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So I'm starting to get weary with me gf. This may sound petty but I have a list of complaints about her, which I have at some point mentioned them to her at various times but to no avail
Reasons why I am getting tired of her
>she refuses to learn how to drive, despite her parents buying her a car and her living in LA, a place where you need a car to do anything
>this means I have to be the one to pick her up and drop her off home every single time we hang out (she lives about 35 mins away)
>she refuses to go to the gym, she went with me for a while but stopped once her school's free gym membership ended, she's been gaining weight and not exercising
>she won't put any effort into finding a better paying job, perfectly happy working minimum wage at a shoe store and complaining about it every day
>all her friends are literally dudes, can't get along with any girls, can't even fathom why I would be concerned that she only hangs out with other guys
I mean its not all bad. Aside from that she treats me like a queen, is super nice to me and all. But at some point I think if I'm making an effort to at least stay fit that she should too.
What do? Should I break it off due to differing lifestyles? Should I stay with her till I find someone better?
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Have you tried having a serious ass talk with her? She sounds complacent as fuck, does she not have any goals? Signs of depression?
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>>17897064
She's definitely not depressed. Just lazy. Which is weird because I always assumed I was the laziest fucking person
She has been applying to internships but only because she has to in order to graduate.
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well what happened is you guys had a short term STRONG click.
Now you realize is isn't a long term thing. Are you really going to marry her? (no) Are you really going to live you entire life with her (multiply your life by four)
No?
You have a very common problem. T
hat doesn't make it easy.
How do you break up with someone with minimum damage?
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Why is death so discouraged? 2016-12-27 11:24:41 Post No.17897039
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Why is death so discouraged?
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Give me the benefit of a doubt; I'm sounding a bit like an edgy teen. However, I ponder this often...
If normals detect your rotten aura, they always try to 'cheer you up'. They become uncomfortable when I raise suicide as a discussion topic and when I make jokes about death.
It's irrefutable that there exist individuals in this world who truly desire to die. Why is this idea of 'just have hope it'll get better' so common as a response? It seems illogical to attempt to convince an individual to change their mind about death. Is it contempt against those who are open? Does it make the rebuttee feel better about themselves? Lots of people want to die, why deny them?
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you should kill yourself just for that literary fireplace rumination
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>>17897066
Ligature Strangulation would be my choice. However, I lack the balls to go through with it.
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>>17897039
No king rules forever, my son.
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hey guys, i need to find a new job. right now i work at an automotive parts store, and i fucking hate it. it's a lot of work, and the amount of work i do is definitely not proportionate to the amount i get paid. i hate going into work every day, and i leave every day feeling as if it's not worth it.
i go to school, and i need a job that would pay more, but the same amount of hours.
i just need advice on where to look, and suggestions on a new type of job i should look into- keep in mind i don't want it to interfere with my school, something i can just clock in, work hard, leave, then not worry about when i'm at home.
thanks.
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>>17896996
If you're balancing work and school then there's no where you can go that you won't hate. Employers typically don't care to work around schedules, even if they are for school. At this point I'd take whatever interests you more than the automotive store.
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>>17897009
well i love cars, but the automotive store doesn't really interest me since it's just usually boring economy cars that i'm dealing with.
part of the reason why i want to leave is because it's so much work, there has to be a job i can pick that pays more but has the same amount of hours.
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>>17897012
What did you expect? Custom order 24" rims on a Charger SS?
Niggha' please. 99% of car work is on shitboxes, barely road legal rust buckets and buzzing chink machines.
And I worked in body shops, as a mechanic and a dealer.
Cars as you imagine them happen only on the discovery channel.
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MDMA / Psychedelic assisted therapy 2016-12-27 11:08:09 Post No.17896989
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How would one effectively go about finding and soliciting a therapist who is willing to conduct sessions using MDMA or other psychedelic compounds such as LSD?
Having experienced MDMA several times over this last year (mostly during raves or shows) and experiencing how it can allow you to near effortlessly dip down into and vocalise old memories and deeply internalised thought processes, I'm convinced that the theraputic effects of the substance used in conjunction with more traditional psychotherapies would be near perfectly effective.
I’m not a PTSD / abuse sufferer or anything like that (I know that this is what most experimental trials of this kind of therapy is aimed at right now) - I’m just trying to kill my crippling performance anxiety and fear of faliure which Is robbing me of my potential which I KNOW lies in abundance within me. I can see the roots and causes of these fears during meditation and MDMA goes a step further and actually allows me to physically feel and express them as intimately as I believe is possible, but it’s the actual releasing / purging of these fears once found that I believe an effective therapist will play the crucial role.
