls did this. She comes to me smiling when we first see each other or even after she gets off stage or dancing with another guys she comes right back to me. We've talked a lot about all sorts of shit. She just sits next to me rubbing me and telling me about her day. But I mean, thats their jobs right? How do i reaf through the bullshit?
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Strippers despise their customers. No exceptions. She sees potential to use you for something though.
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>>17894245
Interesting theory. Care to elaborate?
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>>17894275
Who knows. Money, stability, affection.
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>all the people from your past are going to elite law schools, working on wall street, elite medical schools, or some other form of high profile, high earning work and doing what they dreamed of doing in high school
>many have hot fiancees and girlfriends/boyfriends
>meanwhile you're busy getting rekt by oneitises and an amazingly mediocre job that you have 0 passion for
>meanwhile you miss home, but don't' fit in, so you moved, and then you continue to miss home
>all of your friends moved on with their lives and you now have no fucking friends or companions in life
>just trying to figure out my life before ww3 comes and brings that all to shit
>but all they say
>is just "b urself"
Why is life so?
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Life is beautiful anon you just gotta find your own purpose. I'm in the same place you are and I love my life. Think about the stuff you wanna do before you die and then go do it. Also you need to get off of the internet and stop playing video games. Read a book, go for a walk, watch the sunset.
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Why are you so concerned with other people's lives? That is your problem.
Stop comparing your life to others. Life isn't comparable, everybody is given different advantages and disadvantages.
Study stoicism. Learn to practice discipline in your life. Don't worry about "they." Worry about "I."
Become the strongest version of yourself, that's all you need to do. A plumber can be happier than a Wall Street executive with ease if he has the right mindset and discipline.
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>>17894238
What are my advantages?
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Every website I've been to requires money to send messages or communicate.
Are there any actual GOOD website out there for singles that don't require a $30 membership each month to TALK to someone?
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Nope.
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What sites have you been to? Just curious.
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>>17894159
i have gotten a few dates from pof, not a successful relationships though. i cant imagine a dating site that requires a memebership to be much better than pof unless you're 30 plus.
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Alrighty guys, I'm ready to end it all. I have about ten 5 MG tablets of oxycodone. How many should I take to die? If I waste time I need to know exactly how many is needed for a person of my weight (about 130 pounds).
I also have about 20 2 MG valiums but they're three years old and no doubt lost some strength. Should I take them with it? I want this to be as painless and relaxing as possible, so mixing could be a bad idea though. I dunno, I'm not a pharmacist.
Thanks bunches!
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I hope you don't do it my friend
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Suicide is fucking boring. If I wanted to kill myself I'd sell all my shit and just move to Okinawa and be homeless at the beach. Or maybe I'd find a nice little job working by the water, free of any of the social ties I used to have. Worst thing that could happen is I die trying right?
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Just to note pills do have a really low success rate, more likely you'll end up in a comma hooked up to dailisis with permanent liver/kidney damage and a butt load of medical bills.
Most people who try to od are really desperately crying for help, for someone to shake them from the deep inadequacies of life.
Skip this step op,
There's just misery in where you're heading
go get help.