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Was this within the realm of pathetic but sane? Kinda boring but I'm worried about this 2016-12-28 01:12:50 Post No.17897369
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Was this within the realm of pathetic but sane? Kinda boring but I'm worried about this
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My ex and I each think the other broke up with them, that was over a month ago. About 3 weeks ago I texted her to see if she wanted to go to a choir show, she replied no, the next night she texted me at 11:30 asking where I was but I was already asleep. The next day I texted her and called her, she told me never to contact her again.
A week later she sent me some terse texts about seeing me around town, then later said her roommate wanted to invite me to their Christmas party. I said I accept, she said she wouldn't be there, I said OK. I went out and bought her a gift. Later when I asked her when the party was she said she didn't know.
This next part I definitely shouldn't have done, a gift from someone you don't want in your life isn't something you really want, but I decided maybe it was a signal she was waiting for so I waited outside for her roommate to take a smoke break to hand it off and gauge her.
Anyhow, she pulled up in a car with some other roomies, she went inside fast after we stared at each other for a few seconds, and I handed the gift off to one of the roomies and bounced. One of the roomies texted me about the party at 12:30 AM, I showed up, hung out a while and left.
The day after Christmas I sent my ex another text thanking her for being gracious, she said to thank the roomie. Then she sent me another text saying she hoped she'd never see me again after what I'd done to her. I should've just said OK and sorry I hurt you at this point but instead retreaded the whole thing, saying I loved her with all my heart forever, that I wished I had been this and that, that this was the hardest way to learn, just went on like that. She responded, I responded. The next day I sent her another text saying I shouldn't have showed up and shouldn't have made excuses and that that was it, I promise.
How weird/crazy did I come off here? Was it irredeemably so, or if I shake it off now am I just a standard clingy manchild?
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dude...
obviously both you and your ex want more contact
the weirdest thing is you making this thread?
I mean, this sort of thing is everyday life.
Maybe you are getting far too emotional about events?
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>How weird/crazy did I come off here?
same person as before, the only weird thing you did was make this thread.
I am thinking that all of these things that you think are bombs are just firecrackers
Nothing is weird in and of itself.
Tinfoil does not make people crazy.
If I would advise you, I would say start recognizing that the world is much more 'weird'
every day, than you might think
It doesnt help to call yourself weird, you are likely one of the least weird person in the room.
Why? Because the weirdest person doesn't even question their weirdness, they just stab and babble. You are far from that
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That's what I'm hoping, that this is sort of a bland topic. She's the only girl I've been with and I got a late start (after college). I'm definitely way too emotional about this, it's interfering with the rest of my life, and I don't really care. I was most worried about coming off like a stalker and damaging things completely if they weren't already, but I'm hoping if I back off and get some perspective it'll be alright. Thanks for the input.
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Why flirt with a married woman? 2016-12-28 01:09:09 Post No.17897358
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Why flirt with a married woman?
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I'm a married woman and very much in love with my husband. Yet, all the time I get guys I'm friends with online trying to flirt with me. Just the other day, some student of mine from last semester started messaging me on social media about the holidays. I was congenial. Now he's messaging me about how beautiful I am and how he had a crush on me. I don't want to be rude so I just say stuff like "thank you, that's very flattering, but I'm married". Yet, they keep doing it. Many of them live in other states too, which I really don't get!
I would say there are probably 5~ guys at any point in time doing this to me. Why do they do this and how should I respond to it? I always just try to be nice and be a friend, but sometimes as a result of that this slow burn of flirtation goes on for years and I don't know how to confront it because I don't want to be a bitch and, in some cases, I do want to maintain the friendship.
For example, I met this guy at a convention five or six years ago now. We just talked about video games and movies for months and then he starts hitting on me more and more, knowing I was in a relationship (with my now husband) at the time. He has never stopped this. Even on my wedding night, he responded to the pictures of soc. med. with flirtatious comments. Yet, this guy is someone I consider a good friend whenever he's not trying to flirt with me.
How do I respond and why are they doing this?
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>>17897358
Because you're unobtainable and it makes people want you more. Think about it: it doesn't work out for them because of a circumstance they can't control, not because of their own failings. It's an easy way to have emotional (or sexual) attachments without the risk.
I have problems with this too, especially now that I'm in a very fulfilling relationship. People see the confidence from being happy and are attracted to that. I know it's annoying, but take comfort in that at least you're radiating with happiness and that's pretty cool.
Honestly, I would tell them you have boundaries and don't appreciate the way they're talking to you. If they don't respect that, they're not your friend.
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As a man in a relationship, one of my biggest concerns with a woman is when she "accepts" flirting from another man. You have the power to shut it down. You "not wanting to be a bitch" comes off as "you actually like the attention" to your significant other. Lay it out in no uncertain terms. If they want to be friends, then stop it there. If they want more in ANY way, it can not and will not continue. Block communications.
