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>>17892988
>philosophy major

are you independently wealthy ?

what kind of job do you think you can get with a philosophy major ?

>>17893004

Independently not really. My parents, although not together anymore, are wealthy though so money/student debt is not an issue for me. I'd like to go to law school, but preferably medical school since I am taking the pre requisites required. I basically just need to finish a bachelors degree. There are no jobs with a BA philosophy degree

Philosophy is a joke degree. Switch your major to sociology, biology, or at least something respectable that is in the same vein of what you're already doing.

>>17892982
Do you watch a lot of porn

The general zeitgeist of relationships of younger people is very sexualized so I wouldn't say you're different but it's also not the best if you're wishing for a long term meaningful relationship

>>17893068
>>17893068
>Do you watch a lot of porn

Yes but I've been cutting back recently

I understand that sexual urges are natural. I'm not upset with myself for that. But the thing I'm concerned about is to the extent i let them get to my head

I'm getting over an ex right now and I can't stop thinking about them sexually either. I go jerk off to their pics then feel like complete shit right after. And thinking about them fcking someone else turns me on then makes me completely fucking hate myself right after.

Might be worth mentioning, I'm currently studying an access course in the UK in college that was supposed to help me get into university here, I dont suppose that would have any bearing on my ability to get a student visa in the US?

Also do you think I could look for work on a vacation visa while i'm in the USA that could secure me a job without being naturalized? Or would no legal employer accept me due to this?

anyone?

>>17892952
>Also are there community colleges one could join that could enable me to get a student visa without being naturalized?

You can study at most community colleges - just expect to pay ridiculous rates for it that you likely will not be able to afford (you can not apply for the big majority of scholarships as a foreigner).

>Is it a fiancé visa?

Yes

>Also I would have a place to stay, but after the money I bring with me runs out I guess I would be working with other illegals?

You are correct.

>I dont suppose that would have any bearing on my ability to get a student visa in the US?

Getting into an US college as a foreigner is not difficult. Paying for it is the problem - as you need to show the money upfront (and scholarships are usually no option).

>Also do you think I could look for work on a vacation visa while i'm in the USA that could secure me a job without being naturalized? Or would no legal employer accept me due to this?

No you could not.
The only jobs you will be able to land will abuse you and pay awfully.

Keep asking away though

Bc and apprentice is still learning why would they pat someone who doesn't know what they're doing and is a potential liability

>>17892927
Because in order to get someone out of a system you have to put something in it. You will eventually run out of tradesmen with that logic.

Besides isn't there bullshit work that you can't really fuck up that you could give an apprentice till they prove themselves?

>>17892938
Every company would rather a different company take the risk on an apprentice I'm not saying its a perfect system but facts are facts

If she's cut contact from you I advice you to write out all your thoughts and feelings (bare all) as though you were going to send it to her. Save it. Don't send it. Move on. Do this whenever you get the urge to contact her and need to release your turmoil.

Just don't contact her. She's not worth that. Anything you say will just be a cry for attention, self pity, or an attack on her. So may as well say anything.

>>17892946
>Advise.
> May as well NOT say anything.

>>17892946
She had legit medical issues, but for me, I feel I need to do it.

>>17892912
>>17892912
how do you get autism bux? I've never cashed in.

you dont get it

also thats not the main issue right now

How about you stop acting like a lazy piece of shit expecting ppl to cater to your every whim it's called work not play for a reason

>>17892844
try pof. the girls on tinder have ridiculous standards.

you could lose your virginity if you tried. go out with an ugly girl to build your confidence and for experience.

>>17892844
Damn bro u psyched yourself out

Who the fuck cares if the girls are out of your league. They have to swipe om you too. Zero rejection. It perfect.

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>>17892785

Due to me personally betraying the trust of others in the past and regretting it wholeheartedly and Z being my best friend, I can absolubtly not live with it. I snapped at them that they have to man up for their actions and tell Z the truth, and if they didnt, then I would tell Z. I wonder how R is planning to be good friends with someone when he has this kind of secret in the back of his head? How do you go and hang out and show love for a friend when you know that you have betrayed them? From past experiences of me cheating on my ex I know showing love to someone you have silently betrayed DOES NOT WORK. As soon as my ex heard about the ultimatum I set them she went nagging at me to stay out of other people their lives and that I should respect their choice of keeping it a secret.

This situation is really fucking with my head. I share so many awesome experiences with Z and we talk about our feelings about life alot. I can't fucking hang out with Z in a normal way knowing that I know something that would fuck him over. Also how can I even trust R keeping his hands of my ex when it has shown that his personality prefers going for the easy way and avoiding all moral responsibility towards his friends?

Since that my ex has told me that G has been pretty depressed due to me threatening to tell Z if they didn't, I have apoligised to G and I have retracted my ultimatum about telling Z if they slacked on it. Both G and Z have a very passive unconfrontational personality. From my ex I have heard that both have admitted cutting all contact with me if I would ever confess to Z. What do I do or how do I cope?

TL;DR: Female friend and guy friend of mine keeping their makeout session a secret towards their mutual friend, her ex. Currently me coping with the consequences of my contact with them, my ex, and my betrayed bestfriend.

