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>>17894139

>is it possible to live a normal life

define 'normal'.

>should i stop watching this
>or should i not give a fuck and live a balanced life

you've already decided the latter was possible.

you're basically asking
>should i give up the stuff i love?
>or continue to life my life as is which has no consequences.

whats ur problem here?

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>>17894167
>whats ur problem here?

I really don't know to be honest. It's like.. I know I'm not a fuckup, I live a comfortable life. I just really fucking enjoy this trashy weeaboo shit in my spare time and it makes me feel guilty.

"Normal" life: Being someone that can provide for themselves, interact with other human beings on a functional level, form relationships with others and is overall, happy.

Generally I feel like a "normal" person. I'm pretty happy most of the time with myself, it's just weirdly I feel ashamed of weeaboo trash. Like "Shouldn't I be doing something better with my time rather than playing fighting games with high pitched 5'0" tall Japanese lolis with enough superpowers to be classified as a nuclear weapon? This game doesn't even make sense". Certainly no woman I'd ever date will like this shit or be into it, it would always be something they'd have to "tolerate" like my mother tolerating my father's love of shlocky sci-fi/fantasy bullshit.

It's a stupid thread, I know. But I still feel like a trashy weeb.

>>17894181

its not a stupid thread. you're working out your issues, and even if i was being an ass in my approach, its helping you dissect the issue itself.

you want a normal life... but you already have one. you just also like some weeb shit.

and thats fine anon. you already do all the normal life things you talk about. everyone has pleasures, everyone has guilty pleasures.

im like you. my problem is i try to date other geeks but they all tend to be casuals. i can go out in my power ranger shirt and get hit on they say 'OH I LOVE POWER RANGERS' but they're filthy normies who havent actually seen teh show since they were kids, wheras i have it on dvd and watch it.

point im trying to make is if you're happy and you support yourself does it matter how you spend your spare time?

wives have always tolerated man's weird hobbies and will continue to do so. the big difference now is that women are also allowed to like this weird shit so as time goes on were more and more likely to find a match who at least likes something in the same genre as us.

Ignore the ifunny watermark, was a quick google search

>>17894127
It depends. A second reply can be okay but only if it is completely different from the previous post. So do NOT send the same message to them again, you can refer to it but not repeat it.

If they don't reply to this either, then give up and move on.

Never ever do it, not even with friends. It displays neediness and makes you look like a loser.

Send a text, no response? Move on.

This is a must when dating a woman. never ever send multiple texts. Even if she doesn't respond for a week, do not send another text.

Do no such thing.. you will hate yourself for it.

>>17894063

if you can't figure this out on your own you're just going to leave this situation feeling even more retarded for not being able to do this to a bottom of the barrel type girl.

it will be hilarious though

>>17894087
I really don't want her to catch on before the final score. I'm pretty bad at pretending as it is.

>>17894062
>should I do drugs?

lol, what

All in all it comes down to yourself, but from what I see I doubt you'll get any high since it's nicotine free, it's expensive and you'll party look as a cunt if you vape in public, engulfing dozens in your fumes

I'd change your rhetorical question to

"I've never tried alcohol before. Should I drink this non alcoholic beer that's 3 times as expensive as the alcoholic one?"

Don't. Things like smoking and drinking are done for the effects. Anyone who says they do it for any other reason is straight up lying to you and doesn't want to seem like an addict.

You're not going to get any "enjoyment" out of it because it's not some sort of accomplishment. Should you take away the potency, you remove the purpose.

What you're saying is more along the lines of, "I know I've never drank alcohol. Should I drink non-alcoholic beer at events instead?"

The answer is still no. Pretending to be hard when you're not is only going to get you in trouble when you have to prove yourself.

>>17894081
>>17894086
OP here.
True, I'm not in it for the nicotine. I should have mentioned I have tried a friends vape.

I don't want to argue for vaping but I enjoyed tasting different flavors without resorting to snacking or ruining my appetite. Obviously it's not a perfect flavor copy of the real thing but a small bottle of e-juice lasts longer than a fruit or pastry of equal value.

Just can't decide if I want to put my self at unknown risks(no studies for long term effects yet) for a little bit of enjoyment. What would you do /adv?

Also when ever we say goodbye we say "love you" and "love you too" ect. It might not mean anything but it's still something that's happening.

You know people literally kill eachother over this kind of shit, also pretty shitty to go after another dudes bitch

>>17894812
/thread

Life sucks. Women suck. Society sucks. Humanity sucks.
If there was a button I'd press it to kill you all.