I live in London but am willing to explore potential avenues within the UK.
Feel free to discuss your thoughts or opinions on MDMA or other psychedelic therapies if you want too. Thanks
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Reminder that drug threads are first to be analyzed by feds. Don't reply.
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Are you sure? I know I've seen drug related threads on this board countless times. In fact I'm pretty sure there is a cocaine use thread on the front page right now..
If this is bad though, can we just narrow discussion down to peoples thoughts on this kind of therapy rather than the actual acquisition of it?
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Can someone tell me how you find a passion in life? I'm 24 years old, just recently graduated with a B.A in Communication and I have absolutely no interest in anything. The only things I like are anime, video games, and Japan. (Yes I'm aware those are stereotypical weeaboo interests) The thing is that I currently work part time at an antique shop making $8 an hour, I'm trying to find a better job but it's been difficult.
I really don't know what I can even do with my degree, and it's hard to apply for a job when you have no direction in purpose in life. As I type this I'm kind of having an anxiety attack, the future really scares me and I sometimes don't know what I'm going to do. I would pursue an M.A but I don't know what to pursue it in, once again that goes back to having no passion or drive in life. I don't have the money to just travel around the world and "find myself" or anything like that, I have no friends or a social life and all I do is work and sit at home.
I also wanted to point out I have no interest in joining the military, I know some people claim that gives them purpose and direction in life but that option isn't for me. How do you get purpose and direction in life? It's so a hard question to answer, and I feel that only I can answer it. Everything I like is just a hobby, I don't feel you can get a career in anime or video games unless you're making them, which I am not. Anime and video games is not really a career based passion unless you're doing marketing, or working for the business side of an anime or video game company. I just wish I didn't find everything boring in life, I'm 24 and have barely experience life but I don't have any aspirations. A lot of people my age know what they want to do and I'm envious of them, they have direction and are passionate about what they want to do for a career. It's really frustrating not to have that, I don't want to spend the next two years living at home working part time with a college degree.
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Too bad you fell for the college meme. Go do a 6 month welding course, get certified, then go to a trade employment agency. Guaranteed full time gig with better pay within 6 months.
I did this at a local community college. Immediately after graduating I went to an agency and they got me a job that day.
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>>17896921
>I don't want to spend the next two years living at home
This is now your purpose in life.
It'll do until another will come along.
Focus on getting a job, any job, that pays enough for you to move out. Ignore whether it is a "career" or not.
Next, get friends that may someday become roomates. These guys will also become your support system when you are not with your family. Help be a support system for them.
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>>17896940
I have no passion in welding, have no desire or interest to learn it either. I'm aware welding makes good money, but I figured usually people who learn a trade or do welding have some kind of interest in it.
I don't, and that's why I wish I had a passion in life. If I thought welding was neat and actually wanted to commit to learning it, I would.
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>Focus on getting a job, any job, that pays enough for you to move out. Ignore whether it is a "career" or not.
Paying for an apartment is expensive, even cheap ones can be expensive and I don't think you can sustain an apartment on minimum wage salary. I make about $350 per paycheck right now at this current job, but I have a B.A and I figured the college degree should entitlement to some form of higher paid work. The issue is that I don't know what to do with the degree, it's a versatile degree but everything I can do with it is boring. I only majored in it because I had to pick a major, and this is the one I decided on. I'm not saying I'm looking for a career but finding a job that pays like $14 an hour with benefits would be nice, just need to find one first and it's hard to find one if you don't know what to look for.
You could ask me "Well what are you good at?" and I would tell you "Nothing." I sometimes don't think I have any skills or I'm particularly good at anything, that makes finding a job tough. You see my predicament? I can't even find some higher level work because I don't have a passion or interest in anything, I could certainly learn how to do a job but I'd have to look for entry level positions. And entry level positions tend to not pay super well, plus I live far away from any metropolis areas so I'd have to relocate and a lot of them don't offer a relocation fee, which makes it hard to move from my rural city to a big city as well.