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>>17892794
you kind of owe it to your bestie to inform him of that b.s.

just do it anonymously create fake email type in all caps act different etc

otherwise i only read the TLDR the rest is too much

>>17892785
>>17892794
You sound like a self-righteous hypocrite, even though you're probably not. You act like your friends owe you or anyone to keep their hands off from ex relationships. That's hilarious, really. Addressing a move onto a friend's ex is only a sign of affection. There's no obligation.

What gave you the impression that you had any say in R's and your ex's business? If I were your friend, that alone is reason enough to tell you off in front of all of your other friends. Then, the thing with R and G. You hear something from someone else, your ex, and act like it's a fact and YOUR call to do anything about it? Are you for real?

Perhaps you're just a bit confused about a thing. R is not your friend anymore. R doesn't want to be your friend again.
R wants to hang out with your ex. R wants to get it on with G. You might be hanging out, but his interests clearly are elsewhere.

Z is your friend. Having that said, you have to treat Z like an adult human being and have him take care of his own business. If he was ever bothered by what G does and reaches out to you, it's your job to tell him to stop caring about what G does, just like you have to stop caring about who your ex hanges out with. Ex means ex.

>>17892779
>Any failsafe ways to make it hurt less?

yes

just say no

your anal tract was biologically designed to excrete poop, not be a receptable for penii

pay attention to pain, it is natures way of saying - get a clue

>>17892781
Dont listen to this madman, OP.

For you to have less pain, you have to be prepared by your man.
Caress the anus, 1 finger massage, 2 fingers, a lot of lube, a small toy, a bigger one, and finally : the dick.
That take time, and efforts, of course, but after all this you may enjoy it for real :)

Good luck anonette, make sure you're clean down there.

>>17892779
>above average LENGTH
needle dick bf confirmed
enjoy feeling like a ball point pen is up your pooper

>>17892740
>make yourself a new gender
>get a gender studies degree
>make shitty vlogs
>make a Patreon
>go to war against the trolls
>post inane shit on twitter

Shit man, I could just go on.

by adressing your selfesteem issues instead.

you're already aware that you do what you do for attention and not to fight social prejustice

all might not be lost yet

>>17892745
This. Then justify your new gender to some big name school. Make them create a 6 figure salary job for you, and never do any real work for the rest of your life

>>17892737
>bc of booze?

yes

lol

>>17892737
>Is this normal bc of booze?

yeah but you probably still want to in the back of your mind. the booze just made you act with out thinking.

>>17892737
bump

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The last time we were in an almost identical situation, he again told me that he could only pay about $100 less than we had agreed on.
That time, when I told him that "I need to think about it", he was in a bit of a hurry, and pretty much immediately replied with "nevermind, I can pay the whole amount", which leads me to believe that he was just trying to get a discount.

My questions are:
Does it seem like - based on my description of the events - that he's just trying to get a $100 discount?
Also, should I take the $900 and be done with it? I'm currently very broke, and could really use the money, but I'm also such a fucking jew, that losing $100 makes me pretty mad.

I'm pretty sure I won't be doing business with him anymore.

>>17892742
Just take the 900 and don't do business with him again. At this point he has the upper hand

>>17892998
Would you care to elaborate on what you mean by "the upper hand", in this case?

To be completely honest, I'm not sure if I'm above beating the shit out of him. I'd of course prefer not to, not only because of the moral questionability of doing so, but also because that'd most likely get the cops involved. Which is obviously something I'd prefer didn't happen.

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It's called being a child. You're arrogant and have no experience with people and the real world and lack social skills and understanding, hence you get frustrated at things you don't know how to approach or interact with and act like a dick to save face

Pretty common in the west and most kids lose it as soon as they get a job, but some particularly socially inept and world-inexperienced people like yourself keep it up

Travel more, work more and interact with more people. Learn more skills and interact with the world openly. Challenge yourself around and with others.

These will all passively make you less of a dick over time.

That, and have goals and targets. Having goals and targets and the discipline to stick to them stops you caring what people think and say as much because it doesn't affect your goals or targets. It also centres you and gives you something to talk about and focus on.

Also meditation, it forces you to confront and learn exactly why you're acting like an impulsive little manchild when people do or say things you don't like and as a result makes you less likely to do it again in the future.

>>17892728
i work as a waiter and im 18 also, at work i am completely fine, but everywhere else i am how i am usually. i dont hate people or anything im just a toxic cunt and i think playing video games made me like that since i was a kid.

>>17892721
Sounds like you never had any close friends or siblings. Do people irl actually like you?

It's not racist. I personally prefer porn where the man looks as much like me as possible it's a natural reaction not worth reading too much into

>>17892690
Just means you're a little bitch op.

>>17892692
The reason it turns me off is that I believe she knows these black dudes are racist against white people and she does it anyway because she herself is a white anti white racist. I like white women who are loyal to their men. Not white women who get in relationships with white men just so they can cheat on them with black men.

>>17892676
Guys with shaved pubes are gross, especially if they're mildly hairy - it looks ridiculous.
Ask your girlfriend to shave herself, don't insist if she says no.
I used to wax it completely for my boyfriend, then did laser hair removal to get rid of it permanently and never asked anything in return.
Guys don't have to do everything girls do in terms of skin care and girls don't have to do everything that guys do. It's fine like that.

>>17892676
My gf prefers me to have trim short pubes but not completely bald

>>17892679
fuck you, you faggot cunt.