>>17894035
I hate attractive people. I hate them. They won the genetic lottery and will benefit from it their entire lives and maybe even after, and they didn't do shit to deserve it.

I hate marriage. Not because I'm unhappy with my life but because it's changed to social dynamic so that I can't have friends.

The men are absorbed and socially dominated by their wives.

The women are all off limits for casual conversation because I'm a man and they're married.

>>17893971
You aren't wrong. But the circumstances matter. Don't tell women how much you earn, just lie. Or don't marry at all. Why would you anyway? There are many other things to do in life?

>>17893979
I want to get married. I want to find a woman who is attracted to me and loves me. Someone who respects our relationship. I'm cynical though and don't think that's really possible because no woman likes a nerd. They all want their kids to have good genes.

>>17893985
Will someone like me ever find that kind of relationship of mutual love and respect?

Completly situational.

One thing I do is ram it in all the way and keep humping further. The pubic bone presses the clit and the penis base presses the G-spot.

Doing short strokes and then a long one, removing all the way and ramming back in when she begs is cool. Taking it out mid orgasm and ramming in when it's almost over is awesome.

Keeping up with beats on music might be funny if the two of you are into funny sex, but orgasm wise it won't help. Better to hump to the rythm of her breathing/moaning.

Listening to music is not mandatory. I've spent ten years of my sex life never doing it and not having the curiosity to, until a girl introduced it to me and gf in a menage. Now we do it eventually. It's cool to see how many times a playlist can loop if you're having sex for hours.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xWEGNVaum_k

>>17893935
Next time you masturbate, pay attention to the rhythm.

That's how they want it, too.

>>17893882
Have you talked to her since?

>>17893882
Go find your backup soulmate

>>17893882

>I found my soulmate when I was 15

No, you didn't.

>>17893761
Bible

>>17893772
don't even

>>17893775
Have you ever read it?

Just read Exodus. There's a lot of good messages in there.

Think about it. You're asking for some super book that will magically change your life. None of those books are anything more than flavor of the month cash grabs.

Instead you could always read scripture that has existed and remained relevant for thousands of years. You don't even have to be Christian to see the value these stories hold.

Just a thought.

you ignore them and do what you gotta do to not become homeless again.

>>17893751
yeah

but they're people close to me. I don't care what john smith thinks about my situation. this would be my therapist and my family.

I said that if the disability goes away I'll be stuck at McDonald's and they just told me to be more positive...

So the issue is in the relationship with these people...They want to have a relationship, but I have strong resentment for someone who just says I'm dramatizing the damage of being homeless and without training.

You are being dramatic but yeah, there is an immediate threat so it is half justified being dramatic but youshould cool down. Stay calm. The options you give arenot reasonable. What you need is a solid place to stay with a simple job for half the time and try to getboth feeton the ground again. Go live with mom again? Or talk to the ppl giving benefits that you need more time and help and that you actually want to do things eventually. You do havean obligation to do shit because ifyoutruly have some aspirations then work on them dude. Gl, youseem like a smart guy but try tocalm down!

>>17893695
She's 15

Fuck off

>>17893695
>Is dating a sibling's friend of the opposite gender off-limits?
Only if you are a child and believe in something like "I saw her first"

Your real issue that you should be considering is
>I'm 20 and she is 15 (give or take)

Fuck your dilemma, don't date girls under the legal age, don't fantasise about them and don't approach them, you clearly have issues and the authorities should keep an eye on you.

>>17893738
Thanks for your help
>>17893756
I don't think it's a "I saw her first" thing, since he clearly did, they're friends

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There's more to come she's still calling

>>17893637

>be 20 years old
>be 95% sure I'll make it
>95% of 20 year olds end up being wrong

why don't you try college?

>>17893637
that games a joke, thinks its hard to be any good at that basic no skill pos game. just dont do it you will be 100% wasting ur time even if you make it.

>>17893625

duck out if the compromises make you miserable. duck out if you get miserable. duck out if it just makes you uncomfortable.

the goal is not to force a relationship to keep going. its to find a relationship worth keeping.

there is literally no benefit to frankensteining a relationship other than possibly sex, but you're better off withotu it if it isn't working.

emjoy the relationship for as long as you can. and if it goes south, leave, cuz all you're doing is preventing yourself from finding the good one that might last.

lasting isn't the point, it isn't the goal.

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>>17893625
in a 10 year relationship
my friends are in similarly long relationships

we all quietly talk about how long term relationships kinda suck.