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My mother abuses me. Today she slammed my limbs in a door repeatedly and locked me out of my house and I had to sneak back in through my bedroom window. I need to get out of herr, she's been getting more and more violent and this last time she started glancing at knives in the kitchen as if she was contemplating stabbing me. She is very stressed and hasn't had insurance so she hasn't had her medications in quite some time. I have a very good friend in West Virginia I could possibly stay with but he's in the process of getting a car so he can't come get me, plis he lives six hours away. I have a dog I cannot live without and she would also have to come with me. Chances are to get an uber it would cost $500 or more to get to safety with someone I know and trust and I only need to leave for a few days as I don't feel safe and need a break. I have no money and I'm adopted, I spent most of my life in a far worse situation but I can't handle this right now, I struggle a great deal with my own mental health and I don't want to cave in and attempt suicide again as a way to escape. I have no family to stay with, just my best friend and I don't want to call the authorities on my Mom as I know this isn't her fault.
Do any of you have ideas on how I can get out of town and to my friends place to crash tonight? I'm in Pennsylvania close to the Maryland border and I need to get to southwestern West Virginia with some clothes, feminine products, hygiene shit, a blanket, etc, all with my seven year old Pitbull mix to accompany me.
Any ideas?
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Find a friend (anyone really) closer that will care for your dog for a week.
Go to a homeless shelter for a week or two. Talk to the authorities while you are there.
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>>17896890
Nearest homeless shelter is half an hour away by car and I don't know anyone who could care for my dog. If I were to make it to the homeless shelter and they'll call my mother and have her come get me and if I got to talk to the authorities in time I run the risk of being put in foster care.
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>>17896917
Wouldn't it be better to be in foster care? If your mother is physical abusing you and you are scared of her stabbing you.
If you really can't get $500. I would try Craiglist or hitchhiking.
>freshman first semester finished, about to go into second
>get an email today saying I'm now in academic probation status (i.e. gpa is below 2.0)
i just need some way to reinvigorate myself. Ever since i entered college ive had absolutely no motivation to do anything or go to classes or study. i dont even know why im here when everything i do is just sit in my room. i dont connect with the people here. i have a hard time making friends. parents are forcing me to go here.
but what are some things I can do to raise my gpa/studying methods?
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>>17896863
what are you studying? what do you like to do? perhaps you'd be happier working? what do you know, what technical stuff you do, what are your hobbies?
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Turn on, tune in, drop out
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It would be preferable if you could say what course you're studying. My way of motivating myself is feeding my own arrogance. I look around during lectures and see dull creatures. I will not allow them to touch my prowess in my course. When you next go into college, look at those around you. It's likely that you are better than the majority of them. This is a dog-eat-dog-world, don't allow the lesser humans to beat you. Show them no mercy. This sounds edgy but it works for me, maybe it shall work for you too. Put in the effort, and the rewards will be great anon.
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Can anybody offer me their perspective on what I'm feeling?
So, my girlfriend broke up with me last August - four months ago. It was kind of in limbo from August to October in whether or not we'll get back together or not, and in November it was decided that we were through. So that was actually just a month ago.
Well, the past couple weeks I've been talking to this really cool chick, and we've been dating for the past week. Anyway this morning, something came over me and I fucking miss my ex so much that I broke down and cried.
My ex girlfriend was my first love, and we dated for about 9 months. It was fucking intense though: we were picking out places to move into on our third date, and told each other we loved each other right after. We planned when and where we'd get married and who'd be invited, how many kids we'd have and what their names would be, etc.
So I'm still crying because I miss those completely 100% blissfully innocent memories we made, you know? Like god damn man, I'm tearing up now just thinking about them and how they're fucking gone.
I feel like I shouldn't get another girlfriend if I still get emotional over the times I had with my ex...What do you suggest I do?
Me and the current chick I'm talking to has that real best friend-like chemistry that my ex had, and we laugh and joke and smile and we love being around each other...But I still get emotional over my ex.
Please help bros
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>>17896846
Stop being an emotional child who thinks about marriage with a girl you don't even know.
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>>17896850
I think it's a waste of time to date a girl if you're not wanting to fall in love with her and get married
I mean
WE HAD SEX last night
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>>17896846
Like, I guess I just miss how innocent the last relationship was, you know?
Of course that relationship ended so it wasn't as rosy as what I remember it being, but...Man.
I guess I'm trying to get adjusted to dating a girl when it's not as innocent as the last one...And me longing for that is what makes me miss my ex
How do you turn a normal conversation into a flirty conversation?
Say you talk to a female in a friendly way about some mundane topic and you want to start flirting with her, how do you do it?
I understand some of the basics of flirting (compliments, challenging her a bit, slightly sexual jokes, etc) but when talking about something very mundane I find it very difficult to throw any of those things into the conversation in a natural way.
How do you guys do it?
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>>17896839
Thanks for the free bump.
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>>17896835
Why are you talking about a mundane topic anyway?