However, I can't claim to 100% understand your view. Its easy for me to drop ancillary relationships for my main focus. If I believe the other is honestly hurt by it.
Tl;dr - would your significant other approve of the behavior on either end? If not, I believe you have your answer.
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>>17897406
That makes sense. I just don't have many friends so I don't like to drive people away. The one friend who does this a lot is, as I said, an old friend, and one of a small number of people that contacts me frequently to talk about pop-culture things.
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Again, I feel bad saying anything negative, but I think setting boundaries might be the best way to deal with it. It's worse when it's something like a student, because then he can just go complain about me to my university though, or so I fear.
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my gf has started getting /fit/ again and I'm worried that she will realize she's out of my league or some chad from the gym will steal her. What do
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>>17897338
Accept the challenge. Improve yourself too.
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>>17897342
This
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She will dump you if you sit on your ass. So get up and hit the gym with her
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Guys help me out here. I'm planning on taking a shower with a girl, she's almost my gf.
The question is:
Should I clean my ass while showering with her?
I usually pass soap on my hand then rub it down there just to clean it a bit, it helps a lot. But I don't feel like that would be something sexy to do in front of her.
Should I not clean it and leave it not clean (Although it usually is clean, but still) or should I be hygienic and do it while she watches and maybe gets disgusted?
Please help
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>planning on taking a shower with a girl
>thinks about actual showering
best kek moment of 2016
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Clean it before you shower with her. Boom. Problem solved.
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>>17897322
If you're showering with a girl you're not in there to clean up.
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So, I fucked up, apparently. I snapped at my gf n said some Shit I can't take back. She's very hurt. The thing is, at the root of everything, I meant what I said. How I said it was fucked up and unfair. I need to apologize, I want to. But she's being distant n quiet. I don't wanna get to the point we're giving ultimatums.I also don't think I was all wrong and don't want to come off completely weak and let whatever problems we have continue because I'm embarrassed of how I spoke to her.
Tl; Dr - how do you apologize to your significant other for how you spoke, but maintain you're point and strength in the relationship without coming off as insincere?
Pic unrelated.
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>>17897321
It'd help to know what you said to her
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>>17897409
This lad McNad
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>>17897409
Basically.
>me- you're selfish, self centered. You say one thing and act another. Don't say you love me and then wait for my family to be in the hospital to ask how I'm doing.
>her - my god, I can't believe you. That's so mean. I'm very hurt. Etc etc.
Really, I shouldn't have said it how I did, attacking her. But I honestly do feel like I'm taken for granted at times. Hard to draw that line between me being selfish, and her not putting in effort, ya know?
>Move down by the beach
>qt neighbor my age next door
>cop her number
>she invites me to her party, to hangout 1 on 1 with drinks/weed and to hangout with her best friend (guy) and his gf
>just left a longterm relationship with some ass ugly dude and I also just left a longterm relationship
>she is extremely quiet and shy
>texts me to invite first but hardly texts anything else
Am I friendzoned? Is the relationship different cause we're neighbors? Is she just shy? What the fuck is going on here?
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Go to party try to fuck you'll find out the answers pretty quick
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>>17897248
She invited me out for New Years, I should probably find out then if I play my cards right
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>>17897235
>>she is extremely quiet and shy
>Am I friendzoned?
>Is she just shy?
I tihnk you just replied to yourself
t. shy guy, who is shy even when trying hard not to
I cheated on my ltr boyfriend at a Christmas party over the holidays and I feel horrible. I want to tell him but we've been together for 5 years and recently moved in together. If I tell him I fear it will make his depression worse. How do I live with the guilt or get over it?
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Tell him, lying whore.
Then let him dump your low-value ass.
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Tell him and break up. No relationship can survive from this, and if your bf try to stay together he has no spine.
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>>17897213
Hnnng this is my fetish.
What did you do? Who was it with? What was the race of the guy you cheated with/whats the race of your bf? Will you do it again?
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Yeah.
Let this shit begin
I need true opinions
not sugar covered compliments
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Wear some kind of makeup that defines your eyes more, lose a tiny bit of weight, and find a better suiting hairstyle and you'll be a qt.
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>>17897191
You're a 5.
Could maybe be a 7 if you were slim, and 8 if you were toned. Nothing stands out as exceptionally bad or good.
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You have nice eyes. I agree with the first post. Lose some weight and get a stylish haircut and you'll be atleast a 7
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Is there such a thing as the female equivalent of a sugar daddy? How possible would it be for me to find a rich sugar mommy willing to help me pay for college and buy me nice things in exchange for my "company". I live in a rich area filled with old people. If this were viable how would I find her?
