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hey, have noone to talk so i rant here.
Me and my gf were old friends, then school ends, we are together and fucking. Every thing is perfect. She tells me that fapping is cheating and if she gets to know I fapped she leaves me. At first I was ok, no problem. Lots of sex, why couldn't I keep it in until I fuck her?
Year goes by. As we all know not as much sex as in first months. I get hornier and hornier. Catch myself looking at girls at my job, try to not do that, cause im a good boyfriend. I know i wont cheat, I know I wont touch another girl or even flirt with anyone cause i have a responsibility to my love, only one.
As she gets into university and has a job as well we meet very rarely. My balls are turning into watermelons. I still love her and she loves me. I start waking up and seeing bed full of my juices. Haven't had wet dreams since i was 15. She says wet dreams are cheating as well, cause when i sleep I might be thinking about other girls. But she doesn't leave me, but gets really angry every time I have a wet dream BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T HAD SEX FOR LIKE A WEEK FFS.
Shit.
I start fapping once in a while. 6 months pass. I dunno how, but she starts to question me and my private bedroom things. I lie to her, I say I haven't fapped. I mess up, she catches my lies. I tell her everything I just wrote. She leaves me.
I dunno how I fell, Its been a few hours now.
Do I feel bad about myself or do I tell myself that shes a moron?
Should I feel guilty? Is it my fault?
We spent so much time together I lost my ties with my old pals, and my best friend just got a GF.
Before her i was a virgin. Kissed a lot of girls, never fucked one. Should I go out and be a fuckboy or try to find a long term relationship once again?
Mby I should run back to her with roses n shit?
TLDR : Im 20. My gf left me because she caught me fapping. Wat do?
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>>17895528
If what you say is true, then she is a crazy bitch. Why should she be in charge of your private life? Do you pester her about her life? A romantic partner shouldn't be all that you seek in life. If she breaks up with you simply because you have other needs that are unfulfilled by the limitations that nobody can help to stop (college is important), then you have to ask yourself, is she really looking out for your best interests, or just for herself?
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>>17895535
She should not m8, thats the point. Shes an amazing girl, haven't seen a better one. And she understands that and asks me to be even better guy.
But I have literally no private life. None. I think I love her, but I have lost everything that I was before her and shit got me scared day by day.
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Different anon here, a femanon.
I love when my boyfriend masturbates because I know he is relieving himself. We meet up several times a week but I can't always be there, or I'm not always in the mood. And I want him to relieve sexual tension, so I think it's good that he faps.
By even I masturbate to help me sleep sometimes.
Tl;dr if your girl doesn't encourage masturbation when you can't have sex then she isn't looking out for your wellbeing, and isn't right for you
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>>17895528
Sounds like shes cheating desu.
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>>17895580
Exactly the same. Not to mention the once a month thing, and sometimes I just feel so shit at that time I don't feel like giving him a bj (although I do, regularly).
Provided they don't do it so much we can't actually have sex with them (porn addiction etc.) , it's absolutely fine.
>>17895528
OP, your girlfriend is batshit crazy and not wanting to look after your needs. Dump her.
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Don't run back to this woman. She sounds very immature and unreasonable. When people hear how you "cheated" on her she will look like a moron. Right now you should be having fun and meeting new people. You are still young and able to do the things you love. Make the most of it. You will meet more women in the future. For now enjoy your hobbies or get new hobbies. Just concentrate on yourself.
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So guys, now she wants me back. Says it was painfull but she cant live without me... Wat do?
Do I just get back with her or do I say no?
It is not only about fapping.
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>>17895562
>Shes an amazing girl
She obviously isn't, dumbass.
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Dump that retarded biatch.
She is obviously trying to 'control' you by telling you what to do and what not.
She punishes you if you dont listen and rewards you when you do.
Leave now OP before it's too late
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>>17895528
>She tells me that fapping is cheating
Fucking abort.
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>>17895528
>She says wet dreams are cheating as well, cause when i sleep I might be thinking about other girls.
I find it hard to believe anyone would be this dumb. Considering fapping to be cheating is depressingly common, but I've never heard of anyone thinking wet dreams, something you can't really control, is cheating.
If anything she should be worried if they didn't happen in that situation.
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>>17895528
>Do I feel bad about myself or do I tell myself that shes a moron?
Tell yoursel? She IS a moron, plain and simple
>Should I feel guilty? Is it my fault?
No x2
>We spent so much time together
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sunk_cost#Loss_aversion_and_the_sunk_cost_fallacy
>Before her i was a virgin
Irrelevant, you're not a virgin anymore, stop caring about it
>Should I go out and be a fuckboy or try to find a long term relationship once again?
Do whatever you want, you're 20 for fuck sake, do you really need a permission from a chinese cartoon imageboard?
>Mby I should run back to her with roses n shit?
What for, so she could try yet again make you feel guilty for being 20 and having a sexual drive?
>>17895582
Isn't it actually a thing that if a girl brings up cheating often then it means that she's probably doing it herself?
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What the fuck is that kind of logic?
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>>17895642
tell her you cant go back to no fap and you having to cater to her insecurities like that.
if she cuts out the shitty parts and is otherwise good enough, sure you can go back.
She doesnt sound like a top tier girl from your description, but i cant judge that from here.
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