Just say things like 'oh by the way, I remember yesterday' then insert something you did yesterday that was a bit exciting and how she might enjoy it.
Tell her you like her shirt/dress or something and ask where she got them from. By doing this you can get closer to her and feel her shirt without it being awkward.
If these options are not available just say I got to go do something now, can I get your number, we should hang out more. If you already have her number just say I will talk to you later and organise a meet up.
Flirting is quite difficult to do if you already let the conversation slip onto a mundane topic because the energy is lost. So unless you say something exciting you won't be able to recover it.
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>>17897057
Thanks, that helps!
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How do you deal with all the issues that are related to having a broken toe?
The pain makes me want to vomit 24/7, can't really move or go outside, it looks nasty.
>pic related broken toe
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Bump with story.
>Get a video game for Christmas Eve
>Recently cleaned up for Christmas Party, need to find PS4 to play it
>pick up bag with N64 and cords for it, bag opens/breaks
>N64 drops from 4 to 5 feet onto left small toe.
>Fall over in pain, almost scream.
>20 minutes later grand parents/mother confirm it is indeed broken.
Like I know I have to keep it up and not walk on it but what do I do to not think about the pain or go insane from bordom?
PS: The N64 is fine, those things are indestructible.
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>>17896852
Good to hear that the N64 is safe anon.
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>>17896862
I know right, the only good thing to come from all this besides the fact that I no longer care about being single I just care about how much this fucking toe hurts.
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I'm really horny, and I get turned on by the idea of being a girl. On occasion, I have sneakily taken my sister and mums bras, panties and stockings, worn them and jacked off. I think I have a surefire way of taking this to the next level by asking my sister, who is a full on tumblrfag (wears masculine clothing, goes by him/he) and trying to get her to "help me transition" or some shit. How can i make this believable so she feeds into my case?
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Just tell her exactly what u wrote here
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>>17896803
well me, too.
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>>17896803
femanons, do you like guys who look like pic in OP?
Is it reasonable for people to get mad at me for not finding them interesting?
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>>17896794
Yes, usually you'd get raped for less.
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>>17896794
It is pretty insulting so yeah
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>>17896794
If you're being condescending/haughty while doing so, certainly.
If you want to mind your own business and not get involved at all with theirs, not all that much.
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>be at local grocery store
>cart full of stuff waiting in line
>reach front of line
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>forget card in car
>tells cashier brb need to run to car leave my cart here
>come back a card ready to pay
>cashier sends everything back
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>"where's my shit"
>cashier: "you said you weren't coming back"
>manager pulls us aside
>cashier hits me in face
Triggered.exe
>manager pulls me and tells cashier go to back
Can I sue the local store or could only press charges against the person? Also contacting store now they are saying they have no record of incident...... I have police report. Maybe store is going for coverup?
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Wtf, that's crazy... Did this happen for real? Video??
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>>17896788
No you can't sue the store, the business entity did nothing to you.
I don't know what you mean by "you have a police report", because it doesn't sound like you called the police on the spot and informed them you were just assaulted.
If you're in the US, you have a legal right to any and all media, recordings, etc. that are "public record" that contain you in them, so store cameras that recorded the incident can be pulled by the lawyer you can't afford, to sue the person you can't afford to fight legally, to gain the money that he doesn't have because he's such a loser that he was willing to lose his minimum wage job over hitting you in the face.
Presumably you were being a total faggot and skipped some parts of the story, because I've worked with some of the most short tempered fuckers in the world and never had them swing on someone in the legal shithole that is today's society. You got got, move on and learn a lesson for next time.
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>>17896812
I did call the cashier a lieing bitch
I'm drunk rn and I just ruined my life
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What happened traveler?
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>>17896769
Lots of drunk texts
First time being drunk
I'm super self destructive
I have genuinely ruined all the good things in my life
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Just tell her...My bad baby , u know I'm a dog and I'll do anything to hit that from the back with my fingers in your mouth
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My dad (50yr) is cheating on mother (52yr). This fuckin cunt never used a phone to text someone in his life but all of a sudden he doesn't drop the damn phone. I saw him texting other women and decided to sneak into his room and check his phone while he is sleeping and I wasn't wrong. He is texting with this woman. Complimenting her. Saying how much he loves her and all. I'm devastated. What should I do? If I tell mother it might kill her.
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>>17896719
are you sure the woman isn't your mother roleplaying?
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She probably knows that something is wrong already
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>>17896730
I believe you may need to confront your dad, on the grounds that your mother is already suspicious. How old are you?