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Well to answer your first question, the term would be a "sugar mommy" and it's likely they exist, though I can't imagine they are very common. The few I've ever encountered (online and from talking to people who've experienced it) are typically quite old, usually married and looking for some kind of play partner. If you were into some fetish stuff you might find more people. Though to be honest, if you're not a cute girl or underaged, I don't think you'd be much of a candidate unless you were exceptionally attractive, which at that point why find a sugar mommy when you can swallow your pride and fuck dudes for money since they'll be more likely to pay. Or do porn.
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>>17897210
the males are called "gigolos"
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>Is there such a thing as the female equivalent of a sugar daddy?
There is. But first you must needs claim a salt wife.
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So I just got back with my crazy ex and everything seemed fined. Two weeks later, she asked if she could have the numbers of my family members, I was hesitant at first but relented. A day late they were asking me if I got engaged to her. Confused, I confronted her and she confessed everything (that she texted all of them that we were getting married soon and would have babies), now I didn't get mad but I was a little freaked out because she didn't consent with me first. Now shes texting and calling like fatal attraction...then telling me its over...then telling me she loves me.
Wut the fuck do???
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>>17897156
RIP anon
You just literally an hero'd yourself.
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>>17897168
This
RIP anon, you brought this upon yourself.
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ooo000OOooo shit
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I'm an 18 year old male and I frequently masturbate. The skin on my glans has actually fissured (it doesn't bleed). It does not go away when erect. Any cures?
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Take a break for a couple days.
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An 18 year old shouldn't fap daily. Try to keep it at every other to every third day. When you hit your 20s, keep it at once every 4-5 days.
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>>17897742
Why
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So I'm applying for a phd and I have my personal statement and letter of intent here. Can anyone help me make them better or give me helpful tips? I'm going to be busting through my applications later today so any help would be appreciated!
This one is my letter of intent
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This is my personal statement
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Put a line between your paragraphs so I'm not reading a wall of blather
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>>17897138
From reading it that very last sentence will be removed. Made sense when I [spoiler][/spoiler]was writing it.
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Guys is it possible for someone to make a full recovery from paranoid schizophrenia? I go somewhere and I hear people in my head calling me a bitch and a pussy and some other mean stuff. It makes it hard to be out in public. It can be pretty uncomfortable when I have to be.
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nope. You're fucked for life.
best you can hope for is to cope with your symptoms and maybe dull them with anti-psychotics. Though, everything becomes dulled with medication. It's why schizo's don't like to take their meds.
It will get worse the longer it goes untreated.
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>>17897159
its getting worse and its being treated.
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>>17897159
To add, you need to understand why you hear voices in the first place. Schizophrenia is bad wiring in the brain which took root during fetal development. What's happening is your neurons are firing off without any stimuli in very much the same way as a dream. You are legit hearing things. Your mind thinks they are real because the neurons that say "HEY YOU JUST HEARD THIS." really are going off. It's just they skipped the whole ear part.
Humans tend to remember bad things, criticism much more than positive things. So this is why, more than likely, the voices you hear are so god damn critical. Most schizo's report the voices they hear are from family members.
They never shut up, don't they? Fucking god how I wished they would just shut the fuck up at times. I drown them out with music the best I can but that doesn't help much out in public. I don't get them often but when I do? fuck that shit.
My parents seem to love and care for one another. I would never think one would be cheating on the other. About a week back, my mom accidentally left her phone in my room. I heard a notification sound to check it out. It was from some guy who was around my mom's age. He was contacting her through an online dating app, telling her to meet up with him and to wear something pretty. I didn't answer, and I just gave the phone back with no questions asked. Now I'm really worried. What can I do in this situation?
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Tell your dad immediately. He deserves to know.
Your mom is being selfish and a whore.
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>>17897137
this destroys the family
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>>17897139
Incorrect. The infidelity destroys the family.
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Thinking of selling my body 2016-12-27 11:39:38 Post No.17897087
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Thinking of selling my body
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First of all, im a guy just to get that out there since ive seen girls post similar shit.
I've pretty much given up on everything. My social life sucks, I'm a broke student, never had a gf anything like that and romance seems hopeless so I've come to the conclusion that I may as well make money to buy what I want by selling my body. It's near impossible to find jobs without experience and I can't be bothered anymore, I try but it never works.
Besides the life story, how can I sell my body. anyone know how I can get paid, I'm told I have a good body. I just wanna find a rich Asian milf to be my sugar mama . Anyone done anything like this, did it get you much?
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pls help. I'm serious
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Absolutely no idea. Sorry Anon. Good luck though.
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Make friends with rich old white single men. They all secretly love boy pucci.